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A request to all the young teens out there
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14 April 2009: well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...
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I said awful things to my boyfriend. Should I just let it go even though I'm sorry?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend half a year ago and haven't spoken to him in a month. The thing is I said some awful things which I am ashamed of now. I had just found out that he had lied and cheated with lots of other girls the whole time we were...
A. 1 May 2008: well hun i dont think what u did was wrong..he was cheating with other girls and it totally hurt you..of course u said things to him cause u care for him and make him realise what he did was wrong..ur behaviour wasnt shoddy.anygirl in your place ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl at school, but I've never had a relationship before, and not sure what to do.
Q. I am a 15 year old and i've never had a relationship. There's this girl I really like at school, but i'm not sure what to do....
A. 30 April 2008: hey hun..well first start off being friends..talk to her,may be some common interest as in music..once u get to know her ask her out for dinner..but dont make the whole deal 2 friendly or else she may only take you as a friend and not a boy ... (read in full...)
My period is late and I haven't had sex. Could I have a tumor?
Q. Ok well my last period was March 17-24 witch is my normal cycle I havent had sex I am still young but I watched a tv show and a girl have a brain tumor and missed her periods well now it is May 1st and I still didnt get my April period tumors dont...
A. 30 April 2008: hun don assume anything especially from tv shows..y dont u consult a gynecologist..she would tell u the exact reason..... (read in full...)
Is it ok to put a golf ball in your girlfriend's vagina? Just throwing that out there....
Q. is it ok to put a golf ball in you girlfriends vagina and the have sex with it still in there and when your done swollow it?...
A. 30 April 2008: lol a golf ball dont u want to use the stick 2..when ur trying to swallow on the ball and don succeed u can use the stick to flush it down your throat..man ur crazy..is this a real post i doubt..... (read in full...)
Is it OK for girls to look at gay porn?
Q. is it ok for girls to look at gay porn? my parents said being gay was a sin but i like watching the men in the porn and i am worried for hell. also all my guy friends watch porn but say its not right for girls to watch it so am i weird?...
A. 30 April 2008: of course its okay hun..dont guys love watching lesbian porn most of them do..so girls can do it 2..its fine don even worry about it..... (read in full...)
How can I get a boyfriend without being too forward? Please help I am so lonely.
Q. I am 17 years old and i have never had a serious relationship with a boy. My friends tell me i am stunning and they don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend they think its because boys are intimidated by me wich i find hard to believe. I am ...
A. 30 April 2008: well hun i have the same problem..they think we have a lot of attitude and we are loking for someone overly gorgeous they beleive that they wouldnt match to our standard....which isnt true cuz i beleive even we want someone to hang out with ..i ... (read in full...)
He hardly talks to me on his own. The relationship is going downhill, as his school results!... What to do?
Q. HI... I'm sure youi get like a million letters with the same problem as i seem to be havin, but that doesnt change the fact that it makes you feel pretty much miserable. Well.. here goes... My boyfriend and i have been together for two and a half y...
A. 30 April 2008: well hun i guess he feels a little inferior since u topped and he failed..well right now i think he needs his space the more u run after him the more far away he will go..leave him alone but get updated from his friends on how he is doin and whats ... (read in full...)
I have a fear of rejection, so how do I make a move on some one I like?
Q. How do I make a move on a girl I like??? I have a fear of rejection. In the past few months, some mutual female friends have told me there is a girl who fights over me with another girl. They've also tried to get me to go to some sort of formal w...
A. 30 April 2008: wow hun u are in good situation here..u know that a girl totally likes u..y are u not making a step then..what fear of rejection are u talkin about when u totally know that she has fallen head over heels for u..be bold u dont need a party or some ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to overcome my nervousness just to talk to her?
Q. I like this girl at school and I've talked with her a few times however, I started noticing that I really liked her a few months ago and since then, it's really been getting hard to try and make the leap forward to trying to talk to her. The few ...
A. 30 April 2008: well hun c u have a clear signal..since she is shy she will speak to selected people who she is comfortable with and u are 1 among them..so go ahead talk to her,she isnt shy with u right,forget all the nervousness and ask her out..may be she wants ... (read in full...)
My ex broke up with me when I revealed my secret, I'm not handling it very well, help!
Q. i dont want to stop loving my ex. we broke up a month ago i really believed we were perfect together, best friends but i kept a secret from him for a year. last year his friend tried it on with me but i said no. i knew this would hurt my bf so i ...
A. 30 April 2008: aww hun..well u should have made up your mind if u wanted to tell him or dint..i can understand u dint want to hurt him but u should have also thought how much it would hurt him once he gets to know the truth..all u have to do now is keep tryin and ... (read in full...)
I flirted with his enemy to see if he likes me, now he's giving me sad puppy eyes. Did my plan work?
