A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey. I'm really into this boy. I've only just got to know him recently. Hes been in my year since the start of school but I've never really had the chance to talk to him before. We now have been sitting together in maths since school came back. Its great, I've got to know him really well. Hes funny,kind and smart! I'm not sure if he feels the same way towards me. My maths teacher regularly changes the seating plan so i wont be sitting with my crush forever. I could do with a few tips of making it more obvious to my crush i like him! without being to pushy. thank you :) xxx
View related questions:
crush Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much :)
well things have turned out a bit different than i had hoped :( he is now going out with someone. but it is an on/off relationship. I'm taking a step back for now and will wait and see what happens.
good luck to you aswel :D
A
female
reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Sadly, in this day and age that doesnt always happen! lol
I did exactly the same thing. I waited for him to make the first move. And I waited, and I hinted and I got all flustered and red. Unfortunately he was shy and I was shy. Which meant the situation ended up at a little bit of a stalemate.
It was obvious there was a connection but because we were both as scared and as shy as each other neither of us was brave enough to make the move. Then it was too late. Uni and life split us apart.
Now, 10 years on (!) and we are back in exactly the same situation... (I know, dont laugh).... both still slightly wary of making any kind of move or commitment as at the grand old ages 27 and 28 things are far more serious now. However, I am not going to let him get away a second time!
So make the move. He might actually just be too scared to say anything! Do not end up like me! Dont waste what could be a good thing!
Good luck!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you :)
I see what you mean :)
i have been flirting with him for about 2 months now. So yes.. maybe it is time to make a move. But I always thought it right for the guy to make the first move! ah well.. we'll see xx
...............................
A
female
reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (21 September 2010):
If you really like this guy, dont make the mistake I did, by being coy about it.
I spent years flirting from a distance with neither of us making the move. Dont waste the time you have.
Be brave, make the first move. Ask him if he wants to do something with you.
...............................
|
