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A request to all the young teens out there
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14 April 2009: well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...
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Should I keep seeing this guy? He doesn't contact me for 4 days and then addresses me by my friend's name?
Q. Not sure if I should see this guy again. (Or maybe I expect too much) I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. It is very casual. He has shown interest in me. He would text every two days or so which is fine with me. This week he didn't ...
A. 22 March 2013: Well OP, you'v clearly shown him that you like him and want to spend time with him,whether you like it or not the ball in his court! Now calling you by your friends name? It might be a slip up but I would get a little annoyed..! So I don't blame yo... (read in full...)
Shall I give into guilt and tell my beloved? That I kissed a few times with a boy when I was younger? Or how can I deal with my feelings on this?
Q. I was in a relation for 3 years with a guy, and i thought i loved him.. True love type of love, but I was too young and went with the flow did wrong things like inviting him home when no one was around. We kissed a couple of times.. But eventual...
A. 20 March 2013: OP, Dating,first kiss,first love its all part of growing up!your answerable to noone but yourself about who kissed!its really a 'small'thing OP!!the more you think about it the more complicated its going to get!now your bf knows that you had an e... (read in full...)
I am afraid of letting my family know about my relationship as previously there had been problems.
Q. i am 22 and in a relationship for 2 years now. We are in the same college and see each other very often. But we never really hang out elsewhere. We both really want to but my mom doesn't know about this relation and something bad happened with my ...
A. 20 March 2013: Well if ur not ready to share this with your mom yet that's completely fine for now OP, cause your just going on a date with a guy,your 22 you can make your own decisions,you know what's right and wrong,you know your limits..when you think the ... (read in full...)
I am afraid of letting my family know about my relationship as previously there had been problems.
Q. i am 22 and in a relationship for 2 years now. We are in the same college and see each other very often. But we never really hang out elsewhere. We both really want to but my mom doesn't know about this relation and something bad happened with my ...
A. 19 March 2013: OP,
Your past is definitely affecting your future,I don't know what happened in your previous relationship but you have to let go if you want to build a new relationship,because right now your boyfriend is bearing the brunt and that's unfair to him!... (read in full...)
Swept off my feet to be dropped on my butt
Q. Am I insane? I met a guy on match.com. We messaged eachother at the same time. He was stationed in afghanistan and would be home in two months. He was in special forces (i won't say what but it is pretty badass). we exchanged texts and emails d...
A. 19 March 2013: To begin with OP this guy was never looking for something serious,it looks like he wanted to have his share of fun and he found a scape goat!! Its not you be it any other girl he would have done the same cause this man was not looking for a relation... (read in full...)
Drama, back stabbing comments, rumour-mongering. Ever suffered any of this? So fed up with it, should I just give up on trying to be friends with girls?
Q. Hello everyone, I have had a couple of issues for a long time, well, throughout my whole teenage life to be honest with you. I am a 19 year old female. This is going to be a long post so please read on, and bear with me. My problem is I cannot...
A. 16 March 2013: Hey OP,
I'l be honest with you I have faced a lot of drama myself..but that's a part of life I guess,u can't escape it,it comes shooting back at you!
But then as the years pass by you meet some genuinely nice girls may be at work or differen... (read in full...)
Help! I'm confused - have I done the right thing? If I call him again what should I say to him?
Q. I recently met a guy from a dating site, we hit it off straight away. He lived in another state but was moving home to my state within a week. We spoke in the phone for about 9 hours in the first 3 days and the day he came home we caught up tha...
A. 12 March 2013: You seem to really like this guy OP! so he told a lie which is unexceptable given your just getting to know each other and would jump to conclusions real fast! having said that can u get past this lie? If yes then you should have a one on one conv... (read in full...)
IS this modeling agency on the up and up? They asked me do do some rather risque things?
Q. hi, im really stuck! i need help. i have been contacted by a modeling agency asking if im interested in modeling. i am and i always have been i would love to be a model. The only thing is she told me i had to do my audition on skype on a web cam in ...
