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writes:Okay...so I am really confused. I enjoy getting blowjobs from guys more so than girls, particularly because they give them better. Does that mean I am gay...I mean I have thought about it and I could not see myself having an intimate relationship with a guy, only with girls. So, does liking guys suck me off make me gay, or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): This does not make you gay if we need to give it names...I've had some great head from women that know how to give oral to a man and yes.I've had men give me some great oral and I'd given them some too.....I enjoy doing it and getting it.....your ok my friend....
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reader, HotGeek  +, writes (19 October 2010):
I'm straight, and I'd like a guy to blow me. Don't really care how it would be called.
My advice is to drop this entire "am I gay" thinking, and just do what you like.
And besides, do you like having someone blow you, or do you also like to give them? If you like to blow someone, then you might be. You might be gay. A bit. So what?
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reader, Ricemonster  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Baddogbj, let's put it this way: if he received a blow job from a person that is wearing a hood, not knowing whether the person is a man or a woman, chances are, the person receiving is simply getting pleasure from a blow job. He would not be receiving pleasure because it's a man giving a blow job or a woman giving a blow job. He's simply getting a blow job.
The question asker is in scenario where he finds that a man can give better blow jobs than a woman. He's not attracted to men. You can close your eyes and have an experienced mouth and tongue work on your penis and that would be the same whether it is a woman or a man, coinciding how skillful s/he is.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Yup.
Sorry I disagree with ricemonster. If you like having another guy suck your dick then either either you are some kind of excessively dominant character or your queer. That's not a bad thing, the world is a richer better place for the wonderful gay people in it but "you don't have to be attracted to men to recevie a blow job from a man." sounds like nonsense to me.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Only you can answer that one. I guess if you love women and also enjoy sex with them, although not so much the blowjobs, you could be called bi or bicurious. Is a lable important?
One thing though, if you are having an intimate relationship with a woman, now or in the future, either stop sleeping with men, or explain to your girl that you like bjs from men, and that you've experimented with men, but that you aren't gay, as you love women. I'm not saying persude her to let you have bjs from men on the side, if shes not cool with that, but perhaps you could work out together why bjs from men are so good? You could teach her how to do it "like a man". If shes understanding about your sexual past then she's a keeper.
The other option is to not tell her about your bi experimentation. Which is up to you, but just don't keep experimenting behind her back. If you want to be single and have fun with different guys and girls, by all means play away, but if you want a serious intimate relationship, you will have to choose male or female. When you meet the right person you won't care what gender they are!
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reader, Ricemonster +, writes (16 October 2010):
Not necessarily. Guys know what guys want in terms of sexual pleasure, generally speaking. So if you get a guy to give you a blow job and it works out great, it just simply means you're getting a blow job from someone who knows what a guy wants.
You're only gay when you're attracted to men. You don't have to be attracted to men to receive a blow job from a man.
One day, if a girl gives you a great blow job, then that's like finding a leprechaun at the end of a rainbow. Excellent!
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