Is it legal to date an ex teacher?
Q. Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? T...
A. 6 August 2011: I know eyes. In a few years they will see the light. ... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend ever cut the apron strings??
Q. I am 23 and have a 25 year old boyfriend who I love very much, he has many wonderful qualities. However, after 2 years together I am becoming frustrated by the seemingly immature aspects of his personality and the sense that the relationship isn't ...
A. 4 August 2011: I agree with Birdy.
You want a serious, long term commited relationship with this guy, including moving in together. Does this dream include marriage or just living together?
If you get married, she will be your mother in law - could you cope... (read in full...)
He promised not to move away but I have seen a link to a website for a job in Australia! I don't want a LDR, so what should I do?
Q. I have been with my bf for over a year now. he is at uni studying engineering and doesnt know where he wants to work when he graduates, but he knows that he doesnt want to stay in the uk all his life. When he graduates next year, I will still ha...
A. 2 August 2011: I have to agree with Person12345.
I know you dont really want to hear it, but the truth in the matter is that a lot of university romances do not last. Especially if there is a year difference and one graduates first. You have to go where the jobs... (read in full...)
Can eating ice make you gain weight?
Q. Hi, I know this isn't a relationship question but I need a serious answer as I can't find one on google. I have gained a stone in the last year and I'm worried its because of my addiction to ice? I'm very active, I don't have time for 'exercis...
A. 31 July 2011: I highly doubt it as ice is just frozen water....
Your weight gain could be due to anything... remember as you get older your metabolism can change and you have to start working harder to achieve the same things.
... (read in full...)
Is it legal to date an ex teacher?
Q. Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? T...
A. 30 July 2011: First and foremost, it doesnt matter if you are still at school or not, if you are below the age of 18, then it is ILLEGAL for a teacher to date you.
End of.
Ok, here are some facts. It is ILLEGAL for a teacher to have a relationship wit... (read in full...)
Should we still just be fooling around at 7 months or should we be taking it to the next level ?
Q. I've been messing with my guy bestfriend for a while now, about 7 months. We normally text everyday, from the time we wake up til the time we go to sleep. (Normally he falls alseep first so in the morning he responds to the text from me the previous ...
A. 25 July 2011: I agree with eyes. If he really likes you then he will want to be around you even if you dont give him oral sex.
The fact that he hasn't made a move to make you 'official' in 7 months suggests he probably sees you as an easy way to get off. You... (read in full...)
2 weeks ago we were planning a holiday...and now it's over...I am heartbroken!
Q. Im in bits right now. I was having a LDR with 'Rob' since christmas. He's in the army. We saw each other when we could. But while he had been away, things had changed for me in my life. I became a model and been published in a couple of magazines. ...
A. 24 July 2011: Have you thought that this might not be about you, or him, but about the fact he is being deployed in a few weeks?
He might think you are getting too emotionally attached and doesnt want you to get hurt if, heaven forbid, the worst should happen. ... (read in full...)
I think he was only after sex, but I still want to be friends with him! What should I do now?
Q. Hey, The other week this guy I've known for about 6 months contacted me on Facebook and asked if I wanted to hang with him. I said okay since he was pretty nice and I'd like to get to know him better but then he started asking me to have sex with...
A. 19 July 2011: Im so sorry this happened to you.
But he is NOT a nice guy. He is a player and a user and was only after one thing. He doesnt want to be your friend and I very much doubt that he was a virgin either.
He is probably just very good with words.... (read in full...)
He told me there's no spark, just sex, so why was he standing there completely naked?
Q. hi all Just a quick question theres this guy ive liked for nearly a year now and i finelly had the courage to tell him i like him, but he replied there is nothing wrong woth me and he knew i liked him there was just no spark there for him, e...
A. 10 July 2011: By the sounds of it he just wants sex.
He has made it clear that there is no 'spark' and that you are a nice girl, but he does not want a relationship.
However you have had sex with him and he obviously thinks that if he hints hard enough (bei... (read in full...)
Am I being neglected or am I being too clingy?
