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writes:Hi all,Me and ex g\f broke up about 3 months ago. We keep in touch every few weeks, just to say 'hi' and catch up. She does not want reconciliationAnyway, i have just logged onto Facebook and she has just posted a picture of me and her on there. The picture was taken at a party and we look really closeWhat is that all about? Why would you put a picture and you and your ex on facebook?any help appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): she is still probabally getting over you and has some feelings still for you..
and plus your still friends arent you..
so dont friends put pictures up of their friends??
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 well probably things are okay with u guys now and she thought it was okay to put ur pics up on facebook..and i think its okay to put your frens pics up on facebook right..so i dont think u should stress so much on that..its just a friendly gesture
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Okay, I guess I'm just pretty relaxed about the whole "ex" situation. Maybe she just thinks she looks good in the picture. Maybe she thinks that things have cooled down enough to where you can just be friends. Maybe she found it in her computer and said "oh, I might as well put this on Facebook too). Maybe she wants to look super popular.
If she doesn't want to get back together, I would assume that she still doesn't want to. I would wait it out for more solid evidence, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, babymamma626 +, writes (3 June 2008):
 I'd say she did it because you are still friends. But I've put pictures up of me and my exes because I thought I looked really good in the picture. You can't always help it if the ex is in the picture. Did she write a caption about the picture?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Since you're still in contact, that means that you still are friendly. She might have good memories of the relationship and you, even if the dating part is over. She may also have put it up to keep away unwanted online suitors.
I'm with Deema, be flattered but don't overanalyze just yet. You'll figure it out in time.
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reader, Deema +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Maybe she just wants to look as though she's got it all, so that she doesn't look like a billy no mates to all her friends or maybe she just likes that picture of you both as you look close, as you say. I think my first thought is the right one though. But whats wrong with having nice memories, better than being spiteful. Be flattered. You must be gorgeous and she wants to show you off, ex or not.
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reader, Ms. Intuition  +, writes (3 June 2008):
I can think of a few reasons. It might not seem like it to u, or she may say she doesnt want reconciliation but putting the photo up sorta implies that she does. She still wants to be associated with you. Are you getting involved with anyone else. She could be feeling territorial,altho u are not 2gether anymore.
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (3 June 2008):
possibly she likes how she looks in the picture... mayb she thinks you guys will get back together being that you still stay in touch...she might still have feelings for you...
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reader, Soysauce +, writes (3 June 2008):
she probably still feels somethin for you, or maybe shes trying to remember the good times?
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