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A request to all the young teens out there
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14 April 2009: well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...
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At 26, should I stick to sex with guys or try switching to girls?
Q. I am 26 years old and never had sex with a girl, only guys, I never had the loving for girls, until few months ago, what is the best way to see if I like girls,as i am trying chatting a going clubbing but cant get any girls, should i just stick to ...
A. 16 July 2008: well hun!!i think ur a lil bored with the same old routine in life and want to try out sumthing which is new to you..i think u should go ahead,there is nothing wrong in spicing ur life up..try it with a girl,its only with experiences u will learn..... (read in full...)
Geek gets love, popular girl gets lovesick!!!
Q. Ok this is how it is, i met this awesome guy named R.E. at school, and him and my bestfriend were going out when i met him, but then he broke up with her and me and him started going out, but i had a boyfriend that was on the football team and he ...
A. 14 July 2008: wow i got back to this..the response to this question has been over whelming lol with a lot of debate....i am sure the girl got the answer!!best of luck!... (read in full...)
I miss my ex so much I can't concentrate on work, help!
Q. i m a doctor living in mumbai . i have relation with a girl since 7 yrs but one day we went out to have some fun and get physical. next month this comes to know her family and that they asked her a quetion about all we done. that time i m not with ...
A. 14 July 2008: well doc!!!when the both of u got pysical it was mutual right!!!so whats the prob then..ur ex gf should be strong rather bold enough to stand up to her family and say whatever has to be said..as far as she falling in love with another guy goes thats ... (read in full...)
Geek gets love, popular girl gets lovesick!!!
Q. Ok this is how it is, i met this awesome guy named R.E. at school, and him and my bestfriend were going out when i met him, but then he broke up with her and me and him started going out, but i had a boyfriend that was on the football team and he ...
A. 11 July 2008: well cause RE realised that u are just making use of him,why would he want a materialistic mean girl when he found true love in the other girl who u call a geek..beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.it does not count always,u have to be ... (read in full...)
My father degrades me and is constantly bringing me down. Please help.
Q. I just need some help, and it might be long but i hope someone will have time to read. i am a 19 year old girl, still living with my parents. Through my early teens i was very depressed and often had suicidal thoughts, which led to me attending a co...
A. 11 July 2008: well babe i beleive u just talk to ur dad..put ur point across him..you are 19 years old and u definitely have the right to make your own decisions and choose the course of your choice..u love ur dad,u respect him thats good but he cant take over ... (read in full...)
He has informed me that his birthday is also National Sex Day!
Q. I am a 15 year old girl, and my boyfriend is turning 16 in August. By August we will have been dating 5 months. I am a virgin, he has told me that he isn't. His parents are going away the week of his birthday, and he has also informed me that his ...
A. 25 June 2008: well hun if its national sex day so what ???u dont need to have sex with him..its the people who have made this a national sex (which i havent heard until u told lol)but whatever!!! its up to the people to have sex if they want..there is no reason ... (read in full...)
Should I listen to her explanation of why she dissed me when she was talking to her friends...?
Q. i am a white male who has been dating a black woman for about 2 years. i thought we had an excellent relationship until i over heard a conversation she was having with a group of black women at a party. they were asking her why she was with "that" ...
A. 24 June 2008: well it's clear you have been sweet enough to take the s**t, and i don't think you should take it anymore...her saying all that at the party was very wrong, even though she knows that you love her so much, plus take care of her expenses. You are ... (read in full...)
Our friends are getting us together, I think we're both a little interested in each other, but I'm not sure how to show her. Help?
Q. im 19 just graduated high school. this girl is 16 and in high school. shes heard about me in high school and my friends are hooking us up to hangout.. think shes a lil intrested as i am.. but im not sure how to show her.. i just got out of a long r...
A. 18 June 2008: well there is no harm in meeting her..talk to her and of course she would ask u abt ur love life ur past everything..c the right time and tell her whatever u feel,but don make her feel ur using her as rebound..... (read in full...)
I came home late for the first time and now he's mad at me!!
Q. My bf is so mad at me because I went out a few days ago and came home very late...like 6am! However, it was very innocent. My friend and I went to a club. Where we went the clubs don't close til 5am. And also this is my 1st time ever staying out ...
A. 17 June 2008: well hun i dont think your wrong..why should boys have all the fun huh haha!!u had a girls night out and u partied out until late i think there is nothing wrong in that..your boyfriend is probably over reacting..considering the fact that this is ... (read in full...)
I think my friend wants some space, how can I let her know I understand that?
Q. hi people, I want to apologise to one of my best friends. She means a lot to me, we worked together all year at uni and we seemed to form a very strong friendship quickly. During this time we went out a couple of times for lunch etc. We talk...