Q. Hi, i have an amazing boyfriend. he is also my first boyfriend; we been together for 5 months and everything is going wonderfully, however due to his uni course, he has to spend one month on a site doing archaeological digging. Hes busy from 9 u...
A. 5 July 2011: I think you just have to be strong. This is something he has to do, and if you are being all dithery he will not be thinking about the job in hand, and thus may not be putting all his attention onto his work.
He will be being assessed on his fiel... (read in full...)
Am I being neglected or am I being too clingy?
Q. Hi, i have an amazing boyfriend. he is also my first boyfriend; we been together for 5 months and everything is going wonderfully, however due to his uni course, he has to spend one month on a site doing archaeological digging. Hes busy from 9 u...
A. 5 July 2011: I agree with Person12345, I also have experience with this type of thing.....
He is probably knackered. Physical work is very different from sitting behind a desk, and fresh air and exercise could be knocking him out.
He may not be able to g... (read in full...)
What is more pleasurable?
Q. Just out of curiosity what is more pleasurable vaginal or anal sex for both the guy and the girl?...
A. 1 July 2011: Can I ask if you have been watching porn? 99.9999999% of women prefer vaginal sex - that is what it is designed for. The anus was not designed for sex, it is functional to expell waste, and therefor is not equipped to cope with having som... (read in full...)
How long are we supposed to keep "poking" each other on Facebook?
Q. This guy i like sent me a poke on facebook last night. I tried to send one back, but it didn't work . My internet was slow at loading at first. So then, he sent another poke about an hour later and i sent one back, and he has sent another one this ...
A. 26 June 2011: Just send him a message!
"Hi (insert name here)
How are you? It's been ages since we last saw each other! What have you been upto recently?
(your name)"
Ask him a question, give him a reason to reply. ... (read in full...)
What do men think if a woman asks them out?
Q. Question for the guys; what do you think of girls asking guys out first? It's just that there's this guy in the year above me at 6th form (he's 18, going to university soon, I'm 17). He's most definitely the cocky confident type but I think he's sli...
A. 24 June 2011: Dummyduckling, I work at a University, and I regularly see the results of new first years 'breaking up' with their bf/gf's back home, or at a different uni. As tutors we see all the tears, and sadness. the anger, the depression, and the effect this ... (read in full...)
Do you ever have sex like a porn star???
Q. Just out of curiosity, do you ever have sex like a pornstar? If so, how often? All the time? Once in a while? Special occasions? (And by pornstar sex, I'm talking about stuff you would expect to see in a fairly vanilla porn video - no insane, dem...
A. 23 June 2011: "real sex is nothing like porn"
A lot of people on DC say this, because porn is not about love, romance, relationship, commitment or emotion.
Porn is about the physical release only, and MAINLY for the male ego and titilation.
99% of mains... (read in full...)
What do men think if a woman asks them out?
Q. Question for the guys; what do you think of girls asking guys out first? It's just that there's this guy in the year above me at 6th form (he's 18, going to university soon, I'm 17). He's most definitely the cocky confident type but I think he's sli...
A. 23 June 2011: Are you thinking of asking him out?
Just remember once he gets to Uni, he will not come home. He will not want to be tied down to a younger girl back home, when he has hundreds of girls the same age or older right under his nose. I fear you woul... (read in full...)
He didnt invite me to his sister's wedding, nor has he even told his family about me! Am I right to be upset?
Q. Would anyone on here be upset that your boyfriend hadnt asked you to his sisters wedding? Ive being going with this guy for the last 8 month. His sister gets married next weekend, he has talked about the wedding and the plans for it but never on...
A. 23 June 2011: I agree with Battista.
He has no rights to ask you to his sisters wedding.
This is his sister's wedding. SHE and her fiance are the people who decide who goes to their wedding, not your boyfriend.
Guestlists would have been drawn up months... (read in full...)
I had hoped for so long to be in a relationship with him, but now we are together he is the one that expresses his feelings more than I do. Why is this?
