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A request to all the young teens out there
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14 April 2009: well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...
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Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 22 August 2012: Well everyone experiences failures,but you need to stand up,be brave and face them..its part and parcel of life..never give up..you rather seem disinterested about everything,be it college or work,your a young girl you should really keen and ... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 22 August 2012: Depends what kind of jobs your looking for??waiting tables,working at a supermarket as a cashier,or a saleswoman or probably baby sitting..there are soo many options..... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 21 August 2012: Well I think your really not looking for advise,you'v made up your mind about what you want to do..cause you seem to be saying NO to everything..
Anywys since your an adult I am sure your capable enough to make a wise decision..
Good luck with job... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 21 August 2012: Lonliness??is because right your at home,your boyfriend goes to college is interacting with people he will have a lot of friends,and you won't..
Unless you join work you can meet new people and make friends..either way sitting at home is just goin... (read in full...)
I am the one who always has to text or call my boyfriend, I've spoke to him about it but nothing changes! What should I do?
Q. Dear cupid,so my bf loves me and can do anything for me no doubt.but since we went back home for our holidays,I have been doing most of the calling and texting.I talked to him about itbut he always comes up with the excuse of 'I was going to call ...
A. 20 August 2012: I agree with 'so very confused' you need to let him miss you,how about you don't text him,or don't call him for a bit..let him miss you,give him a chance to miss you..
I have said this before the minute the men know(not all but quite the majo... (read in full...)
How can I get her to leave me alone?
Q. There's this woman that I work with that took a liking to me. At first she would subtly show interest by asking me how I was and if I needed anything, I could ask her. I never thought anything of it so I started to talk to her on a friendly basis ...
A. 20 August 2012: Oh wow I think she has definitely crossed her line,the whole cleavage bit??ummm you need to stop this right here..
What I think is rather than talking to your friends about it,you should talk to her staright up..
Tell her' I respect you,but ... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 20 August 2012: Huni you have go to prepare yourself for the worst,you can't always think 'ok this is never going to happen to me'cause you know what it just might..
Well these days jobs for a high school graduate won't be that much that could support you..you may ... (read in full...)
Why did I sleep with my best friend's husband? I know I betrayed my friend. How do I fix this?
Q. My best friend, her husband and I have been friends since the 10th grade. My friend and I both got married 2 years after we left high school. I got divorced and they remained married. Throughout the 16 yrs that they've been married they both have...
A. 19 August 2012: First off women these days are soo possessive about their boyfriends,let alone their husbands..they would never ever be comfortable letting their husbands out with another woman for an over night stay and your best friend did,which clearly shows she ... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 19 August 2012: Its really important to get a college degree these days,if you want a good job and want to be independent and support yourself..your boyfriend is smart to continue college while your decision is not so wise,what if in the future things don't work ... (read in full...)
I made a mistake and my friends are punishing me for it. And excluding me, Can things get better and how?
Q. How can one mistake I made last a life time. It wasn't even a big one, it was a small insignificant act. When my "friends" organised an outing, I ended going out with one of my others friends in the group, just me and her. The group got drunk, m...
A. 19 August 2012: I can understand the teenage problems,right now you would feel this is the most important thing in your life being part of the group,being invited to parties but later in the future you would think 'why in the earth did I waste so much on this'.. I... (read in full...)
Met a girl, we got naked, though no condom. Then I stopped the sex. But could I have caught a STD or made her pregnant?
Q. Hi there, I hope someone can help me. A couple of weeks ago I met this girl in a bar and we were both really drunk. We ended up going back to her flat and started ripping each others clothes off. We got naked, although I think I left my underwea...
A. 19 August 2012: Hey, I am glad you realised at the moment that sex without protection is risky and backed off,you said you had your underwear on,so there was no intercourse,I don't see why you should be soo worried if all it you did was rubbing and kissing.... (read in full...)
He has gone all weird. Is he distancing himself from me? Do I keep dating him or ditch him?
Q. Everything was great with this guy I was dating... Until it wasn't. I'm going to skip all the "it was so awesome" examples here- it was. For two months everything was going extremely well when I started dating and getting to know this guy that I'd...
