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writes:This sounds so silly, but to put it bluntly, I am a sexually confused teenage girl. I have never been in a relationship, never actually done anything, shit, i haven't even had my first kiss yet.(can you say doofus?) But still I think I'm a sexual person without being sexually active in any way.I drool over hot boys just like my friends, but within the past couple years I think I've started to look at girls too. Soooo, i think i'm bi. but like i said i don't have any experience to actually know. for all i know i could be a lesbian and hate a guy's touch. i think anything anyone has to say would be helpful. my parents don't really care about my sexual preferences, but it's not like they're going to give me advice about it.
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reader, Angel Baby +, writes (11 May 2008):
Hey girlie!! Well, I am bisexual. I know exactly what you are going through, I was there at one point. I think you should do what feels right to you. But, if you've never really done anything with anyone, there's not exactly a way to know. I'm not telling you to go out and have sex with someone, but maybe experiment, ONLY if you are ready. Or just think about it; do you get turned on when you think of another girl touching you in certain sexual ways??? If you need anymore help, I'm here for you. Message me if you'd like!!!
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reader, Nibblet +, writes (4 May 2008):
 You dont have to be with a girl to find out if if you like them, i personally think that your born with it. ask yourself this do you see yourself with a girl? or a guy? or both? I t6hink you should experiment date some girls and guys and find out what you like, just follow your heart!
Good Luck!!!
message me if you want to talk.
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reader, Hope_123  + ♥, writes (4 May 2008):
 i think it's good that u have uni next year.. it's not a bad thing to not know before then! It'll be a great place to really figure yourself out.. you'll meet loads of new guys and girls and you can experiment all u like there! U don't ever need to label yourself.. just follow your heart and feelings :-) give it a few years to decide who u r still.
Feel free to private message me! And good luck :-)
xx Hope xx
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (3 May 2008):
 well hun let me put it this way you have never been with a guy nor with a girl..so noone can decide for you if u are bi or a lesbian..u have to figure it out yourself..start dating guys first and see how it feels..your mature enough to figure out what u want!!
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reader, rachhbabes +, writes (3 May 2008):
i think you should maybe wait a bit, until your entirely sure. maybe find a guy that likes you, and flirt with him a bit, see if he flirts back and if you like it. but i suppose that wont tell you if your bi or not it'll just tell you if your a lesbian or not. lots of teenagers go through being confused about their sexuality. its not un natural. you maybe just need to experiment a bit until your sure.hope all goes well :)x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): i just feel like i want to figure myself out before university next year. don't want to have to deal with new life changes and identity at the same time.
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