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41-50,
*eathknight
writes:I have been out of the dating game for quite a bit of time now and recently decided to jump back in. As a guy I seem to find it fairly difficult to read the signs of a female.I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we started to talk on and off and see each other randomly. We started to chat over msn which quickly carried to the phone through text messages and phone calls here and there.We then started to see each other more often as she works around 10 minutes away from me. We then started to meet up in the evenings and go home together on the subway at least two to three times a week. Whenever we are sitting together she is always smiling or laughing at something, twirling her hair or is fidgety. We met up recently and she told me how she met one of her ex’s the other day. She told me how he was fully hitting on her and in her head she was like (get away from me already) he ended up putting his phone number in her cell phone and told her to call him. So being the inquisitive type I told her to call him and she was like no way he’s creepy. So what was the point of telling me this is what confuses me.What confuses me though is that sometimes when she is laughing her arms are folded but she is still smiling. When someone normally folds their arms are they not being defensive?There have been times where I would just look at her and she would end up being very shy and cover her face and end up laughing. We talk to each other everyday or every other day. Is this something that is currently unfolding and developing slowly? Is she waiting for me to act on this? Lastly I feel as if I am over analyzing things…help!
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reader, iateadonut  +, writes (19 July 2008):
yeah. she likes you.
kiss her to see if i'm right and get back to us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): when someone cant hold a gaze when you are talking to them, or when someone laughs and trys to cover up-they do like you!
folding your arms is a sign of 'back off'
txt her-ask her if she fanciessssssss to go n see a movie or sumfing:)
god bless
friend x
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (18 July 2008):
 ask her out to coffee and if i were you i would ask her if she likes you, and if she says no then just say you thought you saw a sign and leave it at that if not then continue tell her you like her too and you would like to take her on a date then go on a few dates and see how you both feel. it could be something or nothing, but isnt happyness worth a chance? ask her is the only way to find out..hope that helps aphexy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): diffrent wemon have diffrent ways of showing there interested....but there are always a way of telling.....her laughing and smiling is a sign that she enjoys your company....and acting shy is a way if flirting!!the point of her telling u the story of her creepy ex could mean many things....one could be she just wanted to get it off her mind and get some1 elses oppinion....another could be that she wants you to be kind of like a knight in shinning armor and take her phone call the guy clame her yours and and delet the #......or she could just want to see where u stand (r u just friends, r u 2gether, etc)!!but if you r interested in her then speak up, whos it going to hurt?
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reader, _Princess_ +, writes (18 July 2008):
I think that you should just ask her out, At least then you will know where you stand! Ask her to go for a drink, nothing too formal, maybe after work?
I think she told you about her ex because she was trying to make you jealous! She was probably trying to tempt you to ask her out!
At the end of the day you dont have anything to lose by just being straight forward and honest!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): Given the information you have provided, I would say yes, she is really into you. Talking almost everyday...I would say yes! Women and men alike, become more self aware when they are in the company of someone they are attracted to. Some handle it well, appearing suave or alluring. Others, myself included, become clowns making clumsy mistakes, stuttering, hiding smiles, folding arms, tripping and acting indecisive. I use to have a fear of stairs because I often would trip down them if walking with my former crush.=)In regards to the information she provided out her ex: I think she meant to provide you with some assurance that she is free and that she is ready to move on from her last relationship. What she basically told you is she has an ex (maybe they recently broke up) and she has absolutely no interest in getting back together with him. She is not sentimental about him in the least. This fact should give you some confidence in that she would be susceptible to the idea of a new relationship.Ask her out for a date, dinner and a movie or something. She is probably wondering why you haven't yet.Best of luck.
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