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy two years my junior. We have been friends for almost a year before we started dating. Whilst we were friends, I always wished we'd be in a relationship so it made my day when he finally agreed to it two months ago. ...
A. 22 June 2011: There could be many factors to this - the fact that sometimes the 'idea' of a relationship is actually more exciting than the reality, you may not actually fancy him as much as you originally thought, or that at 2 months, the relationship has run ... (read in full...)
No sex and no money is pushing me to break up with him!
Q. Dear Cupid's agony aunts and uncles I need your wisdom and advice I moved in with my fiancé of three years. we chose to move in to a new flat and were very happy to begin with apart from the obvious stresses of moving. this is my first time living a...
A. 21 June 2011: Just out of interest, how old is he?
If he is sulking about not getting a nintendo, im guessing he is not much out of his teens?
I hate to say it, but this is why young relationships dont work. Until you have lived with someone you really have ... (read in full...)
Will I be able to choose what contraceptive pill I go on when I visit the doctors?
Q. Hello all, just a small question here, I am going the doctors tomorrow to ask to go on the contraceptive pill, and I was wondering how it works.. Do I get a choice of which contraceptive pill I get to take? Or will they just prescribe me a certain ...
A. 20 June 2011: Generally, the Doctor/nurse will ask you a series of questions relating to your health, general well being, and past medical history.
They will also ask you if you want a pill where you have a monthly 'bleed' (not a period, just a withdraw... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 16 June 2011: But you are on the right track. It is not going to be easy, but getting over him is the best thing you can do.
School is in the past now. YOUR future is waiting for you. There are lots of new adventures just around the corner - including boys!... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 16 June 2011: And what happened? I hope he did the right thing and let you down gently.
You need to move on from this, move on with your life, concentrate on your new college and enjoy growing up. You are still very very young and have your whole life ahead of... (read in full...)
What should I do, husband doesn't want to give me any money
Q. I got married 2 months ago with this guy and we have a 2 month old baby. I was working for the last 5 years.He told me to stop working to take care of the baby. I spent my time cooped up in the house taking care of the baby, cooking, cleaning. He ...
A. 16 June 2011: I feel there is a lot of miscommunication going on here. Neither of you wants to talk or listen to the other, you both think you are right - whereas in fact you BOTH need to move to a central ground.
What are your personal necessities? Can thes... (read in full...)
Is my mom being ridiculous or am I?
Q. My mom hasn't cooked dinner in over three months. If she does, its one day out of the week and the leftovers are expected to tide us over until she next cooks. Since she doesn't grocery shop often enough, I end up buying all my food or just not ...
A. 16 June 2011: Adults do not get 'summer breaks'... this is a sad fact of life.
I do feel that you think your parents need to look after you. I live at home, I regularly do the shopping and the cooking, and the vaccuming, cleaning and general household jobs. I ... (read in full...)
Is it true that it's a woman's right to change her mind--or is she just being bloody rude??
Q. Got into a row with my girlfriend of several months after she canceled on me for the third time in a row, calling a couple of hours before. She said she had things to do. I asked for more details and she said she didnt want to get into it. I got ...
A. 12 June 2011: Good for you :)
I hope you find someone a bit more reliable! ... (read in full...)
28 years later and I want to know what her sexual past was
Q. hi i have been married to a wonderful woman for 28 years. i met her when she was 16 and i was 20. i was with prostitutes from 18 till before i met her. i could not have sex with girls i went to school with and take what did not belong to me,so i ...
A. 12 June 2011: I have to agree with Cindy and Mr Grant..... this really is none of your business.
It is wrong to ask and want to know what went on. None of your business who she slept with while she wasn't dating you. Would you be happy to tell her about al... (read in full...)
Is it true that it's a woman's right to change her mind--or is she just being bloody rude??
Q. Got into a row with my girlfriend of several months after she canceled on me for the third time in a row, calling a couple of hours before. She said she had things to do. I asked for more details and she said she didnt want to get into it. I got ...
A. 11 June 2011: She is being rude, and you deserve so much better.
I don't like standing men up on a date, and if some emergency occurs (and it really has to be serious) then I would call/text/get a message of some kind to him to explain why I wasn't where I ... (read in full...)
