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The Art of Arguing. What helps you to resolve issues in your relationship?
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28 May 2015: There's a song by Ne-Yo that absolutely cracks me up now whenever I hear it. "When You're Mad" talks about how sexy it is when your partner gets angry and more than implies the joys and benefits of make-up sex! Deep within my nature, I do hav...
Jack and Jill Are Crushing
No replies yet... 28 August 2011: Jack thought Jill was hot. She wore short, jean skirts with leggings underneath. She had nice legs. Her shirts were always nicely filled and her lips looked very...lush. She was smart too. Really cool. Jill though Jack was cute. He was funny, h...
Nice Guys
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28 June 2011: Nice guys- a lot of us have overlooked them, rejected them, or simply ignored them. Then, we become interested and they're married. So, it's like a chick flick scene where a pretty girl tells her nice guy admirer that he's too much like a brother ...
Virginity
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7 November 2010: Every time I see a sex question posted by a young girl 13-15, I cringe and tell myself, "Don't you dare read this." Myself stubbornly refuses to listen, blows me a raspberry, and reads on - hell is sometimes unleashed. The questions which affect me ...
A Glimpse into Love
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10 October 2010: I'm the kind of girl who goes around barefoot, fights pessimism daily, and has thoughts wild enough to graze with antelope. I've heard love on the radio- songs that sigh heartbreak or gush with joy at finding someone who truly grasped their he...
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Who should hold whose hand first?
Q. I'm 14 and my bf is 15. On the first date I was very shy, and I know he was nevrous. After we went home, he sms-ed me said he wanted to hold my hand but he thinks I may slap him. On the next date should I let him hold my hand or should I hold his ...
A. 21 November 2010: :) I think you should go ahead and take his hand if he takes a while to get around it and is sweating bullets. He's nervous and believes you will slap him, but if you take his hand that shows that you're perfectly ok with it and relieves the ... (read in full...)
Since we had sex he won't talk to me!
Q. Dear Cupid, So me and my x boyfriend were together for 2 years and, I finally gave inn an gave away my V card to him.Ever since that night he wont talk to me and, he told me he hates me and never loved me.What should I do he was my everyt...
A. 21 November 2010: I can't believe I read this right...I know you feel you love this guy but, to me he sounds monstrous. You gave him something special, you tried to get him back, and he's not responding. It will be hard but hon, you need to move on. This boy used you ... (read in full...)
Is this an appropriate subject for her to discuss with my husband??
Q. I want to do a poll... Is it appropiate that a female friend of my husbands told him about her getting a boob job? Also if there are any other topics you think are taboo to mention to an opposite sex friend when both parties are attached please s...
A. 20 November 2010: Hm...no I wouldn't see it as a big deal-some people are simply very "open" and able to discuss anything under the sun. Now, if she asked my "husband" to take a feel and tell her if they're as good as real-bodies would drop :p What I don't want a ... (read in full...)
I'm worried he has told other people at school that I'm a virgin after our failed attempt at having sex! What should I do?
Q. so i'm just going to start with my question. few weeks ago, a new guy in my class began to send me messages. i wasn't interested i'm not even now. but anyways i talked to him. he told me he likes me and so on. because he wanted to meet with me so i ...
A. 19 November 2010: Hon, he said it himself he wants an easy f**** and you shouldn't be ashamed of being a virgin. Better that than to be the easy girl who sleeps with anything! He doesn't give you butterflies...why do you want to just give your virginity to a boy who ... (read in full...)
Is my future ruined because I got a girl pregnant?
Q. Alright so I just turned 18 in september. My life is baseball, i've played it all my life and have potential scholarship opportunities. Anyway, this girl from my old school calls me up after her and her bf break up and wants to come over. Being the ...
A. 16 November 2010: No, your life is not over and I'm happy you're truly thinking about this and not trying to shake off your responsibility. I really and truly hope she is of age and legal to have had sex...otherwise, this could be major trouble. Have her take a ... (read in full...)
For all the young mothers, will I be throwing away my life by having kids at a young age?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend and am madly in love with him as when i first laid eyes on him, it sure was love at first sight for both of us. I never wanted kids but am getting really broody lately - he tells me he wants me to have his baby and it ...
