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Over the last couple of weeks I've started to see girls in a different way and I think I'm turning lesbian

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Question - (16 June 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Over the last couple of weeks I've started to see girls in a different way and I think I'm turning lesbian, I'm scared to tell anyone how I feel because am scared how they will react has anyone got advice for me x x x x x

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2007):

Hi, I understand how you feel.I was confused for ages, I knew I liked guys but wasnt sure if I liked girls aswell or not since i was only attracted to a couple.Don't worry alot of girls get mixed feelings and its likely to pass in time.

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (16 June 2007):

O Connor agony aunti agree with both answers this is all part of puberty and growing up.it is really common for alot of girls to feel this,alot of girls also have encounters with other girls and this does not mean they are lesbians.dont worry if u are really worried u should talk to someone that wont react badly but trust me this is probably just a phase.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntHave to agree with YummyMummy through teenage years most of us experience a bit of confusion when it comes to our sexuality but it never usually lasts that long, it might even have something to do with the fact you are developing into a women yourself so you will start to see them in a different light.

Take care.xx,.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntAt a young age your hormones are raging and things can become confused and mixed up. I went through the thinking I was a lesbian phase and I still now find some woman attractive and have had sexual encounters with women in the past. Is there a female you can talk to about this? An older sister or your mum?

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A female reader, myp United States +, writes (16 June 2007):

myp agony auntIm bi myself and i still havent told my parents so i can understand where your coming from. If you really need to tell someone, tell someone you can absolutely trust and whos not homophobic. However if you just want to experiment thats up to you, i know girls who have experimented with other girls and decided they were straight. I also kno girls who were severely hurt by their boyfriends and went lesbian all the way. If you have gay friends, they're the best ones to confide in because they understand your feelings. I have a guy friend who comes from a religious family and who is very religious himself and he has issues accepting his own homosexuality. If your friends are really your friends they'll accept you and your decision, whatever that decision may be. If they turn away from you because of your sexual orientation then they werent good fiends to begin with.

Good luck

Much love and happiness

-Myesha

message me if you want to talk =)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007):

Well you are only young hunny i doubt you are lesbian at all, when i was your age i was having all sorts of feelings and when you are at your age you do question your sexuality.However if you still feel this way in a couple of years time then you will be a lesbian or perhaps bi-sexual if you like boys aswel, but then there's nothing wrong with that so you shouldn't worry on how people will react, its common and acceptable in today's society. x

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