Q. im 14 i like this guy ..and his friend told me dat the guy i like only likes me as a friend ... i dont get it ... now i did a mission to see if he likes me i flirted with his enemy and his enemy knew because i told him too ..so we were both laughin ...
A. 29 April 2008: well i guess may be he is just jealous the fact that a girl who used to like him is now after his so called ENEMY..since he likes u as a friend he dint like the fact that u are hanging out with his enemy..... (read in full...)
Smart / casual dressing style for a nightclub, any suggestions?
Q. Hey Guys Im 22 Years and have been invited to a nightclub, By a friend My ex is usually there this is not a issue because we are on good terms but i really would like to look nice, The dress code is smart/causal. I would like a dress or top in a...
A. 29 April 2008: well i think u should go in for a tube top with a high belt like a big buckle belt with skinny jeans and really high stilletoes..its sexy yet not over the top..or u can also wear a corset with jeans..night club its preferable to wear jeans but the ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if my partner had a vasectomy done?
Q. Can I get pregnant even when my partner had a vasectomy 8 years ago? He did not go back for any tests??...
A. 29 April 2008: no hun vasectomy,i don think so cause the vas deferns are cut and ends ligated so i guess not..consult a gynacoelogist though!!y risk it... (read in full...)
Why do I get so turned on by the girls in the films?
Q. Me and my boyfriend often watch porn together.. But I seem to get turned on by girls in the films, my boyfriend says its proberly because I like what the guys doing to them, but I give it way too much thought and end up dreaming about it, it wor...
A. 29 April 2008: well hun u have answered your question right there U DONT WANT TO DO THINGS WITH WOMEN..so y worry!!its normal to get turned on at ur age..your young just enjoy dont think too much about it!!... (read in full...)
I feel guilty that during the while he left me alone I had online sex chats, what should I do?
Q. hi guys.wud like to keep it as short as possible.i am 19 yrs dating this guy(28yrs)for 1 yr now. I love him and he has been loyal to me but we never had satisfied relationship.we both live in two differnt cities and last we met was 3 months ago....
A. 29 April 2008: well forget the online chats u did it because u were lonely!!!its fine everyone makes mistakes after all we are humans!!!so now just work on your relationship with your bf..all the best hun... (read in full...)
Difference between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits and what do you think of the whole thing?
Q. My friends and I were talking and she said she had "a friend with benefits". I said "So you have a fuck buddy?" And she said, they were different things? Cant someone explain the difference to me between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits ...
A. 29 April 2008: well fuck buddy is one u can have sex with like anywhere and anytime ..u dont even need to plan out!!where as friends with benefits are the people u can relate to when u have problems and u can assure they will be there for you.... (read in full...)
I think my sister in law wants me and I want her to!
Q. My sister in law has become a lot more sentual around me as of late. in ten years never have we even dicussed sex, and yesterday my wife told me that she wanted me to go with her shopping. we went to go get her a new dildo.so my question is should ...
A. 27 April 2008: dont even think about it..she is your wifes sister hun..its a big no no!!!... (read in full...)
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Q. Been a while since we had a video update. Anyone interested in being able to post their replies to the site as YouTube videos??...
A. 27 April 2008: hey andrew it was nice to see the genius behind this site lol..love ur work!!!... (read in full...)
I liken her alot more than she likes me
Q. okay so basically i have been on and off with this girl. im taking her to junior prom . the thing is that i feel like i like her so much more then she likes me, and she treats me like shit. I want to be exclusive with her but she is hinting to me ...
A. 27 April 2008: well hun and your still thinkin about being with her huh..u deserve much more than this..some one who loves you as much as you do..take a step back and tell her that u dont deserve to be treated that way and ask her to step up to it if no then she ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin, should I shave down below for my first time?
Q. ok so im 13 and this will be my first time having sex me and my b/f are want to have sex and i just dont know if i should shave "down there" or not. and i dont want to be emberessed...
A. 27 April 2008: well hun ur too young for sexx..anyways have it safe lol..and as for your question some guys like it clean some like it natural..so it depends on how your guy likes it..if u dont want to shave then dont!!! u can d it later when your older..y rush ... (read in full...)
If you had a bf/gf who was shy around your friends (but not you) would you be annoyed/upset?
Q. My question is if you had a bf/gf who was shy around your friends (but not you) would you be annoyed/upset? And would you go as far as dumping them because your friends didnt approve of your gf/bf due to their shyness? Ive only had two bfs and ...
A. 26 April 2008: hey hun to be frank guys like showing off their girlfriends especially in front of their friends..u know just go flaunting..well maybe he wanted you to mingle with everyone,so that his friends realise how much fun and nice your are..the fact that ... (read in full...)
Please I need your help to ask this guy out?
Q. i like this guy. but we've never talked, he always look at me . it seems he likes me too. but i don't know what to do. i tried once to ask him out but i was shy. i don't know what to tell him. please i need your help. ...
