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writes:Is it bad that my girlfriend is only just turned 20 and has kissed around 80 guys. She says it's nothing bad because she's still a virgin, so it's not like she slept around, but that kissing was harmless fun. But what do you guys think?I find it very, very odd that she's kissed that many guys and still a virgin?! But also i'm surprised that she's kissed that many guys and she's still pretty young! I just want to know what you guys think, what does that say about her.....
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (9 October 2012):
 WHERE has she been kissing these guys????
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 October 2012):
 I used to kiss LOTS of guys. All through high school - naturally, Truth or Dare & Spin the Bottle added substantially to that number - but still. But I only went further than that with a few boys, and only went past second with 2 - one of which I ended up marrying and being the only one I ever slept with. I'm sure that my number of guys I've kissed is at least 80 - but anything beyond making out I can count on one hand.
So, merely from my own personal experience, I can tell you that she very well may be telling the truth!
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (9 October 2012):
 She has as good chance at being a virgin as i have in scoring niki minaj as my girlfriend... or me discovering both pres candidates are consistently tellin the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2012): To me, it means she quite easily hands herself about to guys in an intimate way. She definitely doesn't sound like the shy type, so I'd find it hard to believe that she's a virgin.
On the other hand, she may actually be telling the truth about being a virgin, this doesn't make her any less of a candidate to fit the term 'harlot', it just maybe that she's scared to have sex for some reason (maybe the usual "Will it hurt as much as people say" thing).
She sounds the easy type to me, and once she has sex for the first time, she will be unstoppable, and seek it with anyone that will oblige her (if she's single, doesn't mean she will cheat on you necessarily).
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (9 October 2012):
 I think it's a little over the top with 80 guys.... But what kind of kissing are we talking about? pecks on the cheek, full on snogs?
Did she go out and try and kiss as many people in a club as possible?
I find it odd honestly.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (9 October 2012):
 I had kissed about 40 girls by age 7 as I was the preferred target for the girls in the school playground for the game kiss-chase. Fortunately my girlfriend was not threatened by thin information.
As for her kissing 80 guys... it says...
She likes to kiss!
It also says that she has clear boundaries and that sexual intercourse for her is very special and reserved for a special someone. She's had plenty of opportunity to have sex, and hasn't had it. Make sure she's really important to you and you're committed to her before you have sex with her, because it's going to be a big deal.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (9 October 2012):
 Uh it is pretty weird. How do people even keep track at such a high number?? Does she write this down, "I kissed Mike on the 10th of October..." I have no idea how many people I have kissed in my life. I could guess a ball park of around 10 max. I'm 24. So 80, at 20 years old, and a virgin? Very odd. Impossible? Who knows. What does it say about her? That she is either a liar (isn't a virgin or it hasn't been 80 men) or loves making out with random men, because you can't have 80 real relationships at the age of 20. Up to you if those are traits you want in a serious girlfriend.
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