A. 17 August 2012: I think your boyfriend has wayy too much in his plate right now and you should be a supportive girlfriend ans stick by him rather than being worried about why he doesn't call or text or meet the numerous times we used to earlier..this is a golden ... (read in full...)
We seek each other once a week. He wants to change the way I dress. Is that controlling?
Q. My boyfriend and I love each other a whole lot. He loves spending time with me and always tries to make time for me. I love spending time with him too, but unfortunately we get the chance to meet just once a week. he asked me to change my clot...
A. 17 August 2012: Ok let me tell you a story There was this absoultely wonderful guy who loved me,he was nice,polite,kind and most importantly he just wanted me to be happy'..I liked him too and I remember one day I suggested I would take him shopping so he was like... (read in full...)
We had a fight and he left, now I don't know what to do.
Q. Well, I confronted my boyfriend about a girl that kept calling him and told him it made me feel uncomfortable and he became very upset with me and we ended up arguing about other things. I live with him and have been for a while and he is the only ...
A. 17 August 2012: Well may be at first instead of over reacting and bombarding him with questions about the girl who kept calling,you should have spoken to him calmly asking why the girl has been calling him so many times..had he said she's just a good friend you ... (read in full...)
Ex's g/f is all psycho -- what's up?
Q. So I was walking down the street with this guy i'm seeing and I happen to run into my ex and he is with some friends and his girlfriend. He didn't see me because he was talking to someone then all of a sudden his girlfriend looks at me and then ...
A. 17 August 2012: Her act is not very hard to read,its screaming'I have your boyfriend now and we are very happy together,in your face' kind of a thing..well she's acting really childish,continue to ignore,it should not bother you,u have a boyfriend how does it ... (read in full...)
Is there legal help for this situation?
Q. hello, this is ritesh , i am 27 years old , and my girlfriend is 22 yars old , we are in relationship between 4 years , but now my girlfriend parents not accepting me , they are forcing her to marry to some other. they have locked her in he...
A. 17 August 2012: Hey ritesh!I definitely think what they'r doing to your girlfriend is not right..they cannot force marriage upon her..but I see your from india and I believe that's how it works,where the girls have to marry according to their parents wishes which ... (read in full...)
My brother-in-law is hitting on me!
Q. my brother-in-law is hitting on me! ok,So i've been with my Husband a total of 6 years, well I've always been kind of shy around his whole family. But I still have conversations with them here and then. But I've noticed since I first came into my ...
A. 16 August 2012: Oh dear god!I think by not reacting your brother in law is going to think your okay with whatever he is doing and will not stop..I would suggest you talk to your brother in law just tell him 'hey I'v meaning to talk you about something for a while ... (read in full...)
My wife passed away a year ago, and I have since fallen in love with my sister-in-law. HELP !!!
Q. Hi my question is My wife passed away over 1 year ago i have no kids and I have now become very close to my sister in law she is married and her husban is always overseas From the time I spend with my sister inlaw I have falling in love wit...
A. 16 August 2012: Well what your going through is just a phase..your wife passed away and your sister in law was there with you,so you grew emotionally attached to her,and felt like you were attracted BUT she is married and has children,that's a danger sign you ... (read in full...)
We've been together a long time. But is the attraction waning?
Q. Hi,I've been with my girlfriend for five years. We are engauged and due to get married next july.She dose not like going places as she is an extreme home bird. When we go for dinnar I find that there is poor conversation. Or if we go away on holid...
A. 15 August 2012: Well you'v been with her for 5 years?so may be everything is getting monotonous and boring,same partner,you'l live together..so may be you want some thing exciting..but you know what?once you leave your partner and start dating it may seem exciting ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle this.
Q. mom and dad are fighting since a long time.. they are irritated to such a extent that they hardly discuss things.. as there son i am confused what to do? and i live away from them in a hotel. really dont know whats going on??...