A. 5 March 2013: Oh my from what I hear,this sounds like a scam!u should definitely report this company,if not ask them to give you definite proof of the modelling agency!please don't do risque things,you never know who these people are!... (read in full...)
All my boyfriend does is sleep, and I'm getting upset?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I'm a senior and he's a college freshman. We spend time together, but most of that time is spent sleeping. For example, we'll be skyping at 10pm usually, but he'll go to bed around 11-12...
A. 4 March 2013: I think he needs to fix his schedule..skype-sleep-school-skype-sleep..soo boring!he needs to spruce up his life a little..
Instead of waking up and going to school,how about he goes for a walk in the morning or hit the gym a little later in the even... (read in full...)
I don't think my friend wants to be friends anymore he doesn't seem to care about me now
Q. hi, i have a friendship problem. recently ther were many difrerences and problems with my best friend followed by a big quarrel but everything was sorted out by a mutual friend. but still thing are not the same, recently i had been in two accident...
A. 4 March 2013: Fights are common between friends,sometimes you sort things out but sometimes it gets bitter while some decide to stay away for the better.. Now why don't you have a one on one conversation with a friend and ask him 'if there's anything he needs to ... (read in full...)
Is my relationship to a married female coworker too close?
Q. Hi all, I'm a 26 year old single male and there's a female married coworker (a newly wed) a couple of years older than me. We have become good friends and we call each other BFFs. We have lunch together alone pretty much everyday and always sit n...
A. 2 March 2013: What are you worried about? That if you spend more time with her you may start liking her.. There might be a possibility that might happen,but you need to know she's married,she has a loving husband who has met you and trusts you enough to let his ... (read in full...)
How can I get my mother to let me stay with my boyfriend at his father's house?
Q. Hi!! Well I'm 19 years old, I'll be 20 in few months, and my bf of 2 years is 22 and we both attend to the same college. My mother has always been overprotective, and she's very strict with permissions. Maybe you'd say I'm old enough to decide w...
A. 2 March 2013: Some mothers are very conservative,traditional and orthodox..they usually just hand over their decisions to you rather than discussing your options..so here's what you can do either 1)You talk to your mom tell her,I think I'm old enough to make my ... (read in full...)
I'm really attracted to my gym instructor. How should I proceed?
Q. Hi All yes i am sure you have heard it all before. but heres my story. I joined a gym new years resolution and all the rest and as part of that I had to do an induction, turns out the guy who took me on this was really cool and I was attracted...
A. 2 March 2013: So you have a little crush on your gym instructor?!nothing wrong in that!
So before you ask him out you need to know if he's dating,you can do this by asking him directly but in a nonchalante way like 'hey you seem to be working at the gym for long... (read in full...)
My annoying brother is clinging to mum....
Q. Dear cupid im not sure if this is the right place to share my worries but since i have been here before and have gotten relationship advice before i feel this is the best place to speak my heart out. Right now im studying part time and only at...
A. 15 February 2013: I understand where your coming from..and its really wierd coming from a 25 year old,may be since he's home all day and bored just wants to spend quality time with your mom! I think first off you should talk to your mom and tell her that now you don'... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong? A friend had feelings for him. But he wasn't interested. Months later I went out with him. Now everyone is mad at me.
Q. I am 22 and in my final year of university. I have been living with the same group of girls since first year, and one of them had a crush on a guy who lived in our halls when she first met him. He didn't return her feelings, which she knew. ...
A. 11 February 2013: I think your girlfriend is being petty mostly she's just jealous she fancied him,he dint reciprocate but you have him,its yet to digest..I think its better you stay away from this girl,you don't need all this negativity when you have sucha a special ... (read in full...)
Our dates went well, he was interested in seeing me, and now he's been ignoring me for 2 weeks?
Q. To cut things short, I was dating this guy I met at my uni.. We weren't seeing each other for long, we met, he got my number, we spoke on whatsapp for a week or so and then decided to meet up. We saw each other three times. We went out to dinn...