A. 26 April 2008: hey hun..well i think u should talk to him..if u have common friends it would be even better..may be get introduced through friends..even in my school there is this guy who i think is interested in me because i catch him looking at me and when i ... (read in full...)
Does my crush at school like me or is he just flirting to be friendly?
Q. There i this boy I know and I used to have a crush on him. He is known around school to like other people and he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me alot like he will say playful things about kissing and sex. He also asks questions about my ...
A. 23 April 2008: well hun by what to you say he is totally hitting on you..this is how it all starts..h however there is nothing wrong in talking to him or being friends he is single anyways..may be things will work out for you both!!... (read in full...)
I want to tell my ex I'm pregnant but I'm scared....he calls me bad names and has a new girlfriend!
Q. My bf and me are no longer together and i am pregnant what should i do i dont want to tell him but i need help i am 4 months and i didnt even know he has a new gf and she dislikes me. he phones me up some times telling me how much he loves me and ...
A. 23 April 2008: well hun your ex boyfriend seems to be going through some trauma or else he wouldnt express his love one second and then call u a whore the very next minute..he seems confused..but since its his baby,u need to tell him,he has to own up to it..talk ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my mom's cousin! I think he likes me.
Q. I dont know what to do.I have a crush on my mum's cousin.He isnt much older than me.Should i tell him how i feel or not ?. He has smiled alot at me, asked if i have a boyfriend afew times, danced with me at a party and bought me a drink, and he ha...
A. 23 April 2008: well its fine to have a crush on him hun but dont assume anything until your sure of it..since u said u dont see him to much then why hurry..may be when u meet him next time at a family party or gathering just try talking to me casually and see how ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready to lose virginity yet because I'm waiting for marriage but the girls I hang with all think I'm weird
Q. im 19 yrs almost 20yrs very attractive well educated n sexy.n guys do think im well pretty..so i do get guys...but im still a virgin..im not ready to loose it yet because im waiting for marriage but the girls i hang with all think im weird..and when ...
A. 22 April 2008: well hun i am your age too and still a virgin where as none of my friends are..i chose to be virgin not that i couldnt lose my virginity!!i have got the guys i wanted since school but its just that i am not ready!!so if your friends want to have sex ... (read in full...)
How would I ask a complete stranger out?
Q. How would i ask a complete stranger out? Like say going through the line at a grocery store and having a attractive girl ringing you out, in my experience putting them on the spot by saying "want to hang out sometime?" usually they get nervous...
A. 22 April 2008: well handing out your number to the girl would seem too desperate!!just start talkin to her casually and ask her if she comes here often..if she says yes then take it slow,u can ask her out the next time u see her..if no then ask her directly if she ... (read in full...)
Do guys who keep telling you they are busy just trying to avoid you?
Q. hey, i do not get my boy friend for 5 days b/s of that he told me that he is always busy. what shall i do? and what does he really mean that he is always busy? 10q...
A. 22 April 2008: well hun sometimes they really are!!!and we girls tend to think that they are lying..well i think it depends on what profession your boyfriend is in..if he isnto buisness or working for someone definitely he must be busy..so dont worry.if he is busy ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my cousin I want the sex to stop?
Q. Well i'm going to start off at my cousin's house. One night me and him began doing sexual things to each other, i know it's gross but i was scared to tell him "no". When he comes around like at family get together's - i feel nervous when he even ...
A. 21 April 2008: well hun just be honest with him..tell him that whatever u guys did was wrong and u want to put an end to it..u have to talk to him,he cant read your mind right..u have to be bold enough now..since the relationship u had with him was a mutual one,i ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I might lose everyone due to my jealousy! How can I stop?
Q. Would it me so hard for me to get rid of my jealousy. Cause I'm a very, and very jealous and I get jealous I'm like a different person, it makes me try to control my friends and specially my bouyfriend. And I'm afraid because of my jealousy I might ...
A. 21 April 2008: well hun what are u jealous about..when u stop finding faults in your self and stop comparing yourself to others thats when jealousy ends!!!stay calm..girls usually have this jealousy feeling in them,its normal but too much of it just causes pain ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I wonder if he's been teased for liking me, as I'm not popular in college, so could it work out?
Q. Hey ok ive never had a bf before but to be hoenst never really wanted one. But i seriously love this lad who i'm friends with now theres times which are most of the time i just long to be with him but i also think he may like me back(me and a friend ...
A. 20 April 2008: well u know hun opposites attracts..so be the way you are..if they are sparks then fine otherwise just move on!!for continue being friends,be flirty and try lookin as hot as u can when u are with him lol... (read in full...)
Did I rape her? She told me "no" in her usual playful way only half-way through the act(?)
