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My problem is that I'm really fat and not that pretty plus he likes my best mate.

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Question - (16 June 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid Agony Aunt,

I have this huge crush on this really hot guy. The problem is that I'm really fat and not that pretty plus he likes my best mate. We are going to France with our class, the country of live. Should i tell him there and have him laugh in my face or keep my feelings to myself. Please Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, nikki! United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2007):

nikki! agony auntim also not thin i wouldnt say im fat but im definitely not thin a super fit guy i liked for ages asked me out and i just ry to hide my weight by wearing baggy jeans that make me look thin have my hair down to hide my chubby cheeks and i make m self attractive in other ways such as been tanned wearing cool clothes always seem like your the coolest girl there

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A female reader, xsweetiex United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2007):

hun look iam sure ur lovely so dont worry tell him if he laughs just think u know wat at least i have the guts to tell u how i feel coz lifes to short! if he dont like u he int the one but u ll find him honest xxxxx gud luck xxxxx and have fun in france just enjoy it! xxxxxx

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (16 June 2007):

O Connor agony auntfirst of all stop putting yourself down,if u dont like find yourself attractive then others will see this and not your qualities.if u wanna change start walking,drinking lots of water and try to cut down on snacking etc.if this guy likes your friend then maybe dont tell him but do try and enjoy being friends with him and maybe u will meet someone in france.if u want more help on how to boost your confidence and feel better just email me,id love to talk to u and helo you hun take care and be happy - and smile!!!

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2007):

AskEve agony auntThen you need to "fix" the problem! Cut down on what you eat, drink plenty of water and look absolutely amazing when you're in his company. (I'm sure you are anyway, you just don't see it.) Let your personality shine through and always keep smiling. I'm sure he's bound to notice you.

Eve

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007):

if you know that he likes your best mate what could you possibly hope to gain from telling him? enjoy spending time with him in france - if he likes you he will tell you..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007):

Well you only live once, so I think you should tell him. Whenever I like someone, I tell them, and sometimes it turns out disasterous and or sometimes its totally opposite. It's just a chance you have to take.

And to make yourself feel better about yourself, pamper yourself by doing your hair, wearing make up ect. as this will boost your confidence.

Good luck :]

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