A. 16 November 2010: Not a young mommy but know many who had children young (my mom was 19 when she had me). I asked her once, "Mom, did I mess up your plans/life?" I knew I would get an honest answer and she told me, "Having you changed my life, I put you before me and ... (read in full...)
Once they prove it's his child, does he have to fork over for the medical bills?
Q. My husband got another girl pregnant and im being told that once they prove it is his child, we will be expected to pay back all the medical bills. Do you know if this is true? We live in NV and she is using free clinics for medical now. ...
A. 16 November 2010: As far as I know, if she's been using free clinics, your husband does NOT have to reimburse her for medical bills if it's his child. However, a judge will take a look at his income and based upon it, will decide child support payments. He is NOT ... (read in full...)
Is 14 too old to have your first kiss?
Q. okk this sonds sooo stupid /: but im 14 and well ive never actually kissed a boy properly ( in which i mean tongue ) and i feel stupid because my bestfriend has and i feel stupid i dont want to be like a 40 yr old person and never kissed a guy lol ...
A. 16 November 2010: Hon, you're not silly at all! In due time, you'll get that kiss and it should be someone special. I'm friends with a lot of boys and some of them, if they see a girl they kissed randomly before, they'll point her out and say something like, "Oh man! ... (read in full...)
Virginity
Q. Every time I see a sex question posted by a young girl 13-15, I cringe and tell myself, "Don't you dare read this." Myself stubbornly refuses to listen, blows me a raspberry, and reads on - hell is sometimes unleashed. The questions which affect me ...
A. 14 November 2010: Maverick, PurityChild-thank you for your insights! PurityChild I never meant to make my opinions generalize teens...I know many girls who waited and resisted peer pressure, but when I wrote this, I was thinking about others-Friends I knew and a ... (read in full...)
What kind of guy do girls want?
Q. Girls, Would you rather a man who would fight for you or would you rather a skinny twig or a man with muscles (not overboard but enough you can feel them when he hugs you)?...
A. 14 November 2010: Well, every woman's different. But, I look at personality first-whats the point of having a "hot" body if it can't be sweet, intelligent, and loving? That said, I personally don't like a lot of muscle. What attracts me first is the man's face, ... (read in full...)
She wants me to be the father of her child
Q. Hi need advice on the technicality of my situation. She is 35 and I am 28. We were former FWBs (friends with benefits). But we have not met for 5 years. Recently she was in town and asked if she could stay overnight. We did a lot of catching ...
A. 14 November 2010: I agree with CaringGuy, especially about this child wanting to find/meet you one day. But, you know, I've heard cases where before a child a conceived, contracts are drawn. So if you're to be an egg or sperm "donor," an attorney can draw up papers ... (read in full...)
I thought the date went really well but he didn't try to kiss me?
Q. Ok so i rlly rlly like this guy, "Sam". We have kno each other for 4yrs. And now that where both in high school him an 11th grd me a 9th (yea im 14 not 16). Anyways we have rlly been conecting lately. We where txting and hanging at shool. Then he ...
A. 13 November 2010: Aw don't sweat it, not all first dates end in a kiss and he really could have been nervous! There's no rush, he sounds like a sweet guy and once he gets over those nerves, all will be fine in the kissing department :) Just think about the great time ... (read in full...)
What do I say to introduce my son to her?
Q. I am recently divorced, and am living with a new partner. We are in love and planning our future together. Problem is, I don't know how to bring her up to my 13 y.o. son. He doesn't know about her (ex-wife does, and isn't happy I moved on so ...
A. 13 November 2010: Your idea is good, one problem though: if my dad took me out, I would assume it's OUR quality time. I would see it as a sort of invasion if his girlfriend just dropped in. My parents divorced when I was young and I disliked it when I was forced to ... (read in full...)
5 o'clock shadow!
Q. Why do I shave everyday, when I was a teenager I could shave and hair wouldn't grow back till 3 days later but now I shave everyday, it seems like every mid-day, hair starts growing back in?...
A. 13 November 2010: Seems like a lot of testosterone :) But a very good razor can do the trick. My best friend dropped some bucks at the Art of Shaving-quality shaving tools and absolutly amazing aftershaves. We all teased him at first but, those tools are rather ... (read in full...)
What do guys want to hear?