A. 15 August 2012: Well parents do have their problems and some times they forget that it affects their kids..and I see this is totally affecting you..well they are mature adults and should try and handle the problem on their own rather than creating a scene..either ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 15 August 2012: Omg Angel..well you can't just give up on life for one miserable jackass who had no motive in life but all along just to have fun,you can't have him ruin your life..please stay strong I know this must be hard but you can't give up..you have done ... (read in full...)
How do I write good text messages and avoid texting too much?
Q. Hi How do I write good text messages and avoid texting too much? I met a really nice french girl, beautiful, smart and very sincere. I asked her out and she agreed, but later she texted me saying she can't make it but definitely another day. ...
A. 6 August 2012: Good *chin up*..
Don't waste your time over one girl who couldn't even come to you and ask you for an explanation,that shows she just dint care enough,while you are here thinking about each and every word you said..instead find someone who aprr... (read in full...)
How do I write good text messages and avoid texting too much?
Q. Hi How do I write good text messages and avoid texting too much? I met a really nice french girl, beautiful, smart and very sincere. I asked her out and she agreed, but later she texted me saying she can't make it but definitely another day. ...
A. 5 August 2012: I think your obsessing way too much about this girl,plus your overthinking as well..its like you worried about each move you make,and if this is how its goin to start then its going to hard once you become friends..you haven't been really care as to ... (read in full...)
How do I write good text messages and avoid texting too much?
Q. Hi How do I write good text messages and avoid texting too much? I met a really nice french girl, beautiful, smart and very sincere. I asked her out and she agreed, but later she texted me saying she can't make it but definitely another day. ...
A. 4 August 2012: I don't really understand the games people play,you like someone' tell her',you want to text someone 'text',you want to call someone 'call'..all the 3 day wait rule doesn't apply..yess u need to do it smoothly and not in a stalkerish way that would ... (read in full...)
Supposed to be met at airport by my LDR but he has stopped communicating!
Q. Dear Cupid i with LDR with my bf for the past few months. We were planning to meet and as per our decision i have booked my flight tickets and i am leaving today afternoon. He is avoiding for past 2 days, not picking up my calls, even if he ...
A. 3 August 2012: Well what if he does the same thing when you reach there?u can't be too sure?unless you have booked your stay at a hotel!
I would cancel my ticket if I were you..and never make an effort cuz I wld think I'v made enough now I need to see it from my p... (read in full...)
I screwed up majorly!
Q. I screwed up majorly so i was invited to go with a group of 4 to hang at the state fair. great idea! i was thinking, yo, thus gives me a chance to hang with the girl i really like and i can drop hints about my feelings for her and she of she resp...
A. 29 July 2012: Umm I think you just pushed it too far..it seems like you were in a hurry to let your emotions out and not wait for the opportunity,had you done it smoothly things would have been otherwise..and considering the girl is in the age group of 13-15 she ... (read in full...)
I can't afford to pay every time we go out. What's the best way to let her know?
Q. Hi. So I asked someone out and we had dinner and I payed, which I was happy to do. I've asked her out again for a coffee and she said yes. The thing is I just can't afford to pay for her every time we go out. I don't know if she'll be expecting me ...
A. 26 July 2012: Hey telling her directly to pay would look a little rude,how about u start texting,talk casually and then say something like'I would love to take you out to a nice restaurant and I am sure I can do it,but now is not the time,so I hope you ... (read in full...)
Have you ever lost interest with someone that you have a serious relationship with?
Q. I am very confused! Please help me understand my feelings! I think that I am horrible person, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Recently, he was very distant, for like 2 weeks. I would IM/text him and he would answer hours later,or I...
A. 22 July 2012: I have two words for you 'reverse pyschology'..
When you were texting your boyfriends trying to start up a conversation he dint make an effort but the minute you decided to stop making the effort he came running back to you..wow!typical..
When ... (read in full...)
What should I do or do nothing?
Q. well i met this guy on line back in march of 2012 and thought he was the cutest guy i ever saw in my life i'll be honest. he lived in harlem n.y and i live in jackson t.n we both connected because we both made music and networked all the time ...
A. 20 July 2012: I read this whole thing and at some instances I just cringed! Why on earth would you tolerate this for soooo long??why?? He sounds like a 21 year old immature guy and the reason he left his place and came to you shows how irresponsible an... (read in full...)
