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A request to all the young teens out there
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14 April 2009: well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...
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I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 15 August 2012: Omg Angel..well you can't just give up on life for one miserable jackass who had no motive in life but all along just to have fun,you can't have him ruin your life..please stay strong I know this must be hard but you can't give up..you have done ... (read in full...)
What does your boyfriend do when you are sick?
Q. I am curious to see what your boyfriend does when you are sick/unwell. Do they check in to see how you are? i have been off work for 5 days with the flu which is going around pretty badly where i am. I rarely take time off work (last year i pro...
A. 13 July 2012: Wow!that's very inconsiderate of your boyfriend to not even check on you..rude much? When I fall sick which I tend to atleast one in 2 months lol ccause I work in a hospital,my boyfriend turns into this angel sent my god to me.. He cooks,he even of... (read in full...)
I'm broke, unattractive, not successful, no education. What can I do?
Q. I'm young but I'm broke, unattractive, not successful, no education. Couldn't secure a scholarship to study in the top college and hence am still at my hometown. I'm unattractive with acne. I am penniless. I'm very upset with where I am now a...
A. 13 July 2012: Well I think first off you need to set your priorities right!!what do you want to do In life?
Your in the age group of 18-21 I see so its still not too late to get a college degree..if you can pay the tuition feesthen get a degree if not I woul... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend too good to be true or do people like her really exist?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half now and get on so well in every area of our relationship. Am I just seeing her through rose-tinted glasses or do people like her really exist? I keep thinking something's boun...
A. 13 July 2012: Awwww..this is sucha cute post if I can say..I'm happy for you that you have found that one special person who you can click with in ever aspect..if I were you rather than worrying about what will go wrong,y is it soo surreal I would just enjoy my ... (read in full...)
Please help! LDR, does she love the same way that I do?
Q. I met a wonderful girl and im such in love with her, but everything happened very fast and im a little bit skceptical. I met her a year ago but we didnt go out until last month, we spent a whole month together but now she is back to her country....
A. 13 July 2012: Well its nice your kind enough to sponsor and also pay her tuition fees,but I don't want you to be a 'sugar daddy' to her otherwise she will depend on you too much and expect you to do everything..well if she's moving to your place and then you ... (read in full...)
Why does my body like him, when my mind tells differently?
Q. Let's put this way. I find him attractive, but I don't think I liked the way he grooms himself. I know that he likes me, but then, I used to ignore him neither did I try to entertain that glimpse of attraction I felt. So basically we were friends, ...
A. 12 July 2012: first off you know from the very beginning the guy liked and you and you dint feel the same for him,that was it then and there you should have stopped talking to him for a while and help me get over you..by doing this it looks like your just ... (read in full...)
Please help! LDR, does she love the same way that I do?
Q. I met a wonderful girl and im such in love with her, but everything happened very fast and im a little bit skceptical. I met her a year ago but we didnt go out until last month, we spent a whole month together but now she is back to her country....
A. 12 July 2012: I have seen this happen a lot of times..where the guy makes all the effort and the girl responds back but never initiates..
I think the reason this keeps happening is because sometimes guys just don't give the girl a chance to miss them,when your... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend right to be annoyed about this, or was he wrong?
Q. Was my boyfriend right to be annoyed about this, or was he wrong ?. He was supposed to meet me at my house on Tuesday afternoon and then we were going to go to his house, but he didn't turn up. I was tempted to go round to his house anyway, but i ...
A. 12 July 2012: How can he be mad at you for this?he said he come visit ur place and he didn't turn up?so YOu should be the one mad at him but your not cause your taking a more mature way of handling things..how can he expect you to know that he's sick,your not ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 9 July 2012: Hey honey,
First off I think you should give him a chance to miss you,if your constantly calling him,he knows your always there and would never make an effort..let him miss you,let him make an effort to listen to the voice he loves..
I can understa... (read in full...)
Meeting my online boyfriend for the first time, he might be expecting to meet a THIN girl!
