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writes:dear aunts and uncles, pleasee help! i have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we stay round our friends houses a lot for the night as we are in one friendship group. but when we are laying next to eachother when people are in the same room (asleep) we do foreplay. i feel strange doing it when i know other people could wake up anytime but it doesnt seem to bother him, is this normal, and hes just being a typical guy? haha, and how can i tell him to calm it down a bit? by the way, we always spend a lot of time together and love eachother to bits :) this is the only thing i worry about. thank you for your help!!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): Unless you or your boyfriend can take care of a baby then you both need to quit anything sexual anyway. Buy a vibrator. Condoms break, they get forgotten. Since you guys are doing the kid thing and sleep overs I'll bet that both of you live with your parents.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (26 September 2010):
 You need to tell him that doing foreplay whilst in the same room as other people is not only disrespectful to you, it is also very disrespectful to them!
Imagine how they would feel if they were NOT asleep and had to listen to you! Ughh. Horrible. Would you do it if your parents were in the room? Siblings? So what makes friends any different?
If you want to do sexual things, dont sleep over with other people.Stay at home in the privacy of your own rooms. Be firm, say NO. If he gets in a huff, its his problem.
There is also the other issue, that people might then spread gossip about you - just remember, people might not always be asleep! and they might enjoy listening.
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reader, paulomiller  +, writes (26 September 2010):
explain to him that if people see you boyh ..they will think bad about you as a slut.. if your boyfriend loves you he will stop this game..if he doesn't care about what people can think about you...It's time that you let himm go away from your life because it shows that he doesn't respect you
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