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He is in a band and 10 years older than me! I like him..should I date him?

Q. I have a problem. I think I like someone who is in my cousins band. We have met before but that was a couple years ago and we saw each other a while. But now I added him on myspace and I just have a feeling that I like him. I don't know what I ...

A. 13 April 2010: That STILL makes you jailbait to him. If you're 13, then he's 19. If you're 15, that makes him 21. STAY AWAY until you're 18. Just ask Celine Dion - she was MAJOR jailbait to his manager, so they waited until she was of age. If it's meant to... (read in full...)

He is in a band and 10 years older than me! I like him..should I date him?

A. 13 April 2010: You're 13-15? That makes him 23-25. Listen to me very carefully. YOU ARE JAILBAIT. Ever heard of the show "To Catch a Predator"?? He can go to JAIL and register as a SEX OFFENDER for so much as soliciting a relationship with you. If you t... (read in full...)

She's my wife now, but her past indiscretions when we dated bother me now! What should I do?

Q. My then-girlfriend and now wife took part in a program that tutored our school's athletes back when we were in college together. Many of the young women in the program who tutored the athletes also were very physical with these guys. It was ...

A. 13 April 2010: I wonder how she'd feel if she had just found out that years ago while you were dating that you were doing the things to other women that she allowed to do to her? I'm quite sure she'd be furious and hurt no matter how much time has passed. It's... (read in full...)

I think about my galpal constantly! How do I get through this?

Q. I don't even know where to begin. After having a pretty crap year there was always 1 friend that was there for me and, though I know I don't love her, but I feel like I do. I think about her constantly and I practically kiss the ground she walks on. ...

A. 13 April 2010: The technical term of what you're dealing with is called "limerence", and it's the high-powered borderline obsessive emotionally strung feeling of desire towards someone else. You are susceptible because of your emotional state right now. In ... (read in full...)

He's 2 years younger..is it wrong to date him?

Q. is it wrong to go out with someone 2 years younger than you, theres this guy i like but hes 2 years younger than me and im scared of what people may say what should i do ?...

A. 13 April 2010: You're 13-15 so that means that he's 11-13??? Yikes! You both are way too young to be dating seriously. What happens if you turn 18 and he's 16? Nothing says "love" like statutory Rape. My advice is - don't be dating at all. You're too youn... (read in full...)

Is he being *too* polite?

Q. Hi All I had my first date with a guy i met online today. We had been chatting for over a month, texting and talking on the phone. I was really nervous,but we spent about 5 hours together, had a few drinks and lunch and managed to not have any ...

A. 13 April 2010: Your clue was his IMMEDIATE text to you. Also, it was more than one kiss (peck). He wanted to be sucking your face off. He likes you. ... (read in full...)

I am so lonely, how do I get a boyfriend?

Q. iam alone i dont have boyfriend for along time and iam now 23 but i feel like i will stay alone all my life and you know all the people say that iam pretty girl but i dont know why guys avoiding me so my question is what do i have to do to have ...

A. 13 April 2010: First off - ditch the air of desperation. Cultivate your confidence. If you don't have one, find a hobby that lights you up. Also, you can't expect a guy to just ride in like a knight in shining armor to just enter your life and sweep you off ... (read in full...)

Is he a bad guy for getting mad over this?

Q. My boyfriend can be a bit mean. I went out tonight. one drink and played pool with my cousin. he has been in a massive mood over it. I do not understand why? I love him so much. but why would he be so mean as to say fuck you so much over it? we have ...

A. 13 April 2010: YIKES! Red Flag! Your guy is being controlling if he can't handle and verbally abuses you because you went out and had fun on your own. GET AWAY WHILE YOU CAN! I am telling you with all the urgency within me - get away from him NOW. That t... (read in full...)

Should I end the relationship with a married woman for someone else?

Q. I am in a turmoil mentally. I have been seeing a married woman for just over 2 years now. She still lives with her 9 yr old boy and husband (who does obviously not know about us) but their marriage is now one of convenience after 16 years. She ...

A. 13 April 2010: Move on. There is no future with the married woman, and since you said that she wasn't strong minded, who's to say she wouldn't or isn't cheating on YOU? Look ahead, not behind.... (read in full...)