Why do I miss my ex-boyfriend as much as I miss my girlfriend?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months this time last year, after I moved away to university. I felt that I didn't love him any more and that I wanted to live life and experiment. I met a girl on a night out and we hit it off and became really ...
A. 3 December 2010: Perhaps it could be something to do with the fact you broke up with him this time last year. And now that you broke up with your girlfriend(before getting back together) this could have brought back the memory of the break up with your ex? Has this ... (read in full...)
I'm in a Belle, Edward and Jacob situation! Help!
Q. August 2nd 2008, I met a 24 year old man at my church as he came to preach/sing. (my EDWARD) NOTHING HAPPENED, just began to speak as friends over myspace and such. (he lives in FL and me In MD) Then he came a second time in November 24th or ...
A. 1 December 2010: I think you are getting a little carried away with fantasy and the idea of destiny. Destiny is something made up by people to find meaning in the random events of their lives. What happens in life is a mixture of human intention and coincidence. ... (read in full...)
I just feel like giving up...
Q. Hi guys, I just feel like giving up... I have no money, no idea what want as a career, no boyf. I'm crashing on my mates floor and I'm about to turn 30! All I want is to meet someone lovely and buy a house and settle down and have kids! I mea...
A. 30 November 2010: I really feel for you hun. It sounds like you are really struggling right now. It must be very hard being on your own and seeing your past loves getting married when you thought you would be together.
And also finding out you are not suited to teac... (read in full...)
I caught him jerking off... to dance videos!!!!
Q. This isnt really that big of a deal, but for some reason its really bothering me. This morning i found my boyfriend of over year sitting on the floor watching Dance videos. NO big deal right? well i popped my head up a little further to disco...
A. 30 November 2010: For some people, male and female, jerking off is as natural as having a pee. It's like an itch you just have to scratch. It's a feeling that builds up and builds up until you just have to do it. It doesn't always have to be sexual, it can simply be ... (read in full...)
Romeo and Juliet was just a step on my ladder.
Q. I have come looking for help and advice. I need it desperately. This is my story. When I was 15 I started going out with a girl who we will call lucy (not her real name). I had had a few girlfriends before her that lasted around 8-10 months (...
A. 30 November 2010: It sounds like your love is unbelievably strong and powerful. I can almost feel your pain from the words you wrote, they are very powerful.
I won't say anything to help you get over her, I don't think I could say anything that would help you do that... (read in full...)
I'm keeping it in the family!
Q. I'm 15 and i think im in love with my brother's girlfriend's brother, but my brother's girlfriend and my brother are having a child together, ive been out with my brother's girlfriend's brother before though, is this wrong or incest in any way ? ...
A. 30 November 2010: No it's not technically incest as you are not blood relations. Therefore it would not be illegal. But on the other hand, your brother's girlfriend's brother will be the uncle to your brother's child. So while there is nothing technically, legally ... (read in full...)
Could his social-status keep us apart?
Q. Is it wrong to think he's too good for me? Theres a guy i like, a lot, and i havent known him for very long, he's quite shy but is friends with a lot of 'popular' people from our old schools and seems to be the general joker of the group. He seems ...
A. 28 November 2010: Don't ever think ANYONE is better than you, above you or too good for you. We are ALL human beings, we ALL are born, live, poop and die. Everything in between is a fantasy.
You have to make your own reality. If you think someone is better than you,... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and never done it!
Q. What is masterbating i'm 18 and i have never done it before and all my friends talk about it....
A. 28 November 2010: Do you know what sex is? It's having sex, with yourself. Do you know what an orgasm is? Is giving yourself one of those. You've managed to find this website, why don't you try searching for a website on masturbation. I'm sure there are numerous that ... (read in full...)
My husband accuses me of masturbating
Q. well am a stay at home mom and Ive been with my husband for 5 years.and he has been accusing me of masturbating and he doesn't want or try to have sex with me,why do you think that is?accusing of masturbating?...