Q. any ideas of something sweet to say to a sweet boy ? help ! what do guys like to hear ? lol , who as cute little things to tell him ? anyone ? ha . please and thanks - ahead (: -Rebecca .3...
A. 13 November 2010: I don't know if all guys are this way but my ex liked to hear me tell him how he affected me. Like when he hugged me, I felt safe and he'd smile when I said so. Or if he was looking amazing, I'd say something like, "Wow..." lol I couldn't articulate ... (read in full...)
Ladies, would you give me a shot?
Q. Ok. I Have a question out there for all the Ladies. I am 26 and still have not had sex. Yes I am still a virgin. Is this normal. Do you ladies still find this attractive? I feel weird when all my friends talk about sex. They expect me to have had ...
A. 13 November 2010: I'd be thrilled! Like tennisstar said, you're a clean slate and I really, really don't appreciate men who go after every skirt they see. So, I think some other women would like it as well. Though others may want the more experienced type. Half and ... (read in full...)
He's nice but he's also a pimp!
Q. i have been single for 4 yrs because i have been burnt and didnt want to get involved. a few weeks ago i was at gym and this guy came over to me and we started talking. there was instant chemistry and i felt really free and happy with him we meet in ...
A. 13 November 2010: Run! I agree with the others. This guy (if a real pimp) is only going to ruin your life and soul. If he's a player, he'll break your heart as he sleeps around with others. You deserve better. Leave the player to his pathetic games. ... (read in full...)
Relationship advice for gay 14 year olds.
Q. Hello, I am a gay 14 year old boy who has NO idea how to get a boyfriend. I recently moved and I know no one at all. I know it sounds a little inconsistent, but I really want a boyfriend. Are online relationships a bad idea? Thanks for you advice....
A. 12 November 2010: Don't rush it, hon. Right now, focus on finding your flow, your friends at school. If they have GSA club, join! GSA- gay straight alliance. You can make friends/connections there that will set you on the path to finding a boyfriend. Just try and ... (read in full...)
How do you get big muscular arms?
Q. i am 17 and lets face it a bit of a weakling i have very small arms and i have tried working out but there just hasn't been any difference in the size of my arms or biceps to be precice. what i would like to know is does anyone know a way of ge...
A. 11 November 2010: You're still not through with puberty and forming your body, that ends at around...25 I believe. But, working out too much can stump your growth. So, get some good protein in you...but stay away from pure fats like pork, chips, etc. It will take ... (read in full...)
Pregnant again!
Q. How do I tell my parents that I am pregnant AGAIN!!..Im only 21 and I have a 18mth old son..I just found out that I am 6 weeks preggo...My oarents helped me so much with the first one and still help me a little..I live with my sister but my parents ...
A. 11 November 2010: You're young, you have a child whose still a baby and all over the world, people are finding it harder than ever to support children in a falling economy. Is your son's father doing his share to help? Have you told your partner you are pregnant? ... (read in full...)
Gay Intervention for a "straight" friend
Q. Okay so this is a strange situation I'm gonna explain to you guys and I'm not too sure myself on the right path to take with it but you guys have given me great feedback before so I'd like to know your opinions on what I should do next... Firs...
A. 10 November 2010: No, don't force him out. Coming out is more than just telling everyone you're gay-it means that you finally accept yourself as you are and can let yourself be loved as you truthfully and naturally are. There's a reason why we all go through puberty ... (read in full...)
She won't climax
Q. Why does my girlfriend push me away when I go down on her and she's about to cum?...
A. 10 November 2010: Yep, gotta agree with thewalkingdude, it's probably some sort of insecurity. Have you asked her why she won't allow you to pleasure her?... (read in full...)
Virginity
Q. Every time I see a sex question posted by a young girl 13-15, I cringe and tell myself, "Don't you dare read this." Myself stubbornly refuses to listen, blows me a raspberry, and reads on - hell is sometimes unleashed. The questions which affect me ...
A. 8 November 2010: Anonymous, I agree. It's sickening how our society influences sexuality in children so early. Sex education about reproduction, production is fine- but then, that's canceled out in young minds when they see their favorite idols in riske situations ... (read in full...)
I put so much into this relationship but he broke up with me because he wanted to try other girls!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me yesterday, said like he got bored with me and wanted to try other girls. I am feeling depressed and i feel like i am worthless or something. I tried too hard and put too much into this relationship, i couldn...
