My mate and I fancy the same guy but the rumor is that he likes her!
Q. My mate and I fancy the same guy but there are rumors that he likes my mate. me and him are just friends and i dont want to ask him out myself. please help....
A. 27 October 2010: If he likes her and she likes him, then I dont think you stand a chance.
I think you may just have to accept that this is a no-goer. How is it fair on your friend, to pursue a guy who likes her, with the intention of trying to make him like you... (read in full...)
Do we make enough money to have a baby?
Q. My boyfriend and I feel we are ready to try to start a family in the next few months. We have just paid off some debt from my uni days and are looking now to rent a place (we currently live with his family). Our combined salaries are £40,000 a ...
A. 27 October 2010: OP, I am not against children one little bit. I want a husband and family when I am in a position to give them the best possible start in life.
Maybe I am just old fashioned. I believe in having a strong commitment before children come along, a... (read in full...)
He won't stay and he won't let me move on
Q. im currently 26 weeks pregnant and my bd walked out on me so he could concentrate on being a good dad to his 2 children from a previous relationship and our soon to be born son but the problem is his ex is stating that he isnt to have anything to do ...
A. 26 October 2010: He has a history with getting women pregnant and then leaving them. Why did you think he would be any different to you?
The ex is not your problem. If she wants to cause him trouble, let her. What you have to worry about is the problems he can c... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't kiss, want to hug or have kids..what is up with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Throughout the time we've been together, I've learned several things about him. 1. He won't kiss me until the day we get married, if we do. 2. He hates hugs. He'll hug me when we're ...
A. 26 October 2010: I dont think there is anything you can do about this.
He sounds like he isnt ready for any kind of romantic or sexual relationship. He just isnt ready to have a girlfriend. Or to talk about babies, or to talk about marriage. He isnt even an adult... (read in full...)
Do we make enough money to have a baby?
Q. My boyfriend and I feel we are ready to try to start a family in the next few months. We have just paid off some debt from my uni days and are looking now to rent a place (we currently live with his family). Our combined salaries are £40,000 a ...
A. 26 October 2010: Its not so much about settling in....but if you plan on being together for the rest of your lives, and getting married (you havent mentioned this, and personally, that is what I would do first, just my opinion) do you really never want to have time ... (read in full...)
Angry at parents even though they do everything they can for me, want to stop feeling this way, help please
Q. I want to stop feeling angry and my parents and sister, please help advise me how to... My parents are good people. They worked very hard, saved every penny and had a hard life. They've given me a good life as well, roof over my head, an educati...
A. 26 October 2010: Ive jsut re-read this, and I am confused about what you actually want from you parents?
To stop telling you what to do?? I dont understand.
The other thing was this
" even as I type this on the computer I feel guilty about them paying... (read in full...)
Angry at parents even though they do everything they can for me, want to stop feeling this way, help please
Q. I want to stop feeling angry and my parents and sister, please help advise me how to... My parents are good people. They worked very hard, saved every penny and had a hard life. They've given me a good life as well, roof over my head, an educati...
A. 26 October 2010: Is it just the money problem?
I am 27, live at home and am currently doing a PhD. I dont have a big wage coming in, and it really is a tight squeeze.
I contribute to the household bills. I do the food shopping and also help if Mum needs it wit... (read in full...)
Do we make enough money to have a baby?
Q. My boyfriend and I feel we are ready to try to start a family in the next few months. We have just paid off some debt from my uni days and are looking now to rent a place (we currently live with his family). Our combined salaries are £40,000 a ...
A. 26 October 2010: I think before you start a family you should spend some time living on your own as a couple. At the moment you are living with his family, and that is a VERY different experience to having your own home, paying your own bills and doing your own ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will not let me leave
Q. my boyfriend expects me to be with him all the time, and on the weekend he had some crisps and i ate one and he just flipped and threw the plate at me and it smashed everywhere, and he went off upstairs to the bedroom, so i cleaned everything up, ...