A. 27 November 2010: This is not normal, healthy behaviour for a husband to treat his wife. In a healthy relationship a husband would want to give sexual pleasure to his wife and explore his sexual side with her. He would also recognise that masturbation is healthy, ... (read in full...)
I jokingly asked a girl to be my g/f, she accepted and I already have a girlfriend!
Q. Well uhm, I am having a bit of a problem, and I dont know how to fix this, so Im hoping I can find people who can help me with this problem. I have a girlfriend, and I have been with her for a year, we have had our fun and everything.. but...
A. 27 November 2010: Well I guess you have learnt the lesson to be honest and not joke around about these things or it will come back to bite you in the bum!
It's ok because it was just on the internet, not in your local area, where people may talk.
Just break it... (read in full...)
Heart in one place, soul in another, Help!!
Q. last weekend, for our 3 year anniversary, my partner brought her best friend over and we had a threesome. as my partner is not all that excitable, she went to sleep afterwards, and her friend and i continued to have oral and then had intercourse a ...
A. 27 November 2010: Gosh! This is exactly why threesomes are such a bad idea in real life! You have opened Pandora's box so to speak and crossed the boundaries of fantasy and reality. Now you must deal with the consequences.
Only you can decide. I would suggest you ... (read in full...)
I want to stop being rude!!!!!!!!!!!!
Q. ok, so here is the deal im gettin married in less than 30 days. lets call her miss bee, well miss bee and i have been together going on 10 years. i love her deeply, we have two sons and have been together since high school. ok so my ? i have been ...
A. 27 November 2010: There is probably something deeper that is behind your behaviour. It sounds like something that has been going on for some time. I don't think you can find the answer here on the internet, as it will be deeply personal and may require exploring ... (read in full...)
Does ignoring her work to get her to miss me?
Q. Me and my ex girlfriend are going through a time where she wants time to think about getting back together however she is so indecisive and cannot decide and everytime I bring it up she always finds problems with giving it another go even though she ...
A. 27 November 2010: I agree with CaringGuy. She seems to be stringing you along. She won't commit to being with you, yet she won't break up with you fully and let you move on. She is playing with your feelings because she knows you love her and are prepaired to wait ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to make losing my virginty more comfortable?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, and we both feel ready to have sex. i want to make sure that we are the safest we can be. how can we avoid breaking the condom? also, i heard it hurts the first time. is there any ways or positions to ...
A. 26 November 2010: If you want to be extra safe, go on the contraceptive pill as well as use condoms. That way if the condom splits, you are covered. Or the other thing you can do, if the condom splits, is to get the morning after pill.
Keep in mind, condoms don'... (read in full...)
He said I have a wide vagina and now it is stopping me from enjoying sex!
Q. well.. i just met my bf 3 months ago.i became crazy about him.wanted him he has a great mind great body.he's complete for me.lately i had problems with my family and work because of him.everybody thinks he's a bad guy they want me away from ...
A. 24 November 2010: God! He's knocked your confidence and made you self conscious. That's why you're not enjoying it! What a thing to say! That would be like you telling him he has a kinda small knob. To any guy that would knock their confidence a bit. Mind you, you ... (read in full...)
I can decide what gift to get boyfriend for Christmas!
Q. HELP ME!! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and i have no idea of what to get him for christmas. He loves to read but I dont want to get him a book because i dont know if he's already read it or even if he's heard of it. He ...
A. 23 November 2010: Yeh test the waters. Start up a conversation about Christmas shopping. Say you are worrying about what to get you mum, friend etc. See what he says. They casually ask if there's anything in particular that he'd like in his stocking. He's probably ... (read in full...)
I stopped eating meat but now I'm eating too much sugar!
Q. Hi,umm I have started this new diet about not eating meat anymore because I've heard about what they do to the animals(I've heard about how the animals are kept under very poor conditions and they inject steroids into them and things like that and ...