Q. So me and this boy have been talking online for about two years now. And don't worry he is a mutual friend of MANY of my friends and a lot of my friends think he's a nice guy. He has a lot going for him, and any girl would be lucky to have him. He ...
A. 8 July 2012: Well then shldnt it be a problem right,if all you think of him as a friend I don't think it would hurt that much if he did something like that which I seriously doubt he would do..in 2 years u'v known each other its not only the looks its who are u ... (read in full...)
I had a one-night=stand, he said he would call and didn't. How long should I wait before I delete him as a friend?
Q. So, I had an unplanned one night stand on Sunday. I normally never do one night stands. Only did it once before. I have heard so much from friends about guys being all nice and then never calling back and that has been my experience too last time, ...
A. 8 July 2012: When you hooked up with a guy,you thought it would just be a one time thing,little did you know you will begin to like him..
So take it slow,you don't need to have sex everytime u'l meet..he got a little sneek peak and I'm sure he'l be craving for ... (read in full...)
Meeting my online boyfriend for the first time, he might be expecting to meet a THIN girl!
Q. So me and this boy have been talking online for about two years now. And don't worry he is a mutual friend of MANY of my friends and a lot of my friends think he's a nice guy. He has a lot going for him, and any girl would be lucky to have him. He ...
A. 8 July 2012: Hey there, Well like you said he has seen you on skype and webcam and on your off days,then why would you even worry!! You have not morphed your pictures you have shown what you are.. And there was a time where being really skinny was something ... (read in full...)
How could he leave and not say goodbye?
Q. I am so hurt and brokenhearted! A very special friend of mines moved out of state, I knew he was moving, but he told me he would take me to dinner before he left! Ok, he ended up leaving a day early. We didnt get a chance to go to dinner, I can ...
A. 8 July 2012: So sorry to hear your hurting!I can imagine how broken hearted you would be,when someone you considered important can't take a little time out of their busy schedule and just say a good bye..first off I would like to ask you 1)is he going back for ... (read in full...)
I feel like he is teasing me to see how much I can take.
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy of about 6 months. Recently, we had some issues with trust and ever since that happened, I feel like he is testing me to see how much I can take and if I will get jealous. He told me tonight I can't ...
A. 7 July 2012: Honey I don't see why your going through soo much when the guy is being sucha jacka** to you..you don't deserve this,NO one does..u need to put ur foot down be stern and say we are in a relationship and if certain things about you makes me feel ... (read in full...)
I really like her and want her to be my girlfriend
Q. I really need some help. There is this girl that im falling in love with. Ido not know if she likes me but she did say i was an amazing guy. We havent seen each other lately. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but do i wait until i see her again ...
A. 7 July 2012: Let me tell u a short story..
There was this guy who really liked me,I dint know that cuz he never told me directly,I thought he was an amazing guy too but I dint tell him anything as well..
He would text and sometimes I would reply sometime... (read in full...)
I'm being ignored by all my friends. So how and why has she turned everyone I used to be close with against me? She's besties with them now.
Q. I used to be friends with this girl called X but then we kind of drifted apart but now it seems like every race she has to beat me at, and every guy I like she has to flirt with and make them like her. Everyone I used to be close with she's be...
A. 30 June 2012: Well firstly if they were your real friends,they wouldn't believe everything this 'x' said blindly instead confront you and ask if it were true..
If your friends easily gave up on you and went with her,then u can calculate how long they would take... (read in full...)
We want to get married, but I'm afraid the process wont be easy!
Q. Hiiiii dera cupid.....i m 18 yrs old indian muslim girl nd i m in love with a pakistani guy of age 21....we both r planning to get marry after 1 yr...we both met online..i dont know how i fallen in love with him i really dont know..he is a great ...
A. 21 June 2012: Visiting India is a different thing,you spending time with him is important..
Don't make hast decisions like I said before get to know him even if it takes two years..
Running away from home means cutting contacts with your family,in the future i... (read in full...)