A. 8 November 2010: Hon, you are NOT worthless or undesirable...this is just the case of a guy who got into a relationship when really, he wasn't ready and still wanted to play the field. It's ok to cry, just get out the hurt and frustration so it doesn't stick to your ... (read in full...)
I swallowed his cum but it burned my throat. Is this normal?
Q. Okay, the other day my boyfriend and I were having sex and he came inside of me, (Didn't use a condom-I'm on the shot.) and it burned really bad after. Then, I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and I swallowed and it burned my throat (its the first ...
A. 7 November 2010: This is going to sound weird but bear with me...there have been cases where women have been allergic (mildly-strongly) to the sperm of their partner. It's rather rare but possible. Or maybe, his sperm is abnormally hot...? Contact ur Doctor about ... (read in full...)
Should my g/f wearing a ex's jacket bother me this much?
Q. Should my g/f wearing a ex's jacket bother me this much? I asked my g/f to drop something off at my place while she was running around and she hops out and is wearing a old b/f's biker jacket when I asked her why she says cause she only has 3 other ...
A. 7 November 2010: The thing is: clothes are personal, sharing clothes is a sign of intimacy and giving an article of clothing has different meanings behind it...I wore me boyfriend's shirt to sleep all the time as a teenager, it reminded me of him and I felt closer ... (read in full...)
Over protective mother!
Q. Let me start off by saying I love my mother but she can be a bit overbearing and over protective. I am 21 years old and she treats me like i am 17 or 18 years old again. It seems like as I got older the worse she's gotten. I don't want to end up ...
A. 7 November 2010: I understand where you're coming from, Getting out of my mom's umbrella took a bit as I loved her and refused to disrespect her. I took little steps, got her used to the fact that I was an adult but at the same time, making sure she knew I was ... (read in full...)
What's the perfect gift for a guy?
Q. What do you think is the 'perfect gift' for a guy from his girlfriend ?...
A. 7 November 2010: Write down a list of likes that your bf has. Sports, fav bands/music, hobbies, obsessions etc. Now, if he likes a sport, he'll probably have a few jerseys etc. and what he'd like would be something like autographed ball or something. If there's no ... (read in full...)
Did anyone know immediately "Thats the girl I'm going to marry!"?
Q. Helloooo... Just a bit curious is all :) Haven't got a girlfriend, haven't for some time, still I'm quite happy where I stand. Yet a few joke that I'm more likely to marry then anyone else due to my understanding of girls... Lol. Did an...
A. 7 November 2010: A friend of mine thought so. He told me that he always knew he wanted to marry me. Unfortunately, I didn't return the feelings...But on a happier note, my father saw my mother once and got a wedding ring the next day, he dated her for a few months ... (read in full...)
Handjob and Blowjob at the movies?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while over 2 months now, but I'm never actually the one to actually DO anything. I've never actually given a handjob, or blowjob. But I really want to pleasure him the way he pleasures me. Just recently he ...
A. 6 November 2010: I don't reccomend you do such things at the movies, some theaters have cameras for just that reason. A hanjob starts off with touching, kissing. Usually, you touch a person's chest, and work ur way down. You touch through the clothes first and ... (read in full...)
I think my female student has a lesbian crush on me
Q. I think one of my female students has a crush on me, I am a lesbian and she may have heard that somewhere I’m not sure. I need to tell her that I don’t have feelings for her. I’m not sure whether I should of if I should just wait for it to pass. ...
A. 6 November 2010: She hasn't openly said anything therefore, do the same. She may have a crush on you but as long as nothing is said or done, it's quite harmless. Just take a few precautions. When she stays after class, leave the classroom door open (always). If she ... (read in full...)
If your boyfriend was blind, would you stay or would you go?
Q. Dear Cupid, My name is Alexis and I'm 18 years old. I met the man of my dreams of 21, four years ago and we have been together ever since. When we first started dating, I knew I could picture myself getting married to him, and having a family ...
A. 2 November 2010: I would stay :) but hon, let me add that I was bothered by the comment: he doesn't need a dog to help when he has you. I really and truly believe that he needs more idependence-not only for your sake, but his as well. He may not tell you, but what ... (read in full...)
