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Oh my, they like me, and I already have a boyfriend ... what do I do now?

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Question - (16 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *aun12344 writes:

okay, so I have quite i big problem at the moment, but i think that i should explain something first i am a bisexual male, so, i recently found out that this guy i know has a crush on me and so does my bes friend who is a girl, but.... the big problem is, I also have a boyfriend at the moment....

i really dont know what to do!!!

some one please help me as soon as possible !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

I think that you should date the other two friends for a few weeks and see if either one could be serious but just as a test. See if either one could go anywhere or if you should just be friends with one or both. If your relation ship with this other guy is hazy, then take a brake while you date the other two.

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A female reader, loving arms United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2009):

you don't have a problem, so some people fancy you. That isn't a problem is it? You're in a relationship, if you're not happy in it, end it. I think these other friend would not be relationship material for you, as if there was any con nection for you they (one or other) would already have been your partner, don't you think??

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A female reader, purplecloud03 Australia +, writes (16 April 2009):

purplecloud03 agony auntyou should be flattered that other people are interested in you. but you are in a relationship, so one would assume that ur in it for a reason.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

The fact that you're asking this makes me question whether you really care for your current boyfriend all that much? should you really be with him if you're questioning it so easily?

maybe that's just my view because i'm an all or nothing kind of person!?

my advice is to think it through carefully before taking any action!

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntwell hun the only thing you can do is stay with your boyfriend i mean do you have any feelings for these other two?

if not i'd just stay with the boyfriend and just tell the others you'd rather not ruin the friendships you have with them i mean being friends is better than not being anythign at all right?

Hope things work out for you :)

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