A. 22 November 2010: I was a veggie for 3 years and I have to say I was pretty healthy for those 3 years. I still eat lots of meat free meals.
There are loooads of things you can cook without using meat. I would suggest buying a vegitarian cook book, or browsing the ... (read in full...)
Cumshots! Outrageous???
Q. I have heard that one of the latest things in porn is to have multiple oral cumshots. I've heard that some of the women have had up to 20 or more men cum in their mouth and pretty much mad to swallow all of it. How can any woman like that? Do any ...
A. 21 November 2010: To baddogbj-why do men have to have to see women put in a subordinate/ subservient position? Why is it a difficult thing for men to report to a female boss, etc? Why should it be any different than having a male boss, if they are both able to do the ... (read in full...)
What does a brown discharge mean?
Q. i have brown discharge coming from my vagina and i cant go to a doctor can anyone tell me what it is and what to do about it?...
A. 20 November 2010: If you havn't started your periods, it is most likely that. If you have started them, it will still be to do with your periods. You can get brown discharge either at the beginning or end of a period, normally the end. It is brown because it is old ... (read in full...)
I feel sad because no one loves me
Q. i feel sad because no one loves me. every time i see a perfect couple, i think in my head," will that ever be me? No it cant be." and then i start tearing. there is also this guy that i like. i have told him that i love him, but he never told me if ...
A. 20 November 2010: Hi hun. I understand what you're going through. When I was your age I felt the same. I really wanted someone to love, but I was really shy and awkward at the time(not saying you are) so nothing romantic happened for me until I was 17. When I was 17 ... (read in full...)
How do women define maturity?
Q. Why do women put so much importance on a guy's hobbies and possessions to decide if he is "mature" or not? To me, maturity should have nothing to do with anything as superficial as collecting action figures, reading comics, not owning a car for ...
A. 19 November 2010: Exactly, I agree with Tisha. There is pressure from sociaty to act and be a certain way whoever you are. Society, wherever you go in the world has set roles and stereotypes of how a person "should" behave, whether that is for their gender, there ... (read in full...)
She wants sex more often than I do, how do I deal with this?
Q. Help! My girlfriend and I are having problems when it comes to sex. I love her and think the world of her, the problem is that she wants to make love probably more often than I do. I am happy to make love too, but sometimes I am stressed...
A. 16 November 2010: It sounds like you are in a very difficult situation here that is nobody's fault. There seem to be many different things making demands on your time, your job, commuting, kids and your girlfriend. It must be hard trying to juggle everything and ... (read in full...)
She wants sex more often than I do, how do I deal with this?
Q. Help! My girlfriend and I are having problems when it comes to sex. I love her and think the world of her, the problem is that she wants to make love probably more often than I do. I am happy to make love too, but sometimes I am stressed...
A. 16 November 2010: No sex does not equal love. But sex is a way of expressing love and sharing love with someone special. There are many different kinds of love, but we are talking romantic love here. If there is no sex within a romantic relationship, it is more like ... (read in full...)
She wants sex more often than I do, how do I deal with this?
Q. Help! My girlfriend and I are having problems when it comes to sex. I love her and think the world of her, the problem is that she wants to make love probably more often than I do. I am happy to make love too, but sometimes I am stressed...
A. 15 November 2010: "In the past, it's been like having cake all the time, put in front of you with an expectation that you'll eat it. After a while, you don't want any more cake."
My god, my boyfriend uses this analogy all the time! Except for him it's chocolate bisc... (read in full...)
She wants sex more often than I do, how do I deal with this?
Q. Help! My girlfriend and I are having problems when it comes to sex. I love her and think the world of her, the problem is that she wants to make love probably more often than I do. I am happy to make love too, but sometimes I am stressed...
A. 15 November 2010: Explain your point of view to her. Assure her that you DO find her VERY attractive and that you just have a lower sex drive than her.
I have been in her possition and I understand how she may feel. Having a much higher sex drive than your part... (read in full...)
How do women define maturity?
