Do women like nice guys with confidence?
Q. Through out my life I've never scored with a women. I've had them as friends, but never anything more. In my eyes, it was because I've never tried anything, always playing it safe, but now I've become more confident with myself and I'm still a nice ...
A. 27 April 2011: Forget the bad boy thing, I'd rather a guy who will treat me well and make me feel special. In fact, if a guy treats me bad, with the "treat em mean, keep em keen" philosophy, or is just plain selfish and arrogant, I would walk away! You sound like ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marriage..........
Q. Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...
A. 27 April 2011: Sorry I missed the post before the last 2. I seem to be getting carried away!
You do seem to have insight into your situation and I am truely sorry that you experinced violence in your marriage. No one should have to experience that.
I am just ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marriage..........
Q. Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...
A. 26 April 2011: Hey, I apprecaite what you are saying, to each their own. I have not right nor intention to tell you what is "right" for you. But you both came onto this website asking for advice about a less than ideal situation. If you were both happy with the ... (read in full...)
He talks to other women...what do I do?
Q. I found my husband has been talking to a lot of women. He has started hiding things better now that I found out he slept with one. He mashed up his cell phone because he didn't want me to see who was on it. He even went as far as changing the ...
A. 26 April 2011: I think he cheated on you and that is enough reason to leave him. As for being in love with another woman, that doesn't come into it. He is far too immature for love. He loves himself right now and thinks he can sleep with whoever he wants and get ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marriage..........
Q. Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...
A. 25 April 2011: "She relies on him heavily for money and babysitting." I don't mean to be rude but, he is the father, so it is not babysitting, but his job as a parent. And if he is the main breadwinner, her being the main parent when he is at work, I'm sorry this ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marriage..........
Q. Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...
A. 25 April 2011: Ok, I understand all of what you have said. It is wonderful that you both have such a special bond and that James's son is being loved and cared for by both of his parents. I also know that these kind of relationships do go on and can continue for ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marriage..........
Q. Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...
A. 25 April 2011: Well if that's what you believe, stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it! I don't mean to be harsh, but you have made it CLEAR how little love or respect even, you have for your wife. I don't understand why you choose to stay. If ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marriage..........
Q. Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...
A. 20 April 2011: If you can't stand it, do something about it! You don't have to stay in a loveless marriage. You can separate and still be a good father to your son. But have have to do it the right, legal way. Get some legal advice. Think before you act. Don't ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but she's too fat. How do I break up?
Q. me and my gf got together about 3 years ago. we both weighed 17 stone. we had a good relationship but in the last 12 months we said we would go on a diet. Now i weight 13 stone. she however weighs 18 and 1/2 stone. i am attracting the attention of ...
A. 19 April 2011: Wow this is depressing. So if you're obese, have been for a long time, you are destined to remain obese, or lose weight for a while, only to regain it all, and then some more, unless you are one of those lucky 2-5%, or you have weight loss surgery? ... (read in full...)
My parents think I am fat, should I just lose weight to shut them up?
Q. Hello everyone. I hope anyone out there can help me. Ok so i am 20 years old and am at University therefore i no longer live with my parents. I go to the gym almost every single day and work out, and swim, though in the last week i have slacked o...
A. 19 April 2011: I can't believe what I'm reading, this is abusive! If you are 125 pounds and 5'4, you are a HEALTHY weight. If you lost more than a few pounds you would be underweight, which has as many health dangers as obesity(watch supersize vs superskinny on ... (read in full...)
Do you think girls who go with guys to a strip club are trashy?
Q. Guys, do you think it's trashy for a girl to accompany a group of guys to the strip club? I think it's a certain type of girl who is willing to go along on this "adventure," and I dont't think she's the type you wanna bring home to mom/MAKE the ...
A. 19 April 2011: I know you want to hear from guys, but I fancy a bash at this question. Hope you don't mind.
I think strip clubs are trashy full stop and wouldn't want to go near them, or my partner to go near them, even though I know he has in the past when bein... (read in full...)
How can I get enough protein on a vegetarian diet?
Q. I'm a strict vegetarian (been brought up this way) so I don't eat fish, eggs or anything animal based. Anyways I really really need protein in my diet! But I can't think of what foods to have as I'm really limited for choice... I can have dairy but ...
