Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 16 June 2011: But you are on the right track. It is not going to be easy, but getting over him is the best thing you can do.
School is in the past now. YOUR future is waiting for you. There are lots of new adventures just around the corner - including boys!... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 16 June 2011: And what happened? I hope he did the right thing and let you down gently.
You need to move on from this, move on with your life, concentrate on your new college and enjoy growing up. You are still very very young and have your whole life ahead of... (read in full...)
He stands up when his 10 year old sister enters the room, is this too much?
Q. What would you think of a guy (27) who is handsome, has a good job and basically has everything going right for him who actually physically stands up as a gesture of respect for his 10 years younger sister (17) when she enters the room and makes her ...
A. 23 May 2011: I think he has just got good manners. It does sound like you are perhaps slightly jealous of his little sister tho? Because you are so close in age, do you feel like she is taking away his attention a little?
If you cannot deal with this, let him ... (read in full...)
Could I wait till my exams are over and then ask teacher if she'd want to be in a relationship?
Q. I'm a 18 year old female, i'm about to leave school for good, just have my exams to complete. I've developed a strong attraction towards my female teacher. She is 30 years old, and i sometimes do think she has feelings for me too. She hasn't acted ...
A. 21 May 2011: Once you get to uni, you will NOT want to come home at weekends. You will want to stay with your new friends, and socialise. Believe me - been there done it got the tshirt. You will not want to be at home with parents and then go back and hear all ... (read in full...)
Could I wait till my exams are over and then ask teacher if she'd want to be in a relationship?
Q. I'm a 18 year old female, i'm about to leave school for good, just have my exams to complete. I've developed a strong attraction towards my female teacher. She is 30 years old, and i sometimes do think she has feelings for me too. She hasn't acted ...
A. 21 May 2011: To be perfectly honest, even tho it wouldn't be against the Law as such, it would still be professionally frowned upon, and as such she may well be disciplined for unprofessional behaviour.
You realise no sane 30 year old would want to date a t... (read in full...)
Is it a good thing or a bad thing to just have one child?
Q. Im 25 with a 6 year old son, i always dreamt of having more children however i am adamant the next child will be born inside marraige. The problem is i am still single and worry about my son being an only child. By the time i find someone to settl...
A. 18 May 2011: I am an only child, and it never did me any harm! It has made me capable and self reliant and I do not feel I missed out on all the sibling rivalry, bickering, or nastiness. Admittedly I do not have a 'close' sibling I can turn to, but then how many ... (read in full...)
My girl friend gave me a picture of her in her bra but I think its illegal because were minors
Q. i cant stress the fact that i didn't ask her to do this more. just randomly one day my girl friend send me via e-mail a picture of her from the waist up but no shirt and just a bra, i deleted it a day later because when i first got it i wasn't ...
A. 18 May 2011: You did exactly the right thing by deleting it.
Any photo of a sexual nature of a minor is classed as child porn. Even if the minor took the picture themselves, it is still classed as child porn.
The authorities are cracking down on things l... (read in full...)
Why won't my wife wear makeup?
Q. Hello there, Can you please advise me on what to do with my wife who doesn't like make up at all. We have been married and everything is great except that I would love my wife to put on a bit of make up. She tried it one time and she looked g...
A. 16 May 2011: All I can say is ask her. Come right out with it, if it bothers you so much. We cannot say why she doesnt want to.
You say this "I love her and want her to be the woman I married"....
How is she no longer the woman you married? Is her ... (read in full...)
Why won't my wife wear makeup?
Q. Hello there, Can you please advise me on what to do with my wife who doesn't like make up at all. We have been married and everything is great except that I would love my wife to put on a bit of make up. She tried it one time and she looked g...
A. 16 May 2011: Can I just ask why this is SO important to you?
I am like your wife, I'm 27, also work at a University and my daily make up consists of mascara (I refuse to leave the house without this)and lip balm (vaseline or other things).
Occasionally ... (read in full...)
Men are leering at my legs and I want it to stop!
Q. Hello there! Here is my crisis. Men who are way older than me are looking at my legs and smiling at me. Not the friendly polite smile but a sinister pervert smile. Please forgive the language. This started happening when my mom said that I shou...
A. 15 May 2011: If you are 15, are you trying to dress too provocatively for your age? More like an 18-21 year old would be dressing? Short skirts? No tights? Short shorts? That kind of thing?
Sadly, if you do wear short skirts or anything that leaves little t... (read in full...)
Given our respective sizes, will we be able to successfully have anal sex in the future?
Q. My penis is just a little over 5 1/2 inches and just under 6 inches long when erect, and me and my girlfriend are both virgins and we really want to have anal when she and I get married, she's really self conscious about her butt because it's not ...