A. 25 October 2010: Go to work, tell your boss that you are scared to go home. Say your boyfriend threatened you with a knife. Call your parents from work and ask them if you can stay with them.
Talk to your parents and then call the police. This guy sounds l... (read in full...)
Careers advice needed!
Q. I need some careers advice. I have been offered an interview for one of the top hotels in London . They have positions for Food and Beverage Attendants and Cloak Room Attendants. I havent done any of that kind of work before though. Do you know what ...
A. 25 October 2010: I agree with KC100
Working in London is expensive - I dont know where you live, but when I have to go into london on the train for work (Its about 45 mins on the train for me) it costs approx £40 for a day return if its a peak time train (before ... (read in full...)
Mum thinks I'm having sex, I'm not, but I do give him handjobs.
Q. okay, im in a comitted relationship with this amazing guy, i adore him, and he adores me, we've been dating for 3 months on the 26th of october :) But i have a few questions, not exactly problems, 1. My mom thinks me and my boyfriend are in a ve...
A. 25 October 2010: The fact that you are giving your boyfriend hand jobs, means that you ARE in a sexual relationship. That is part of sex. It is SEX. He orgasms. Its sex.
Just to remind you ALL sexual acts are illegal until you are 16. This is the age of consent ... (read in full...)
I am scared to meet him because I might fall in love and then have my heart broken!
Q. I met this really great guy online. we have been dating for three months now. i am eight months older than him. i am 15 and he is 14 at the moment. i love him and we want to meet face to face when i turn 16 but we fight so much i am scared of ...
A. 25 October 2010: Call me old fashioned, but there are so many red flags and warning bells in what you have just said...
Firstly, you have been "dating" for three months, but have never met him? How does that work exactly? To date, you have to go out, do things t... (read in full...)
He wants to "catch" me with another woman, but I don't want any part of it! will I lose him?
Q. I have a bit of a problem at the moment. Me and my partner have been together for thirteen years or so now and we have a really good relationship. I mean sex is not always regular due to having three children and both or us working, but he has a ...
A. 24 October 2010: The whole point is, it is a fantasy, and that is how it should stay.
Essentially he is asking you to have sex with another woman, against your wishes and that is WRONG whatever way you look at it. The thought of another woman pawing me, makes me... (read in full...)
I am a little bit scared at meeting her parents!
Q. ok im 14 going on fifteen and im not a virgin but i got a problem. my girlfriend and i just recently got back together we have been together 3 times now but my question is i'm going to meet her parents and im a little bit scared that they wont like ...
A. 23 October 2010: I agree with blonde30s - at 14 you are far too young to be having sex!
Are you ready to become a father?
Is your girlfriend the same age as you? If she is, then she is also not emotionally, mentally OR PHYSICALLY ready for sex. She may thi... (read in full...)
Difficult situation with someone 4 years younger than me...
Q. Right well here is the story i need help on and i hope pepole can help me: There me who is 16 and this boy which is 12 so 4 years younger than me. we met and the second day we went out because we really really like each other and i didnt feel rig...
A. 22 October 2010: He is FAR too young for you. He has a crush, big time.
You are almost an adult, he has just gone to secondary school. You are at very different stages of development both physically, mentally and emotionally.
Think back to how mature you were ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend betrayed me in the worst way!
Q. Hi everyone. I am hurting at the moment. My boyfreind has broken my trust and has done teh worst thing any one could ever do to me. I though he was a good guy. I told him about my past sexual abuse by father and he told his famly about it. I can ...
A. 21 October 2010: maybe he did it because he didnt know how to handle the information?
When someone we love tells us that they have been hurt in such a terrible way, often it is difficult to handle and comprehend. Its not just a piece of information, it brings w... (read in full...)
Completely in love with my 27 year old teacher!
Q. I don't know what to do. Im completely in love with my 27 year old teacher (im 16, so 11 years difference) Yes we have our days when we don't really get along but I guess every relationship has these. He means the world to me and I know I mean the ...
