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writes:well i have realised that in the past few weeksthere are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY..why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead of focusing on studies they worry about what they should do since they are pregnant abort or keep the childthis is just a message to all those young ones there that there is a time for everythingthe essence of being a woman is being a "mother",u relive womanhood all over again when u become a mother.u bring in to this world a new born who u have to nurture and inbibe in her all the qualities which would make her a good human beingbut there is a time for everything kids and you kids are just not in that phase..please take care of yourselves and your future.thanks Reply to this Article
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reader, jorjax1x  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 i notice you have your name on anonymous, i think when you are ready your ready and it somtimes just happens and if you get pregnant it is your mastake so face it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): I dont understand how sooooo many teens are having sex, when its such a mature adult thing to do. I can wait, besides there is no way id have sex now and get a chance so eary down MommyLane.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (28 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the question i wish u all the best for your future young mummy
may u achieve all that u aimed for!!
xoxo
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reader, Youngmummy +, writes (27 April 2009):
 hey to jorjax1x i hope you are okay i have had twin i am 15 years old and from my point of veiw i am happy and want to share my experiance with people that why i have a question set upi bet she is doing a great job as i know i am it is a realy great experiance my twins are in my picture.i am back at school and i am having the time of my life yeah i wonder what i could do if i did not have the kidsbut at the end of the day it was my mastake and i had to make some sacrifises.i wouldnt change it for the world
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): I love your hypocrisy A anonymous reader. I can tell you the same thing; shut your eyes and dont read the posts.If we are going to be in that page then, let me be entitled to my own opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): mr or miss or whoever you are anonymous
do u even know what your talking about haha
u make me laugh
of course they are immature thats why they get pregnant at 14 and thats what they should know,give them the right advise and not beat around the bush
if u had your way u would put a crown on every teen pregnant child and say "CONGRATS"
and as u say your tired of reading posts by young girls and the advise they are getting then stop reading them.shut your eyes
u cant tell anyone their posts are unnecessary especially if its for a good cause,let them voice their opinions.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (24 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell anonymous reader ur just being soo naive
this is an advise to all the other young teens on this site who read this and use this site quite constantly and are in a fix about what to do and whats right and how to go about it..
i am not saying this post will make a huge difference but definitely in future it would give them some idea.
even if it can bring a change to one teens life i would consider it an accomplishment..thats all i am saying..
and your remarks about the advise the people on this site give to the pregnant teens u cant rubbish them,their just trying to be of help and yea let me mention everyone asks them to consult their parents.thats the best one can do online right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Ok,Can i just say that this post was unecessary.the fact that the posts from these teen are about pregancy is because of the fact that they need help and dont know here to find them because they dont want to be judged. therefore, if you are judeging them by what they do, what kind of example are u giving them? what message are you conveying? that they are stupid and immature for engaging in sexual activities? Some of them probably did not ghave the opportunity taht u did of having a well built sexual education at home and at school. so this site serves for them to clear their doubts and ask fro helps.I am not saying that I agree with the teens, neither that I am pro sex before a certain age. I belive that if someone has their mind straight on something they will pursue it, and the best we can do is help them either realise something different to that or give them the best advice we can on what to do.and concearning pregancy the best advice owuld be TALK TO YOUR PARENTS.I am tired of reading posts by youn girls and all the response they get is (generalising here) "You were too young to do such a thing"or "you were very careless therefore you were not ready" they are uselss advice. what was done is done, and all we can do in thsi site is help them not by telling them what YOU believe is the right thing to do, but give her different options so that she can evaluate with someone close to her and make a decision.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (24 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell now that u know what i actually mean i dont think there has to be any problem:)
will be more specific next time hehe
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Wel by merely mentioning the term medical science it evokes strong connutations to the biological capability of the body, where as if you had set that it had been psychologically proven to be hard for young teens i wouldn't have had a problem in the first place.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (24 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell talking helps let me clear something to u,
probably i should tell u what exactly i meant by "proved medically"so here it goes
teen pregnancies brings all sorts of emotions and problems..some don not want the baby and while others feel that its conception is an acheivement
some feel guilty and anxious while others feel they need a baby to love but not aware of the special care it needs
teenage pregnancy may be risky to unborn babies.it results in giving birth to underweight babies,poor eating habits of teenager and smoking and drinking tendencies of the pregnant girl.but there are more serious problems for the teenage mothers than the statistics and how the world views them positively or negatively
both the baby and the mother are at risk in major areas of like such as school failure,poverty and physical or mental illness
finally support and love of family will greatly help teen pregnancies to major extent
so this is what i meant TALKING HELP,my explained version of the previous statement lol
thanks
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (24 April 2009):
 coming from a teen who wants a baby, i know how these girls feel - the difference is i know now is not the right time, im 19 in a couple of months so its not illegal for me to be having sex but im not in any financial state to be bringing an innocent child into this world, yes i know i would have all the support of my family but i dont want my child to be given the things it needs from other people because its parents cant afford. If underage girls plan on getting pregnant its immature, but no matter what we tell them, if their minds made up unfortunatley its doubtfull we can change it.