A. 17 June 2008: well u dont need to say anything to her hun because i beleive u saying all this would just get her thinking and lead to unwanted problems..u rather stay put giver her space no doubt probably when she needs u she would come and talk to you..... (read in full...)
What should I do? Should I come out to them?
Q. Hi........ I am a 19 year-old girl. I am in college and live at a all-girl dorm now. I have a lot of nice friends out there. We are so close to each other, yeah we are like sisters. But I secretly hide something from them, I am a lesbian and no o...
A. 16 June 2008: well hun if u come out then of course some would treat u differently and some would just be the same..and those would be your true friends..you would never know probably some of these girls in the dorms are also hiding the fact they are ... (read in full...)
He stares but we never talk. Is he shy? Is he waiting for me to make the first move?
Q. We have known each other since the beginning of middle school. We have never talked much but when we do he and I are at a loss of words and when that happens he stares at me like crazy. I never know what to say around him and he seems to be that way ...
A. 14 June 2008: well hun i am in the same situation as u..and even i wondered why does this guy stare at me all the time and y doesnt he come and talk to me..everyone says he is really shy to talk to me and when i catch him lookin at me he would just look down and ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my vagina odour!
Q. am 14 and have a boyfriend and he wants to have sex but i keep saying no because my vagina smells and am embarassed...
A. 13 June 2008: well right now ur too young for sex anyways..but u can consult a doctor..... (read in full...)
People are making fun of me because my dad died
Q. hi my dad has died 5 years ago every one makes fun off me because of this what should i do ????????????????????????????...
A. 13 June 2008: well hun u should just ask them to f u c k off..if u lost your father then its nothing to make fun about,instead they should be supportive..bunch of retards is what u call such people..... (read in full...)
I broke up with my BF a month ago and still feel sad. What do I do?
Q. I'm in my 11th grade..Broke with my bf 1 month ago..During the days of our relationship we thought we'd always B one..!!But fate changed everything...its been a long time since i haven't spoke 2 him nor text ed him..my heart still feels the pain of ...
A. 5 June 2008: well hun u broke up hmmmm so now what u have to do is move on..ur single have fun go out with friends,party and with time u would find that someone special!!!probably the break up was for good!!!so cheer up..ur too young to even worry about all ... (read in full...)
Really bad crush! please advise.
Q. okay so i've loved this guy for 3 years now and i don't think he knows and he won't care either. What am i supposed to do? i look at his picture and cry all day long.. i can't take it anymore.. its like suicide.. i love him.. what am i supposed to ...
A. 5 June 2008: well hun i think u have waited long enough!!!u have to confront him no matter what he says!!!if u cant do it then probably your friends could find out for u and then u could go ahead with the whole thing..is he single??if no then i guess u should ... (read in full...)
Friend fancies boy, but wont admit it and declares hatred for him!
Q. Me and my friends meet up on a friday night and ice skate, there's this guy that sometimes comes. My best friend, who went to the same primary as him, but he's in the year above, says she hates him, when she's never spoken to him before. When ...
A. 4 June 2008: well probably right now she is not sure herself!!i think u should let her be hun..but one thing u can tell her is if she doesnt like the guy then its better she doesnt talk about him to you guys that much..because whats the point of talking about ... (read in full...)
Why would you put a picture and you and your ex on facebook?
Q. Hi all, Me and ex g\f broke up about 3 months ago. We keep in touch every few weeks, just to say 'hi' and catch up. She does not want reconciliation Anyway, i have just logged onto Facebook and she has just posted a picture of me and her o...
A. 3 June 2008: well probably things are okay with u guys now and she thought it was okay to put ur pics up on facebook..and i think its okay to put your frens pics up on facebook right..so i dont think u should stress so much on that..its just a friendly gesture... (read in full...)
I got drunk and pregnant! Help help help!
Q. okai my friend invited me to her house party i said sure so that night i went.they were all drinking and my friend told me 2 take a lil so i did juz that little got me on it i got really but really drunk and the only thing i remember was a dude ...
A. 3 June 2008: ahhh first thing u should sew the guy for having sex with u without ur consent and knowing..secondly u have to tell your parents about it..only they can give u the best advise now..and for nxt time be careful!!there are a lot of people waiting to ... (read in full...)
This will be my first time, and I don't know where to start!
Q. i dont know wat to do this will be my first time and i dont know where to start. please please help....
A. 3 June 2008: well i guess ur too young to start anything sweety!!!!well yeah during this adoloscent period u would want to try new stuff but the wise thing to do is wait until u have the legal age to try everything...... (read in full...)
Why do people think we are stupid little girls if we fancy a teacher?
Q. i may sound VERY naive right know but i have to ask this question,why do so many of you call us stupid little girls for liking(loving) our teachers?? we cant chose who we love you know our heart does.what if we really do have feelings for them.and...