A. 20 October 2010: First of all, by having any type of "relationship" with you he is breaking the law.
he is your teacher, not your friend, or lover, or boyfriend. Whilst you are under his care, he is essentially YOUR PARENT. Got it.
If you want to be a teacher,... (read in full...)
Sexually frustrated... again...
Q. 27... I'm starting to believe I'm sexually frustrated and can't resolve my problem... After I broke up with my ex 4 years ago, I never dated or been in another relationship other than fuck buddies with no strings attached, when I was with my ex I...
A. 16 October 2010: Just a suggestion.... if he is horney in the morning and masturbates then, perhaps suggest sex in the morning when he has had a good nights sleep and is less tired?
You want sex when you want it, not when HE wants it? Maybe he is more of a mornin... (read in full...)
Does this teacher feel the same way for me?
Q. My teacher is from america and is actually rather handsome. He's only 23 and im just nearly 16. At first we never talked but after a while we got used to each other and now talk an awful lot. He's even offered to let me use his house when i do a ...
A. 15 October 2010: I have to agree with Caring Guy on this one.
Teacher/Pupil relationships are 100% against the rules and illegal.
A teacher can be a best struck off, and at worst jailed, and put on the sex offenders register for it.
You had an inappropri... (read in full...)
Am I destined to die alone?
Q. I am a 25 year old architect who has reached utter despair in the quest of finding that special lady to grow old together... This sentence sums up my life quite well however; the reason I am writing is due to the fact that I have not been with ...
A. 13 October 2010: Hey, I am 27,and in exactly the same situation as you!
I know it feels hopeless and that no one will ever want you, but hang in there.
A special lady will come along :)... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has terminal cancer, I want a baby but he doesnt. Should I leave him?
Q. My boyfriend has terminal cancer, i want a baby but he doesnt. Should i leave him? We met a year or two ago and we have fallen in love. He has a child by a previous marriage and is content with that but I am becoming desperate. I dont want to ...
A. 11 October 2010: As someone who has just lost a family member to terminal cancer, I honestly do not think you understand what will happen to the man you love in the coming months.
He will not be well enough to have sex, let alone have a child and will need all... (read in full...)
Is she telling the truth judging by the signs or do I go by logic and walk away?
Q. Not sure what to think anymore but basically heres the story . I met this girl we knew each other before! We started talking on a night out and supprisingly we hit it off ! We met up a few times and we really liked each other so we started dating. F...
A. 6 October 2010: Run away as fast as you can in the opposite direction.
I get the impression this one likes the things she cant have, then once she has them, she doesnt want them any more.
DO you want to be with someone who can turn on you so quickly? Really?... (read in full...)
We will be separated for one month when I go this trip, reassurance needed!!!
Q. I am leaving my boyfriend of 6 months to go to the other side of the world for a month in 6 weeks time. It was booked and paid for long before I met him. I am absolutely dreading leaving him, I trust him completely but i feel terrible I'll be there ...
A. 5 October 2010: This is what being a grown up is all about. Sometimes for work or whatever there are times when we have to be away from our partners.
Trust. Its only 4 weeks. Yes you will miss him, but its not the end of the world. You had this booked long bef... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to be more sexual?
Q. Hi, I'm 13 years old. My boyfriend is 16 last week. The problem is, im a virgin...he isn't. He wants me to be more sexual, and i don't know what to say! He is really nice but he said it will never work unless i try to become a little bit more...
A. 5 October 2010: It doesnt matter if he didnt want sex... ANY sexual act carried out by anyone under the age of 16 is ILLEGAL in the UK.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio1/advice/factfile_az/age_of_consent
This includes sexual touching, him touching your boobs, or g... (read in full...)
He doesn't know I have kids... Help!!!
Q. Hi I am married with 2 kids, but the guy i love i have known him past 10 years. Well in between we lost contact. Then now we are back in contact. He doesnt know I am married with kids and that i am still with my husband(verge of sepeara...
