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writes:okay, im in a comitted relationship with this amazing guy, i adore him, and he adores me, we've been dating for 3 months on the 26th of october :)But i have a few questions, not exactly problems,1. My mom thinks me and my boyfriend are in a very sexual relationship (were not) and she keeps talking to me about how to be safe and how she doesnt think im ready and i do honestly try and tell her im not in that kind of relationship, how do i make her listen to me?2. Ive given my boyfriend a handjob 3 times now, everytime he cums within a very short amount of time (like a minute or two), im not complaining or anything, im just wondering is that normal?3. My ex boyfriend, keeps saying to me 'can we carry on from where we left off, when you and (current boyfriend) spilt up?' we had a sexual relationship... (im still a virgin though) he wasnt overly nice to me, unless he wanted something, but at the moment he is being nice and friendly and calling me beautiful and things, i have no intention of getting back with him, im just wondering, what are his intentions? Why does he only car about me now im with someone else?Thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Right dispite what some have said, a hand job is NOT sex, but it is intimate. Be brutaly honest with your mum and tell her what you have and havent done. She may be shocked but at least ur not having sexual intercourse underage.
Its sounding like ur ex is jealous of ur new bf ND thats y he is acting the way he is. Dispte ur worrys about ur mum. Im sure she loves you very much and just wants you to be safe. When you do decide to become sexually active talk to her about contracetion on ur own grounds. maybe if she can see that ur being responsible by asking for her advice then she will be more believing of you.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 And my advice stays the same which correlates with everyone else's. since this is your second time posting this question.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (25 October 2010):
 The fact that you are giving your boyfriend hand jobs, means that you ARE in a sexual relationship. That is part of sex. It is SEX. He orgasms. Its sex.
Just to remind you ALL sexual acts are illegal until you are 16. This is the age of consent in Britain, and includes hand jobs, oral sex, mutual masterbation, as well as penetration of the vagina and anus.
If your boyfriend is over 16 any form of sexual touching could be classed as rape. Until you are 16, you cannot give consent to sex and it is classed as child abuse. Please remember that. It can mean jail time.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio1/advice/factfile_az/age_of_consent
Your Mum is just caring about you. She doesnt want you to end up pregnant at 16. Be warned, hand jobs can lead to full on sex. It only takes one time unprotected and you will have 18 years of responsibility. She is just trying to protect you from that. Its very easy to get carried away in the moment, and if you are not prepared. Your future is essentially ruined.
Your ex sounds like a player. Leave him to it. There is a reason why he is an ex. Your relationship didnt work. It will not work if you try again. Move on.
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 your mom loves you and she knows the pressure young guys can put on young girls.shes right, keep it safe and dont go all the way till you know for sure your'e really ready to take that step.
one or two minutes is normal. he will have been really exited to have you touch him like that and you can both touch each other and learn for now.you can slow down when hes about to cum and delay his ejaculation and extend the time. it will be fun for both of you.
as for your ex, he's sniffing around for what he can get from you, if your silly enough. dont even go there.
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