Q. Why do women put so much importance on a guy's hobbies and possessions to decide if he is "mature" or not? To me, maturity should have nothing to do with anything as superficial as collecting action figures, reading comics, not owning a car for ...
A. 15 November 2010: I don't know where you've gotten your ideas of what most women want in a man, but let me assure you, as a woman, I believe you've got it wrong. The women who look for a guy who "has lots of toys", has cars, money, expensive possessions etc, have the ... (read in full...)
Healthy breakfast?
Q. what are some of the healthy breakfasts? i want to improve my health and activities so i have decided to rely on healthy food. i would like to know what are some of healthier breakfasts, lunch and dinners. ...
A. 7 November 2010: Try porridge. Oats are vey good for you as they release energy slowly and have lots of fibre. Add some chopped fruit such as banana, strawberries or peach to make it extra healthy and tasty or a spoon of honey. Use water to make it up and add ... (read in full...)
I've had sex with both my boss and her daughter! How do I get out of this?
Q. Hello. This is a very awkward, but sadly very true, story that I need help with. I have recently been having a casual sexual relationship with my 38 year old boss. I'm 20. This may sound bad but bare in mind she was not my boss when I began 'se...
A. 6 November 2010: I really don't mean to be judgemental, but you've got yourself into this mess as you made the decisions to sleep with all of these women at the same time. I know you may think you're not doing any harm, but this could ruin the relationship between ... (read in full...)
For the girls: Would you dump your boyfriend if you found out he was a 25 year old virgin?
Q. This question mainly applies to women but I was wondering if you would dump your boyfriend if he told you one day that he was a virgin and that he was over the age of 25 (I'm 23 but considering the worst case scenario for me). I could have lost it ...
A. 3 November 2010: No not at all. If I really liked you I would accept you for who you are. I'm sure I would feel pretty special to be the woman who you felt you wanted to lose your virginity to. I think you should tell your furture girlfriend, once you've got to know ... (read in full...)
Help! Why won't my husband perform oral sex on me?
Q. Why won't my husband perform oral sex? I've been married for 10 years my husband first told me he had never performed oral sex and wouldn't do it. Recently he told me that he did twice before. I'm upset and sometimes feel like cheating. I've never ...
A. 2 November 2010: I just want to say, try searching for the Sqweele (I added a link to a site that sells this but it was removed. I am not spamming I am actually making a recommendation that I feel may help this person with their problem) I have seen this product and ... (read in full...)
I LOVE bigger women!
Q. I'm 19 year old male. I have this thing for bigger woman, I always have, ever since i was in high-school I've had this thing for them but I've never expressed it openly. So I've done it in secret by going to websites and talking to bigger w...
A. 2 November 2010: You speak about your attraction to a larger figured woman as though it is something to be ashamed of. I want to tell you it is not. A woman is a woman, whatever size, shape, ethnicity, cultural background, intellogence, personality, height, shoe ... (read in full...)
Help! Why won't my husband perform oral sex on me?
Q. Why won't my husband perform oral sex? I've been married for 10 years my husband first told me he had never performed oral sex and wouldn't do it. Recently he told me that he did twice before. I'm upset and sometimes feel like cheating. I've never ...
A. 2 November 2010: I personally think your husband is being selfish on this issue. Unless he is completely unable to perform oral sex due to an extreme phobia of the act, he should at least give it a go to give you the experience you've never had. My question... (read in full...)
3 boob jobs and my girlfriend STILL wants them bigger!
Q. My girlfriend has had 3 boob jobs and has DD size breasts. She now wants to get yet another boob job taking her up to ideally F size breasts. I find this too much, not being a fan of fake tits anyway. Yet she has got upset and says she is getting ...
A. 1 November 2010: I personally think she needs to seriously examine why she feels she needs bigger and bigger breasts. Everyone has their free will to decide what to do with their body. It seems that she thinks getting bigger breasts will make her feel better about ... (read in full...)
