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writes:I think I'm falling for my friend but do not know how he feels about me. I dreamt about him last night, it seemed so vivid, should I tell him about my dream or would that be too forward? Also should I tell him how I feel about him, how would guys in that situation respond? (I speak to him every day and think about him a lot), thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): This is one of those situations where you really have to consider before you tell someone that you have a growing feeling for them. Not too long ago I started falling for a friend of mine. However he's married. We hang out often and knowing that being together only as friends would only make the feeling grow, I told him so. He knows this and is ok with it. There's a slight shift in our relationship now but it is only for the sake of me not getting there to a point in this feeling where it may be too late to turn back from. He still asks me if I'd want to hang out and we still talk on a daily basis. But there is definately a strong guard on my part against acting upon how I feel. And he knows this.Bottom line is you know how your friend is like and how he may react to certain things. Sometimes you lose friendship over telling the other person, sometimes not. Just be careful about this.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (24 April 2009):
 only one thing you can do ask him straight out.
if he doesn't don't matter as you guys can still be friends.
is there any signs that he does like you?
message me or something.
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reader, jeffkollman  +, writes (24 April 2009):
Unless he lives next door I would say go for it. Has he acted different recently? What happened that it went from friendship to you liking him? In any case I would say try flirting with him a little more. Flirt is much more powerful and you dont have to say a word but there will come a time where one of you will have to ask the question. Be careful and take it slow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): It sounds to me like you have a crush so dont tell him about your dream as he may think you are a nutter, lets face it males mature later than females so you dont want him going round bragging about you dreaming of him.
Be your age flirt with him if he likes you there will be tell tale signs, google how to tell if someone like you and you will get a lot of information about body language etc...
Good Luck
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