We want to get married, but I'm afraid the process wont be easy!
Q. Hiiiii dera cupid.....i m 18 yrs old indian muslim girl nd i m in love with a pakistani guy of age 21....we both r planning to get marry after 1 yr...we both met online..i dont know how i fallen in love with him i really dont know..he is a great ...
A. 19 June 2012: Hey there, First off I knw so many people who have had these online relationships,they talk and text all day long..they are head over heels over a guy they talk online,finally when they meet not everything is as sweet as it was before..at first wh... (read in full...)
'X' in a text message, is it just for people close to you or for anyone and everyone?
Q. Ok, so this may sound strange to some but agreed upon by others - I just want to know weather I'm being unnecessarily stupid and to get others views. I've been with my girlfriend for just over a year and we moved in with each other two weeks ...
A. 15 June 2012: Hey there, Well an'x' can be sent to anyone not necessarily be someone u love,u can also send it to friends..I use 'x' a lot..its become so common that now people end their texts with an 'x'..like 'hey how r u doing!?hope everything is good..ta... (read in full...)
Should I wait another day and try a simple, "hey!" text? Or just not do anything else?
Q. IM 20. Home for the summer from college. Met this girl back in August in a school club (we meet on mondays and have a few parties, thats about the only time i saw her), she was dating someone at the time and i wasnt really into her. She didnt seem ...
A. 31 May 2012: Well I am glad you made an effort and sent her text..now I think u should give it some time and see if she replies to you or not..you don't want to push it too hard,take it slow you have made your move now its her turn to respond..don't rush into ... (read in full...)
How do porn actress do things with no health risks?
Q. How do porn actresses do things like a2m and rimjobs without any health risks? And how do they prep for anal to make it look so easy?...
A. 23 May 2012: How do u know porn actresses do things without risk..I work in a hospital and I have soo many young women coming in with syphillis,std's,gonorrhoea u ask their profession u'l get one answer 'porn star'..there involves a lot of risk,but some of them ... (read in full...)
How do I tell this depressed man that the relationship is over and has been over?
Q. I happen to be in a happy, committed relationship with a really nice man. No problems there. The problem is that I used to be in an LDR with a man about two years ago. After we met, I realised that we weren't compatible and that there was no way it ...
A. 20 May 2012: First off what's the reason that you broke up with this guy?u say he loves you,cares about you then what more could a girl want than a man to treat her like a princess..when men comes with baggage like that and their heart gets broken to mend it ... (read in full...)
I'm lost with no direction after a long-term relationship.
Q. Me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago and in that time I was going through a roller coaster of emotions because before we broke up we took a break and she left with some other guy, I couldnt handle the fact that she did that, so we officially ...
A. 20 May 2012: Hey I know it must be hard for you to deal with this right now but more u dwell into this,the more its going to pull you in and it will be too late to get out..I think the reason your hurting is she has moved on and to watch your love with someone ... (read in full...)
Why won't he video chat with me?
Q. So i have been dating this guy online for about 2 months.. We knew eachother a long time ago via facebook. There was a break in the middle and we started talking again. And few months ago he told me he wanted something more than plain friendship and ...
A. 20 May 2012: Hey I know right now all these long talks with him has blind sided you and you may thing wow I might have found my man,but please be careful..first off I think you shldnt take this any further unless you know who he is and what he is hiding behind ... (read in full...)
The lack of communication is driving me insane!
Q. I'm dating a 3rd year resident ophthalmologist long distance. When we're together everything makes sense. We love each other and he even admitted to being in love with me but the moment we we separate he only texts like once a week. sometimes he ...
A. 5 May 2012: So do I,and what's better than having an open discussion on it..tell him ur ready to adjust,ur ready to give him space as long as he puts effort to keep the relationship going..let us know how it goes
All the best x ... (read in full...)
The lack of communication is driving me insane!
