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The Art of Arguing. What helps you to resolve issues in your relationship?
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28 May 2015: There's a song by Ne-Yo that absolutely cracks me up now whenever I hear it. "When You're Mad" talks about how sexy it is when your partner gets angry and more than implies the joys and benefits of make-up sex! Deep within my nature, I do hav...
Jack and Jill Are Crushing
No replies yet... 28 August 2011: Jack thought Jill was hot. She wore short, jean skirts with leggings underneath. She had nice legs. Her shirts were always nicely filled and her lips looked very...lush. She was smart too. Really cool. Jill though Jack was cute. He was funny, h...
Nice Guys
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28 June 2011: Nice guys- a lot of us have overlooked them, rejected them, or simply ignored them. Then, we become interested and they're married. So, it's like a chick flick scene where a pretty girl tells her nice guy admirer that he's too much like a brother ...
Virginity
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7 November 2010: Every time I see a sex question posted by a young girl 13-15, I cringe and tell myself, "Don't you dare read this." Myself stubbornly refuses to listen, blows me a raspberry, and reads on - hell is sometimes unleashed. The questions which affect me ...
A Glimpse into Love
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10 October 2010: I'm the kind of girl who goes around barefoot, fights pessimism daily, and has thoughts wild enough to graze with antelope. I've heard love on the radio- songs that sigh heartbreak or gush with joy at finding someone who truly grasped their he...
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A Glimpse into Love
Q. I'm the kind of girl who goes around barefoot, fights pessimism daily, and has thoughts wild enough to graze with antelope. I've heard love on the radio- songs that sigh heartbreak or gush with joy at finding someone who truly grasped their he...
A. 12 October 2010: Thanks everyone :)... (read in full...)
A Glimpse into Love
Q. I'm the kind of girl who goes around barefoot, fights pessimism daily, and has thoughts wild enough to graze with antelope. I've heard love on the radio- songs that sigh heartbreak or gush with joy at finding someone who truly grasped their he...
A. 10 October 2010: lol! Maybe. This is female purging so hm, I guess so :p... (read in full...)
Calling Christians - Can a spouse do so much wrong that you just can't come back despite what the bible says?
Q. I am a very spiritual person. I love people and always look for the good in them. I am someone who can be involved with someone who has 2 tons of bad and 5 pounds of good, and I shift the scale to the good. But I am in a marriage where I have lost ...
A. 10 October 2010: I know how you're feeling. I was just fourteen when my church shunned and judged me when I spoke my ideas and interpretations about the bible. I refused to believe that our church leader knew what was in the mind of God and therefore could say that ... (read in full...)
Damn boys!
Q. damn boys! i love this guy. he doest love me back but he flirts, now he saying we should have sex. what should i do? im in love with him and i realy want to. ...
A. 10 October 2010: Damn boys is right! You KNOW you deserve SO much more than this. He's not your boyfriend, he doesn't love you but he wants to sleep with you? Hell no! You are NOT a sex toy to be used and thrown away. You're a young lady with a heart and feelings ... (read in full...)
Should we tell her?
Q. Laura - my best friend Mike - my boyfriend and my best friend Fabio - Mike's best friend and my good friend Well Laura likes Mike ALOT. She knows that I like him as well and that he likes me. What she doesn't know is that we are going out. F...
A. 10 October 2010: Yes, tell her. Imagine how hurt, left out, and betrayed she'll feel if she finds out for herself? It's better to let it out now. Tell her yourself. Don't let someone else tell her since that person can twist things around and make you appear to be a ... (read in full...)
What does a naked man look like?
Q. Hello. I am a teenager. My hormones are all over the place. I have always had more of a physical/emotional attraction to women. But I also like men. I just dont know what I am yet. I know what a woman looks like naked because I see myself in the ...
A. 10 October 2010: lol...Ok, let me see if I can answer this correctly. If you want to see the artistic portrayal of a naked men, look up Michelangelo's David or the sixteenth chapel or a sculpture called "the discuss thrower." Check out a few books on anatomy ... (read in full...)
Sex is so painful for me that boyfriend would rather masturbate
Q. ive been with my boyfriend 4 years now im so very happy with him but unfortunately he studies abroad and i don't see him for up to 6 months at a time then when i do its only for a month. But every-time i have sex with him it always hurts eve...