A. 15 May 2011: I agree with the previous aunts... I feel you are rushing things slightly here!
You are both virgins, you have no idea how sex feels like yet. You have no idea what you will like and what you won't like.
as for this "we know we'll both love ... (read in full...)
Does he feel the same? Or is it just wishful thinking?
Q. Hi, I'm 25, female and, like so many others, want to know if my crush feels the same way about me as I do him. It is a rather complicated situation as he is one of my lecturers at university. It sounds instantly like a 'no go' and at the moment, it ...
A. 14 May 2011: Just to add to my earlier post (and please don't take this the wrong way)...
as you are older than the majority of the 2nd year undergrad students it could be that your lecturers find it easier to communicate with you on a certain level. You are ... (read in full...)
Does he feel the same? Or is it just wishful thinking?
Q. Hi, I'm 25, female and, like so many others, want to know if my crush feels the same way about me as I do him. It is a rather complicated situation as he is one of my lecturers at university. It sounds instantly like a 'no go' and at the moment, it ...
A. 14 May 2011: ok.... personally I would say walk away from this, he is just being friendly.
You do not know how he acts with ALL his other students. There may be 150 in your year, but what about all the others. You do not know how he behaves with them when you... (read in full...)
Insanity from taking birth control pills?
Q. Questions about birth control! I've been on my birth control (Loestrin 24 FE) for over a year now. I've taken it everyday, same time. Lately however, I'm feeling some very awkward side effects. I no longer have ANY libido which makes my fiance b...
A. 13 May 2011: I can totally sympathise with you about this! I had the same kind of reaction to the pill, altho it made me suicidal and depressed. To the point where I became disinterested in life and didnt know where to turn.
In the end my boyfriend left me,... (read in full...)
What's a good size diamond for an engagement ring?
Q. What is a nice size solitaire diamond for an engagement ring to a tall, slender lady who has a ring size of 5.5? I am looking at just over 1 carat. The quality is impeccable, so I'm not looking for comments on clarity and color...just size. I kn...
A. 13 May 2011: I think this is not so much down to the size of the finger, but also the style of the fingers owner. Some women like smaller, less gaudy jewellery, others like big, showy, glitzy stuff.
Is your GF the type who would want to flash it to everyone... (read in full...)
How do I end things with a FWB who is delusional about where she stands?
Q. I met this girl a few months ago at a party and we began to have a sexual relationship. We agreed to be no strings attached BUT she began to catch feelings. After that I reminded her that I'm not into her that way. She cried and made a big scene but ...
A. 12 May 2011: Basically you cant. You have now seen the truth about FWB relationships, and that is one person (usually the girl) always ends up emotionally attached to the other.
Women think about sex very differently to men. To you it is just an act that you... (read in full...)
How do I end things with a FWB who is delusional about where she stands?
Q. I met this girl a few months ago at a party and we began to have a sexual relationship. We agreed to be no strings attached BUT she began to catch feelings. After that I reminded her that I'm not into her that way. She cried and made a big scene but ...
A. 12 May 2011: "So I hooked up with her every once in a while until about a month ago because she was convenient." makes you sound like a very arrogant selfish pig. She was convenient. Poor girl! You have no care for her feelings at all, she is just a vessel for ... (read in full...)
How can I make my teacher aware of my feelings without others knowing?
Q. Ok So I live in the UK and the the law on having sex is 16 here. So im 18 in December 2010 and i have this major crush on my college teacher, ive been having like 'wet dreams' about him and ive NEVER crushed on a teacher before but hes 26 and hes ...
A. 12 May 2011: I am sorry, but as a teacher, we have a duty of care towards our students. You are children, and whilst in our care we act as guardians. Getting too close, and forming inappropriate relationships, as this is goes against every single rule in the ... (read in full...)
Could I have caught a disease from the toilet?
Q. I don't normally use public toilets to poop, but today I had to go pretty badly. but instead of putting my cheeks to the toilet, I just kind of crouched, and I noticed that the water was yellow (many people at my school don't flush) which is ...
A. 11 May 2011: I think you should be fine, but if you are at all worried, go and talk to your doctor. They are better people to ask about medical questions!
One tip tho from a girl, if the toilet water looks a bit yellow, always flush BEFORE you go as well as ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 10 May 2011: You passed first time round? That is the normal expected thing to do! Seriously, advice from a teacher, concentrate on your exams. Leave the poor guy alone and DO NOT tell him anything.
He isnt going to ask, he doesnt want to know. Leave school, ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 9 May 2011: Once you have left and you no longer see him every day, you will move on and forget about him. I promise.
