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writes:Okayy so im about to be a freshman in high school and how do i talk to guys like im the shyest person you could ever met but if im with my bffs im fine and i love to talk and play ago out i Do Talk to sum bout not alot im just wondering how can i get guys to talk to me like these other girls and be just normal this year i dont wanna be around to many girls cause thats alot of drama i just never had a boyfriend and alot of guyfriend and i wwanna change that please tell me how you talk to them or anything thankss
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 Relax be yourself and have fun. whatever u do dont do things to be accepted among boys, it will emotionally backfire. Make eye contact with boys, smile, and then they should talk to u. Subtle nonverbal cues can show them youre friendly. If youre brave, wink lol. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): Just be yourself and see who genuinely takes to you. There's nothing wrong with being a bit shy. Being miss popular often draws all kinds of attention to people for different reasons and its hard to determined who is genuine and who isn't really.
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reader, raiderfan97 +, writes (6 July 2012):
okayyy im turning into a sophomore this year. and u can trust me. talk to ur friends and set this up. have them get the guy you like and his friend to hang out with all of you. if u comfortable around ur friends then mix the guys with ur friends. make sure thers a guy for all of you and have ur friends go for one specific guy and ur left with the one you like. chat him up about everything and trust me you will knoow if you click.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): Haha I just graduated from high school, and I can see that you are exactly the way I was. I was always shy especially around boys but with friends I was more open, people just didn't know it. My advice, from first hand experience, you have to make the first move. I actually only had 1 or 2 semi-good guy friends but that was because they were nerds like me haha. So we got along.Something that helps is using information you know. One guy at my school, I had a crush on. A reason for that is because I found out he really liked classic rock and similar TV shows I liked. So i was able to talk to him about it. Basically, find a common interest with a guy. Or ask him a question about his likes, maybe ask "Hey, what kind of TV shows do you watch?" (you can ask about TV, movies, music, books, anything). Hope I've helped at least a little. Good luck!
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