If you're a virgin, can you have sex 2 or 3 times in the same day?
Q. Hey, is it possible too loose your virginity but have sex another 2 or 3 times in the same night? Its what my partner wants just want to know if it's safes thanks x...
A. 25 November 2010: Read this, it may help you.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-normal-for-me-to-be-in.html... (read in full...)
If you're a virgin, can you have sex 2 or 3 times in the same day?
Q. Hey, is it possible too loose your virginity but have sex another 2 or 3 times in the same night? Its what my partner wants just want to know if it's safes thanks x...
A. 22 November 2010: If he is a virgin too, you may find he CANT have sex that many times. He just may not be able to get erect a second or third time.
Having sex is not like having a crafty wank in the bathroom......
Having sex for the first time should not be pl... (read in full...)
If you're a virgin, can you have sex 2 or 3 times in the same day?
Q. Hey, is it possible too loose your virginity but have sex another 2 or 3 times in the same night? Its what my partner wants just want to know if it's safes thanks x...
A. 22 November 2010: To be honest your partner sounds rather selfish and uncaring.
When a woman has sex for the first time, it can be a traumatic experience, with blood, pain or even difficulty in penetration. A lot of first times dont work very well at all.
This... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a boyfriend to want to wait to have sex?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for a year and i am 16 in the uk he is recently turned 24. i love him etc.I think that this bit is great i asked him if he was ready or if he wanted to have sex /do the deed what ever ..and he said that he didnt wa...
A. 21 November 2010: So you are 16 (woo!) and yes, that does make you "legal".
BUT that does not mean that you HAVE to be having sex, or even SHOULD be having sex.
As soon as you hit your 16th birthday you do not go out and sleep with anyone just because you... (read in full...)
What does sexually active mean?
Q. the question says it all really what does it mean to be sexually active...
A. 21 November 2010: But in the pure medical sense - if a doctor asked you if you were sexually active - and you had been, but maybe a year ago (which you could still be suffering from diseases from that encounter) if you said you were not, that wouldnt really be ... (read in full...)
Condoms in the cupboard
Q. Found condoms in boyfriends cupboard...expired 2009. He said used with wife in 2004 then forgot about them. Ive Been with him since 2005 Does that make sense? ...
A. 21 November 2010: If they expired in 2009, the he must have bought them many many years ago!
I dont think you need to worry. :)
And men are rubbish about throwing away out of date medicines!!! ... (read in full...)
What does sexually active mean?
Q. the question says it all really what does it mean to be sexually active...
A. 21 November 2010: It means that you are no longer a virgin (you have had your first sexual experience).
It can also mean that you are having regular sex as well.
Even those who have not had sex in a while are called sexually active if they have had previous enc... (read in full...)
What does a brown discharge mean?
Q. i have brown discharge coming from my vagina and i cant go to a doctor can anyone tell me what it is and what to do about it?...
A. 20 November 2010: Have you started your periods yet?
This sounds like it could be the beginnings of your first period. Talk to your Mum.
There is nothing to be embarassed about, this is natural. Talk to your Mum.
Tiger.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does not celebrate X-Mas and I'm hurt by his apparent disregard to my my feelings
Q. Me and my boyfriend are on the verge of breaking up over this.. He doesn't celebrate xmas, he's not from the UK, but he knows how important it is for my family to be around each other at that time, and this year has been one hell of a difficul...
A. 20 November 2010: First of all, why doesnt he celebrate christmas? Is it religious?
If you could give us a bit more info on WHY he doesnt like/doesnt celebrate it might help us. ... (read in full...)
Unspoken love for the past 6 years.
Q. Hello, I have never done anything like this before but I really need some advice. The situation is that I have fallen in love with my best friend but I can’t seem to get over it. We have always liked each other but never really said anything. T...
A. 19 November 2010: To be honest, declaring my love for him was the worst thing I could do.
He is now distant with me, as he is scared of giving me false hope or leading me on.