Are you going to University in September? If you are, you are going to be surrounded by so many young, cute guys, from all over the world. Y... (read in full...)
Stunningly beautiful girl, 28, never had a relationship: red flag??
Q. Dear Aunts: I met this girl who seems real nice, sweet and down-to-earth from Europe (Poland). She seems to like me, flirts a hell of a lot, and I been thinking of asking her out. She is stunning, does some modeling, is here on a work visa. On...
A. 9 May 2011: I agree with Chigirl.
Not all women are lucky in love. Not all women have had past boyfriends at 28 - sometimes life isn't fair.
Just because she is beautiful and lovely, doesn't mean that the boys have been trying to beat down her door. T... (read in full...)
I accidentally gave him the wrong number and I don't think I will ever see him again! Help!
Q. I started out in my first job a couple months ago and I met this guy called max who I ended up working really closely with almost every night and we became good freinds till it sort of became obvious neither of us wanted to be..Just freinds..how ...
A. 9 May 2011: If he still works at the old place, why can you not contact him there?... (read in full...)
Advice on buying a puppy?
Q. ok what i was wondering is advise about buying a puppy chihuahua , ok heres wht i waan know : 1) do you HAVE to have a crate for it or could i just have it in a bed straight away coz i havent got money for crate . 2) with making sure it doesnt w...
A. 9 May 2011: ok, puppies are not just for birthdays but for a long long time!
They cost money. Starting with buying the crate. Then there are vaccinations (if it is a young puppy you will probably have to get boosters and top ups), then having it neutered... (read in full...)
Broke off my engagement and fell for my lesbian friend. Now what?
Q. My life has been confusing these past few months... I guess I will start with some background history. I am a 20 year old female that just ended a 4.5 year engagement with the man I thought I wanted to marry...( I still love him.. idk if it is that ...
A. 9 May 2011: I think first of all, putting your sexuality to one side for a moment, you need to take some time out to think about you. You are only 20 years old, and have just come out of a 4.5 yr relationship? So you were how old when you became engaged? ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 8 May 2011: You will probably be in a worse state when you tell him, and he says he isnt interested. Try and put this to the back of your mind. Being heartbroken and embarassed will not do you grades any good at all. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 8 May 2011: Why do you want him to know if you do not want a relationship with him?
What will it actually achieve apart from making things very awkward?
He doesn't want to know. He doesn't care one way or another. It will not enhance his life to know tha... (read in full...)
How can I make my teacher aware of my feelings without others knowing?
Q. Ok So I live in the UK and the the law on having sex is 16 here. So im 18 in December 2010 and i have this major crush on my college teacher, ive been having like 'wet dreams' about him and ive NEVER crushed on a teacher before but hes 26 and hes ...
A. 8 May 2011: You are right, it is criminal. This teacher has been grooming you for a relationship whilst under his care. This is TOTALLY against the rules of teaching and if found out, he will face an investigation as people will assume that your relationship ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?
Q. for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...
A. 8 May 2011: Ok, here are some facts. It is ILLEGAL for a teacher to have a relationship with a pupil under the age of 18. If it becomes sexual the teacher can be jailed and put on the sex offenders register. Regardless they will be disciplined and sacked for ... (read in full...)
Worried about my contraceptive pill?
Q. Hey there. I'm currently on the microgynon contraceptive pill and I'm having a few queries and was wondering if anyone could help? Ive been taking them for about 8 months now. I was told at the doctor to take them everyday for 3 weeks and then s...
A. 6 May 2011: Sounds like breakthrough bleeding - this is a common side effect with the contraceptive pill. (if you read the info sheet in the pack it should explain about this).
The pill generally can have a whole range of side effects!
BUT, I would ... (read in full...)
I want to show her that I don't just want her for sex. I really care about her.
Q. Okay guys, So I'm back again, feeling really down at the minute as it's going downhill rapidly with my FWB, I've know her for about a month or so now (was introduced through my sister) and the first few weeks were great, we saw each other regul...
A. 4 May 2011: I just want to say well done for being honest and sorting yourself out.
But also that this is what happens when you have a FWB relationship. Someone ALWAYS gets hurt. It is very difficult to keep it just business, one party always gets more emo... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?
Q. My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...
A. 3 May 2011: ok, just something you pointed out there - how much older than you is your wife?
This *may* be a contributing factor to your lack of spicy sex life. Depending on how much older she is she may have issues about what is deemed acceptable within s... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?
Q. My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...
A. 2 May 2011: ok, I have a couple of questions for you.
Have you ever tasted your own cum? I mean not just a little lick, but a whole mouthful?
If so, did you like it?
"This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?"