A. 1 June 2008: well teachers are to impart education to us students and not educate us on love..so it wouldnt be appropriate for a student to have feelings for a teacher ...of course its okay to admire a teacher for their work but crush fancying ehem ehem no ... (read in full...)
My 40 y-o bf wants me to move in with him, I'm 16 and scared my mum will cut me off if I do
Q. I've fallen in love with a 40 year old man. He's everything to me and makes me happier than i ever been. I'm only 16, so there is a 24 year age gap. My mum hates him and is making life at home hell. All i want to do is move out, to live with this ...
A. 1 June 2008: hey babe!!!ur 16 and he is 40 almost ur moms age i guess..of course ur mom would advise u to stay away from him..she is totally right!!!at 16 u wana move out leaving ur parents huh for a 40 year old..get bck to ur senses kid!!!listen to ur mom!!!and ... (read in full...)
I have no real friends. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. i have just realized i have no friends. There are people i hang out with at school and stuff but they are not REAL friends. and i feel extremely lonely. Since last moth i have become detached from people...i've stopped going out at the weekend ...
A. 17 May 2008: well i guess the same routine is buggin u..it does affect people at time..aww sweety don call ur self a loner..you can do so many things like join any club that interests u..any hobby??may be there u will find friends who are real..dont worry this ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is sulking because I didn't tell him the details of my exchange trip.
Q. HI.... I went for an exchange trip last year to europe. Three people from my class got selected and i was lucky enough to go. I used to like email my boyfriend everyday and tell him what i'd been doin and hat i saw and stuff... and i wrote a sp...
A. 17 May 2008: well hun i beleive that it was very sweet of u to make him a scrap book..and u handing it over to him definitely showed that u thought abt him all the while..well u havent done anything wrong,even if he is sulking u cant help it cuz he has no reason ... (read in full...)
7 months after the break-up I still want him back!
Q. I was in a 5 month relationship last year which was going really well. We talked loads about our future together. My boyfriend looked at possible building sites to build a house for us in the future! But then he changed jobs and went back to ...
A. 17 May 2008: well i beleive hun since he is busy and has no time for u..y do u want to run after him..even if u guys start seeing each other again..he wouldnt be able to give u the time of the day..is it okay with u..think about it...wouldnt u want someone to be ... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels but hes just got a girlfriend!
Q. I really need help, I like this boy who i met on a ski trip a couple of months ago, with a couple of friends, we did games like 21 truth and then he was asked who if he had to who to go out with etc. he chose me me n another girl both said him. I ...
A. 17 May 2008: well hun since he has a girlfriend i think u should let it go!!!they are plenty of fishes in the sea hun u may find some one better who is supercute plus single..y fuss over this one..... (read in full...)
He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend
Q. I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...
A. 9 May 2008: lol hun shave it off..doesnt that immature guy know that it can be shaved off...... (read in full...)
He says he is seriously falling for me but has a girlfriend? Where do I stand?
Q. Hey, I really don't know what to do anymore.. I've liked this guy for over a year and hes likes me too. We were seeing each other a lot last summer nearly every day, was amazing. Only problem is hes got a gf... he was with her all last summer too....
A. 8 May 2008: well hun i think he has to make up his mind..right now whatever he is saying doesnt matter that girl is still his girfriend and not u..he has to make a decision i think u shouldnt see a guy who has a girlfriend olready..put yourself in his ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend?
Q. is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend- or have a crush on them? by the way i am a girl and my best friend is a girl. help!...
A. 5 May 2008: well hun may be u have been with her for so long,probably its just the attachment that u have towards her is making u feel like that..its not bad to adore and respect your friends..there are different types of crushes..some crushes just last for day ... (read in full...)
I think I'm bi, but I feel I have no way to know
Q. This sounds so silly, but to put it bluntly, I am a sexually confused teenage girl. I have never been in a relationship, never actually done anything, shit, i haven't even had my first kiss yet.(can you say doofus?) But still I think I'm a sexual ...
A. 3 May 2008: well hun let me put it this way you have never been with a guy nor with a girl..so noone can decide for you if u are bi or a lesbian..u have to figure it out yourself..start dating guys first and see how it feels..your mature enough to figure out ... (read in full...)
Are we only friends who like to flirt?
Q. I'm friends with this guy, we both are in high school and I think we are just friends but lately I don't know anymore. -I make dirty jokes to him and he smiles and says you wish -His pupils do seem kinda big when we talk -He slaps me gently wh...
A. 3 May 2008: well hun of what you saying i figure that u guys are really good friends and yea may be you guys are in the beginning of something special..but i advice u guys remain the same way in front of your friends i dont get the point of u guys being mean ... (read in full...)