I can no longer tell him all my most deep and meaningful thoughts because there is... (read in full...)
I've just started a new relationship and found out I have herpes! How do I tell her she needs to get tested?
Q. I recently found out I had herpes. God knows how long I've had it. I've started in a commited relationship and we've had unprotected sex. How can I tell her to get tested? I feel horrible....
A. 19 November 2010: You say you didnt have symptoms prior to this, and it isnt a new relationship and you have been commited to her for a year.
Two questions;
1. Are you 100% sure you have herpes? Have you been tested?
2. Have you had unprotected sex with any... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to hurt her during sex, is this normal?
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined ive been in a relationship for a year and 4 months now and my girlfriend has changed in terms of our sex life. she keeps asking me for 'punishment sex' and when we are having sex she tells me to hurt her and make her blee...
A. 19 November 2010: Tell her just that - that you love her. Tell her that you will not "cut" her because you love her and dont want to cause her pain and suffering. Sex for sex and sex for love are very different beasts. She appears to want sex, purely for th... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to hurt her during sex, is this normal?
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined ive been in a relationship for a year and 4 months now and my girlfriend has changed in terms of our sex life. she keeps asking me for 'punishment sex' and when we are having sex she tells me to hurt her and make her blee...
A. 18 November 2010: Personally the cutting issue is not normal.
Self mutilation is often a sign of serious issues. If she was doing it to herself people would be worried about her mental health. The fact she wants you to do it to her makes it even worse! If people f... (read in full...)
Unspoken love for the past 6 years.
Q. Hello, I have never done anything like this before but I really need some advice. The situation is that I have fallen in love with my best friend but I can’t seem to get over it. We have always liked each other but never really said anything. T...
A. 18 November 2010: I can relate to this. I went thru the same thing, only Id been in love with him for 10 years.
I finally plucked up the courage to tell him how I felt, and I genuinely thought he felt the same, and that it was just shyness holding us apart. B... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents that I'm pregnant?
Q. here is the thing i am 15 almost 16 in the uk -legal age of consent is 16 - any ways . me and my boyfriend of 2 years he is 24 okay now there is a age gap i am very mature for my age and my parents now know we are in a relationship and they thi...
A. 16 November 2010: hmm what kind of school do you go to? Because no exam board I know holds final GCSE exams in April. Schools may break up for study leave at the end of April, but exams are held later than that. Edexcel, AQA, OCR all hold May/June examinations.
... (read in full...)
I need advice, I want to have a baby, I am 14, please help??
Q. hey im 14 and i really want a baby i have wanted one sence i was 11 and i dont know what to do my family and friends say i am a natual when it comes to looking after children and careing for them i really don tknow what to do please help x...
A. 14 November 2010: OK. So you are 14. I guess you live at home? So who does your washing? Your cooking? Your cleaning? Do you chip in and help to cook the meals every day for everyone? Do you do everyone elses washing? Do you do all the housework and cleaning? ... (read in full...)
Am I shallow for my worries due to his hair colour?
Q. i have a problem, a man reaaly likes me and would do anything for me but because he is ginger im scared what people will say! what do i do?...
A. 10 November 2010: I think your question says more about your views than it does about the other people you want to know about.
What would you do if you saw this ginger man walking down the street with a woman? Would you laugh? Make a joke? Heckle him?
Why are... (read in full...)
Now that he's single he doesn't want to be with me
Q. I am a female who had been dating a married male of this same age group for approximately 18 months. my dilemna is, now that he is single he seems not to want to be with me and build a relationship. he was being very evasive about it all at first, ...
A. 8 November 2010: How long ago did she die? Are we talking weeks, months, years?
Was it sudden or had she been ill?
You say you have been "dating" him for 18 months, so this cannot have been that long ago.
Have you thought that you might have just been a f... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my muslim boyfriend?
Q. I've been dating this muslim boy for almost a year now, and everything's going amazingly. I'm not one to say I've fallen in love with just anybody, I take that very seriously, so I wouldn't necessarily say that I'm madly in love, but I definitely ...