A. 18 April 2011: Ok dairy is a good one. Things like yogurt, milk, cheese all have lots of protein. Also pulses and legumes contain good levels of protein, so things like lentils, beans and chickpeas. You can cook these in stews and casseroles, currys, dahls, soups ... (read in full...)
I don't think I know how to masturbate! Help!
Q. hey people, i've tried by myself and with my bf but i still can't get there. i dunno what to do i figured i start masturbating but its still doesn't work(touching my clit and fingering myself) but nothing and when my boyfriend fingers me it fe...
A. 18 April 2011: Ok, don't worry about it, take it easy. You're 13-15 right? SO you have pleanty of time to learn. Everyone is different and learn differently and in their own time. I'm 25 and have only learnt how to orgasm with my boyfriend over the last couple of ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marriage..........
Q. Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...
A. 18 April 2011: I agree totally with Abella.
Stop what you are doing and THINK. You know exactly what you are doing and where this is going. You WANT your wife to discover your cheating by taking your girlfriend to this partyy, and leave you, which takes the burd... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marriage..........
Q. Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...
A. 18 April 2011: I don't think we need to assume the wife is using the child as a bargaining tool, at all. It could just be that without the OP she would have no one to help her with the child and to help her emotionally, so it would make sense for her to go and ... (read in full...)
What are the good things about being single?
Q. I realised yesterday that I've mentioned to one of my friends three times in the past few months that I miss being in a relationship. I was a bit shocked at myself because I don't want to turn into one of those people who feel as if they need to be ...
A. 13 April 2011: Perks of being single, hmmm, well, lets see.... no man issues! You only need to think about yourself! If you're in a relationship, after the initial "oh my god I'm in love, this man is perfect stage", relationships are rarely easy. No matter how ... (read in full...)
Is it worth a second chance?
Q. Hi. I recently discovered that my boyfriend had a few meetings with his ex a few months ago. On finding out, i broke up with him as soon as i got the chance. I told him how i found out and he eventually admitted to it all. I was more angry than any...
A. 10 April 2011: What is your gut feeling? If you are leaning more to yes then get back with him and give him another chance. If he lets you down and does something that is a deal breaker again, then he's had 2 chances, so leave him for good. It seems that what he ... (read in full...)
How will know true love?
Q. how will know true love?...
A. 10 April 2011: Good answer :)... (read in full...)
He was 30 years older than me, but I still can't get over our break-up.
Q. Isn't life ridiculous..... it makes me fall in love with a man 30 years older than me and then it makes us break up because we cant be together properly.... I loved him so much and still do...... How I wish we could get back together..... How ...
A. 8 April 2011: I think you should commend yourself for having the strength, forsight and maturity to leave this relationship while you are still young. You know you have made the best decision for you in the long term, although it hurts greatly now, and will ... (read in full...)
Just Two
Q. I recently read something nice that I would like to share.... JUST TWO. Donate blood twice a year. Donate your eyes after death. Thank God twice a day. Write two letters a week. Visit two ailing people a month. Say two words of gratitude-"...
A. 6 April 2011: Aw I like it. I'm gonna go hum 2 old songs in the bath right now after telling my partner I love him twice :)... (read in full...)
Just Two
Q. I recently read something nice that I would like to share.... JUST TWO. Donate blood twice a year. Donate your eyes after death. Thank God twice a day. Write two letters a week. Visit two ailing people a month. Say two words of gratitude-"...
A. 6 April 2011: lol!
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Is it rude to ask someone if they are in a bad mood?
Q. Does anyone else hate this? Yesterday I was tired since I went hiking. So, my boyfriend was talking to me on the phone and asked if I was in a bad mood. I was only tired, but it put me in a bad mood when he asked if i was in a bad mood. Why do ...
A. 3 April 2011: I completely know where you are coming from on this one. My bf says similar things. If I appear down to him, or not in a particularly extrovert mood, he asks if I'm in a bad mood, or says something like "poor baby isn't in a very good mood today". ... (read in full...)
My man can't give me an orgasm
Q. Me and my boyfriend has a very active sex life though thier is some problems Wev slept together a good 40 odd times hes came every time but iv only ever had 3 orgasms Its not that hes not good in bed coz he is but he just cant go long enough Wev...
A. 29 March 2011: Hey hun, first of all I want to say that the fact you have orgasms with him AT ALL is a very good thing! Some women just arn't able to do this. So consider yourself lucky!
