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writes: My live-in boyfriend doesn't seem to care much at all about having sex with me. However, he DOES like to partake in coke or meth and demand that I give him oral sex for 16 to 72 hours straight! He's a messed up freak and I plan on dumping him anyway, but I still want to know if it is the every other weekend drug use that is causing this or the fact that he also has been over-exposed to kinky sex while working in the topless industry for 4 years, or if it is a Mommy issue (which is VERY possible), or a lack of confidence and self-esteem around such a woman of substance and passion as I am (hee hee). One other thing: he loves to be in control and be served and be right about everything to the point of arguing over things that even a 13 yr old girl with PMS would find trivial. Also he is extremely affectionate but not at all intimate. So when he's not yelling at me or pushing my head down, he is hugging or pecking at me and using a "cutsie" voice. But in ALL situations, I feel NO connection and NO real intimacy with him even though I try for it and even though we both are crazy about each other. Maybe we are just crazy. I don't know. Do you???
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 December 2005):
 All I can say is that you wasted precious time writing that letter. Time would have been better spent getting the hell away from this loser.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (16 December 2005):
 Obviously u dont understand this guy and he does drugs. u feel no real connection for him also and no real intimacy. why not find someone who will give u all u need and who u will be able to connect with. dont struggle hard to understand this guy i did that with my ex and got me nowhere. just move on. wish u the best
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