Q. I'm dating a 3rd year resident ophthalmologist long distance. When we're together everything makes sense. We love each other and he even admitted to being in love with me but the moment we we separate he only texts like once a week. sometimes he ...
A. 3 May 2012: Well personally working with opthomologists for over a year I know what a busy schedule they have..when your dating a doctor you should be prepared for this..I think you should first understand how his schedule works and plan out a time accordingly ... (read in full...)
The power of pride or call?
Q. Hey, i have dated for 8 months and i've got along with him pretty well. The only thing that bothered me was that i had always call him or text him if we should meet. He always answered, but never called or texted me first. I asked him about that a...
A. 2 May 2012: Well I think this guy likes the attention..!and he also got used to you calling him all the time so he never made an effort to make the first move since he knew you would eventually text..I know a girl who is exactly like this,and she told me that ... (read in full...)
Should I not forgive my best friend and try to let her go?
Q. This is my first time posting on DearCupid, and I apologize beforehand if my post is too long! I don’t really know where to begin, so I guess I’ll just start anywhere. My old best friend and I were best friends for countless years....
A. 17 March 2012: wow!can i just tell you that i went thru the exact same thing but in my situation instead of art it was dance,both of us were very talented and we eyed the same dance school and when we auditoned i got in and she dint,so i stepped back cuz we ... (read in full...)
Are women like this even worth my time?
Q. My girlfriend of 2.5 years is difficult to deal with. We have a 22 month old son together and argue all the time but talked about it and both agreed work on it. Yesterday, she was flipping out about her sewing machine not working. I asked her if she ...
A. 26 February 2012: Hi,
First off its very inconsiderate of your girlfriend to attack u like that..considering u have a child it is very important u both are cordial and do what's best for the childs good upbringing..
Is there a reason she's been acting like this lat... (read in full...)
What's dating in university like? Are there any tips that might help?
Q. Heyya, I’m going to university in September and I was just wondering what the dating experience there was like. I’ve had two girlfriends in high school; one when I was fifteen and another shorter-term relationship last year when I was 17. Hopefu...
A. 7 July 2011: dating is the same anywhere,in high school or university..its just that the people in college are much more mature and when they get into a relationship its the more serious kinda committed one than the ones you have in high school where u date ... (read in full...)
Does chemistry ever go away?
Q. I recently saw an ex-lover again and was overwhelmed by the wave of sheer animal desire that hit me just talking to him over lunch. We had decided not to see each other because it was torture controlling that, and being in a relationship together ...
A. 31 March 2011: well who says ex boyfriends cant be friends..i think its not impossible..if everything between you two is settled well,and u've put the other things in the past and let bygones be bygones and want the best for each other ,then i think it should not ... (read in full...)
We kissed and now things are weird. What should I do?
Q. I like this guy hes 17 and im 15 he kissed me the other day and wanted to go further but i didnt and we talked about tht but he was glad we didnt go further cuz we barley know each other. but ever since then things have seemed kind of off. I talked ...
A. 30 December 2010: hi pretty girl rock,
well probably he is shy,or embarassed abt the act that happened..
its ok dont stress too much on it,instead try and get things back on track..
suggest to do something fun,u know which will build the comfort level and u will g... (read in full...)
I slapped my boyfriend for pulling up my skirt!
Q. heyy guys right yesterday me and my boyfriend was all alone at home and we were kissing and huggin and stuff like that then he pulled up my skirt and i slapped him and we argued and he called me jody{thats not my name} i am so anrgy wiv him i do...
A. 9 December 2010: well i beleive what your boyfriend DID was highly inapropriate..a guy should always respect their girlfriends..and he taking advantage of the situation was not a nice thing to do..probably he thought this would be a cherry on top with all the ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to him again after nothing for a month?
Q. I met this guy back in april online, I thought he was perfect he was 21 lived in washington, Im 18 and live in dublin ..ages away! anyway we talked for around 6 months loads, and he kept asking me to come over to him and I was really going to, ...
