I enjoy bj's more from guys that girls, does that mean I am gay?
Q. Okay...so I am really confused. I enjoy getting blowjobs from guys more so than girls, particularly because they give them better. Does that mean I am gay...I mean I have thought about it and I could not see myself having an intimate relationship ...
A. 16 October 2010: Only you can answer that one. I guess if you love women and also enjoy sex with them, although not so much the blowjobs, you could be called bi or bicurious. Is a lable important?
One thing though, if you are having an intimate relationship with... (read in full...)
Wife isn't comfortable to do sexual things
Q. I have been married for 5 years ,I cum on my wife face a few times only , she never said yes or no even she didn't talk about it ,I would love to cum on her face and make her swallow my load every time we have sex ,I feel it I can't help it i don...
A. 16 October 2010: Anything(legal and moral) is ok in the bedroom as long as BOTH parties consent to it. If she is happy for you to come on her face or stimulate your prostate, or be tied to the bed, or dress like a chicken, or beat you with her shoelaces, then it's ... (read in full...)
Relationships vs. one night stands
Q. Why will a woman hook up with some random guy she meets at a club or a bar, but when that woman gets into a relationship, wait and take it slow with the boyfriend?...
A. 10 October 2010: Dude, seriously, this is not worth ruminating over too deeply. Believe me, i would much rather have a long lasting relationship with someone who was good looking and a wonderful person, than just have a one night stand with them. Take it as a ... (read in full...)
I am tired of being sad and anger
Q. I am always feeling angry and sad with myself. I sometimes sit here and I cry because I feel angry with myself for not knowing what to do with my life or career. I am always on the internet doing career quizzes trying to find which career is right ...
A. 9 October 2010: Figuring out an ideal career for yourself is an impossible task. Every career has good points and bad points, just as each person is different. No job will be perfectly suited to your talents and abilities. You will have to work hard at whatever you ... (read in full...)
Why can't I keep friends?
Q. Going off what people tell me, I am a nice person. I am a genuine, trustworthy and kind. I'm not bitchy and I don't talk about people behind their backs I to am fun to be around. I seem to make people laugh even though I am not funny, I'm just ver...
A. 9 October 2010: From the sounds of things, you're "bestfriend" is not even a friend, she's taking advantage of you because you are good, kind person.
Never think that there is something "wrong" with you. You are a unique, wonderful person in your own right. From... (read in full...)
How can love ever be quantifiable??
Q. I have a question that is bugging me.... why do people say stuff like "I will never love anyone as much as my ex" when they're with someone new? Surely you either love someone or you don't - simple. I can honestly say that I know I loved my ex bo...
A. 7 October 2010: I agree with you anonymous, to a certain point. You can tell yourself that one person in your past, was "the love of your life", or the ideal person for you. If you hold on to this memory, every girl after that would have a lot to live up to. It is ... (read in full...)
My husband's been having an affair for all the 6 years we've known each other!!!
Q. I met my now husband 6 years ago and he kept asking me to marry him, eventually we got married 3 years ago. about 12 months ago i received a couple of letter at work telling me to ask my husband about his affair, as he did not go out at night or...
A. 7 October 2010: To anonymous male - So what if this woman may have fulfulled his needs that perhaps were not fulfilled by the poster. Why does that give him the right to be completely deceitful and entirly selfish? Polyamory is one thing when all parties concerned ... (read in full...)
How can love ever be quantifiable??
Q. I have a question that is bugging me.... why do people say stuff like "I will never love anyone as much as my ex" when they're with someone new? Surely you either love someone or you don't - simple. I can honestly say that I know I loved my ex bo...
A. 7 October 2010: I hear what you are saying. I don't think you can measure one love against another. Different people mean different things to you at different times of your life. If you love someone, you love them. You can have loved your ex but you may feel you ... (read in full...)
My husband's been having an affair for all the 6 years we've known each other!!!
Q. I met my now husband 6 years ago and he kept asking me to marry him, eventually we got married 3 years ago. about 12 months ago i received a couple of letter at work telling me to ask my husband about his affair, as he did not go out at night or...
A. 7 October 2010: I agree with the others. Do not let anyone treat you like this. You are a good person and deserve so much more. Respect is the minimum. He has shown you none and deserves none.... (read in full...)
Relationships vs. one night stands
Q. Why will a woman hook up with some random guy she meets at a club or a bar, but when that woman gets into a relationship, wait and take it slow with the boyfriend?...
A. 6 October 2010: True, it also depends on the woman, their state of mind at the time of meeting someone and how the relationship works out. I do not think it is true that women put men in 2 catagories at all! It is true that a woman can have strong feelings for one ... (read in full...)
Relationships vs. one night stands
Q. Why will a woman hook up with some random guy she meets at a club or a bar, but when that woman gets into a relationship, wait and take it slow with the boyfriend?...
