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I live in the UK and work with vulnerable people. I am a 'people person', a good listener and always ready to help someone in need. I love to socialise, go on holiday and basically just live life to the full... which is what I am trying to get back on track with at the moment. I live with my soon to be ex boyfriend. I was with him for 6 years, but I slowly fell out of love with him as I realised how different we were and how we got to a point where we struggled to get on with each other. We have recently bought a house together, so we have agreed to live together until it is decorated, which hopefully shouldn't take too long.

He wants to be with me and not his baby's mother - I don't want to split them up!

Q.   i need alittle advice. ive known a guy for around 5 years we got on really well and were pretty close, we ended up sleeping together for around 6 months, we've remained really close since we decided to stop sleeping with eachotha. he met a girl ...

A.   7 December 2006: If he doesn't want to be with his current girlfriend, he needs to split up with her without getting you involved. You shouldn't ever feel responsible for him leaving her. If he wants to be with you, maybe you should both leave it for a while, and ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for someone else..so how do I leave my current bf?

Q.   I'm pretty sure I'm falling for someone else. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We've been through a lot together and I used to love him a lot. He's done a few things now though that I thought I could get over but now I realise nearly 2 ...

A.   18 November 2006: Hello dear I can really sympathise with you. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, and although he wasn't horrible to me much, he was very controlling and for the first few years I felt like I could never survive without him. For the... (read in full...)

I completely besotted with him, but he likes another girl! What can I do?

Q.   I'm a 16 year old girl and I am completely besotted with a guy. He is in my English class at college and recently we have begun chatting on msn, I'm fallin really badly for him and I dont know what to do about it, it keeps killing me inside ...

A.   4 November 2006: Well maybe the girl he was describing was you but he is in the same situation as you and is scared that you wont like him. Have you showed him in any way how you feel about him? Maybe when you are on MSN sometime you should just let it slip a l... (read in full...)

My dad doesn't like my 'bad boy' bf! What should I do?

Q.   please help me! i have this new boyfriend, and he's kindda, different,.. i mean he's like the bad boy type but he's not really a bad boy,... he just look like one and my father dont like him,.. how can i convinced him that he is not what he think...

A.   4 November 2006: Maybe you should have a chat with your dad, on a one to one, and tell him exactly how you feel about this guy. Ask him if you can all go out for a meal together or a drink or even invite him around for tea, and then he will have chance to get to ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't let me go out with anyone!! What can I do?

Q.   My boyfriend wont let me go out with anyone but him he even gets mad if i want to be with my girlfriends for just a night what should i do? i know he loves me but this is not right...

A.   3 November 2006: I got with my soon to be ex-boyfriend 6 years ago, and he would never let me go out with my friends when we first got together, every now and then I managed to go out with them, but it meant that we would argue all night when I got home and the next ... (read in full...)

Is talking to people you meet online always risky?

Q.   hi, im 16 and this guy i have been talking to on the internet is 20. i do really like him, but im aware that i shouldn't trust him beacause i dont really know him. Is talking to people on the internet always a bad thing? or can it sometimes be ok? i ...

A.   3 November 2006: It isn't always bad talking to people on the internet, you just have to be more wary than usual as you don't know their background, if their pictures are really of them and so on. If you have been chatting to him for a while and you really f... (read in full...)

I can't get pregnant! Is it because of my past abortion?

Q.   hi i have recently stop taking the pill and i am trying to get pregant, and its not working. iam starting to get stressed. i have had an abortion in the past, will this calls any problems now...

A.   3 November 2006: Having an abortion in the past shouldn't cause you any problems as far as I know. I was trying to get pregnant for a while, and after a few months, I realised I couldn't, I was also having irregular periods, so I went to the doctors, and they did ... (read in full...)

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