My life has fallen apart since we moved together. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I feel so confused and I don't know where to go or what to do. I am 19, soon to be 20. We met when I was 14 and he was 16... been together ever since. We moved in together when I turned 18 and at first everything was great. Now-a-days I find...
A. 11 June 2011: You got together as children. Now you are grown up, more mature and more worldly wise. You can see things, that perhaps you could not see when you were younger.
There are many reasons why people say that teenage romances will not last - because ... (read in full...)
What do you think of teachers dating former students?
Q. Alright, here's my situation... I'm a 30 year old male teacher, and I've fallen completely in love with a 17 year old female student. She has no idea how I feel as I have never, and would never, under any circumstance, act on it while she is sti...
A. 11 June 2011: Ok, from one teacher to another - you know this is wrong. You know the consequences if anything were to happen.
You are 30 years old - what do you actually have in common with a 17 year old? Really? Apart from a few hobbies?
Have you seen... (read in full...)
How can I make my parents see I am more responsible now I have a baby?
Q. If your 16 and have a baby, that makes you somewhat more mature right? My parents still treat me like a kid although I am one I had to grow up fast. They don't think me and the babies father can make doctors appointments and do other things for our ...
A. 10 June 2011: At 16, technically you are still a child.
Just because you were irresponsible and became an underage mother, doesn't mean that your parents responsibility ends.
When you grow up a bit you will understand that. Parental concern doesn't stop... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over myself?
Q. Hi :) I think i'm frigid. I'm 16 years old, never kissed anyone, never tried to kiss anyone or go further. I have had opputunities, and i just dont feel confident enough when it comes down to making move. I'm not ugly, and i've had boys come u...
A. 6 June 2011: Relax! Stop beating yourself up and be nicer to yourself.
You are still only 16 years old. This is still VERY young to be having any kind of sexual relationship. I know it probably seems like all your friends are at it like rabbits, but you woul... (read in full...)
I'm trying to lose weight and have no support from my family
Q. My mother has battled with her weight for as along as I can remember ( am now 20) she has been using weight watchers and has lost over 4stone over about three years. I am one of her three daughters and the youngest and recently had to move home , as ...
A. 5 June 2011: I agree with Chigirl.
At a size 12, really you are nowhere near overweight anyway. She may well feel you dont need to loose any weight and that by saying you are overweight at a size 12, she may actually feel insulted by that, because you are impl... (read in full...)
Might he have feelings for me? Am I being naive over my former tutor?
Q. Hi this is quite a common question, but I haven't found any answers that help me. I live in the UK and have just left college, only exams left to do. In my first year I got on very well with one of my lecturers (he was also my tutor). By the time...
A. 5 June 2011: You are being naive.
WHY would he want to date someone who threatened him? He can no longer trust you, and is probably just being friendly to keep the peace knowing you will be leaving in a very short space of time.
You apologised, he i... (read in full...)
Is it fair that I want to change my mind about the three-some decisions we made?
Q. My boyfriend wants threesome with a girl and i said i wanted one with a guy. Than he started complaning, because he isnt bi-sexual like me, so he wouldn't get any thing out of it. But with a girl we both would because i'm bi-sexual. So i gave in....
A. 5 June 2011: Have you thought that this isnt about you?
He is lucky you are bi-sexual, otherwise what would he do? I very much doubt he would change his opinion even if you were NOT bi. He would still not want another man anywhere near him. He would still want... (read in full...)
Is this 36 year old man worried because he has feelings towards a 16 year old girl?
Q. So, this is kind of an akward question and i don't really know where to start..i know i'm going to get alot of comments on something that this question isnt about! Okay, so basically i'm 16 and i've had a 'crush' on my ex neighbour for ar...
A. 4 June 2011: Have you thought perhaps that this 36 year old man may be mis-reading the signals you are giving off?
He is recently separated , therefor probably feeling lonely and he is on the rebound. He wants attention (anyone would do), and you are giving i... (read in full...)