A. 11 February 2013: If a man can't man up and tell you what exactly he feels and leave you out there just like that,wouldn't be man enough to care for you even!
I think you should stop wasting time on this dweeb,whose enjoying the attention your giving him by text... (read in full...)
My boyfriend makes plans and then can't keep them claiming that he has forgotten. This happens all the time!
Q. I am 27 and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. The problem is he always forgets about plans we make and ends up cancelling on me at the last minute. For example, months ago we were invited out to a meal for my friend's birthday which is ...
A. 3 February 2013: I'l tell you from personal experience I knew a guy exactly like this..
He was dating my best friend,he would make plans,the girl would get all dolled up waiting for him and he would cancel or say something came up!but whenever she made plans with... (read in full...)
Date night with boyfriend turned into a lads night out. Should I be upset?
Q. I'd like an outside opinion on this if possible please. My boyfriend and I only see each other once or twice per week max due to our working schedules. We had arranged to go on a date night to the cinema tonight after he finished work. However, he ...
A. 3 February 2013: I'l just put it in this way!you said the both of you have a very hectic schedules and he's free on weekends!so here's the thing he has his girlfriend and his boymates,I'm sure he doesn't intend to make you feel neglected or left out,but boys will be ... (read in full...)
Why do people have to make comments that are hurtful?
Q. Dear Cupid, The other night I was talking to this guy that I know fairly well but is still considered an acquaintance. We were texting and he asked "why do you wear so much makeup? Not to say you look bad but i'm sure you're pretty naturally...
A. 30 January 2013: People always have something to say
'Your chubby'
Your wayy too skinny'
'This dress is wayy too tight'
Who cares?let them talk..!what's important is you should be happy with what you are,and how you look..people who really care about you will g... (read in full...)
My ex keeps texting me wanting an explanation for why I broke up with him
Q. My ex boyfriend and I broke up October last year, but it was a long drawn out process of being off and on since April. He cheated on me back then and I still loved him but couldn't trust him, realised I needed some space. Eventually when we done ...
A. 23 January 2013: You're acting like the victim when it's not you but your ex boyfriend..you have moved on well good for you, but your boyfriend needs closure as simple as that! So you need to go to him straight up tell him why you dumped him and you have moved on ... (read in full...)
An affair that I never wanted to begin ended badly. I am shocked to the core at how he could do this to me!
Q. I understand that I will be judged for what I am about to ask, but please understand that nothing that can be said is comparable to the guilt and pain I am putting myself through. I had a male friend for about 2 years with whom I went to school. ...
A. 21 January 2013: Well I think it was important for him to convince you to get into this relationship as you clearly stated that you wouldn't be the 'other woman' now he planned accordingly first to convince you how real he was, how damaged his marriage was and to ... (read in full...)
Can you trust a man who just lied to you about who he is? I feel like we are meant to be. Am I fooling myself?
Q. OK.. today I learned that the man I was dating in a LDR lied to me about who he was, where he was from, etc... he ended the relationship 2 months ago but he has been in contact with me over these two months because he said he really misses me and ...
A. 18 November 2012: Run run as fast as you can in the opposite direction..
How can a man not tell you,rather hide such an important aspect of his life..
If he really liked you he could have told you the truth and let you decide what you wanted to do after but what he ... (read in full...)
Does anyone else have this problem where you're really good friends with someone one day, and the next day you wish you weren't?
Q. Like, I will be the first to admit that I love making online friends. It's so much easier to communicate, and there's no judgement in between. It's fun, right? But there's one guy I'm friends with. I've been online friends with him for about... 7 ...
A. 30 October 2012: Not usual but they do happen.!it happens with me..I know this someone who I have been friends for a pretty long time and there are up's and down's but you know end of the day iirrespective your going to be there for that person if they need you and ... (read in full...)
What do you think she's up to?
