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My girlfriend is very loud when we have sex.
Q. My girlfriend is very loud when we have sex. I actually find it very embarrassing as my walls are very thin and my bedroom is right next to the neigbours. I know they can hear her as I can hear very slight movement in their room like someone opening ...
A. 16 June 2007: at least your neighbours can tell how good you are!!listen she is just trying to enjoy sex and if u tell her about it over and over it may make her very celf concious and she might find it hard to enjoy sex cos she is concentrating too much on her ... (read in full...)
My problem is that I'm really fat and not that pretty plus he likes my best mate.
Q. Dear Cupid Agony Aunt, I have this huge crush on this really hot guy. The problem is that I'm really fat and not that pretty plus he likes my best mate. We are going to France with our class, the country of live. Should i tell him there and have him...
A. 16 June 2007: first of all stop putting yourself down,if u dont like find yourself attractive then others will see this and not your qualities.if u wanna change start walking,drinking lots of water and try to cut down on snacking etc.if this guy likes your friend ... (read in full...)
I keep needing to go to the toilet. Please help!
Q. After ive been to the toilet i feel like i need it again sometimes and i get a little pain but when it comes to going again i cant. its strange it doesnt happen all the time just occasionaly. does anyone know whats wrong?...
A. 16 June 2007: sounds like you may have cystisis,its an infection and it causes u to feel like u need to pee all the time but wen u go to the toilet only a little comes out and it can be very sore and uncomfortable.it can be caused by having sex and not washing ... (read in full...)
Period troubles. Please help!
Q. Im 14 and when Im on my period i get wind and poo aswell is this normal? because it makes me feel ill or something....
A. 16 June 2007: yep this is completely normal so dont worry!!... (read in full...)
He says that he wants to have sex, I said no and now he's being all weird on me. What should I do?
Q. i got a boyfriend who says he loves me, he told his best m8 he had feelings for me and then we started going out, however before we started going out we were really close m8s i was like his 2nd best m8, i love him n i no he loves me well he says he ...
A. 16 June 2007: if this guy says he loves u and can make u happy then he should respect the fact that u weren't ready.ur still young and u have the whole of ur relationship together!well done for standing ur ground and not falling under pressure,and dont.just ... (read in full...)
I'm getting mixed messages, does he like me?
Q. Hey Im 17 and i've just come out of a year long relationship with someone. Back in February i met this really nice guy i met at a party, he was very drunk and spend the whole evening telling me i looked amazingly beautiful. I really liked him...
A. 16 June 2007: this guy is so confusing!he tells u he likes you and then tells u it was a mistake wen his friend told u the same?move on and forget about him u shouldnt waste ur time waiting for the next cuddle at the cinema.u deserve someone who tells u how it is ... (read in full...)
Should I let my daughter get to know this man better?
Q. My daughter is a very mature 17 year old who has been homeschooled, just finished her first year at college. She is becoming good friends with a 26 year old man at church who is interested in her and would like to date her. They are both devoted ...
A. 16 June 2007: these 2 ppl sound very mature and due to the fact that they are devout christians, i cant imagine they would want to see eachother unless they were serious and knew wat they were doing. i think ur idea is very good and will also give them a chance ... (read in full...)
Over the last couple of weeks I've started to see girls in a different way and I think I'm turning lesbian
Q. Over the last couple of weeks I've started to see girls in a different way and I think I'm turning lesbian, I'm scared to tell anyone how I feel because am scared how they will react has anyone got advice for me x x x x x...
A. 16 June 2007: i agree with both answers this is all part of puberty and growing up.it is really common for alot of girls to feel this,alot of girls also have encounters with other girls and this does not mean they are lesbians.dont worry if u are really worried u ... (read in full...)
She proceeded to climb atop her friend and make out with her intensly, completely ignoring me.
Q. dear cupid, i am in a very loving strong relationship with my girlfriend and have been for the last 9 months now. last night, she and i were invited to a friend of hers lake house for a small get together. we all got very drunk, I even threw up a ...
A. 16 June 2007: i think this is an awful thing for someone to do to someone they love.just because she was drunk and couldnt rememeber doesnt mean it didnt matter.u need to sit her down and let her know how hurt and horrible this made u feel.if u dont she will just ... (read in full...)
I hate my girlfriend's tats!
