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*..BabyGirl..x
writes:Me and my friends meet up on a friday night and ice skate, there's this guy that sometimes comes. My best friend, who went to the same primary as him, but he's in the year above, says she hates him, when she's never spoken to him before.When we're skating he sometimes does things like skate underneath her arm or skate past and say hello, just to wind her up.She then puts on a bravado act saying how much she hates him and wants us to go with her so that she can slap him, which she never does, because she doesn't have the guts to. I think she fancies him, but of course, she denies everything and then declares her hatred for him again. She talks about him non-stop and another friend who doesn't come with us has picked up on it. How can I tell her that all the talk of him is really annoying and is doing nothing to make us believe that she doesn't like him, without being accused of sticking up for him, and then being accused of fancying him??Please help!! =S x
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (5 June 2008):
x..BabyGirl..x is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks, but really, our group of friends is quite childish, bar me and if anyone says who they fancy they're wound up about it, so generally, unless it's celebs, no one says anything.
If I'm straight with her, she turns all strange and then later when approached she says she's sensitive, almost like she doesn't like the truth.
We go to an all girls grammar school and he goes to the only boys grammar in our city, so it's not like I could talk to him during school time for her, and I wouldn't even thing about it during ice skating, mainly because of the fact that I think he's ok myself.
It's fine to talk about him, I understand that, but there's only so much we can take and it's all things we've already been told, so it's quite a difficult situation to tell her to stop with the dissing him and talking bout him without upsetting her
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): well i think you should tell her truth an that she should be able to tell u she likes him because u's are friends! you can talk to him for her if she truely does lyk him an she'll thank u.
All girls at age 13-15 act dat way i no i did wen i was dat age but my friends say striaght threw me so it worked out well so just tell her the truth!!
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 well probably right now she is not sure herself!!i think u should let her be hun..but one thing u can tell her is if she doesnt like the guy then its better she doesnt talk about him to you guys that much..because whats the point of talking about someone u dont really like!!!make the point clear to her and go with the flow!!!
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