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writes:What do men really think of women that are good in bed?Recently, I heard that a couple of my ex-boyfriends had told people that Im good in bed and while my friends say I should be flattered I actually feel quite embarressed. Does it not make a woman look dirty and slaggy? Or is it attractive?
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (29 September 2006):
 in my opinion it does make you look slaggy, because if your ex's are telling different people you are good in bed then there going to tell the wrong person who will make you beleive they are really intrested in you then when they get there sex youll be left feeling used or feeling deverstated! sex is not just a thing you do with different people because your up for a shag! in my books i wouldnt sleep with some one unless they were truely special to me that way i know they ent going to go around telling people how i am in bed!
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 I would be proud of the fact you got good ratings especially from ex boyfriends who normally won't say that many good things about someone.
As long as you haven't been sleeping around don't be embarrassed by this as you've done nothing wrong, just becareful of those guys that may want to sleep with you just because they think your good.
Hope this helped :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): When I was married my husband said I was hopeless in bed. After we divorced (not for that reason by the way) I was determined to please my next partner and did a lot of research watching films, talking with friends etc. Well I've been in a relationship with a guy who says I'm good . Do you know what? He doesn't want a committed relationship with me. What amazes me, is that a lot of men are still very 'victorian' in their views. Women who are good in bed are not 'partner/wife material. It's totally baffling for us girls,we are in 2006?
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Hi there, I dont think that it makes a woman slutty unless they sleep around, or they flaunt the fact about themselves.
You are good in bed but keep for your relationships only. Your ex's are just making themselves look stupid and immature which they are by bragging about it.
All you have to do is hold your head up high and think how pathetic they are. Also I warn you to be careful because I can guarantee that the people that they told will try and sleep with you now. So do not fall for there sweet talk hun.
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Well think about it. Would you rather have a reputation for being good in bed.....or a reputation for being a dud?
Oh...yeah.....she sleeps with anyone...but bring a bag and a cattle prod... make sure your too drunk to remember cause she's a dead fish in the sack!
Or
Yeah...she's so hot in bed....I will never forget that girl. wow...she was teerrrrriffic.
Duh! I think I would rather be number B! LOL
Honestly....if your X boyfriends are getting together and saying anything remotely nice about you....YOU must be doing something right....why worry about how you might look...you were comfortable with you decision to sleep with them at the time....don't regret it after you can't take it back. Just think of it as an experience you needed and it will somehow help you make better decisions next time....IE picking guys who don't brag so much...maybe? Feel free to critique them back to their friends....beings they started the ball rolling.
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