A. 5 October 2010: I hate to be the one to bring a reality check to this situation, but that last paragraph scares me.
"What do i do he's asked me to marry him, but he dont know i have kids and am nearly getting a divorce from my husband. "
Now when taken into ... (read in full...)
Unrequited love......
Q. What do you think of one sided or unrequitted love? Well it doesn't have to be "I love him and he doesn't" but "I love him and he doesn't know about it. I can't tell him because I am married or so on." Have you had a similar experience? How ...
A. 30 September 2010: Yes. And I haven't dealt with it.
When he says he cant give you what you want because he isnt the wonderful person you think he is.
Its impossible to just turn your feelings off.
If you find an answer, let me know. ... (read in full...)
Gay teacher in love with a student.
Q. I'm a 27 year old male teacher. I work in a Catholic school. I have been looking for love for quite some time. The problem is that I always end up with the wrong person. The people I choose are either straight, deep into the closet, or simply way ...
A. 27 September 2010: From a fellow teachers point of view, you have already crossed the line of appropriate behaviour. NO teacher regardless of sexual preference should kiss, touch, hug ANYTHING with a pupil.
You have to remember you are 10 years older than this kid... (read in full...)
It doesn't bother my boyfriend to make out when others at around
Q. dear aunts and uncles, pleasee help! i have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we stay round our friends houses a lot for the night as we are in one friendship group. but when we are laying next to eachother when people are in the same roo...
A. 26 September 2010: You need to tell him that doing foreplay whilst in the same room as other people is not only disrespectful to you, it is also very disrespectful to them!
Imagine how they would feel if they were NOT asleep and had to listen to you! Ughh. Horrible... (read in full...)
Why isn't my husband flushing the toilet anymore?
Q. Most of the time I get on really great with my husband who's a great bloke - kind, funny, supportive etc. Just lately though he's started forgetting to flush the loo after he's taken a cr*p. This really bothers me and it's sometimes 2 or 3 times a ...
A. 25 September 2010: However, I do particularly like this one!
http://www.gifts4blokes.com.au/images/toiletrules_lg.jpg... (read in full...)
Why isn't my husband flushing the toilet anymore?
Q. Most of the time I get on really great with my husband who's a great bloke - kind, funny, supportive etc. Just lately though he's started forgetting to flush the loo after he's taken a cr*p. This really bothers me and it's sometimes 2 or 3 times a ...
A. 25 September 2010: This is pretty disgusting behaviour to be honest.
Do you have multiple bathrooms in your house? Maybe use the other one, and leave the smelly one for him. If this happens again, (and only if you know you are not expecting guests. Leave it. Just... (read in full...)
Tell me to be sensible! College professor likes me and I like him too!
Q. I just found out my uni professer likes me and I'm in turmoil. I am a mature student and I like him too. I don't know what to do, so far I have just been avoiding him. It is driving me nuts. I want to be sensible about the whole thing. He is ...
A. 23 September 2010: Be sensible.
Bottom line is, University tutors are under exactly the same rules as teachers. Just because you are "legal" with regards to sex, doesnt make a romantic relationship appropriate.
No tutor is allowed to have a relationship wit... (read in full...)
How can I let my crush know I like him without being to pushy?
Q. Hey. I'm really into this boy. I've only just got to know him recently. Hes been in my year since the start of school but I've never really had the chance to talk to him before. We now have been sitting together in maths since school came back. It...
A. 22 September 2010: Sadly, in this day and age that doesnt always happen! lol
I did exactly the same thing. I waited for him to make the first move. And I waited, and I hinted and I got all flustered and red. Unfortunately he was shy and I was shy. Which meant th... (read in full...)
How can I let my crush know I like him without being to pushy?
Q. Hey. I'm really into this boy. I've only just got to know him recently. Hes been in my year since the start of school but I've never really had the chance to talk to him before. We now have been sitting together in maths since school came back. It...