Is my depression coming back?
Q. Dear all, I have finished university been there for 4 years and got a Masters in Engineering with a upper second class. I have a few proper close friends, male and female. I have held the same part-time job for 2 years now which supports my week...
A. 20 July 2012: Hey I am going to be in the exact same position as in you in exactly 4 months,where half the people I know are going back..
And I'v gotten soo close to them and not having them around is going be soo wierd,but we r going to be done with univ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure that I can handle this long distance relationship
Q. Hello there, So I need some advice from you guys. I have a met a really wonderful guy recently. We got together at the beginning of May at Uni, unfortunately around revision period and then on June 7th following the end of term we had to separate...
A. 16 July 2012: This is just the beginning of whole lot 'why can't you take some time for me'? 'Where have you been,I'v been trying to reach you all day'? 'Your always so busy that you don't have time for me'?
Are you ready for all this,I mean I'm not saying long... (read in full...)
My ex-boyfriend is harrassing me! please help!
Q. Hey, I'm only 15 years old and my 17 year old ex- boyfriend is harrassing me. I ended the relationship just about a month ago for no mega dramatic reason but I just knew his wasnt for me, we had been together about a year and a half and now he's ...
A. 16 July 2012: Harassing a minor?well first off that's an offence..and if you do report he might get into deep trouble.. What I would suggest is talk to some elders who you can trust who can talk to his family and help the boy get through thos break up.. Or... (read in full...)
Should I contact a long lost love?
Q. I am thinking about messageing a guy I went out with a long time ago through one of the social networking sites. I think of him often and would love to reconnect with him, the only thing stopping me is the fear that he will reject me or not respond. ...
A. 16 July 2012: I see no harm in contacting him again!but first just talk as friends get to know each other,know abt what's new in his life and in this process you would eventually find out if he's seeing someone or single..and accordingly you can make a move..
P... (read in full...)
I feel like no one really cares about me. What can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid Please will you help me? I feel upset, ashamed and embarrassed. It seems as though no one wants to form any genuine friendships with me. I'm making the effort to get in touch with all the people I know because I'm fedup with fee...
A. 15 July 2012: Aww I'm sorry,I'm sure life must be hard not finding the right people to confide in..
I think you should contact those people who take you as friend rather than an option..
What are your hobbies?why don't you take up some classes that your interest... (read in full...)
I am in love with my friend. Is this situation hopeless?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm greatly in need of help, and I can accept an honest answer... whatever that is. I just need to pour my heart out to someone, because I'm in more pain that I can bear. I've been so lonely for a long time that it's become unbearabl...
A. 15 July 2012: Why don't you start doing things like going out for a movie?or just going to a nice restaurant just two of you like a date rather than doing something just friends do..
I'm asking you to do this,cause then you would know how he'd react and it will... (read in full...)
Dating 2 years and he's bored with me. Should I end things?
Q. Dated this man for 2 years. He's bored with me already. He prefers gym over dinner with me. He prefers to chat online with random girls over chatting with me. p/s: we don't live together Should I put up with this?...
A. 15 July 2012: Well its a clear sign you need to get done with this relationship and move on in life..
This man seems to be keeping you in the sidebar and doing everything else,using you as a backup!doesn't seem right at all..I don't think you deserve a man like... (read in full...)
Can you lose your virginity without sex?
Q. hi,my question is,m not married yet,,but i m in relationship,my boyfriend put his hand finger inside my virgin and rub inside me many time,i also smooch his penis many time,,,but sometimes i feel i lose my virginity,,,,without sex..is in it ...
A. 15 July 2012: Ummm sincee your in a relationship its very important you know about sex,not only about how to perform it but for your safety,you can't be soo ignorant about this subject considering the abortions,teenage pregnacies that is shooting up each day..
Y... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my online friend that I love him?
Q. Hi everyone! i wrote in before this but i just want to share everything that has been happening in details. So about 2.5yrs back i got into online chats and all, in 2009. I did have some frends back then while i was doing my diploma but well friends ...
