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... Send *adzia1127 a private message | | | *adzia1127's profile: I guess you could count the seven years I spent at university as my qualifications. Yet as I have gotten older, my life has given me a lot more insight into people and how life plays out then all the professors combined.
I work in the community I live, where I also volunteer, run a local jogging group, work with the Hispanic community with my husband, and I am a soccer, track, swim mom.
Yet I like a good laugh and my icon is one of them. If you look closely you can see the big hair, puffy sleeves and shoulder pads of the 80's, hey a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do to pay for school and modelling is a good way to do it. Now my family and I get a good laugh over some of the pictures, they are a riot. |
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I want to be with him but should I continue to see him?
Q. I am 21 years old, and I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now who is 38. The thing is that he has 4 kids between 8-15. He is my stepdad's ex-brother in law. His kids know my parents as aunt and uncle. I absolutely ADORE...
A. 22 February 2006: It won't be just your parents that will react badly, it will be hard for your whole family, and everyone you encounter that finds out about the relationship.
The only way to proceed is to be completely honest with your parents, and your enti... (read in full...)
Are family or spouses more important in our lives?
Q. Who are the most important people in our lives, our parents, our spouses, or our siblings?...
A. 22 February 2006: In an ideal world:
Before your married your parents are your most important sounding board.
Once your married your spouse's happiness is your number one concern, when you have children then it is those parents' life.
As for your siblings, we... (read in full...)
Should I stay in this sour marriage?
Q. Myself and my wife have been together for ten years and married for two years. I feel that the spark has gone, we dont seem to click anymore. I have a jelouse streak in me and constantly think she is falling for other guys, because she seems to get ...
A. 22 February 2006: To keep this flame or any flame alive it takes lots of work.
Four weeks is all you need to recharge your relationship. Even if she first resists and accuses you of being false don't give up.
1. Do not critize or fight for a week (no matt... (read in full...)
My partner left me and the children for my friend. He never seems the kids and acts like he hasn't care in the world...
Q. My ex partner of 14 years has left me and my three children for my friend. She has two kids to two different men and she goes through men like Jack Flash. She has had more men than hot dinners. My three children were devastated when it happened...
A. 22 February 2006: The first thing you need to do is talk to a lawyer about protecting your children and making their father live up to his financial responsibilities.
The world is your oyster, your single and you have three beautiful children. Make the most of y... (read in full...)
When I ask my Mother about sex...she goes all cold. Should I just keep trying or what?
Q. I have recently turned 16 and me and my boyfriend really want to have sex for the first time. we waited so that we knew it was the right thing to do, until it would be legal and so i could tell my parents, because i've always wanted to be as open as ...
A. 22 February 2006: Most mom's no matter how open they want to be will do what their mothers did with them. Talk the talk their mother's did with them.
Get the book 'Everything your mother never told you about sex' buy it or get it from your library. Read it, and ... (read in full...)
While I was pregnant my bf had a pic of some mystery girl in his wallet..now he e-mails her. I am upset
Q. dear cupid afew months ago when i was pregnant. i found in my two year boyfriends wallet a photograph of a girl and writen on the back was- keep it with you, i hope you like it- claudia! when he got home i confronted him about this mystery girl, he...
A. 22 February 2006: You are upset because your boyfriend is emotionally cheating on you. Even if the world in general states that keeping friends of the same sex that your sexually attracted to is ok, no one's heart believes it. Your boyfriend is only thinking... (read in full...)
I need someone to talk to about my problems...without involving friends and family. What can I do?
Q. I need some sound advice on how to make myself feel better! I have no one to talk to, and my parents are so narrow minded they think of things too seriously, and only in ways to benefit themselves. I need to chat to someone about my problems and ...
A. 22 February 2006: You didn't state what your problem is that has you in such a need to talk. If strangers online are too scary to confide in then you really need to get your mother alone and try to talk to her. If that doesn't help then make an appointm... (read in full...)
We kissed and hugged in his room..but the next day he dumped me! Did he 'play' me?
Q. dear any agony aunt i need your help bad, there is a guy who i really like lets call him j. now the other night j txt me at 1am to go to his room i did, we lay side by side in bed and he kissed me and started huggin touchin and caressin me i wa...
A. 21 February 2006: If he was the sweetest guy in the world he would not have used you. A lie women like to believe is that chemsistry equals love. Chemistry equals sex. Listen to your head it is telling you the truth.... (read in full...)
My ex bfs old friend wants to 'hang out' but I like this other guy too!!
Q. I am 16. There is this guy I know that we are kinda friends. We don't hang out but he talks to me on IM a lot. He is a friend of my old boyfriend. Most of the time we have been talking, he's had a girlfriend. A few days ago he told me she dump...
A. 21 February 2006: The term a cheater is always a cheater goes for texting too. If he was dating a girl but texting to you then you were his texting mistress and he will do the same to you while dating you. Do yourself a favor and let this fish swim by, for next time ... (read in full...)
I've just had a baby and now my bf doesnt want sex with me!!
Q. My boyfriend of 5 years and I just had a baby. Since than he doesn't want to have sex.I've explained to him how this makes me feel (fat, unattractive, frumpy) and still no change. He proposed when I was 9 months pregant and tells me his feelings...
A. 21 February 2006: He probably does see you different but not as you think. Before getting pregnant you were his fun sex toy and now you're the mother of his child. You held and gave birth to his new responsibility, his immortality, his future. The weight of a new ... (read in full...)
After my friend split up with his ex i started to have feelings for her. Now my friend is single again and flirting with his ex. What do i do?
Q. About a year ago, my friend's girlfriend left him. I didnt fancy her at the time, but a few months later I started to notice her. I decided to leave it for a few more months, so everyone could forget about her relationship with my friend. We've ...
A. 21 February 2006: If you like her then do something! Not wanting to hurt anyone is a good idea but it shows a lack of a backbone to just sit and watch someone get hurt, again. As Herbert Hoover said 'Words without actions are the assassins of idealism.' ... (read in full...)
My Aunt is hateful toward my Mother. She refuses to let us attend my uncle's Funeral. What should we do?
Q. I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask this question, but I guess I'll try anyway. My uncle, my moms brother, recently died. They had a very close and loving relationship with each other. It used to makee my aunt, his widow, very jeal...
A. 21 February 2006: This is not your responsibility to tell your parents. If your aunt has a problem with your mother attending it is her responsibility to tell her. It would be nice for you to tell your aunt that you aren't going to be her messegener boy. If the w... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says my penis hurts her during sex. Can you help?
Q. My girlfriend has trouble with my penis hurting her vagina during intercourse. she says it feels like its pulling the skin. can you help?...
A. 21 February 2006: A Man's penis comes in all shapes and sizes and so does the internal workings of a woman's vagina. The only way to compensate for an ill fit is to be patient as you try other postions until you find one that is comfortable for both people. The most ... (read in full...)
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