A. 21 September 2010: If you really like this guy, dont make the mistake I did, by being coy about it.
I spent years flirting from a distance with neither of us making the move. Dont waste the time you have.
Be brave, make the first move. Ask him if he wants to do s... (read in full...)
Why does he not ever think of wearing a condom?
Q. My bf and I have sex. And sometimes, okk always, he cums inside of me, and he doesnt even think abt putting a condom, and neither doo i. Bt why is he not thinking, is it bec he wants to have a baby, or is it bec, he just wants to feel more. Hes 18 n ...
A. 17 September 2010: It's because he is a selfish arse. He doesnt care about you. If he did he would wear a condom.
If he had ANY feelings for you he would be sensible and wear a condom. If you get pregnant, it will be your problem, not his and he will walk away.
... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 14 September 2010: I think you have overreacted to this so much. If it was a single piece of glitter it could have come from ANYWHERE. Literally, on the wind, in the air, if he touched a table then rubbed his nose. Anywhere. He probably didnt even know it was there.
... (read in full...)
Does what happened mean that I'm straight? CONFUSED
Q. Hi all, I’m virgin and was confused all my entire life about my sexuality because I like boys and sometimes I like girls I feel both of them can be sexy but I’m more toward guys, so I’ve decided to date a guy for the first time to try and discover...
A. 12 September 2010: To be honest, I think anyone in that situation would have been a bit freaked out if they were a virgin.
It was a blind date, a first date, and you went straight into something very heavy! That would have been enought to put anyone off the situ... (read in full...)
Whilst I was on holiday a random boy tried to split me and my boyfriend up. I'm so angry.
Q. Hey everyone some adivce would be greatly appreciated. Im 18 and my boyfriends 19, ive been with him for a year and a half, im going to say i would like to think where the perfect match and that we will be together for a very long time, but these ...
A. 11 September 2010: I think you are just going to have to move on from this. Yes it was unkind, stupid and cruel, but getting even more upset isnt going to change that.
This guy obviously has serious issues with his mental stability and morals. Stay well clear.
... (read in full...)
Would he not date me because I don't have money or a house yet?
Q. Hi, I need some advice with regards to a man.. I met him last week in a club with friends, I was in my local bar and he was there and we got chatting. Straight away I liked him and it has been ages since I have liked anyone (Had few ex's still f...
A. 11 September 2010: He may not be wanting to get too attached to you right now, because lets face it you are going away for three months, and there is no guarantee you will even want to date him when you come back.
He isnt your boyfriend, he has no obligati... (read in full...)
Pregnant from blow jobs?
Q. I'm wondering if you can get pregnante through blow jobs exetra.Is that possible ???...
A. 10 September 2010: Firstly, highly unlikely to get pregnant from blow jobs.
BUT you may contract some nasty infection or disease. That could develop in your mouth or throat.
Secondly, as your age range states that you are 13-15 and in the UK, ANY kind of sexual ac... (read in full...)
Do I get this massage from my teacher or not?
Q. Hey need some advice, my teacher has recently passed his masseuse course. And he gave out these 50% off vouchers to work mates. I was helping out in his class as I often do and I don’t know if it was in absent mindedness or not, but he gave me one. ...
A. 9 September 2010: No. This would not be an appropriate meeting of teacher/pupil.
Regardless of your age, outside of school that would be classed as inappropriate conduct with a pupil, because he is your teacher.
The fact you also have a crush on him, which he... (read in full...)
I just had unprotected sex on the first date!
Q. Yesterday I met up with my boyfriend for the first time. We actually ended up having sex, and I know it was really to soon! We actually did it without a condom, and I do plan on getting checked out just to make sure. Anyways now looking back on it I ...
A. 9 September 2010: First of all... he is your "boyfriend" but that was your first date?
I dont get that bit.
How did you meet this guy if you only met up with him for the first time yesterday? Is he an internet date? If so that could be what your mother is s... (read in full...)
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