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writes:okay so ive been with my boyfriend for nearly two months now, we've been together before about a little over a year ago, and its safe to say that i fell for him and the feelings just never went. However lately ive been thinking, especially with the fact of me being potentially pregnant and him showing no interest or support, that perhaps im just being used?Hes not really an open person anyway, but whenever i see him, we dont really talk that much anymore, all he ever wants to do is have sex etc, yes, he tells me he loves me etc; but men say anything to get you into bed these days right?anyways, what do you think, is he using me? or am i just overreacting to a man with a high sex drive? :/thankyou x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhonestly, when we are alone he sometimes does show it but then when it comes to being out with other people he barely acknowledges im there, like hes ashamed of me or something :/
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reader, person12345  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 I don't think this is a sex drive issue so much as a drifting apart thing. A sex drive shouldn't affect how he feels about you as a person. If you feel like he just likes sex and wants sex a lot, it's probably nothing. But if you feel like he's using sex as the only way to connect, as in replacing a good conversation or avoiding talking by having sex, then there's an issue. It could be a number of things, like the possibility of you being pregnant could be scaring him.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (20 September 2010):
 It's really impossible to say with the information you've given - it just isn't enough. The way you've presented it however the possibility does suggest itself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): Even if he had a high sex drive, that wouldn't prevent him from showing you interest and support for your possible pregnancy if he truly loved you.
He may say that he loves you. But does he SHOW it too? A person who showed love through their actions would be a loving person, even if they never actually said it. Look at his actions, not just his words. If he only ever seems interested in his own needs and not yours, you know his words of love aren't sincere.
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