A. 10 October 2010: Have you tried seeing a doctor about this? What you're describing sounds like a medical condition I've read about...a condition which has kept a lot of women virgins because it's so painful. See a doctor, they can give you so much more insight on ... (read in full...)
How would you make it up to your friend?
Q. if you called your best friend something really bad coz you got angry with her but now you have realize that you have made one of the most biggest mistakes of your life, what would you do?? as in how would you say sorry to her?? and thanks...
A. 9 October 2010: You write her a hand-written note: I'm sorry about what I said. I didn't mean it, I never have and never will. This was the biggest mistake of my life and if you can please forgive me, this will never, ever happen again!" You could make her a little ... (read in full...)
How do I get my daughter to see what a jerk her boyfriend really is?
Q. I need advice. My daughter has bee dating her boyfriend for 4 months now. She thinks they're serious. He turned 21 a few weeks ago and chose to spend his birthday with another girl...."just a friend"...because she promised (after he and my daughter ...
A. 8 October 2010: I'm sorry to say there's not much you can do. You are NOT making a mountain out of a molehill, I know this guy's type. Your daughter will have to see for herself that he's no good and unfortunately, have her heart broken. As hard as it is, just let ... (read in full...)
I can't take this any more... I'm SO confused!
Q. hey guys and girls i am 16 years old and like every other guy my age, i am a lil.... how do u say?... freakin out!!! ok here's the deal i am so confused about my sexual orientation.... it started when i started wanting guys when i was 13 then when ...
A. 8 October 2010: Take a deep breath and relax! You're sixteen, you don't need to put a label on yourself right now. Ok, you can find women attractive but if you don't have that urge to make love to them-it could be that you're gay. Looking at a woman and getting ... (read in full...)
Do I bite my lip for the sake of the kids?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for over 8yr.yes we have children together,but i notice about 2yr. in we were so different we have nothing in commin just are kids,i stayed so long because we have kid,but i do have love for him,but i am not in love with ...
A. 8 October 2010: I can't tell you what to do. I'm a stranger who doesn't know your heart or life. But, if you're really so unhappy...have you tried talking to this man? Sometimes, after being happy and loving for a while (the honeymoon period) things can go down ... (read in full...)
My dad cheated and I don't know what to do. help please
Q. hi recently...well actualy last year me and my brother were home while my mom was out of town. me and him were just chillin, me playing guitar and him listening to music. but then he went downstairs and came up and said he heard another woman in my ...
A. 8 October 2010: I'm sorry and I know what you're going through. My parents split when I was younger because my dad had an affair. I remember everything about that time. Not being able to laugh with my friends like before and hearing my mom cry every night. For the ... (read in full...)
I spoiled Breaking Dawn for her!!!
Q. Well, In school, my friend and I were talking and I gave a small hint that gave a big part of the last book of twilight away, thinking she had read it. I feel horrible about it, and I tried covering up by saying that I haven't read the last book ...
A. 8 October 2010: lol! Why does everyone spill the Renesme beans? hehehe...I did it after I read the book too actually *sigh* it's becoming a tradition :p Glad it's worked out! ... (read in full...)
I'm 30, will my penis grow anymore?
Q. Q I am male age 30 yrs: Q-I am a 30 year old male with a 4 and half inch penis. Will my penis grow anymore? It is correct for sex, If not then what to do ignore me english grammer. What the correct size of women vagina and male Penis pls help ...
A. 8 October 2010: No, it will not grow in length anymore. But, I have read studies where scientists claim that width is what's important, not length. Width stimulates the vagina more as it stretches it while too much length can be a bit uncomfortable for women as it ... (read in full...)
Was it ok to do this with my cousin?
Q. I am really confused. This question was the reason why I made this. Last new years eve my very distant cousin Tyler and I were absolutly best friends. We knew everything about each other and we liked all the same things. Well, we were walking down ...
A. 8 October 2010: He's a distant cousin, it's fine, hon :) But, your father was wrong to read you diary and accuse you in such a way. Fathers can be like this, they know what it's like to be young and male and when they see you growing up, they get scared. They want ... (read in full...)
First time my boyfriend has ever been violent, should I give him a chance if he goes to anger management?
Q. Two days ago, I tried to talk to my boyfriend about his behavior dealing with other girls, not the first time out of 4 years we'd talked about this. I had prepared myself to finally let him go (or at least I thought I had). I did it all in a very ...