Q. Me and my gf split 3 months ago but we had sex 3 days ago we both wanted it and i woke up 2 her the next morning she was crying saying that i had raped her she never told me to stop untill half way through and it was in her playful way the way she ...
A. 20 April 2008: well the girl seems to be crazy!!if she would want you to stop she could have said more clearly or just pushed you away!!may be she wants you back and only way she can do it is the whole rape thingy!!!dont be scared of it,she would do nothing.and ... (read in full...)
They both raped me and he still won't leave me alone.
Q. I had been dating this guy for a year, until about 3 months ago i broke up with him. He instantly started calling and harrassing me, asking me why I broke up with him and telling that he loved me and that he wanted me back. I told him it was over ...
A. 20 April 2008: what !!he says he loves u and then comes over and rapes u,even worse he let his buddy do that..dude wake up go to the police,if u dont take any action it will continue,its already out of hand..u need to stop the jerks..... (read in full...)
All these signs - does he like me?
Q. I asked him out 9 months ago. He’s shy and is in the popular group but is really focused on his studies.He said 2 days later that it was too close to exams but maybe after them thanx for asking. After summer he was showing loads of signs that he was ...
A. 20 April 2008: omg hun trust me i am in the same freakin situation as u are..the guy who i have a crush on is also shy and is in the popular group but extremely focussed on studies,he also looks at me.smiles and shit but has never spoken to me directly neither ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or did my friend imagine it?
Q. hey everyone.. i have a problem.. there is this guy who comes to my place everyday to help my father and play with my kid brother..he's been coming for 6 whole months and i never noticed him.. one day a friend of mine came to my place when he wa...
A. 19 April 2008: hey hun u dont have to do anything..he is not molesting you or something right!!!lol..so what if he looks at you or jokes with u..all guys do that with girls!!its normal..have fun like he does..if u r not interested then fine,he cant do anything ... (read in full...)
Should I be at boyfriends all-male surprise birthday party I've arranged?
Q. I want to throw a surprise birthday weekend for my boyfriend, but the problem is that all of his friends are male. Some of his friends are married, but the wives will not be able to come because of small children they have to look after (his ...
A. 17 April 2008: well hun i think you shoudnt be there with the guys like the whole time..let him have his boys night out!!!just be there for a while,set the cake,dinner and everything..wish him happy birthday let him cut his cake and give him a deep kiss in a way ... (read in full...)
When she is alone I talk to her with no problem, but how do I overcome my shyness when she is accompanied?
Q. A couple of weeks ago i made out with this girl i really like, and then a week later i asked her out and she agreed. The date went well i think, but we didn't make out or anything, but she did put her head on my shoulder during the movie a couple of ...
A. 16 April 2008: well hun my ex boyfriend did the same thing to me lol..and i used to always wonder why the hell is he doing this and at one point of time i got really pissed and dint respond to his messages so he finally gathered up courage and came to me in school ... (read in full...)
My friend is going to ask the boy I like to go out with me, I'm so nervous about this situation!
Q. Hey !! I need some advice . My very good close friend is going to ask the guy I like to go out with me and I'm totally nervous and scared .... he's showed signs that he liked me but I'm still not sure .... she thinks that he does but ...IDK .... ...
A. 13 April 2008: well i am in a situtaion like you,actually all my friend think that this guy likes me but i dont want to accept it..but i wouldnt want my friend to go ask him out,it may just freak him out,its better we start talking first and then try askin him ... (read in full...)
He told me to wait a MONTH after I asked him out! In the meantime, he's dating someone else!
Q. hey guys.... i am absuluty head over heals in love with this guy.... i asked him out...and he said to wait a month. So i waited.... and then he starts dating this other chick... who i really hate!!!! What should i do????? He looks at me in class and ...
A. 13 April 2008: omg you are even thinkin what should you do..please sweet heart move on..u asked a guy out and he said wait a month then and there u should have maintained the disatnce..if he was decent enough and dint like you he should have told you that he ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to realise that I want a mature relatioship?
Q. I'm in love with him sooooooo much. And now that things have settled down since he dumped me i know if i asked him out he would say yes. But there are 2 issues... 1.If people ever found out,because we have been out before and of the rumours we w...
A. 13 April 2008: well hun i dont get the guy why the hell should he care even if you guys are teased in school..he is being teased with one of his best girl friends or rather the person he likes the most not some bitch right..so you should first ask him to grow up ... (read in full...)
We don't seem to have much in common....will it still work?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with my bf. Lately, I have been feeling that maybe we are just not there yet. I have always dreamt of having a perfect relationship where he would propose to me, get marry, have childrens, etc. I always wanted ...
A. 12 April 2008: well over here all your saying is how much u want him to do for you have u ever thought from his point of you too, even he must be having certain expectations from his girl are u standing up to it all..if yes!!!then he is really lucky to have ... (read in full...)
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