Q. My girlfriend has two tattoos, both of which i hate, and she has plans for more. i dont know if i will be able to cope with them. Has anybody got any suggestions? ...
A. 12 June 2007: im sure there are things about you that bug her but she just takes them as your flaws - most ppl do. if u really cant cope with them then its not meant to be but i wonder why u got with her in the first place if they annoy u so much. ... (read in full...)
He says to me "I wish you were dead"... !
Q. My boyfriend of 4 yrs calls me names like schizo, stupid, and sometimes when he really tempers up he says " I wish you were dead". He had agression and anger problems, and it flares up on me because I dont stand up for myself and I keep it all ...
A. 11 June 2007: he might as well be hitting you babe this is pure bullying.dump this loser he is obviously treatin u like this to boost his ego and make him feel like a man but he is a wimp.get out before it gets worse and go find someone who will respect you for ... (read in full...)
Feel scared of loving... any help?
Q. Can anyone tell me why do I feel so scared of loving another person? Is it because I have been hurt before? How should I go about solving this problem?...
A. 11 June 2007: ah chicken its cos u have been hurt before probably.u need to slowly get back out there but dont overdo it!try caring about ppl and guys as friends and slowly opening up.and just remember just cos one guy has hurt you in the past it doesnt mean that ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend, but don't want to say anything in case it negatively impacts our friendship!
Q. i am in love with my bestfriend what should i do ?? well its been more then a year i know this girl she is my bestfriend now and i feel that i am in love with this girl the problem is that i just cant tell her that i love her because i dont w...
A. 7 June 2007: i think you need to tell her - you both deserve to be happy.you never know she may love you just as much as you do. you say she is a negative thinker - well maybe sit her down and tell her that cos you love her and you are already best mates then ... (read in full...)
I went for him, then found out he's been w/ someone else for three years! He still says he loves me, but can't see me b/c of her!! Now I'm VERY confused.
Q. I posted a question here a few weeks ago because of an attraction with a much older man - he is 36 and I am 18. I decided to go for it, but found to my horror that he is with another woman who he has been with openly for three years. I asked him ...
A. 7 June 2007: if this guy says he is completely in love with you then there would be no if ands or buts about it - he would choose you. maybe he is trying to ease the blow by saying this but keeping himself safe by falling back on this other woman. chicken you ... (read in full...)
We got in an argument, so he slept over his ex's house! He says nothing happened, but I don't kow what to believe!
Q. hi all, question to all males out ter. can u please help me !!! why would my bf of 3yrs tell me he went out for dinner with an ex of his from years back, then went back to her place for more drinks but slept on sofa while she slept in her bed. Sin...
A. 6 June 2007: Oh my god the fact that he told you he was even thinking of cheating on you makes me sick,you need to drop him and move on you dont deserve this at all.he should know that wat he has done is so over the line,seriously hun u really need to stop ... (read in full...)
Should I give him 'head' and would doing this make me his official gf?
Q. My Boyfriend recently asked me to let him "smash" (have sex). i told him yes. and he started to get more into it. I havent let him yet but i am going too. He asked me the other day if i "sucked dick" and i told him no he asked me would i do it for ...
A. 6 May 2007: honey u shouldnt do anythin if ur not completely comfortable, plus i dont like the way he's talking to you its quite vulgar. you are still quite young to be having sex and if your not 100% then dont do it. he should understand and respect wat you ... (read in full...)
He chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me and it really hurt and angered me.
Q. I recently had an argument with my boyfriend for not showing up when he was supposed to - he chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me. He apologised the next day, but only spent a couple of hours with me and went out with ...
A. 1 May 2007: a while ago i was in the exact same situation.boyf of 3 yrs,out with his friends instead of me etc.you are NOT expecting too much at all,you are his girlfriend and he should wanna be with you.talk to him and tell him calmly exactly why and how you ... (read in full...)
I fancy my teacher...........
Q. hi, I am in love (or at least fancy) my teacher. Everyone who has given me online advice says that this is perfectly normal although I can't talk to anybody because I know that It will become gossip. I think about him all the time and everyone says ...
A. 1 May 2007: i know i may sound like a broken record but this happens to everyone-i had the same situation.are u in an all girls school? this will pass the older you get and the more you wil socialise with different ppl.this man someone you see every day and ... (read in full...)
I am 18 and pregnant and really don't know what to do!