A. 8 October 2010: Chocking you until you almost lost conciousness...your back aches, your neck still hurts and so does your spine. Honey, do you realize that he could have easily killed you? Over a stupid remote? This is not him slapping you in a spurt of anger for ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to butter me up???
Q. Ok, long story short. Me and a male friend (who has a girlfriend) ended up sleeping together, very wrong i know. We used to be FWB before he was with her. The thing is i think he wants to do it again but i am not going to. I know that me staying in ...
A. 8 October 2010: I think your instincts are right. Don't feel bad for doubting him. It's good that you're keeping your distance, keep it up. You know he'd like to sleep with you and I believe that line is set to get you to feel a bit touched or guilty so that when ... (read in full...)
How do you get confidence up around girls and respond to certain things they say?
Q. How do you get more confident around girls for dating? I am 17 and pretty much never had a girlfriend, i get along well with a lot of girls, i can talk to them about anything, but i can never ask them out as i just dont have the confidence to. I am ...
A. 8 October 2010: If a girl you think is cute asks you to take your shirt off, tease a little and say something like: "If you wanna see the goods, ya gotta take me out to dinner first" or "I only take off my shirt on the third date-take me out on one and two and I ... (read in full...)
A girl confused choosing between two guys
Q. This might be a long post, but please bear with me. I have been with my boyfriend for the 5 years. A year after we started going out I moved in with him and his parents since I was living in a little basement, and my boyfriend thought that was not ...
A. 8 October 2010: Also, if you do choose to leave your boyfriend, paying him back sounds right and shows character. But again, before you date anyone else, you need to build up the self-esteem this man has taken from you and of course, you need to focus on your ... (read in full...)
A girl confused choosing between two guys
Q. This might be a long post, but please bear with me. I have been with my boyfriend for the 5 years. A year after we started going out I moved in with him and his parents since I was living in a little basement, and my boyfriend thought that was not ...
A. 8 October 2010: Wow...that's a lot of stress to handle. To me your current boyfriend is hovering over the abusive line, calling you names and putting you down in front of others is NO way to treat someone you love. I'm guessing that's why you don't feel like ... (read in full...)
I'm sad that he feels the need to compete with me...
Q. Dear cupid, Here is my situation. I have been in a loving relationship for just over a year. My partner is 30, I am 26. He in previous relationships was always referred to as the pretty one, the sexy one, the funny one and the popular one, a...
A. 7 October 2010: It's always sad when someone centers their life around their looks, what it gives them, and of course, money. He admits his problem which tells me that he isn't completely lost. But, I will warn you right now that overcoming such narcissistic ... (read in full...)
I spoiled Breaking Dawn for her!!!
Q. Well, In school, my friend and I were talking and I gave a small hint that gave a big part of the last book of twilight away, thinking she had read it. I feel horrible about it, and I tried covering up by saying that I haven't read the last book ...
A. 6 October 2010: lol don't worry about it! Someone told me about Renesme before I even touched the book :p but I still enjoyed it! I was annoyed at first but my dear friend made it up to me by buying me a totally mouth-watering poster of.....well, a hot guy ;) You ... (read in full...)
Bad financial situation and she wants me to leave because I won't give her a "fairy tale" wedding!
Q. Hi, I am 21 years old my fiance is 22 years old. We have been together for 4 years engaged 2 years. Recently we moved from salt lake to phoenix. kind of a spur of the moment thing no job yada yada yada. But It has put alot of stress on our re...
A. 5 October 2010: Wow, what stressors! Let me tell you something, you ARE being a supportive man by sticking by your family and trying to care for them as best as you can. You could have walked away like so many men do but you're here. Your fiance is either not ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with another man's baby but wants me to be the father
Q. me and my ex girlfriend moved back in together, after breaking up pretty badly our first go around, i believe in my heart dearly that she cheated on me during our relationship, not even 24 hours of us breaking up she had another man in our ...
A. 4 October 2010: Run and burn your tracks. This woman does not deserve you and she will make your life so miserable, hell will look like Heaven's pearly gates. She seems unstable, with little morals and little respect for herself. I feel bad for the child...But yes, ... (read in full...)
Married a Thai girl and now have regrets.....
Q. Hello, In 2004 I found myself coming to the end of a 3 year relationship and started looking online on dating websites. To be 100% honest I liked the idea of having a very beautiful gf and I am only average looking myself but I am kind and success...