A. 20 November 2010: well i think you totally should!if u have a good time with him then why not!
but my advise is take it slow,gt to know each other and as far as meeting the other person goes,online meetings are very dangerous..so be careful and watch your step irre... (read in full...)
He has another girlfriend! How do I get him back?
Q. hey i like a guy he stayed in touch with me for 6months but during the 7th month he started ignoring me .i stay in jaipur and he stays in indore .during the diwali breaks i went to indore and thier i found that he already had 1 girlfriend and is ...
A. 13 November 2010: well were u dating this guy?ur description is not very clear..
if u were dating him and then he went back and cheated., now that's a problem.but y would u want a guy that has strayed?if he has done it once he can do it again?he shld respect u and ... (read in full...)
Did I send the wrong message? Text message, that is!
Q. I have a good guy friend I've recently reconnected with. We found each other online and after months of getting to know each other I felt we were going somewhere. We recently started talking and texting. I NEVER end texts with ttl, or bye or ...
A. 25 October 2010: Hey I totally understand your situation cuz a similar thing happened to me..I don't really end the convos with ttyl or bye if I think the convo has a good end I just leave but many a times guys think we are not interested..well the guys usually text ... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling so worthless???
Q. Hi dear cupid audience, how are you all? I want to ask for advice, since this is truly destroying me inside. I need help dealing with regret and guilt, i don't know how to stop me from feeling like im worthless. =( The problem is when i go out. I...
A. 24 April 2010: As mansnake says .But remember SO WHAT .You are young and how the hell will you grow .learn and evolve if you don't make mistakes?Leave all that guilt and self loathing to the offbeat religious types ,they love it.Forgive yourself for not being ... (read in full...)
I am 22 living at home and my mom is making my life hell!!
Q. Hi.. I am 22 living at home and my mom is making my life hell!!! I hate the fact that she is always picking on me for something even if it has nothing to do with me. If she wants something done and both me and my sister are in the house then ...
A. 24 April 2010: ignore the gnawing suspicion that your mother is trying to live her life through you. Even if she is, the urge to control is her baggage to carry, not yours.
If your mother persists in knocking down your boundaries, consider seeking family ther... (read in full...)
My husband farts on me and thinks its funny
Q. My husband farts on me. He thinks its hilarious, and its really annoying to me. It makes me feel like I am one of his frat buddies instead of his wife, who he might like to have sex with again at one point or another. I don't know how to make him ...
A. 24 April 2010: haha this is one of the funniest posts i have ever come across..
but no joke all u can do is tell him to his face that you find the behaviour awfully i must add(smelly);)irritating and that he should behave civil and stop acting like a child!
don... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my boyfriend!
Q. Hi there, I need advice...I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 11 Months now. And I am pretty much obsessed with him! It's horrible. When he does something wrong, I find myself apologizing! The most recent issue happened last night. I was wor...
A. 21 April 2010: hey there!
well firstly he is your boyfriend and he is committed to you so you have every right to ask him if your uncomfortable about something or someone..
if u have doubts about this girl then y dont you ask your boyfriend whats goin on?he wi... (read in full...)
Is he trying to show off?
Q. What does it mean when a fairly recent (teenage) boyfriend asks you to come watch his sports game/music performance? Is he trying to show off?...
A. 12 April 2010: well it's funny how u take his act as a show off one..
he is just involving u in something that he adores more like his passsion and wants u to be part of it..
this is a definite sign he likes u and wants u to see what he excels in..I think it... (read in full...)
No contact since Monday night, what's up with him.
Q. Alright, well I met a guy online. We have been talking back and forth for about a month. This has involved texting, emailing, and talking on the phone. We had made plans to do something this past Sunday together. Unfortunately, Sunday morning I ...
A. 17 December 2009: well i think he seems to feel the connection with you and is pretty nervous about meeting you
after all u have just been talking on the phone all this while,apparently he thinks nothing should go wrong on this very special date..
i think u shld sen... (read in full...)
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