Be careful you don't place blame on anyone. If you do resentment will buil... (read in full...)
This LDR makes me feel terrible about myself, but I can't quit it. Why?
Q. Hi This is continuation of question "LDR boyfriend says its ok for him to have sex with call girls since its just "meaningless sex"" I begged my bf not to choose a call girl over me and my love, which he refused. I feel really disgusted...
A. 29 March 2011: lol @ dirball!
I agree, you need to find the strength to leave this guy. That is the only way you can start to feel happy and have better self esteem. He's having sex with other women, never mind the fact they are prostitues, he is cheating. The ... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 28 March 2011: I hope you can both move on from this difficult experience, together or apart. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever kept the truth from their partner and it did not destroy the relationship??
Q. Is a relationship where you have lied, and cannot get yourself to tell the truth, a relationship worth staying in? Will the guilt of lying and of having betrayed someone you love get to be too much? Cannot confess a truth, but don't know if the ...
A. 28 March 2011: I'm sure there are many people who lie and manipulate the people around them to get what they want out of life. These people are sociopaths, pathalogical liars, narcissists or have some other personality disorder. I'm sure there may be some "normal" ... (read in full...)
I'm shy, but people think I'm rude. How can I improve my social skills?
Q. Well first off i'll tell you a bit about myself. I am very shy and chances are i wont talk to you when i first meet you unless forced and even then i only give one word answers. I'm very straight forward about things i do not sugar coat anyth...
A. 28 March 2011: Nice advice guys. I watched this question because I struggle with shyness. Sometimes it is just so hard to get out of my comfort zone and I make it worse for myself by feeling bad about it and feeling ashamed about keeping myself to myself so much. ... (read in full...)
Needy or neglect... That is the question!
Q. Hey. My boyfriend said im being needy but i feel like im being neglected and i dont know witch of us is right, sorry if this is long but i really need help to figure it out thank you. Well thursday i wanted to talk to him on the phone and he said no ...
A. 26 March 2011: No you don't sound needy. He is acting selfishly and not considering your feelings. It's not much to speak to your girlfriend when she wants to. Once a day is not a big ask. Then he didn't even do as he promised and call you the day after. To top it ... (read in full...)
Do you fantasize about other girls or your girlfriend?
Q. This is a question for the males. For those of you with girlfriends/fiances/wives/partners etc do you always think of them when you think of sex and your fantasies? So when your maybe daydreaming or watever it is that gets you thinking, who a...
A. 26 March 2011: Thanks for the insight Odds. That explains some of my boyfriends "keep her on her toes" behaviour. Well personally, I don't think this is true per say. When I love someone I will strive to be a better girlfriend because I love him, not because ... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 26 March 2011: Ok, it sounds like you truely regret and are remorseful of your actions. You know how bad what you did is so I don't need to tell you. I can hear that you are shocked and disturbed by your own actions. I found your previous post. You said you are ... (read in full...)
Do you fantasize about other girls or your girlfriend?
Q. This is a question for the males. For those of you with girlfriends/fiances/wives/partners etc do you always think of them when you think of sex and your fantasies? So when your maybe daydreaming or watever it is that gets you thinking, who a...
A. 25 March 2011: What did you mean by "generally useful for a guy if his girl is a little insecure" Odds? Why is it useful to have an insecure girlfriend? Just curious.... (read in full...)
I don't want to just lie there! What do I do?
Q. I've had sex before but im usually always on the bottom just lying there. I just lay there not doing any thing it was good and all but. How do i turn the moves on him! ...
A. 25 March 2011: OR you could always ask him what he would like to try? He might be inexperienced to and you can try new things together.... (read in full...)
I don't want to just lie there! What do I do?
Q. I've had sex before but im usually always on the bottom just lying there. I just lay there not doing any thing it was good and all but. How do i turn the moves on him! ...
A. 25 March 2011: Try to switch roles. What he normally does, you do. If he initiates first and goes on top, next time don't let him. Take control of the situation, he will love it. Switch positions. Ask him to do smething different or show him a different position. ... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 25 March 2011: What was it that you did? If you broke her trsut, you have to understand that it will take time and effort for you to win it back. It sounds like you did something that really hurt her. All you can do(without knowing more about what you did) is give ... (read in full...)