A. 4 October 2010: I think it's time you leave her. You made it possible for her to be financially stable and independent and went above and beyond. If you know you don't love her, don't stick around especially since she now wants kids. Let her go so she can get what ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend driving me nuts complaining about his job!
Q. My bf complains about his job constantly!!! I know its hard work and I know he stresses about money, I try to help him out but he won't let me. I don't know whether to encourage him to get another job or to talk to him about his negativity...but its ...
A. 4 October 2010: The best thing you can do right now is listen. A lot of times when people complain, they don't want advice, they simply want someone there to listen quietly and be sympathic. Help him relax as much as possible while he's with you. It's rather nice ... (read in full...)
He kept all of the old photos, emails and letters I sent him when we were together, does this mean anything?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship with a guy, we broke up and lost touch for about 5 years. Now we have started talking again and he has told me that he kept every photo I sent him and every email, letter that I sent him. Does the fact he kept...
A. 4 October 2010: It means he cherished the time with you and doesn't want to part with objects that hold these memories for him. So, he had no hard feelings about your break-up and maybe a part of him still wants what could have been...it's not at all bad that he ... (read in full...)
I want to show my girlfriend that I love her but she's not easily impressed!
Q. Me: I'm 19 years old, I'm in college, I live 1 hour and 50 mins. away from my girlfriend. (I have a car) We've been together for 1 year, 2 months and 14 days. We love each other to death, and I trust her more than I would even trust my mom. (I...
A. 4 October 2010: In my opinion, the best gifts involve time and thought. Not things you buy but things you do or make. Your nickname suggests that you're musically inclined, why not write and record a song for her? I don't know any girl who hasn't sighed dreamily at ... (read in full...)
Will it grow anymore?
Q. I am a 15 year old male with a 6 1/2 inch penis with a girth of almost 6 inches. Will my penis grow anymore? P.S. I would apreciate it if answerers dont give me the "your to young to be thinking about sex" answer. Im just curious and I want matur...
A. 4 October 2010: Whoa! You're already above average in size so you're good to go even if you somehow stop growing (which I doubt will happen). Men usually stop growing at around 25. Women start developing earlier and so, finish earlier. So in my opinion, yes you ... (read in full...)
Do I masturbate too much?
Q. Is it weird for a 14 year old girl to masterbate nearly every day?...
A. 4 October 2010: No, it's not weird. Unusual though may be a better word. But everyone's different and this is just you doing what feels normal to you. It's not a bad idea to masturbate and find out how your body responds to different stimulations. This way when you ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend! What should I do?
Q. I'm nearly 15 and I really want to give up my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend or know anyone that would want to have sex with me. What should I do?...
A. 4 October 2010: Wait. The last thing you want to do is lose your virginity in a one-stand stand or f*** buddy situation. Have some patience :) I understand that you feel ready and want this, but trust me when I say that it'll be worth the wait if it is a person you ... (read in full...)
My so called friend has been spreading rumours that I am leaving my husband for him!
Q. Hello, It has come to my attention from a reliable source that a male friend i went to school with and haven't seen for 22 years has said to someone that i am going to leave my husband for him!! he has also said he has met my children and tha...
A. 4 October 2010: So I suggest you just tell your husband what's going on and perhaps block/delete him off your facebook if your source is proved true. I really think he means no real harm, he's just trying to prove that there's "more" to him, that he can get a woman ... (read in full...)
My so called friend has been spreading rumours that I am leaving my husband for him!
Q. Hello, It has come to my attention from a reliable source that a male friend i went to school with and haven't seen for 22 years has said to someone that i am going to leave my husband for him!! he has also said he has met my children and tha...
A. 4 October 2010: I'd be furious too! But, there's something here that bugs me. People normally lie for manipulation, protection, or simple cruelty. His lies are too detailed, too fluent and silly.I mean, he lied about your husband's occupation, something that could ... (read in full...)
How do I get older women to notice me?
Q. what is the best way for older females to notice me? im 19 i like females from 25 and up to 45. people help me out. im not ugly or anythin i look good . i mean alot of women my age want to go out with me. but ilike older women. any advice well be ...
A. 4 October 2010: Oh ok, I understand better now. The thing is, younger guys have a bad rep. Older women they're out to find experienced lovers and then, leave it at that. Some of them have kids and who they bring home to meet the most important people in their lives ... (read in full...)