Q. So I dated my ex for 5 months, and everything was great except for a few really bad arguments. I wasnt committing to her, because i thought it was too early and wanted us to take our time, and she wound up breaking up with me. I realized i really w...
A. 30 September 2012: Well this sounds like a game to me 'who gets to be the one to dump?'..when you were dumped your ego was hurt you fought to have her back,and then you dumped her for 'important reasons' as you say,and then you both got back together. I think first of... (read in full...)
I like a girl but she ignores me completely!
Q. I met this girl while attending 2 weeks program,and i really liked her.We used to talk sometimes in class.She asked me to draw her a portrait when she came to know i draw good.Then i asked i wanted something in return like going out for cafe or ...
A. 17 September 2012: Oh wow you just pushed it tooo hard..you dint give the girl a chance to act,you were constantly harrowing her with your unrending phonecalls,texts,fb messages..
What could have done is once you gave her sketch and the letter and later that day you ... (read in full...)
I thought she was interested but now I haven't heard from her in days. What now?
Q. So I met this girl and got her number. I called her up a few days later and left her a voicemail about getting together. Almost two days passed and I didn't hear from her and then she texted me. We set up a date for the next week. It went extremely ...
A. 13 September 2012: I think chris C now you need to step back,u sent her a voicelmail err 2 voicemails well now its her turn to get back to you..there might be a possibility of her just playing hard to get,may be she doesn't want to come out too easy,but if u keep ... (read in full...)
He offered me sex instead of a relationship!
Q. Should I be insulted that a guy Ive liked for a while has asked me to be his FWB or 'fuck buddy'? He says he doesnt want a relationship but wants to be more than friends. Im shocked and dont know what to say! Im 29 and hes 28, Im looking for a ...
A. 2 September 2012: I don't think you could put it in a better way!!'Sageoldguy has given a very good answer..... (read in full...)
How do I convince my brother to give up on being a lawyer?
Q. My brother wants to be a lawyer I doubt that he can become a lawyer because he did so poorly in highschool. No one in the family has ever become a lawyer or doctor so why does he even try He signed up for community college. He study's all da...
A. 27 August 2012: Wow your brother is soo ambitious..you should be proud of him taking the courage to follow his dreams..whether he succeeds or not he will never regret anything..if I were you I would encourage and motivate him..
I know a friend he barely scra... (read in full...)
I need to study and I don't know how!
Q. I don't know how to study and i'm facing great exam next year, my problem is that when i'm studying i wont understand what i'm read, i will just be looking at the book, without understanding anything. please tell me what to do....
A. 27 August 2012: 1)Manage your time. Make a weekly schedule and devote a certain amount of time per day to studying. This will improve your grades also. That amount will vary depending on whether you're in high school or college, and also varies by field of study. ... (read in full...)
I met my soul mate online but he just broke up with me via text because his mom told him to!
Q. Dear Cupids I am at my lowest point ever I hope you can understand everything I have to say , and would really like your opinions of how to go about this. I met this guy online ( i know I was also one of the ones that said never ...
A. 25 August 2012: Well the mother hasn't met you,the mother doesn't know you..so for his mom your just this 'online girl' her son met and she's afraid it would break his son's heart!
Where as this guy knows you,he has met you so rather than just going by what his ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of my friend.
Q. hey so i have a friend (for 9 years) she is cool pretty an djust plain lovely but i hate her guts and dont even know why im so jelious of her she has never been a threat she always does what i do after i do and better at it than my so i have done ...
A. 23 August 2012: First off why do you hate her guts??does she put your down and claim what she has done is the best!
If you have been friends for this long I'm sure there was something there,at your age,jealousy is a common feeling but it will eventually go away... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 22 August 2012: Well everyone experiences failures,but you need to stand up,be brave and face them..its part and parcel of life..never give up..you rather seem disinterested about everything,be it college or work,your a young girl you should really keen and ... (read in full...)
