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... Send *ellyO a private message | | | *ellyO's profile:Thanks for coming to my column. Yes, i have been there but i am now happily married and i feel with my experiences in life, love and marriage i can help others. I am also a manager in an engineering firm so i can possibly help with some career advice. I am a much softer person in real life so my friends say, but i cant help but tell you the truth because my wish is to help you make the best decision.
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He hits me..he controls me.. so why do I beg him to stay with me when he threatens to leave? Help me!
Q. Im 19, having a bf for nearly 5 months now. Although I wouldn't consider it a very long relationship, I have seriously fell for him like I have never before. Overall, he is a person who treats me nicely once we meet. However, once I leave for home ...
A. 16 December 2005: Hi there, i dont think there is anyone here that would advise u to remain in this relationship. u r being abused and used and u just have to move on. u need to seek counselling and get friends and close families memembers to help. pls contact a ... (read in full...)
He gave me a sexually transmitted disease..twice! Why do I still love him?
Q. I am 18 and have been seeing a 22 yr old man for 7 months now and think i may have fell for him. i had known from the beginning that he was still living with the mother of his child but it was not till 6 weeks later that he told me him and her were ...
A. 16 December 2005: Please my dear run away from this guy. was in a relationship with a guy for years only to discover he was married. i have moved on with my life even since even though i thought what i felt for this guy was love but its wrong. please this guy have ... (read in full...)
Are my boyfriend's crazy problems down to his drug-habit?
Q. My live-in boyfriend doesn't seem to care much at all about having sex with me. However, he DOES like to partake in coke or meth and demand that I give him oral sex for 16 to 72 hours straight! He's a messed up freak and I plan on dumping him ...
A. 16 December 2005: Obviously u dont understand this guy and he does drugs. u feel no real connection for him also and no real intimacy. why not find someone who will give u all u need and who u will be able to connect with. dont struggle hard to understand this guy i ... (read in full...)
I have two special guys...which one do I choose?
Q. Hi There, I have a b/f who lives in another town, I have known him for a couple of years and We have been seeing each other for 6 mths. He is a really nice guy and i love him...but here's the problem he is incredibly busy, i hardly ever see ...
A. 16 December 2005: Hi there, u seem to have made the choice yourself. From your letter its obvious u r more into your best friend and he is more caring and loving i thinke he is worth giving a chance.goodluck... (read in full...)
How do you get over someone you believe is the love of your life...I can't let go!
Q. How do you get over someone you believe is the love of your life?? I'm only 21 but have been going out with a boy for 3 years. We're best friends, tell eachother absolutely everything, anyway I think we just didn't have time for the romance and my ...
A. 15 December 2005: Hi there, i am sorry to hear this and i feel for you. But my dear if he feels that he doesnt feel that way for you then you have no choice but to move on. I know it seems difficult but we all have been in this at one stage in our life and i believe ... (read in full...)
Should I continue our relationship even though we are in two different worlds?
Q. hi! i met my boyfriend online for a year now and he promise me that he will visit me but he broke he's promise so many times. i love him so much and as a single mother its nice to know that my boyfriend love my son also. we are in two differents ...
A. 14 December 2005: Hi there, I feel that u are taking this guy way too serious. What do u know about this guy for sure. U have to be extra careful for urself and your son well being.You said the only way u guys have communicated is via email how come u dont have a ... (read in full...)
The truth or dare party has caused me to lose my best friend
Q. about a month ago i was at a mates party and we wer playin truth or dare. my best mates boyfrend was dared to kiss me, he did. now my best mate says she has tried to forgive me and be frends, but she cant. she is one of the most popular girls at ...
A. 14 December 2005: Hi naomig 91.Hope i can help u.What i feel is that u shouldnt look back in life and have regrets we should all learn from experiences. i am one to tell u that my dear u wont believe what i have been through this past month. the thing is that u have ... (read in full...)
I like him but I worry he may think I'm after him to get a free meal ticket-and I'm not!
Q. The man I like is extremely popular (he is the life and soul of the party and I am the wallflower) and is highly successful in his career, whereas I feel like a total loser in comparison. I am in my early 30’s, and I am feeling at the lowest point ...
A. 14 December 2005: Hi there. I am glad u realised what the problem is in your relationship so it wont be too difficult to tackle. Firstly u should be aware that this guy have the knowledge about your employment status and all u have to offer before he made up his mind ... (read in full...)
How do we stop fighting?
Q. We like eachother so much, we are so attached, but we fight like crazy, she says let me have a ciggarette i say no she starts crying saying i am too controlling when i just care about her, we fight for stupid things and it doesnt seem healthy, what ...
A. 14 December 2005: U should have indicated how old u guys are. it seems as if u r still very young .too much fighting in a relationship is never healthy. asking for help means u care what happens. pls sit your gf down and talk to her bout it. Tell her u r not happy ... (read in full...)
What does he really feel for me?
Q. My boyfriend split from me a couple of months ago saying he loves me but doesn't know if his heart is in it, doesn't know if he is in love with me. I told him that it was the cruellest thing to do to someone and asked several times if he honestly ...
A. 14 December 2005: Hi there. this is just my opinion but i dont think you should talk to him about it.The best i would do if i were u is to reply his text and say "no i dont hate u and i will always love u too".Leave it like that. He should be the one to come running ... (read in full...)
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