A. 15 July 2012: Huni,
This guy is someone you met online,so all seems hunky dory right now but you need to snap yourself out of this dream world..may be you like the person but 'LOVE'??don't u think you should meet himm first in a public place,go on a couple of d... (read in full...)
LDR b/f has never understood that I'm stressed about my studies. Now he hasn't contacted me in a week!
Q. Hello everyone sorry if this is long but please take time to read this, i am 22 years old and have been in a relationship now for 4 years, in the begining we fell in love and it felt like magic but we used to fight alot mainly because he doesn't ...
A. 15 July 2012: I am glad I could help:)
Good luck x
Ps:remember your in charge of your life and noone else can control you..take care... (read in full...)
LDR b/f has never understood that I'm stressed about my studies. Now he hasn't contacted me in a week!
Q. Hello everyone sorry if this is long but please take time to read this, i am 22 years old and have been in a relationship now for 4 years, in the begining we fell in love and it felt like magic but we used to fight alot mainly because he doesn't ...
A. 14 July 2012: This just doesn't seem right!in an LDR it is very important for the guy to be understanding and considerate,he cannot make demands like you cannot have girlfriends,or boyfriends that is soo unfair especially when he is having his share of fun..
Y... (read in full...)
Confused boyfriend? Or is he just making me wait to be dumped?
Q. Hi all, My boyfriend of 4 months has recently been acting weird (the past 2 weeks). He hasn't shown any affection, he has been cancelling plans to see me and he has avoided calls, simply texting me that he needs to think and that he needs space. ...
A. 14 July 2012: Hey hun, If he says he cares,if he loves you then why is it soo hard for him to spend some time with you.. He feels a little bit,well that doesn't even make sense,you like someone or you don't as simple as that.. You can't be hanging around waitin... (read in full...)
I did the wrong thing. but so did she by flirting and cheating. Where do I go from here with the relationship?
Q. Hi, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 3 good years. i recently started suspecting something as she never wanted me to touch her phone. i kept it cool till one day i decided to just grab it and see what was the reason. what i found wa...
A. 14 July 2012: Hey there, There is a difference between harmless flirting and flirting with a motive..and it is wrong on your girlfriend to text*nd even make out with someone else while in a relationship with you..BUT saying that I always want to say IT GIVEs YO... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my younger lover without a scene? He's helped me in the past but now I'm sick of him.
Q. I am an older lady who has always had men who worked and helped with most bills. I have been widowed 4 times; what a drag!!! I met a younger guy online and he eventually moved in with me. All was well at first; he quit his job where he prev...
A. 14 July 2012: Hey hun, Your boyfriend had a job and he quit to come live with you,so the step he took was a major one to give up his work.. I think before making such a hasty decision you should have helped him look for a job in your city and when you found o... (read in full...)
I'm 44 and still a virgin. Should I lose my virginity to an escort?
Q. I am a virgin at 44 and was looking for advice on how to remedy the situation. In my case i have always had comments aimed at me because i'm let's say not exactly nice-looking. Ugly in fact, let's not beat about the bush.Because of this i have never ...
A. 13 July 2012: Hey first off you need to get rid of all these negative vibes!you've got to stop being soo negative about yourself..listen to lmfao-i'm sexy and I know it;) every morning you'l feel better.. On a serious note,you make think the most importan... (read in full...)
What does your boyfriend do when you are sick?
Q. I am curious to see what your boyfriend does when you are sick/unwell. Do they check in to see how you are? i have been off work for 5 days with the flu which is going around pretty badly where i am. I rarely take time off work (last year i pro...
A. 13 July 2012: Wow!that's very inconsiderate of your boyfriend to not even check on you..rude much? When I fall sick which I tend to atleast one in 2 months lol ccause I work in a hospital,my boyfriend turns into this angel sent my god to me.. He cooks,he even of... (read in full...)
I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 9 July 2012: Hey honey,
First off I think you should give him a chance to miss you,if your constantly calling him,he knows your always there and would never make an effort..let him miss you,let him make an effort to listen to the voice he loves..
I can understa... (read in full...)
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