I'm upset that my boyfriend didn't get me anything for my birthday
Q. I'm kind of bothered by the fact that my boyfriend didn't care to get me anything for my birthday. I'm not materialistic and I don't really want any specific item but like the saying goes, "It's the thought that counts" and I feel like he didn't p...
A. 22 August 2012: I don't agree with 'so very confused'..just because he dint buy her a gift you can't really say why in the world she's sticking to him.. Well I totally agree its the thought that counts and its very inconsiderate of your boyfriend to not make you... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my aunt?
Q. Hey I'm 19 years old and I live with my aunt and she strict and mean. I am in college the only one in fact but she disapproves , I'm paying for school my self so it's no money out get pockets. And the problem is she never lets me do anything like u ...
A. 22 August 2012: I think your aunt most of all needs help like physchiatric help,which I am sure you would suggest she would never listen..I can't believe in this day and age people can get soo abusive..
I know you said your mom dint want to keep any of her kids... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my aunt?
Q. Hey I'm 19 years old and I live with my aunt and she strict and mean. I am in college the only one in fact but she disapproves , I'm paying for school my self so it's no money out get pockets. And the problem is she never lets me do anything like u ...
A. 22 August 2012: Wow this reminds me of 'cindrella story' which stars hillary duff..
Why do you live with your aunt again?you'v not mentioned about your parents..
Before you can settle in and find a job and move out do you have a relative that you could live wit... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 22 August 2012: Depends what kind of jobs your looking for??waiting tables,working at a supermarket as a cashier,or a saleswoman or probably baby sitting..there are soo many options..... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 21 August 2012: Well I think your really not looking for advise,you'v made up your mind about what you want to do..cause you seem to be saying NO to everything..
Anywys since your an adult I am sure your capable enough to make a wise decision..
Good luck with job... (read in full...)
I started dating a gorgeous, model-like, ambitious, cheeky guy, and he's now turned into an overweight, boozy, attention seeking boy!
Q. This is really tricky and I'd appreciate both male and female help with this. I've been with my lovely boyfriend who I care deeply for for two and a half years. When I met him he had model looks, a great body and I couldn't keep my hands off him....
A. 21 August 2012: I can totally understand your situation cause one of my best friends went through the same and she would think she is a horrible person for not being attracted her boyfriend(now husband)..its a phase where men finally find the girl of their dreams ... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 21 August 2012: Lonliness??is because right your at home,your boyfriend goes to college is interacting with people he will have a lot of friends,and you won't..
Unless you join work you can meet new people and make friends..either way sitting at home is just goin... (read in full...)
I slept with my best friend's girl (whom I've been in love with since the day we met) Now she has broken up with him, should I come clean with him about what happened?
Q. Hey readers. I really need your help. My bestfriend introduced me to his girlfriend a year ago. I instantly found her attracive, she is so beautiful. When I began talking to her even her voice was beautiful. I have always had a crush on her but 2 ...
A. 20 August 2012: I think since they have broken up there is no point digging into the past and you telling him that you dated the girl,what's happened has happened,they have moved on so has your bestmate..had they still been dating I would ask you to own to your ... (read in full...)
I am the one who always has to text or call my boyfriend, I've spoke to him about it but nothing changes! What should I do?
Q. Dear cupid,so my bf loves me and can do anything for me no doubt.but since we went back home for our holidays,I have been doing most of the calling and texting.I talked to him about itbut he always comes up with the excuse of 'I was going to call ...
A. 20 August 2012: I agree with 'so very confused' you need to let him miss you,how about you don't text him,or don't call him for a bit..let him miss you,give him a chance to miss you..
I have said this before the minute the men know(not all but quite the majo... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 20 August 2012: Huni you have go to prepare yourself for the worst,you can't always think 'ok this is never going to happen to me'cause you know what it just might..
Well these days jobs for a high school graduate won't be that much that could support you..you may ... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 19 August 2012: Its really important to get a college degree these days,if you want a good job and want to be independent and support yourself..your boyfriend is smart to continue college while your decision is not so wise,what if in the future things don't work ... (read in full...)
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