I was cheating, but can't I still get her to be friends with me?
Q. This might be long so let me apologize for that in the beginning. Well, I broke up with my girlfriend seven months ago. At first we were still trying to be friends. But then she hacked my mail account and read all my mails to these other girls. I...
A. 3 May 2008: well what you did to her was totally wrong..u broke her heart..so the best u can do for her right now is stay away from her..i dont think she would want to talk to you after you cheated on her..and when u had her with you..u dint realise her ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I'm a virgin?
Q. Hi I'm 20 years old and still a virgin I was wondering if I should tell my new bf now or wait and see where the relationship goes idont plan on staying a virgin forever I'm just waiting for the time to be right so please help me?...
A. 3 May 2008: well hun ur a virgin thats good..its up to u if u want to tell your boyfriend if you are a virgin or not!!!if he asks you then you tell him,he would eventually find out anyways!!!but m sure he would be impressed to hear thats his gf is a ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him?
Q. Hey guys im kinda freaking out cuz i want to have sex with this guy, im 13 and im still a virgin but really love him and he's so sexy lol, so GUYS should i give hima blowjob first? )give me advice to give a nice blowjob lol) and wat do guys like in ...
A. 3 May 2008: ahhh no luv your too young to have sex..u just turned a teen lol..so i think u should step back a bit hun..its fine to date guys have fun,flirt around but sex nah nah..not this early..u wouldnt want to hurry with sex and then regret later..as far as ... (read in full...)
My friends are so unpredictable towards me is this normal?
Q. me and my three friends used to be best friend. now one is my mortal enemy and the other one is still my friend. kinda. one day she treats me like trash and the next day shes really nice to me. i dont know if shes my friend or not. but tr...
A. 3 May 2008: well hun have a girls night out or sumthin or may be a slumber party call her over and tell her everything!!!i guess she likes u too but does not realise that sometimes her behaviour pisses u off..she tags along with u cause she thinks u guys are ... (read in full...)
Do the English think of my race as relationship material? Is the different background a hindrance?
Q. I am a fairly attractive Indian woman in mid twenties residing in England for good i guess. I am very focused at this point on my goals and career and have got friendly and positive approach in life in general. I am pretty much new in dating sc...
A. 3 May 2008: well hun i am british and my friend who is also british is dating this indian women for 2 years now..well thats all i have to say..if you are being hit by british men then nice,go ahead flirt back..have fun!!... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to kiss him at the party? I don't want to be seen as a slut!
Q. Hi i am going to a party tonight, and one of my lad friends is going. we were talking of going out last week, but decided our feelings were not strong enough. Anyway, we have both agreed that if the moment is right, then we might kiss tonight, but ...
A. 2 May 2008: hey hun its not appropriate for u to plan a kiss..it just happens at the moment..so don plan for one!!... (read in full...)
I wrote the girl of my dreams a song. Is it okay that I give it to her?
Q. I wrote the girl of my dreams a song and i plan on giving it to her today. I am really nervous that she is going to think its lame and think i am gay or something. She knows i am writing her one but she doesn't know it is about how great of a ...
A. 2 May 2008: lol hun thats so so sweet!!ur totally gorgeous..of course u should give it to her..she will love it...n love u even more to have such a caring boyfriend!!!... (read in full...)
Has anyone heard of linkng?
Q. What does linking mean? Recently, boys having asking me and my friends to link them and none of us know what they mean? At first, we thought it meant to snog but we are now unsure and we are really confused. Is there anybody who could actual...
A. 1 May 2008: lol link hun they actually mean hook them up with some hottie that u girls know as simple as that..for example..sam:hey tina would u link me with that chick over there..tina:do it yourself loser..haha just kiddin hun anyways link is hookin..... (read in full...)
He says he really likes me and insists that I do not forget him... but he is in a relationship already!...
Q. there is this guy i really like and he likes me to and was afraid to tell me so and i was supposed to be his girlfriend but this girl ask him to be her boyfriend and he told her yes.. even if he is with her he often told me that he loves me and he ...
A. 1 May 2008: well he likes you and u like him then whats the problem..this girl he is dating huh ask him to be a man and tell that girl that he cant be with her anymore..all this is just ruining three lives..may be that girl will be heart broken but we have no ... (read in full...)
I said awful things to my boyfriend. Should I just let it go even though I'm sorry?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend half a year ago and haven't spoken to him in a month. The thing is I said some awful things which I am ashamed of now. I had just found out that he had lied and cheated with lots of other girls the whole time we were...
A. 1 May 2008: well hun i dont think what u did was wrong..he was cheating with other girls and it totally hurt you..of course u said things to him cause u care for him and make him realise what he did was wrong..ur behaviour wasnt shoddy.anygirl in your place ... (read in full...)
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