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Do guys want a girl who already knows what she's doing?

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Question - (21 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *onelyheart23 writes:

Ok maybe someone can help me out...

I haven't had sex with very many people at all and have yet 2 have sex with my current bf...I told him that I wasn't very experienced and I don't want 2 disappoint him..he said that it was fine and he was willing to teach me...now im afraid that he says ths now but what about when it comes down 2 it and he is not pleased...do u guys want a girl that already knows what she's doing?? Or do some guys like teaching??

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (22 July 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntwell in my honesty were all beginers when it comes to new partners we all like things different. so it will be a new experience for him to to learn what you like and dislike just be honest with each other what you like and dislike and sex and what not should be a blast..enjoy it take it easy, try four play then intercourse, if you want some tips here are two links to a website about positions and giving your bf some fourplay http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml --- fourplay for him... http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml -- positions..hope that helps aphex xxx

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntThe irony is that you worry about your so called lack of exeperience and others worry that they have had too many prior partners or that somebody doesn't like their partner's history etc.

At least you have some experience. Now you are no longer a virgin you will be far less nervous and you will have taken something from your prior experience.

You could even have an ideal balance between virgin and somebody with tons of experience in his eyes. He was willing to wait a bit. I think as long as you have had some experience a guy won't be put off. But then again some prefer it.

So don't worry about it, go with the flow.

Fiona

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