Is online flirting considered cheating?
Q. Is ONLINE flirting considered cheating? My boyfriend gave me his Facebook password, and I check his messages (he doesnt know) and he's always flirting with this girl, he even asked her to be his sideline girlfriend, she said no but they still ...
A. 4 October 2010: I consider it cheating. But, different things are considered cheating by different people. So they're not physically intimate, but it sounds like they're forming an emotional attachment by talking as if they're in a relationship. Emotional ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend trying to pull me back into the closet
Q. okay so I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and he has met my family and they know he is my boyfriend. About two days ago he asked me to move in right after we went and met some of his friends and his parents but introduced me as "A ...
A. 4 October 2010: Talk to him about it. I'm assuming he hasn't told friends and family he's gay yet and that can lead to problems. Can you take being his "friend" in front of family/friends? Him dropping your hand when he thinks he sees someone he knows? You're going ... (read in full...)
I have questions about condoms, masturbation and diseases--mature answers, please!
Q. loads of people in my school are NOT virgins, some of them are but i wouldnt say many people are, they all have big boobs and have nice legs, and know all about sex and masturbation, can someone answer these questions: Do condoms really protect y...
A. 3 October 2010: First off, why would we call you stupid? You're showing maturity by looking into this topic and I applaud you for it :) Here Goes: birth control pills only prevent pregnancy (98%) Condoms prevent pregnancy AND STDs but not 100% because they can ... (read in full...)
How do I talk dirty to him?
Q. I've recently taken on a new lover. He loves talking dirty in bed. (Which was a surprise...he's fairly conservative.) I'm alright with it and willing to talk back, but I just have no idea what to say without sounding like a cheesy porno. Any ideas? ...
A. 3 October 2010: "hmm that dick goes deep!" "oo yeah, ya own this pussy!" When you guys are going at it, yell out what you want him to do..."shove that dick in!" "oh yeah I love it fast!" Start simple with maybe things you've heard (from pornos too since guys do ... (read in full...)
When a guy is being possessive in a relationship, is it healthy?
Q. When a guy is being possessive in a relationship, is it healthy? Especially when it lasted very long (4 - 5 years). Where there has been breaks ups but then patching back many times. Hurting the girl emotionally with harshful words and slapping...
A. 3 October 2010: Cycles are extremely hard to end. If a guy is possesive and abusive then he has issues that stem from insecurities and maybe a personal cycle where he witnessed abuse as a child and imitates it now. Unless he's getting or had therapy and time to ... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant! What's going to happen?
Q. i am 14 me and my partner want a baby , i might be pregnant and we really hope i am he is scared what will happwn if i am what will happen to the baby ?...
A. 3 October 2010: Oh God...I don't even know you and I'm angry! You're fourteen! Have you any idea how much you're going to suffer if you are pregnant?! You want to know what's going to happen? Here goes. First off, your body isn't ready to have a baby at 14. Kids ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to be more sexual?
Q. Hi, I'm 13 years old. My boyfriend is 16 last week. The problem is, im a virgin...he isn't. He wants me to be more sexual, and i don't know what to say! He is really nice but he said it will never work unless i try to become a little bit more...
A. 3 October 2010: I personally find 13yr olds having sex a bit sickening myself...and your friend had sex with this guy, and he's left her. Oh and he's not asking for sex YET. Here's how it works: you become more "sexual" and soon, that won't be enough for him, so ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or am I too suspicious??
Q. My boyfriend of 7 months is the first boy in my life. 3 months ago I found that he has been on many dating sites, all of them of sexual nature and he said it is old and that he doesn't use it anymore. I found old emails of him praising his ex ...
A. 3 October 2010: You're right, just because a man does/buys things for you, it doesn't mean they can't ever cheat. The emails to his ex were before you met...but the fact that he hasn't deleted his profile on these dating websites put up a few red flags.All I can ... (read in full...)
How do I get older women to notice me?
Q. what is the best way for older females to notice me? im 19 i like females from 25 and up to 45. people help me out. im not ugly or anythin i look good . i mean alot of women my age want to go out with me. but ilike older women. any advice well be ...
A. 29 September 2010: First off, adopt a more mature way of dressing (if you haven't already), while you're hunting for your older goddess, forget the wise-ass t-shirts, the scuffed converses and baggy jeans. You want to portray power and confidence, nothing even close ... (read in full...)
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