You feel unwa... (read in full...)
Are we friends? Or friends with benefits? Or what?
Q. **It is a little long, but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take the time to read it!!! Long story short, I have an FwB, we do not have sex though (I am a virgin - he isn't), and it was MY choice to become friends with benefits, except we didn't really ...
A. 30 April 2011: I agree with Cindy. You seem to have a pretty low image of yourself if you are worrying that a guy won't see you because you cant give him oral sex.
To be frank, if that is all a guy wants, then he is NOT worth your time, even in a friends ... (read in full...)
She keeps walking in on me masturbating!
Q. Need help? My sister walked in on me masterbating last month, now she keeps doing it. And i've been super carefull, but its like she knows i'm doing it and my bedroom door flys open, she's even walked in on me twice wheni've been in the shower. What ...
A. 30 April 2011: Lock the door. She is invading your privacy. Ask her politely to knock before she comes into your room from now on. Its called manners, I think she needs to learn some! :)
... (read in full...)
Birth control pill supply runs out when I'm aboard, how do I get more pills?
Q. I've started the pill, and from my calendar that I am using to find out when I run out of my first three month supply, I am going to run out on the second day of my holiday abroad. How do I get more pills? Do I have to have a check up to get more ...
A. 25 April 2011: you will either need to take a trip to the doctor before you go on holiday to get your repeat prescription early, OR abstain from sex until you get back and can go and get them when you return.
It's very simple, you just have to be prepared... (read in full...)
Having a Professional Page is ruining my relationship!
Q. Hello! I am a Paul Mitchell Focus Hairstylist, and I was trained to network with people to help myself build my cliental and or just get my name out there, one day I hope to become well known or even famous for what I do, I made my professi...
A. 25 April 2011: Don't you delete your professional facebook! Networking is important in any up and coming business and if you want to get somewhere, you have to get your name and reputation out there.
It sounds like your boyfriend has serious trust issues o... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is shooting blanks
Q. Hey guys I need a little help... Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 3 months now and wev still not got pregnant Im 21 and already have 2 kids from a previous relationship and my boyfriends 30 and doesnt have any kids Iv been pr...
A. 21 April 2011: You already have two kids and you are only 21? Wow.
Stop stressing.
You have plenty of time to have more kids. Plenty of time! (average age in the uk for a woman to have her first baby is mid-late 20's).
The more you stress the less like... (read in full...)
I can't stop craving a baby! Is there a way to put it on hold?
Q. I have always wanted a baby but it's got to the point where I'm literally craving one. I know this is long but it's the full story so you can give more suitable advice :) Me and my boyfriend are both 17 and although we are young, babies ha...
A. 27 March 2011: Ok, lets look at the reality.
First of all you are 17. You are going to drop out of college because you do not feel it is for you.
Right ok.
So how are you going to support a baby?
Without qualifications you wont get a well paid job. Yo... (read in full...)
Why are people so judgmental?
Q. Why are people so judgemental? On here there are a lot of aunts and uncles, who seem to think that because a young questioner asks a question about love and relationships, they need to discourage this young person from being grown up and thInking ...
A. 23 March 2011: Would I have answered differently had there not been an age displayed?
Honestly, no. It is very obvious from the way you have phrased the question, to the topic of the question itself that you are a younger person.
Your original questio... (read in full...)
Why are people so judgmental?
Q. Why are people so judgemental? On here there are a lot of aunts and uncles, who seem to think that because a young questioner asks a question about love and relationships, they need to discourage this young person from being grown up and thInking ...
A. 22 March 2011: Ok, I am going to bite, as you seem to want an argument and to be proved right.
Firstly, until you are 18 years old, in the UK you are considered to be a child. That is the Law. Like it or not.
We have all been teenagers. Yes, really. I know i... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date her before she is 16?
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old male and I met this 15 year old girl who lives in the west of London (I live in the east). I'm going to be 18 in May, she will be 16 in August, would I be a prevert if I dated her before she is 16?...
A. 18 March 2011: Personally, I feel you are too old for her. You are very nearly an Adult, a grown man, and once you hit 18, you will no longer be considered a child. She is still a minor (under 18) and also, crucially legally underage.
On top of this, you also... (read in full...)
We're not supposed to have sex before marriage but we want to!
Q. I lost my virginity a couple of years ago, and was in a serious and long relationship which was sexually active. However, my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 years and soon after I became a Christian so I know I am not supposed to have sex before ...
A. 14 March 2011: I am not religious, so I can not advise you on the rights or wrongs.
BUT - this is a choice you make when you choose to follow a religion. There are sacrifices you have to make as part of a faith.
We see so many questions on here about this ... (read in full...)
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