A. 7 November 2010: Honestly, I dont think this can work. A friend of mine is now married to a Muslim man and has two children. She converted after severe pressure from HIS family. After they were married. They basically wouldnt talk to her until she did, wouldnt ... (read in full...)
Ex teacher - does he want a relationship with me?
Q. well, my ex-teacher is about 20 years older than me... we always had a good relationship, ever since my dad died he has been there for me. he had a reputation of being a 'pervert', but he's not one of those creeps because he's really handsome (he ...
A. 6 November 2010: Just because he is "pretty" does not make him a nice, decent man. Looks have absolutely nothing to do with personality, or stop perverts from preying on innocent kids.
"he had a reputation of being a 'pervert', but he's not one of those creeps b... (read in full...)
All work and no play leaves no time for me
Q. why do men like work too much and have their family to spend time with, im so tried of my boy friend working 5 days a week, going work early in the morning and coming back 1 am in the morning are sometime 2 am and all he do when hes off for the two ...
A. 6 November 2010: If that is his job, then there isnt anything you or he can do about it.
How old are you and how old is he? If you are still only 18 then you are probably still in the lifestyle where weekends are about partying and going out and "sociali... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess up my first ever date!
Q. Hello, this is going to sound sad but i've been asked out to go to the cinema with this guy from college. I know him, but we only speak online so it's kind of awkward. I'm 16 and it's like my first ever date if thats what this is. I'm seriously ...
A. 4 November 2010: Tennisstar88 - in the UK "College" is the term used for schools that teach A Levels at 16-18. This is the first level of "optional" schooling in the UK, as once students have completeed their GCSE's at 16, they can leave full time schooling. ... (read in full...)
What to do about my feelings/dreams?
Q. My dad just remarried not to long ago to a woman who has 3 kids. I am an only child. Her oldest is a year younger than me. I haven't gotten to know them a great deal but I'm cool being around them. Anyways I had a dream about the oldest and i...
A. 3 November 2010: Dont act on this at all. Yes, you havent done anything wrong, and he isnt blood relation, therefor its not ewww
BUT remember, you will have to face this guy for the rest of your life. If anything was to happen, ie you had sex, had a relation... (read in full...)
Am I asking too much? He barely touches me and wont consider oral because of a bad experience with his ex!
Q. Hello, Well I'm 20 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for little under a year, i love him so much and i know he dose me but he never goes down on me and hardly touches me down their. It has gotten to the point that i like being on my peri...
A. 3 November 2010: To be honest he sounds like a arrogant.... well.. I wont say what im thinking. You have every right to feel upset, hurt and annoyed.
He sounds like he wants to have all the pleasure with none of the work.
I notice how everything you d... (read in full...)
He is getting me a sexy outfit from an adult store for my birthday present, despite knowing how I feel about this! What should I do about this?
Q. My birthday is coming up soon and ill be 21 I asked my boyfriend what he was getting me for my birthday he told me it was from a (Adult store) and he wouldint tell me anything else. Even tho i asked him not to get me a sexy costume! I recen...
A. 3 November 2010: Personally... I would ask him who the birthday present was for , you or him?
He is getting you a sexy costume for your birthday - what are you going to do with it?
Oh yeah....dress up for him. Its not HIS birthday. Its yours.
... (read in full...)
Should I take the morning after pill to stop my period when I go on holiday?
Q. This is a bit of an embarassing situation... ok, i have really heavy periods which means that my next period will be due when i go on holiday in four weeks time! or at least, i think it will be as my period should end by next monday. i was wondering ...
A. 2 November 2010: I think you have got confused between the oral contraceptive pill and the the morning after pill - they are VERY different things.
The morning after pill is an abortion pill - to be taken for unprotected sex. It basically kills off any chance o... (read in full...)
I want to live in London or America - any advice?