I am not thrilled about the wild boy's night out before out wedding!
Q. Heyy guys I have a big problem on my hands that i really need some advice on. Me and my other half who have been together for quite a while have decided to get married, the wedding isnt until 2012 but its already being planned however all of h...
A. 29 October 2010: Ok it is one thing having a big guys night out, drinking loads maybe even having a stripper is ok, so long as it's just a bit of harmless fun. But for him to have sex with someone else would be cheating and completely not acceptable. You need to ... (read in full...)
My mother is still killing herself with food
Q. Hi all, I asked a similar question a few months ago and although most of the responses were very helpful, things haven't improved. I'm still very concerned about my mother's health and eating habits, she's very overweight and binges on things...
A. 29 October 2010: Hi there. I think I remember your last post on this issue. I'm sorry to hear you are still very concerned for your mother's health. She is lucky to have such a thoughtful daughter who really cares about her. Ok, first of all, I just want to say, fro... (read in full...)
How can I repay my mom for her kindness?
Q. Hi guys, this isn't a relationship question, but i'm sure you will do your best to help me out. Ok, here goes. My mum is the most amazing person I've ever known, we have been best friends ever since Dad (her husband) died in 2001. She has always d...
A. 28 October 2010: Repay her by doing your best on your course. Work really hard to make something of yourself and make her proud. It is hard to get started in life, especailly when you have financial worries. Your mum obviously cares about you and wants to help you ... (read in full...)
3 months later still crying over a 10 month relationship?
Q. My ex broke up with me about 3 months ago and I'm still not over it. The relationship only lasted about 10 months, but I know I really loved him and still do. 3 months seems like too long to be crying over a 10 month relationship. I see him almost ...
A. 27 October 2010: Don't worry about how long it takes to get over him, each person and each relationship is different. It just means you really loved him and put a lot of yourself into the relationship. It's not a bad thing that it's taking time to move on, it means ... (read in full...)
Has anyone else had sexual experiences at a very young age?
Q. I have something I wanted to share and get feedback on, but it's not really a question. I've masturbated since i was a little boy....probably 6 or so. I did it just because it felt good to rub it. I even got a bit of a handjob at that age from th...
A. 26 October 2010: Yes. I'm female, and I've been doing it as long back as I can remember. Don't remember when it started, I just know, I've always known that it felt good. I remember(extrememly embarassingly) being caught doing it and being told to do it in private, ... (read in full...)
Could it possibly have been discharge???
Q. Could it possibly have been discharge?????? I had sex yesterday with my mate and he *** in me, usually it would leak out afterwards but this time it didn't. After the sex he had some type of white gooey stuff on his p****... it came from me. ...
A. 22 October 2010: Yes absolutely! When you have sex, you produce a lot of discharge. This is why you get "wet" down there. It is so that you will be nice and slippey for a man to enter you. And yes it can be white and gooey, or clear and sticky, depends on the day. ... (read in full...)
Using a fleshlight and a still a virgin.
Q. Hello, im still a virgin and im a 19 year old male and i masturbate with a fleshlight because i havent found the right girl yet and im bored using my hand. i dont masturbate a lot but i just have 2 questions. 1. Should i ever tell my next girlfrie...
A. 22 October 2010: Honestly, I found out my boyfriend had one of those(never knew they existed before) and I thought it was funny, and a little sad :) But then after thinking about it, I realised it's absolutly no different to me or any other woman using a vibrator. ... (read in full...)
I enjoy bj's more from guys that girls, does that mean I am gay?
Q. Okay...so I am really confused. I enjoy getting blowjobs from guys more so than girls, particularly because they give them better. Does that mean I am gay...I mean I have thought about it and I could not see myself having an intimate relationship ...
A. 16 October 2010: Only you can answer that one. I guess if you love women and also enjoy sex with them, although not so much the blowjobs, you could be called bi or bicurious. Is a lable important?
One thing though, if you are having an intimate relationship with... (read in full...)
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