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male
age
30-35,
*ames watson
writes:I was seeing this girl called Emma we get on good together we argued once but it was my fault as I was tired and angry as my baby died that week one yr ago and I said sorry, we have split up 4 times with the first time was a month and 2 weeks ago as some girl said untrue stuff and Emma ended it, and then she split with me again but I went up and spent an hour and a half convincing her I wouldn’t cheat as I love her and then she split with again last week but we got back together and then she split up with me yesterday because her ex said he loved her but in the last 2 weeks her Nan died her mate cheated on her fell and that caused an argument between Emma and Jennie and then her brothers mate hung himself and she had too go to the funeral of her Nan but she was in the house when her Nan died, how should I win her back as her ex as hurt her too many times and how should I treat her because all this happened too her a death in the family her Nan, someone hanging themselves the argument with Jennie, her nuns funeral, and her ex saying he loves her I think he is being jealous and possessive and if he cant have her no one can also her head is wrecked how much space and time should I give her and should I say I miss her love her and that she is beautiful special perfect and that I love her and her beautiful blue eyes how should I proceed in winning her back and be there for her without it being weird or I appearing to be clingy or possessive or anything negative like that please help also I asked her too marry me and she said yes all the time even after we split upWhat should I do to be there for and win her love again, as she still loves me, but she did say she needs time and space and a long talk with her ex bf too sort it out and which she wants too be with what should I do in this situation.
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reader, Love4Life  +, writes (22 April 2009):
 I wouldn't say anything right now. If you want to be with her then be their fore her. A person will always remember who is their for them. But in this time in her life she need to heal its like someone has taken a weed eater to her heart and she most likely will not want to hear you at this time. Just be their for her. Maybe text her a little but watch what you say. When some ones going through Hell they don't always want to here hey you look hot today. it not appropriate in their eyes. hope this helps....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): if all that is going on in her life you need to give her some time to think. she is having to process so much at one time and right now is not the time to try and win her back. i would say to her i am here for you and i always will be. tell her how much you love her and just back up and be patient.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (22 April 2009):
 wow that sounds like a hell of a rollar coaster.
hun stop thinking of it as winning her bck as being her friend and being there for her making her realise in a sense what a great caring friend and boyfriend you are and can be.
at the moment she's got alot to deal with so pressuring her to "love" you again is not an option.
she's had so much happen in one go that she needs to time to spread her self out and organize everything so that it's not all happening at once again.
just be her friend give her some time and space.
just pop her a little text just "hey wondered how you're feeling today? if you need to chat give me a call"
or somethign like that
that way she knows you understand her need of space and she knows you still care for her alot.
try not to sufforcate her it's going to tip her over the edge.
pop me a message should you need any more help :)
Hope this helps.
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