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I'm a 23 year old woman from Yorkshire, England. Have been in a long distance relationship for a year and have had another four year relationship (but a 'too close' one if you catch my drift!) in the past. Also, had plenty of single time in between so I'm pretty familiar with lurve issues, relationship-based or not!

I can't stand rude or mean people - it costs nothing to be 'nice'(way underrated word) and have manners. I think that we can all help each other in one way or another and I am very caring by nature, so I think this website's a fab idea.

Hope to be able to answer your probs and get some advice on some of mine if and when they arise! Xx

How can I best use my Rampant Rabbit ?

Q.   I bought a rampant rabbit vibrator the other day but can't seem to get the hang of it. Could anyone with one offer some advice about how to have an orgasm with this thing?! Thanks...

A.   16 September 2006: I'm not the biggest fan of the Rampant's awkward, heavy and not particularly rampant! I regret buying it but can't exactly take it back!!! The bunny ears are definitely the best bit about it - just use the ears on your clit. I reck... (read in full...)

How can I get back what we lost?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and everything has been fun. lately he hasn't been really into having sex and he seems distant.. we had a fight the other day and he said he just wants everything to be like it was when we first met. ...

A.   16 September 2006: The problem sometimes with long-term relationships is that they get more comfortable and less thrilling - the 'honeymoon' period is never going to last forever. You do need to discuss this with your boyf, as it's really not fair on you that he's... (read in full...)

I'm torn...I'm moving to England to be with my guy but not sure if I can my friends and family behind.

Q.   Hello guys, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now, been friends for six. A lot of it was long distance because I was going to college in the U.S. and he lives in the UK. I spent a year studying abroad in the UK and lo...

A.   16 September 2006: Hi there, I think that your heart is in the UK with your boyfriend. It seems to me that you're having last minute panics, which is perfectly understandable - your head is battling with your heart! In long distance relationships (I am in one myse... (read in full...)

I love this guy to pieces and I want to see him more..but he spends so much time with his family! What can I do?

Q.   SOS! I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 weeks and I love him to pieces..He's everything I want and need and he makes me soooooo happy! We both live in the same city but different sides so it can be a pain gettin to and from to see each other. ...

A.   16 September 2006: Hi Amie, I'm in a long distance relationship (my boyf lives at the other end of the UK!)so I know how hard it can be when you want to see him so badly. The first few months of a relationship are fab - I know full well the fluttery feeling you get ... (read in full...)

Will this guy I like know I'm a virgin, when we do it for the first time?

Q.   hi i need some advice! im 17 and im a virgin but this lad im seeing doest know i am! i have done sexual things beofre but i have never gone the whole way lol will he know im a virgin when i have sex for the first time???? ...

A.   16 September 2006: You definitely need to tell him that it's your first time. Far from thinking this is bad, he'll most likely be flattered and, if he's a decent guy, will be perfectly willing to take things at your pace. Physically, you may bleed too, if your hyme... (read in full...)

I dont Orgasm every time with him, and am too worried to tell him as its not fault!!!

Q.   Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months (he's my first and the man I lost my virginity to) and I love him very much, but I've got a problem that I don't feel I can talk to him about because I'm scared of hurting him or making things...

A.   15 September 2006: If you worry too much about this, you won't be relaxed enough to orgasm! I know that's easier said than done though and there's really nothing wrong with you - we don't all orgasm every time. Foreplay's the easiest way to orgasm, and you'll find ... (read in full...)

The distance between us is killing me, but doesnt seem to affect him, if only I could banish these feelings!!

Q.   Hi everyone, I've been in a long distance relationship for a year now and as time goes on, I'm getting more and more frustrated with the distance, more and more jealous and craving more time with my boyf who I only see once every month. I love him...

A.   12 September 2006: Thanks James - it's good to know that other people can relate to my situation. As you know, long distance is hard trying to weigh up the pros and cons all the time - lists a mile long! Head vs heart...hmmmmm... Xx... (read in full...)

How can I make me boyfriend appreciate me?

Q.   Heya I just want advice on how I can get my boyfriend running after me like that hes lucky to have me and that he can't treat me like sh*t and think i will still love him. What things can i do? thanks...

A.   12 September 2006: Gat is spot on here! Speaking from past experience, treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen. I know it's difficult when you reeeeally want to demand their attention all the time...but cool off and you'll soon see he'll start doing the chasing! All the Best ... (read in full...)

She takes prozac but I don't want to give up on her...

Q.   does anybody have any experience of having a girlfreind who has/is taking prozac. how does this effect the relationship. The reason i am asking is that there is this young lady who i have been trying to get her to be my girlfreind at various times ...

A.   12 September 2006: I think you're being a little harsh here Joeymac, sorry. I think much of this is just 'fear of the unknown' and this guy was just looking for a little education on the effects of the drug on a person. It's clear to me from the genuine things he ... (read in full...)

My ex caused me to question if the size of my penis is good enough!

Q.   Hi, well I have a wierd kind of question. i have just come out of a 3 yr realationship with a very nice girl. We still meet ocasionaly and it becomes sexual. I am 26 years old and concerned about my "manliness". I shave around my mouth and have t...

A.   12 September 2006: Size reeeeaally doesn't matter - it really is as the age-old phrase goes: 'it's what you do with it that counts!' It's much more difficult for us women to cum through penetrative sex than foreplay, and it's pretty good that she manages it 95% of the ... (read in full...)

I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!

Q.   My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...

A.   12 September 2006: There's more to life than boobs!!! I think that if you were really into her, you would barely notice the bits you weren't so keen on. Focus on what you like about her and, if you really can't get over the flat chest, finish it and 'set her free' so ... (read in full...)

The distance between us is killing me, but doesnt seem to affect him, if only I could banish these feelings!!

Q.   Hi everyone, I've been in a long distance relationship for a year now and as time goes on, I'm getting more and more frustrated with the distance, more and more jealous and craving more time with my boyf who I only see once every month. I love him...

A.   11 September 2006: Thanks Baby Girl :-) Your advice is realistic and puts things into perspective. I know that some extra time with him would be beneficial, cos I feel like we lead totally different lives most of the time. I'll try to keep my emotions in check about ... (read in full...)

I read her diary, and now all the stuff about her sex life bothers me!

Q.   Hey I've been seeing this girl now for about 5 months and have recently moved in with her (quick i kno but if we didnt we would have to break up). I recently read her diary and found somethings that greatly disturbed me and one thing in perticular ...

A.   10 September 2006: Reading a diary is forgiveable - let's be honest, it's human nature to be intrigued by others. But, please remember, a diary is a representation of the past - and that's where it should stay - in a closed book, written in indelible ink. Inde... (read in full...)

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