What kind of gift do you get for the man who has everything?
Q. Hey everyone! I know this is very early but I'm eager to get my best friend a present as soon as possible-but he seems to have everything already! He's got nice clothes, colognes, guitars, books by the thousands on his Kindle, and movies and ...
A. 1 November 2010: Thank you very much! :)... (read in full...)
I'm terrified to have a child with this man!
Q. I been in a relationship for a year. I broke up with the guy cause he was verbally abusive and talk about my child. He was playing on my phone leaving harassing call. Then he stalks me at night making sure that i'm home. He been stalking me. Anyway ...
A. 31 October 2010: I hope and pray that you have called the police, filed a restraining order and charged this man with stalking-even an attempted manslaughter charge could be put on him as he tampered with YOUR car used to transport you and your daughter. You're not ... (read in full...)
Why don't I want to have sex?
Q. i had a child 6 months ago and during the pregnancy as well as afterwards I've been put off of sex whenever my partner tries to be affectionate i feel like he is trying to have sex with me and it makes me almost reject him, i only seem to be ...
A. 31 October 2010: Pregnancy offers many, many changes in not only a woman's body but her mind. During pregnancy and after giving birth, there are still hormones that can affect your sex drive (among other things). I suggest you see your doctor about this. You might ... (read in full...)
She wants to move in together but I don't feel ready
Q. I have been in a relationship with a woman for two years now, she wants us to move in together, but i dont feel ready, thing is she is very sociable when we go out to pubs parties etc she goes up to the bar for drinks goes outside for a cig on her ...
A. 31 October 2010: That's quite a difference! And so, she's at a different level of thought and maturity...she may feel then that it's ok for her to go to pubs, drink, and talk to people she wants because of her youth and you, because you're older and have been there ... (read in full...)
My husband is living with his mistress but says he loves me
Q. Hi. My husband has moved out and in with his mistress. He met her on facebook and had an online relationship with her for several months before meeting in person. I found out shortly after, but he did not end the affair and now lives with her, has ...
A. 31 October 2010: The fact that he can move away from you and dare suggest living locally with this woman where he can hurt both you and the kids shows me that he does not love you. He's trying to keep you on the line to come back to if things don't work out with ... (read in full...)
Does my cousin love me or just lust over me?
Q. hi cupid, i know my story is a bit long. but please go through it. i really needs your help. thanks in advance peeps! :* i have a cousin, my mother's cousin's son!! lets call him Sam. he is 24. i am quite close to him but not that close that h...
A. 31 October 2010: There has to be a balance when you make a guy chase...you don't want him to burn out and give up. So, you show your interest in little ways. When he's sitting down, touch his arm and smile at him. Give him little compliments to show him he's ... (read in full...)
What is a good height for men?
Q. What is a good height for a man?, I'm 5 10 or 5 11, and i'm 25 years old.. i have always wanted to be tall. Sometimes i ask my self whether im tall or short. i never seem to get the right answer.. my dad is well over 6 feet and my brother is 6 or ...
A. 31 October 2010: Your height sounds pretty good! But, I don't think you'll grow much more as you are 25...did you start puberty late? Thats one way where growth can increase a little more as the hormones that cause the change are still active in your body...I have ... (read in full...)
Does my cousin love me or just lust over me?
Q. hi cupid, i know my story is a bit long. but please go through it. i really needs your help. thanks in advance peeps! :* i have a cousin, my mother's cousin's son!! lets call him Sam. he is 24. i am quite close to him but not that close that h...
A. 31 October 2010: I think he is very infatuated with you. But, infatuation is a scary thing. It's very powerful but it can quickly die since it stems from your ideas of a person, not the reality of them. Since he's a playboy, I suggest you let him keep chasing! Don't ... (read in full...)
How can I ask her to come to this party with me?
Q. I got this big party Im going to tomorrow and it will be college kids and high school kids. I was invited by this girl and she said I could bring people. Im bringing my bro and I really want to at least include this other girl I know and her ...
A. 30 October 2010: Vid chat would be cool...try something like getting a small, ring box. Get sheets of paper and write in huge, dark letters: I promise to respect and take care of you. I won't ever drink or cuss or dance on a table with a lampshade on my head. I ... (read in full...)
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