On the other hand if its unplanned & they have been using contraception i think they deserve a lot of support & can do without the crap some of them get. A friend of mine got pregnant at 15, she was devastated. She had the baby at 16 & it turned out to be the best thing she has ever done, she lived with her parents untill she had enough money to move out & now, 4 years on, she is at uni.
Unfortunately i know this isnt how it goes for everyone. I believe a teen mum can be just a good a mum as a 30 year old - under the right circumstances.
If a girl feels ready for sex then surely they should be mature enough to go to the doctors & get put on the pill/injection/implant. Condoms are free at sexual health clinics (where im from anyway) so there really is no excuse.
To the underage girls planning on getting pregnant, think again! Look up the health risks to you and the baby, ask your parents how they would feel if you got pregnant, go and ask the school how your education can suffer, talk to a mother and ask her the realities of being a mum. Babys dont stay babies for long, you might want a baby but do you want a 5/6/7 year old?
Sorry for the long post lol im quite oppinionated on this subject
(apologies for the spelling!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): Excuse me i did help with the cause i said i agreed with it, i just don't believe about stating that something is biologically proven when it isn't. I'd rather the facts be right.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (23 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha strider thanks,i am done with my campaigning
and some people pretend to be thick like they dont understand anything,too bad for them
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reader, strider09  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 dude whatveer your name is talking helps..right now your talking is not helping the teens.. cute angel is just creating an awareness among the teens about the disadvantages of teen pregnanciesso if u have anything to talk about it then say yo!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): Actually you are ready to concieve from the age of twelve, that;s why periods start then, in fact it's only in the last two hundred years that people have disencouraged young pregnancies. Biologically, everything works , so i had to correct you on that being a massive geek and that. Although i do agree that in today's society we should try to lower the amount of teen pregnancies for more social reasons such as the cost and the effect on their lives.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (22 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow hun thats sad i feel bad for what your going through and thats the only reason i made this post in the first place
just so that u teens realise the at the age of 14 ur soo not ready to give birth or have an abortion even medical science says soo..
is your family and your boyfriend supporting u in this matter??
