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writes:I am just very hurt because a guy I liked treats me like a trash or cheap whore something..He disreapects me and absolutely dose not care about me.He did not ask to have dinner just used me as a booty call.this guy I met at the club.Is this why He assume I am a easy slut, or just think I am not worth to date.I need 100% honest ansewer , please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): I agree with Cerberus.
He used your body but no more than you did. He used it for sex. You used it to try to get him interested. His plan just worked better than yours.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (29 July 2012):
 UPut ur foot down. Man up n be tough. Youre an adult and are capable of filtering bad n good people in ur life. I have absolutely no sympathy for u. None. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2012): You do get people who go to night clubs just to pull at the end of the night, so yes...I'd say he was one of those people and that was his intentions for you.
Unfortunately, he isn't ready to commit to a relationship, but if you are, you're better off checking out dating sites rather than night clubs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2012): I can relate to you girl!!The same thing happend to me I'm recently heart broken I Feel low like trash like i wasted my time.I met my best friends cousing at a party at his house We were talking thru f.b txt what ever he had been dying to meet me but never did i think we would end up hooking up the first night we met I was drunk but apparently he love it and we were going to get to know each other then start dating he continued having sex f0r two months At the end of last week he said were just friends were acting like acouple we need to stop having sex.I agreed and ask him if we could start dating apparenly I wasnt good enough for him he left me for his ex im seruisly in that stage were i feel used baby girl do me a favor so u wnt get hurt like I did Leave him like now Asap!!!No What if and maibies.this guy does not care about you!!
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (29 July 2012):
There could be all kinds of reasons why he treats you like this: perhaps because of where you met, perhaps he got the wrong impression, or perhaps he treats everyone like this. The point to remember is that if a guy treats you like trash, you cut him out of your life. If a guy wants casual sex and sees a girl who he thinks will give him exactly what he wants, he’ll carry on treating that girl like a piece of meat as long as she allows him to, rather than tells him that he’s getting nothing and to leave her alone. This man does not care for you, so stop worrying about why he’s treating you like this, and stop all contact with him. Never be afraid to tell a man no.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous12345150 +, writes (29 July 2012):
cerburus has nailed it if i was to comment id copy and paste hes answer
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (29 July 2012):
 Just remember that how someone treats you does not say anything about who you are, it says something about who they are.
Don't talk to this guy again Avoid him. Don't do this ever again. Guys are dogs...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2012): "Why is this guy I like treating me like trash?"
Because you let him. Why would he treat you any other way when you let yourself become his booty call?
If you don't like it then don't let it happen.
OP 90% of guys in clubs will use you for a booty call, if you wanted dinner or some shit then you should have demanded dinner, you should have demanded you have dates but you didn't you just gave him sex and now he has no respect for you.
I used to do the same thing OP, I never wanted anything more with a girl who would just sleep with me after meeting me in a club, why would I? If she's that easy for me then she's too easy, there's no more fun or challenge to be had from her.
No offence OP he didn't just assume you were easy, you actually were easy. I would never degrade a woman by calling her a slut for enjoying a casual hook up, but that is the very definition of easy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2012): Generally females in clubs are thought of as easy, and are only useful as a one night lover. It seems that was his only intention for you.
Honestly, you're better off without him.
If you want to find love, you're better going on a dating site, not a night club hun.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (29 July 2012):
 How did he disrespect you? Did he pressure you into sex? If you didn't enjoy the sex please don't respond to his calls anymore. Not everyone is into dating but please note that there are some girls who enjoy casual sex and that doesn't mean they are cheap or they have low self esteem, it sometimes means that they are not ready to have a relationship yet but they still want their sex drives taken care of. For me, the guy has to at least care about me, take interest in my life for me to continue a casual relationship. There are many different degrees to casual. Some people don't believe in marriages, or they don't have the financial resources to take care of a person of be a father. What do they do? Be celibate forever? You have to work that out with the guy. If you don't say anything he assumes you are okay with what he's doing because he assumes that girls will play hard to get so they don't look so easy.
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