Q. Does anyone know if there is anywhere in London, or America, where you can live in, and also get help with job applications ?. There is a place where i live that you can live in ( it's called a foyer ) and the staff who work there also help you to ...
A. 2 November 2010: I agree - why do you specifically want to live in London or the USA - both very expensive places.
What qualifications do you have? This will help us guage what type of employment you are seeking.
America is quite strict with its immigration ... (read in full...)
Anal sex and condoms?
Q. My boyfriend of two years and i are both virgins. I have known him forever and know that there is no chance that he has ever slept with anyone and therefore he has no std's. We are considering trying anal sex but i was wondering how important it ...
A. 2 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/keyword/anal%20sex
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Anal sex and condoms?
Q. My boyfriend of two years and i are both virgins. I have known him forever and know that there is no chance that he has ever slept with anyone and therefore he has no std's. We are considering trying anal sex but i was wondering how important it ...
A. 2 November 2010: SOmething for you to think about - are gay men who take part in anal sex still virgins? Even if they have had multiple sexual partners over a lifetime?
What is your opinion on that? Because that is essentially what you want to do here.
Any typ... (read in full...)
Anal sex and condoms?
Q. My boyfriend of two years and i are both virgins. I have known him forever and know that there is no chance that he has ever slept with anyone and therefore he has no std's. We are considering trying anal sex but i was wondering how important it ...
A. 1 November 2010: You are virgins, but considering trying anal sex? You are braver than me!
You have yet to experience what sex is all about, emotionally or physically. You have no idea how normal vaginal sex may affect you or your relationship.
Anal sex is n... (read in full...)
By the hair of my chinny chin chin...
Q. hi my question is a quick one, im dating a smart beautiful girl whos been great so far and i have nothing bad to say about her, theres just one thing that bugs me - every time im with her, she has a few hairs on her chin and i just dont have to ...
A. 1 November 2010: How many hairs are we talking here? A few, or a full beard?
You do know that women have hair too.... sometimes it shows up more than others. Dark haired women often get moustaches and beards... you would be shocked at the amount of money women sp... (read in full...)
I'm terrified for my friend who is being deployed to Afghanistan!
Q. This isn't a relationship question but i feel like i really could do with some help. For the past few months i've been thinking about death, yes death, the reason this came about is because a friend, who's in the army, is being deployed to afgh...
A. 1 November 2010: Can I ask a question - are you in a relationship with this guy, or just a "friend"?
Soldiers are pretty down to earth about the risks they take. They are in the army, their job is to go out and fight, and they know the risks. If they didnt ac... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and think I'm in love with my 23 year old boyfriend
Q. Hi, I'm 16 and I've been talking to a much older guy for about 3 years now. I really like him and feel like I'm in love with him. I know he knows I have a thing for him and he did say he does too but it's hard because of the age and a few other ...
A. 31 October 2010: "I'm more mature than most girls my age"
At 16, ALL girls think they are more mature than most girls their age. You are not more mature, you just think you are.
We were all teenagers once, so take advice from those who have been there and d... (read in full...)
He hurt my feelings when he said not tonight
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months and we are getting along great. Normally we see each other 1 time a week since we live 30 miles apart and due to our work schedules. In addition to our regular jobs, we both have weekend part time ...
A. 31 October 2010: A lot of guys love BJ's... but a lot of women do not like giving them.
If he is a nice guy, he might think you are offering to give him a BJ every time you see him because you HAVE to, not because you want to.
He might think BJ's are demeani... (read in full...)
Mistress is threating to tell my wife about us
Q. I feel like I'm about to lose the best thing that ever happened for me behind ignorance. I know everyone's probably going to say I deserve it and I probably due but no one's perfect. I told my mistress that we needed to sto and she's threatening to ...
A. 31 October 2010: You may find your wife already knows or has suspicions that there is a mistress in the picture.
I very much doubt you have been 100% at hiding the tell tale signals.
You need to do the decent thing and tell her yourself. Tell her you have fin... (read in full...)
Threesomes... good or bad idea???