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reader, jorjax1x +, writes (22 April 2009):
to be honest i realy carnt help it now year am 15 but i carnt change my past and i am realy excited to see my twins its a feeling you can not explain and to be honest i would not feel sorry for that girl a would tell her to keep her head up high because i have been there when people like you lable them and thats sad. and i have got my head screwed on.when i write my book like i have been told to is going to be about all the strugles and joys in teen pregnancys and i have kept a diary i will leave a paragraph' By this time word had got round and when i got off the school bus i felt all these eyes glare at me, when i steped into the yard it went silant, i ran to were my best mates where and they just turend away saying i am not alowd near you but then there was a tap on my sholder it was karine the other girl pregnant in the year above held my hand and said i will help you all the way. As i walked down we were spat at and given verbal abuse such as you dirty f*ckn slag....'that was in one of the early days were people were shoking but ferther on in the story will be all the good bits.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (21 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the question crazy mind u definitely dont have a crazy mind hehe
u talk sensible and thanks for sharing your information and opinion
keep it up;)
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reader, cute angel +, writes (21 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell jorjax if u say that you are pregnant at 14 thats a pretty sad situation
u need a care taker yourself and u say that your 15 and ready for a baby ahh m not so sure of that
of course its the best thing for any woman but at the age of 15 if its right ahh now come on!!!grow up and dont be soo immature..sure go ahead and write a book but i dont thing the matter should contain anything encouraging teen pregnancies instead you should tell everything that you faced and how not right it is at this age when your still in school..imagine a pregnant kid walking around the school campus..wouldnt u feel sad for her..set your self as an example to all the other teens with the same problem..
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reader, jorjax1x +, writes (21 April 2009):
to be honest theres nothing wrong with teenmams i was 14 when i got pregnant now 15 and just found out i am having twins tbh it has gotta be the best thing in the world for me and i am realy looking foward to it and i am thinking about wrighting a book on my experiance and to be honest you say you would get an abortion but you dont no what to do till you in that sitiuation.
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reader, reign154 +, writes (21 April 2009):
Ok well im not pregnant but know some girls that have given birth or just gotten pregnant. We all know the consequences of having sex whether it be stds,hiv, or becoming pregnant by not using a condom, missing birth control, or a condom breaking. Getting pregnant is soo much easier than what people make it seem. There are some girls that get pregnant on purpose because they may want to have a child to love as their own and even though they are still children themselves having such a bundle of life may give them a new meaning to what they want to do with their lives for their child. Teen pregnancy happens every day despite parents efforts or the schools teaching us about sex people are always going to see what its like from first hand experience. I just say that people should be more aware of how much love and attention a child needs and how what you see on television is no where near what really happens in reality/ Just protect yourself and live your life for you.
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reader, CrazyMind +, writes (20 April 2009):
 I totally agree with this.
Within the past month, I've come to know of two of my friends that have become pregnant. At 16, C, along with her boyfriend, is happy that she's pregnant. Then there's A, who knows that she'll be a single mum, the guy made himself scarce as soon as she told him that she was expecting. She decided that she couldn't have an abortion, as it was her baby.
The effect this will have on the girls involved is unbelievable. While they may think they are prepared, they've made a decision that will effect them forever; from social life to careers.
My girlfriend's mum has said that she doesn't want her getting pregnant before she's at least 24, and thinks that it's "still too young" to get pregnant - there are some things that you grow up and realise you'd love to do, but the fact that you now have a kid in a pram stops you.
On the flip side; the emotional/psychological effects of having an abortion can be equally devastating. Don't get yourself (or the girl you're having sex with) into the situation where you're having to decide on having to get an abortion, or face mothering a child at a young age.
Think first; and keep things safe, protected.
- Crazy. x
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reader, cute angel +, writes (16 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey anonymous reader
good to know you agree to this,happy to see that there are some bright ones out there
proud of u babe!!
xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): i think this to.my boyfriend keeps telling me its fun! but i wont do it till im good and ready and if he doesnt respect that then fine but im not ready for sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): I've been told soooo many times that im mature enongh to mother a child.But there is nooo way am i gonna get pregnant at age 14.Touching and playing with my bf is as far as i will go and he knows that.We want to get into sex but i know im not ready physically, and really wouldnt want to slip up and be pregnant.Theres so much to do before you have sex and have a baby when your not trying.Expecally at 11-17.heck even 18 or 19.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (14 April 2009):
cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol thanks
i hope it helped though:)
just doing the little that i can,prolly i should protest instead to make my point more effective hehehehe
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reader, strider09 +, writes (14 April 2009):
hi thats well thought and i liked the way u want to put it through these young minds
keep it up!
i think this site should also be used to drive some sense into kids
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