A. 5 October 2010: It can depend on her state of mind. If shes in a good emotional place, she may want to get to know someone first. But if shes in a tough part of her life and has low self esteem, she might just want to go out there and have sex, to try to 'feel ... (read in full...)
Do women tell their friends EVERYTHING about their boyfriends???
Q. Ok, to all women, do you talk to your best friends and tell them everything about your bf. i mean everything, like dirty details?...
A. 4 October 2010: It totally depends on the person! I know some guys that tell their friends details about their relationships. I personally keep most things to myself. Only occasionally, when I feel comfortable, I will divulge personal stuff to girl friends. I just ... (read in full...)
What can I do to fix it???
Q. I'm just plain confused. My (ex) fiance told me "I'm just not in love with you anymore. After four years together I thought we were pretty much set and until just recently she seemed very much in love with me. But what I'm confused about is that ...
A. 4 October 2010: I am of the belief that if you love someone, you would never cheat on them. Not if you truly love someone in a respectful, adult, empathetic way. But you got over that and moved on.
It sounds to me that she still really cares for you and your rela... (read in full...)
Will I be alone for ever?
Q. I am 22 in 2 months i will be 23. I am divorced (i got married at 16) and a single mom of 3. I have been alone so long and i cant even get a guy to look at me. I have done all of the stuff people have told me. (be yourself go out stop looking...) ...
A. 2 October 2010: I know your situation must be very hard to deal with. You must feel very lonely at times as you are on your own with 3 children. I bet you must miss adult conversation and company sometimes. I think you are a very strong person to bring up 3 ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend flirts and stares at other women
Q. my boyfrien flirts and stares at other women i really dont know what to do i love him but because he does that i dont trust him our sexual life is suffering because of that.Should i worry about those things ...
A. 2 October 2010: It depends on how much he's flirting with these women. Is it just friendly banter or is he blatently flirting right in front of you and ignoring you? When he looks at women, is it just a glance(there's nothing wrong with looking at other people, we ... (read in full...)
FWB moved on to a relationship, but came back and cheated with me
Q. Ok, i'm going to try and make this as short as posible. A had a FWB/buddy, this ended and he now is with somebody. This is the bad part, we had sex a couple on months ago, so basicaly he cheated. Since then i've tried distancing myself from him, he ...
A. 2 October 2010: I'm sorry hun, he is not a friend. You told him you will not sleep with him so he's stopped calling. All he's interested in you for is easy sex. He thought he could get away with having his girlfriend and still having sex with you on the side. He ... (read in full...)
I've lost my sexual self
Q. I a 48 years old male. I have been married for 25 years. But my marriage is in crises,because I lost my sexual self. I m really ashamed,but I dont know what to do. I lose my erections right when I enter,also I have zero sexual desire. I went to ...
A. 1 October 2010: I wouldn't resort to cannabis immediately. Although it does have proven health benefits to some, it has destroyed the mental health of others. Research the link between cannibis and psychosis. I wouldn't reccomend using cannibis for depression ... (read in full...)
We texted each other all summer but I don't want to be "real life friends"
Q. A guy going to my college facebook friended me over the summer. I accepted his facebook friendship, and then he began to chat with me on there. He gave me his number and told me to text him...I felt bad if I didn't text him, so I did just to be ...
A. 1 October 2010: If you don't want to talk to the lad, don't talk to him. Stop replying to his texts and IMs, or just give him one word answers. He'll either get the hint or give up. As he said, you're just one girl of thousands at your college, so I'm sure he'll ... (read in full...)
Do I cut him off? Try to ignore his interest?
Q. I have a some what complicated dilemma. Me and a guy friend were fwb i suppose you'd call it for maybe 6 months or so, this was last year and it also ended last year as he got a girlfriend but we agreed to stay friends. Basically a few months ago we ...
A. 30 September 2010: You could try and be friends, if you're sure that's all you want. But it is clear what he wants you for... to have his cake and eat it. So unless you make it VERY clear that friendship means that and nothing else, he will continue to make advances ... (read in full...)
What is so special about love or lust?
Q. Well, it's been a long time since I've had sex, which was a few years back, but my question is... Why do people insist on saying that relationships are special? What is so special about an intimate relationship? Is it possible (just possible) ...
A. 27 September 2010: Oh and you're not stuffed up in the head. I've been seriously depressed and suicidal in fact. Sometimes its hard to see the point. Does it matter? If you can't find something/someone in life that brings you happiness and meaning, you're still gonna ... (read in full...)
What is so special about love or lust?
Q. Well, it's been a long time since I've had sex, which was a few years back, but my question is... Why do people insist on saying that relationships are special? What is so special about an intimate relationship? Is it possible (just possible) ...