Q. What do you think.... threesomes, good or bad idea?? in general! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and our sex life is just fine, we still have just as much sex now as when we first started out but if im being honest, I would ...
A. 30 October 2010: No. They are not good if you are in a relationship. Usually they only cause heartbreak, pain and often the breakdown of relationships.
Just look thru the questions on this site to see. Its never a good outcome, because one partner usually enjoys i... (read in full...)
How do I get past my insecurities about my appearance?
Q. Pretty much all my life i've been insecure about my appearance. I'm 5'7 126 pounds with auburn hair and hazel eyes. People have told me i'm attractive sometimes even "stunning". I just can't see it myself, i hate having my photo taken or looking at ...
A. 30 October 2010: Hi! I am also auburn, hazel eyes... and I know exactly how you feel.
I had to do a double take when I read your question because I could have written it myself, it sounded exactly almost word for word the things I say about myself.
There a... (read in full...)
My bf is ditching me on my birthday, am I being stupid for feeling hurt?
Q. Just when I thought my boyfriend loved me, he goes and makes plans to hang with his friends on my birthday. He doesn't even mention it...he also chose not to spend his birthday with me, but I decided not to get angry/hurt since I had known him only ...
A. 29 October 2010: To be perfectly honest, this is where age gaps show their problems.
You are just turning 19 - you want to party, get drunk, enjoy yourself, probably clubbing and the like? Its been a while since I was 19, so I dont know. I am 27, and I know tha... (read in full...)
29 year old virgin and waiting for the right one. Will I find her?
Q. hi am 29 many say am a good looking guy, thing is i have allways bin shy around women god knows why some girls ask how come u havnt got a gf ya such a lovely guy thing is am still a virgin i wanted to save myself for the right person am not re...
A. 28 October 2010: You are not the only one, and I admire you for waiting for the right woman.
I am a 27 year old virgin too, thru my choice only because I want it to be special with someone who cares and loves me, not just because they want to get sex. One night st... (read in full...)
Could drinking interfere with the results of a pregnancy test?
Q. i think im pregnant because my period is over a week late. im 15 years old and very worried as the potential father is 21. i have had nearly every other sign so i took a pregnancy test today and it was negative but i was drinking last night and ...
A. 28 October 2010: At 15 your body is still developing and is not fully matured. It is not ready for sex, it is not ready for childbirth. Many girls have irregular periods at this age and it is totally normal because they are still growing and developing.
HOWEV... (read in full...)
Is he just friendly or is he working toward something more when we see each other?
Q. Reunited with an old friend. Mostly through fb and text. I will see him in November and have developed quite the crush. While neither of us has said anything he ALWAYS responds to my messages REALLY QUICKLY and uses lots of smiley faces. Is he ...
A. 28 October 2010: Having been thru this, almost exact situation and having my had my heart well and truly broken, I want to tell you to be careful and DO NOT jump to any conclusions or let yourself get too attached.
I also reconnected with an old friend thru fac... (read in full...)
My bf is ditching me on my birthday, am I being stupid for feeling hurt?
Q. Just when I thought my boyfriend loved me, he goes and makes plans to hang with his friends on my birthday. He doesn't even mention it...he also chose not to spend his birthday with me, but I decided not to get angry/hurt since I had known him only ...
A. 28 October 2010: You hint that your boyfriend is much older than you? Perhaps that could have something to do with it. As you get older, birthdays dont mean so much.
I do think this could be a symptom of a more underlying problem tho. Do you think he is being di... (read in full...)
My mate and I fancy the same guy but the rumor is that he likes her!
Q. My mate and I fancy the same guy but there are rumors that he likes my mate. me and him are just friends and i dont want to ask him out myself. please help....
A. 27 October 2010: If he likes her and she likes him, then I dont think you stand a chance.
I think you may just have to accept that this is a no-goer. How is it fair on your friend, to pursue a guy who likes her, with the intention of trying to make him like you... (read in full...)
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