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Why are women attracted to big penises?

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Question - (6 August 2010) 19 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2011)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Granted I myself am not very well equipped, being at 4 inches long and 4 inches in girth. I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them.

Some girls have told me that smaller penises aren't attractive, another told me they're too small to even feel.

Do big penises actually feel better than smaller ones or is it just a visual stimulation to them?

Do you think guys with smaller ones are less of a guy than guys with big ones?

Are small ones less attractive?

I exactly can't pick out the size I get. I don't understand why girls seem to freely make fun of guys with small penises without any remorse. I just sorta wish that they'd be a bit more accepting of the fact that I'm not exactly a horse. ._.

It's hurtful when you're basically saying I'm not good enough for you because my penis isn't big enough!

Ugh! What can I do to make myself just as wanted to girls, sexually, without having a big penis?

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A male reader, macdubh712 United States +, writes (7 April 2011):

I have heard that if you feel like your equipment is not be big enough then master the entire art of sex, not just the thrusting. If you can do other things to a girl then you should be good. As for b****es making fun, to hell with them.

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A female reader, BAMMM United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2010):

BAMMM agony auntThat was very nasty of those girls.

If there's something about yourself you can't change, then don't bother worrying about it!

And there will be many girls out there who will love everything about you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010):

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I wasn't at all concerned about this until recently.

I had a falling out experience with a girl and now she and her friends are being really nasty about it.

To be honest I never even measured before that incident.

I know I'm not huge down there and I know it's not going to be as appealing physically or mentally, but I really try my best. ._.

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A female reader, Gemmarrr United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2010):

well not all girls are that botherd about how big a penis is really me for exsample dont mind the size, but its a bit like men with boobs they always so atracted to women with masive boobs.

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A female reader, blahblahblahh United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

blahblahblahh agony auntHonestly, men care more about this than women do, large penis's can hurt it all depends on the woman. I'd take a small penis over a large one anyday. The girls you know must be young and clueless. All penis's are attractive, a penis is a penis and it does it's job!

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

Miamine agony auntI asked Serina.. the men do it themselves... sigh, another job opportunity disappears, they don't seem to need help.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (7 August 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntThe only woman I know who ever cared is Kathryn the Great; that's why she shagged a horse.

Who has this penis measuring job anyway?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010):

There is an 'ideal' size for women that can orgasm vaginally. A penis that makes the vagina feel filled up and hits my g-spot is what I like and the penises that are too long cause me pain. Every woman's vagina is different, so each woman will have her own preference...there are also women that can't orgasm by penetration alone.

The moral of the story is that there is a woman out there that thinks you are perfect just the way you are, but if you are only searching for big quantities of sex you are very likely to encounter many women that don't think you are a good fit because women are harder to please with sex than men.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010):

Haven't you heard it's not the size, but the person behind the penis?!!

It's not the size, it's actually the guy, how he treats a girl in bed and outside the bedroom.

Have to agree with previous posts, those girls are silly and not accurately representing the majority. So ignore them, they are not worth your time.

The way you are feeling about your penis size, is how many women feel about their boobs. Often they are teased and made to feel inadequate by people who are very insensitive. So it's the same for both sides.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

Miamine agony auntDear caller, these silly girls who you talk with, have never even seen a real penis, they are just talking rubbish and trying to make you feel bad.

Most women do not like big penises, we like them average. Big penises can hurt and are often attached to arrogant, selfish, insensitive jerks.

Change the type of women you talk to, those girls are mean and stupid.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

Miamine agony auntNo person12345... it's nothing to do with pornography... boys are always measuring their penises, and showing them off.. they do this before they can even read...

Guess they think that a big penis makes them more of a man...(silly idea)

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A female reader, BAMMM United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

BAMMM agony auntOk a lot of woman will disagree with my opinion, but hey, here it is...

For me, penis size is important on many levels.

(And when i talk about a big penis, im talking about a large girth more than length)

On a physical level, a larger penis feels better, like most guys think a "tighter vagina" feels better.

On a psycological level, a bigger penis feels like your making love to a man rather than a boy.

and on an aesthetic level i think they look better. I think this is partly because society and porn have led me to believe that a bigger penis is better.

However, i would rather a guy with a smaller penis that used it well than a guy that was hung like a horse but was terrible in bed. Fact.

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A female reader, lockwood11 United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

Don't worry about it, its more about the width than the legnth. These girls are just shallow, I don't think they'd like it if you started making fun of them if they had small boobs. If they truely like you then they won't care about size.

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A female reader, sophieee United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

dont let it get to you. alot of women prefer big penis' however not all women do. it doesnt make you any less of a man, defiantly not! big penis' do make better pleasure and also possibly more moaning for some women, however not all women prefer big penis', me for one doesnt prefer big penis', like huge. if you really love someone, and they dont have a big penis' it wont make the women have doubts.

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A female reader, person12345 United States + , writes (7 August 2010):

person12345 agony auntGuys create this penis thing for themselves. Maybe it's too much porn watching where the guys are hung like mules. I know someone who dumped a guy for having a too big one. Women especially don't generally care about length. Most women I know couldn't care less so long as you're good with your tongue and fingers. Don't sweat it too much.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010):

it's all in how you use it. you gotta show those girls what your made of man

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010):

Most women prefer an average to big size penis as "it" is able to reach and hit certain spots that a small penis can't. Now, not ALL women are this way, but just being around women from all diff. cultures and ethnic groups, it seems as though once they have exp. what sex is like with a guy who has an average to big size penis and girth, they tend to crave or desire it from that point on.

If the woman you are with doesn't accept your penis size, then keep looking until you discover one who does. Also, you want to make certain that you are skilled to be a good lover. A guy can have a small penis, but if he is skilled in other areas like oral sex and foreplay, they woman will at times over look that.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (7 August 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI couldn't care less about penis size. It doesn't even matter to me! And YOU should be looking for a girl with some depth. These girls sound like shallow *******. Your size is normal anyway. A girl who is at least as profound as a glass of orange juice will not care about penis size.

I believe you should LOVE someone before you have sex with them, and if you truly love someone then apenis size won't matter.

Trust me not all women are like this. If ALL women loved big penises, we wouldn't have any lesbians. Somehow they turn each other on, with NO penis.

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A female reader, luckyirishlass Ireland +, writes (7 August 2010):

Its not the size that counts, its what you can DO in the bedroom that counts ;) seriously very few women actuali orgasm through penatration anyway...so learning other skills like oral and touching will turn on a girl so much more. confidence is the key. confidence turn girls on ;)

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