A. 27 September 2010: I can understand all of your points of view. It is true that people find relationships because they are lonely. This may well not be a good reason for this, but it is a basic human need. I agree that the only way to true happiness is to learn to be ... (read in full...)
Second life is real life to my boyfriend
Q. I have been involved with a man for 7 years. In that 7 years I have found that he lies to me many times, changing his stories and says that I am remembering things incorrectly (which I know is bull). Because we live apart and neither of us ma...
A. 27 September 2010: Wow I feel for you hun! It's such a shame that you spent 7 years with this guy. I bet you're glad you found out about this now before wasting any more time. You can never really know whether someone really has a secret life that they keep from you, ... (read in full...)
What is so special about love or lust?
Q. Well, it's been a long time since I've had sex, which was a few years back, but my question is... Why do people insist on saying that relationships are special? What is so special about an intimate relationship? Is it possible (just possible) ...
A. 26 September 2010: I disagree. Relationships(of all kinds ie friendships, family, partner) are extremely special, in my opinion. I've had many special connections with people in the past that have really touched me and shaped who I am. Do you know that feeling when ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for breasts to be flat when a woman is lying down?
Q. I have a somewhat silly question I haven't seen asked here before. I have size C breasts - good enough when standing upright, but when I lay down they go flat...too flat for my liking. I wish they defied gravity haha! So my question is, do ...
A. 26 September 2010: Yup. I have Es and they dissappear into my armpits when I lie down! I kinda wish they'd stay there but that's just what they do!... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my wife's younger, sexier sister
Q. I'm married for over three years now with my wife. I met her 5 years before that. My wife was really good-looking when I met her, but a couple of months before the wedding she began to gain weight, at least 20 lbs. from what I can tell, and most...
A. 24 September 2010: If that's really how you feel about your relationship with your wife, I suggest you leave your wife. You need to do it soon so that she has the chance to get over you asap and get out there to find someone who truly loves her, for her, and not just ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when they say "do it harder"
Q. Hello everyone. i have a lil bit weird question lol what do girls mean by '' F/// me harder '' or when shes like '' harder harder '' !!! does that mean that guy is not doing well in bed or maybe thats the way the girls shows that they like it t...
A. 23 September 2010: It means she's enjoying it, getting into it and wants you to go harder! Simple as! Don't worry about your ability or perforformance, take it as a compliment! She's really enjoying it, letting go and really wants you! Harder! You're hitting the right ... (read in full...)
Second life is real life to my boyfriend
Q. I have been involved with a man for 7 years. In that 7 years I have found that he lies to me many times, changing his stories and says that I am remembering things incorrectly (which I know is bull). Because we live apart and neither of us ma...
A. 23 September 2010: He cant see you because he bought a new computer, because a virtual 'mistress' told him to? This guy needs to get his priorities right! Tell him he needs to prove that you're a priority to him or your gone! You deserve to be more important than a ... (read in full...)
Is this a test?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a couple of months now. Sometimes if we go out for a meal she will comment on a woman and say she looks pretty and she tells me to have a look. I really dont like doing that while I am with her because I dont w...
A. 21 September 2010: It could be that she is testing you, to see how into her you are, or to see if you look at other women a lot. Or perhaps she wants to give you the impression that she is easy going and not the jealous type. She could just be open, comfortable with ... (read in full...)
I feel bored to tears with everything in my life!
Q. I need some advice. Have you ever felt bored to tears with everything in your life? Interacting with the kids, my professional life, dinner parties with friends, playing poker with the boys, going on a trip to see a big NFL game - and worse of ...
A. 21 September 2010: Yes I have felt like this. It sounds like you are suffering with some form of depression. Depression is a very common mental illness, that sucks the joy out of your life. It can happen at anytime to anyone. It can be very difficult to get out of ... (read in full...)
One of my close friends likes my boyfriend and its making things awkward between us!
Q. Hey all. I havent got a major problem, just a little one. So il try keep it as short as possible. Last year i started college, as people do all my friends mixed in with the new football boys from other schools, the basket ball boys and the gol...
A. 21 September 2010: Ultimatly he's with you at this moment in time, not her, and as he clearly knows that she also likes him, but chooses to be with you, this must mean he likes you more than her. End of story. If he wanted to be with her, he could be, but it is clear ... (read in full...)
She says all I think about is sex
Q. On Wednesday, I took my girlfriend to a restaurant with a beach view, the horse races, and a Padres game which all cost $120. Keep in mind that we are both full-time college students and I don't have a job because I write for the school newspaper ...
A. 13 September 2010: To me, it sounds like you have an amazing sex life! Let me put things in perspective for you. I would love to have sex every other day! Like you I have a high sex drive,and I could happily have sex 2or 3 times a day, and in an ideal world i would ... (read in full...)
Is this a little odd?