Q. Help! i am 18 and pregnant. i moved out of home a year ago and have lived in differnet places and have now got the perfect home. i live with my local vicar and his family. me and his 18 year old son got on from day one when we first met 2 years ago ...
A. 1 May 2007: first of all maybe get in touch with a support line and see if they have ay advice,they have probably dealt with situations like this before.in my eyes abortion isnt wrong if u do it for the good of everyone involved.if you bring this baby into the ... (read in full...)
Please help, I feel my relationship is dead.
Q. Dear All I feel my relationship is dead :( Basically, I was in love for the first time with an amazing girl. I had never loved someone like I did her and I'm not one of your average under sixteen teenagers who has an alleged 'girl friend' eve...
A. 1 May 2007: first if all long letter!!i think this girl is playing with your mind and unless she is treating you well, you need to forget her,no one needs to be treated like this especially if u say ur in love with her.act towards her as you would any other ... (read in full...)
I ran up and snogged him to get him back for parading his new gf in front of me, now I'm scared he will hurt me!!
Q. I have fancied a lad for 2 years and he has just got a new girlfriend and he knows the way I feel about him and his girlfriend and him are always hugging and snogging around my school and they do it in front of me in purpose and Its sooo Upsetting ...
A. 30 April 2007: you shouldnt have done what you did she is a person too and she obviously likes him too you just made her feel the way you did.were you friends with this girl?maybe you could just explain that you did it cos u were feeling hurt and confused and you ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out before or after my face surgery?
Q. i've never had a girlfriend although i'm very popular amongst girls. i've tried to make my personality really good to make up for the bad looks and it works. well i've asked out few girls and got rejected. recently i really like my friend but not ...
A. 24 April 2007: its a tough situation to be in as if you ask her now and she says no,she may change her mind wen ur looks change and u will know she's quite shallow and doesnt really like u for who u are.but if u ask her after,and she says yes,will there always be ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out before or after my face surgery?
Q. i've never had a girlfriend although i'm very popular amongst girls. i've tried to make my personality really good to make up for the bad looks and it works. well i've asked out few girls and got rejected. recently i really like my friend but not ...
A. 24 April 2007: its a tough situation to be in as if you ask her now and she says no,she may change her mind wen ur looks change and u will know she's quite shallow and doesnt really like u for who u are.but if u ask her after,and she says yes,will there always be ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex.and scared I might get pregnant! How do I tell my Mom?
Q. Hi..I've done somethin really really stupid. Ive had sex..unprotected. I'm scared I might be pregnant and I don't know how to tell my mum. Please give me some advice :( Kaya x...
A. 24 April 2007: first of all take a pregnancy test and then u will be sure wat to tell ur mum.you could be stressing about nothing.but you are extremely young to be in any way sexually active and i think you should think about wat ur doing.sex should be between two ... (read in full...)
She ran me down with my car because she thought I was cheating on her! Should I forgive her?
Q. I'm 19 and i have a girlfriend that ran me down with my car beacause she thought I was cheating she is begging for my forgiveness. Now I love her but I may never use my legs again. Should I forgive her?????? please let me know!...
A. 23 April 2007: first of all im really sorry about wat happened that is awful.i hopes she realised wat she did and apologised?!i dont think you should forgive her its her fault that ur life has changed.there is obviously something seriously wring with her and she ... (read in full...)
I loved him and I did everything for him and now he dumps me. Any advice to get over this loser?
Q. I am a wonderful person with a lot going for herself but I have a tough time with relationships. I have been divorced for 11 years and I have been in relationships with unavailable men, alcoholic men, men who are too busy for a relationship, etc. I ...
A. 22 April 2007: at least you know he is a loser!such a wonderful person does not on any accounts deserve to be treated like that ever and you need to really tell yourself this.take some time out from men and get back to taking care of you.You need to be around ... (read in full...)
Has abusive relationships has made me unable to stand a man's touch?
Q. After being in an abusive relationship and having some very unpleasant dates, one of which turned into a stalker, I find myself unable to stand a man's touch anymore. It makes me literally quite sick. I still have a sex drive, but it dies around my ...
A. 22 April 2007: hey, i have had the slightly same problem.i was attacked on a holiday and came back to my boyfriend very nervous and unable to get intimate with him again for a while.there is nothing wrong with you, you have had very bad experiences!you need to get ... (read in full...)
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