I told a man pursuing methat I had someone else but I didn't, I just wanted him to leave me alone. So why do I feel badly now?
Q. I hurt someone's feeling really bad...I mean it was harsh. I have been married for 8 yrs. My marriage was rocky in the beginning. I decided to get a friend who is much older than I. He is like my dad's age and married. I was attracted to his ...
A. 22 March 2011: I guess you feel like crap because you lied to the guy. You feel guilty about it, simple as. You are relieved because you got the outcome you wanted, he has stopped persuing you. It sounds like you did what you though you had to do in this ... (read in full...)
Should I let this hate manifest and use it as a drive to push past her or is it unhealthy?
Q. me and my gf just broke up recently after a very passionate year together. neither of us fell out of love until after the unexpected departure. we were even still in love after the break up. then she got a new bf 3 weeks after and im nothing to her ...
A. 21 March 2011: Hey, if it helps you get past this and move on, why not? Anger is easier to feel than hurt. It sounds like she did hurt you and took you for granted. Now she is treating you with a lack of respect for the love you shared. She has just moved on to ... (read in full...)
Should she forgive me for wanting to use her for sex?
Q. Should a guy who fakes interested in a girl just to use the girl for sex be forgiven? What happens to a girl when that happens to her? I want to how a girl is thinking that it happened to....
A. 19 March 2011: Well if she bought into your deception and/or genuinly liked you and wanted something "romantic" to happen between you, as opposed to "just sex", I bet she would feel very hurt and disappointed to realise you only wanted her for sex, and she could ... (read in full...)
How to get over extreme sexual shyness/disinterest?
Q. I'm beginning to think I have issues with sexual repression. I can't bring myself to talk dirty with my guy by IM even though I want to do it to make him happy (he gets frustrated with me when I tell him I can't go there yet). Elaborate sexual ...
A. 6 March 2011: What interested me was that you referred to your sex drive as separate to yourself, as if it were a separate entity.
"I do have a sex drive but IT's kinda weird and shy, I don't get turned on very easily, and when I do, as soon as I start doin... (read in full...)
I think slowing everything down will be a good idea for us. What do you think?
Q. Hey All, I am a mess right now, took a week off from work to really deal with this. Here’s the situation, I have been dating my GF for almost 3 years now. We have been through a lot and we became quite comfortable. She still calls me her b...
A. 11 February 2011: That's good, I think you're handling it well. I would say there is definatly something there, otherwise she wouldn't have called you and she wouldn't be texting you good night.
She also doesn't want you to tell your parents so that shows she most... (read in full...)
I think slowing everything down will be a good idea for us. What do you think?
Q. Hey All, I am a mess right now, took a week off from work to really deal with this. Here’s the situation, I have been dating my GF for almost 3 years now. We have been through a lot and we became quite comfortable. She still calls me her b...
A. 11 February 2011: Ok, take a deeeep breath.
I can hear how much you love this girl, you really do. She is a very special and lucky girl.
She has said that she loves you, wants to be with you, wants no one else, was devastated at the suggestion of you being wi... (read in full...)
He gets SOOO angry! Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend grabbed my head and slammed it against the door. He said that I wouldn't shut up (we were having an argument) and that because I followed him through the house (I was trying to get him to talk / listen) then I tip him over the edge and ...
A. 11 February 2011: I am so glad to hear that. Good luck with your future.... (read in full...)
He gets SOOO angry! Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend grabbed my head and slammed it against the door. He said that I wouldn't shut up (we were having an argument) and that because I followed him through the house (I was trying to get him to talk / listen) then I tip him over the edge and ...
A. 10 February 2011: You said you can't help but blame yourself.... this is NOT your fault. It is in NO WAY your fault. It is HIM who cannot control his emotions. No one should get so angry that they hurt their loved ones. People who do, do so because they have a ... (read in full...)
He gets SOOO angry! Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend grabbed my head and slammed it against the door. He said that I wouldn't shut up (we were having an argument) and that because I followed him through the house (I was trying to get him to talk / listen) then I tip him over the edge and ...
A. 10 February 2011: You said you can't help but blame yourself.... this is NOT your fault. It is in NO WAY your fault. It is HIM who cannot control his emotions. No one should get so angry that they hurt their loved ones. People who do, do so because they have a ... (read in full...)
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