Q. This isn't really a love question as such, but it involves a girl so I thought this was as good a place to ask it as any. So sometimes I play a particular online game. Not a lot but maybe once or twice a week I will play for a little bit and c...
A. 27 August 2010: It's as weird as you think it is. I don't think you have reason to be suspicious, yet. You have only been chatting for 2 hours. She's told you she has a boyfriend and you don't mention that she has been sugesstive, only friendly. 2 hours may seem a ... (read in full...)
I said my ex had a dream body when in bed with my girlfriend! How do I fix this stupid mistake?
Q. Hello people, I think I screwed up hard and need help! I was talking in bed with my girlfriend (talking about sex), until the point came that she said "I'd like to see your ex, I want to know how she looks like". I am a such stupid person, s...
A. 24 August 2010: I think she was silly to ask that question, but yes, your answer was very insensitive. It was like saying she had your ideal girl's body. You said she had a dream body. That will make your girlfriend think that means she doesn't compare. Ouch! ... (read in full...)
Any experiences of love spells working
Q. Has anyone tried a love spell? Did you have any success stories, please share them and share the love spells. Please can you provide a love spell for me as I want my partner back so loving and for him to be faithful and worship me. Plea...
A. 24 August 2010: Hi hun!
There are many, many love spells out there for the purpose you wish. But I wouldn't recommend them. You should never try to manipulate someone else's will. If you have to do this, you have to wonder, is it right? If you could make your part... (read in full...)
OCD in a relationship
Q. Is there anyone out there in a relationship with someone who has an OCD. I have just started a new relationship and she has told me about hers. I have read a bit about them but don’t fully understand the implications yet. I will read more over t...
A. 16 August 2010: Hi there. I think people worry too much about lables. OCD is a name given to an anxiety disorder, which can involve a vairety of obcessions and compulsive behavious. This can affect people's lives in different ways and to a varying degress.... (read in full...)
I get sick from the birth control pills!
Q. Hi :) i'm currently taking the pill (Microgynon 30) and it makes me feel so nauseus for a few hours each day and I hate it! I started it about 2 months ago and took it for a month, it made me ill but I continued taking it. Then I had the week's ...
A. 16 August 2010: I have been on the same pill as you are, and I too got feelings of nausea from it, so you're not alone there. Unfortunatly all forms of contraception have a drawback or side effect, and hormone methods like the pill, injection and implant often have ... (read in full...)
I don't want to walk away from him but he's given me no reason to stay!
Q. Hey everyone, I need some help making a big decision in my life. Has anyone ever seen that movie Made of Honor? Well, that's kind of the situation I'm in with my boyfriend of the last decade. We're the best of friends and do everything together...
A. 16 August 2010: Life is hard. Sometimes you have to make some difficult decisions, and sacrifice something important to you for something else important to you. It is hard, because you can never be certain if you are making the right decision or not. You just have ... (read in full...)
Need advice on enhancing my bustline.
Q. I'm fifteen years old, and I am still in my 34 A's in bra size. This may not be a major problem, or something to worry about, but I just don't want my breasts to be this small, especially not at my age. Maybe I'm going through the road when everyone ...
A. 16 August 2010: I agree with what everyone else has said. Try to love your body shape for what it is, because it's the only one you have! I've always had bigger boobs, somewhere between a D and an F, and I find it very hard to love them at times. I'd love to have ... (read in full...)
Scared I might be pregnant though I had my periods after a dry-humping session.
Q. A little over a month ago, my boyfriend and I dry humped. He was naked and I had on panties. Three days later my period came on the day it was supposed to, but it was on and off. The next month my period came three earlier and it was on and off. ...
A. 13 August 2010: You can only get pregnant if some of a man's seman gets into your vagina. Unless he came on your panties and it soaked through and got up into your vagina, it is not possible to get pregnant from dry humping. I would say that if you have taken a ... (read in full...)
How often does a healthy couple have sex?
Q. My boyfriend says we need to have more sex, and I thought we had sex a lot (about 4- 6 times a week). I just wanted to know how often do other couples (do you) have sex? And how long have you guys been together? Did you have more when you started ...
A. 30 July 2010: I think what's healthy is what makes you both happy. Unfortunatly every individual has their own attitude towards sex as to how frequent they want/need it, and how that sex should be. People can have very different sex drives and if you want a ... (read in full...)
Does the placebo pill you take during your period still protect you from pregnancy?
Q. I feel like this is a bit of a silly question that i probably should know the answer to but anyway.. I have been on the pill for about 3 years and use it as the only form of contraception. Sexually active throughout this whole time (with the s...
A. 30 July 2010: Hi. Yes it does. Although the placebo isn't going to pretect you, it is just there to help you remember when to start back on the next packet, if you have been taking the full course of the pill, you will be protected. The 7 days you don't take the ... (read in full...)
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