My friend and my fwb were flirting and I am jealous and angry. What should I do about it?
Q. I had a fwb/bc. Its just something we have between us, no one knows. In the eyes of some of our friends, we just met. The day we "met" we played it off fine. We were drinking with our friends. He drank a lot. There was a point when I asked him if ...
A. 4 June 2011: "I was mad of course but didn't show it."
To be perfectly honest you have no right to be mad at him. You are 'just' FWB.
FWB is no strings sex. No commitment. No relationship. Just sex.
He has no obligation to not look at other women.
He... (read in full...)
Gave up on relationships and got a few "friends with benefits" but now I'm wondering about this one...
Q. ok well recintly ive pretty much given up on wantin realtionships for a while so ive aquired myself a few "friends with benifits", but the problem is i dont know if me and one of them are starting to have real feelings for eachother, this morning i ...
A. 4 June 2011: How old are you?! At your age, you should not be having 'friends with benefits'. Just enjoy being friends! Plain and simple.
Until you are 16 - all sex (That includes blow jobs, hand jobs, oral sex and intercourse (vaginal and anal)) is illegal.... (read in full...)
Opinions on young teens fooling around.
Q. Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as ...
A. 1 June 2011: I have just seen your update, and you obviously have not taken on board any of our advice.
I really hope for your sake that this doesn't backfire on you, as it is obvious you will not listen and you obviously think you know best.
You are... (read in full...)
Opinions on young teens fooling around.
Q. Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as ...
A. 29 May 2011: You might also want to look at these. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-12385159 http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=6864809 page=1 http://www.msnbc.m... (read in full...)
Opinions on young teens fooling around.
Q. Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as ...
A. 29 May 2011: Ok, lets get things straight here.
*SEX* is not just intercourse. Oral sex (blow jobs, licking out), fingering, handjobs, dry sex..... they are ALL sex. ANY sexual act is considered to be sex.
ANY type of sexual action below the age of 16 is... (read in full...)
I told him he could sleep with other girls while he was away, but it's killing me. Should I try to make it work when he gets back?
Q. I am writing this because I feel like I need an outside perspective on my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, I am 16, he is 19. In January, he left for China to teach for his gap year. Obviously this was going to be hard...
A. 24 May 2011: I know you probably will not want to hear this, but 99% of teenage romances do not last past university.
People grow up, move on, and change. Their outlook on life changes, what they want changes. When you are his age, you will be a very differen... (read in full...)
He stands up when his 10 year old sister enters the room, is this too much?
Q. What would you think of a guy (27) who is handsome, has a good job and basically has everything going right for him who actually physically stands up as a gesture of respect for his 10 years younger sister (17) when she enters the room and makes her ...
A. 23 May 2011: I think he has just got good manners. It does sound like you are perhaps slightly jealous of his little sister tho? Because you are so close in age, do you feel like she is taking away his attention a little?
If you cannot deal with this, let him ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 10 May 2011: You passed first time round? That is the normal expected thing to do! Seriously, advice from a teacher, concentrate on your exams. Leave the poor guy alone and DO NOT tell him anything.
He isnt going to ask, he doesnt want to know. Leave school, ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 9 May 2011: Once you have left and you no longer see him every day, you will move on and forget about him. I promise.
Are you going to University in September? If you are, you are going to be surrounded by so many young, cute guys, from all over the world. Y... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 8 May 2011: You will probably be in a worse state when you tell him, and he says he isnt interested. Try and put this to the back of your mind. Being heartbroken and embarassed will not do you grades any good at all. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 8 May 2011: Why do you want him to know if you do not want a relationship with him?
What will it actually achieve apart from making things very awkward?
He doesn't want to know. He doesn't care one way or another. It will not enhance his life to know tha... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 8 May 2011: Ok, here are some facts. It is ILLEGAL for a teacher to have a relationship with a pupil under the age of 18. If it becomes sexual the teacher can be jailed and put on the sex offenders register. Regardless they will be disciplined and sacked for ... (read in full...)
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