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She had another man's child, I had transexual sex, she won't come near me!
Q. People get curious and try different thing I totally understand that and can accept it. My wife of 10 years just had a baby after the baby was born I found out it was not mine. We are both white and she had a black baby wow what a shocker. She ...
A. 24 September 2007: did you do this just to get one over on her because she cheated?
i don't think this relationship is right for reasons stemming beyond you being curious.
she cheated, there must hve been a reason, she maybe isn't happy or something, she f... (read in full...)
I have reason to believe that I cannot trust my man, what do I do?
Q. i have reasons to belive that i cant trust my boyfriend. but i love him too much to let him go. what shall i do?...
A. 24 September 2007: you're so young and if i'm honest a teenage guy with hormones racing wants to experiment and not be tied down in a relationship.
although you love him, it's better to have fun and enjoy yourself now and wait until your older for a serious ... (read in full...)
He says sex feels like a routine, what can I do?
Q. last night my boyfriend asked if we can slow down on the sex .. we live together how do i just ignore my drive whilei am in bed beside him? he said it feel like routine ... ...
A. 24 September 2007: spice things up!!
he probably knows when you're going to do it, how it's going to be done and how long it will take.
sexy pics are good, and leave little notes on the bathroom mirror in the morning, one word, like bj, and it'll get him thinking... (read in full...)
Does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?
Q. does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?. I have ginger hair and iv never had a gf. i know im not as confindent with girls as some of my friends are. ...
A. 24 September 2007: every girl has a different preference, blonde, brown, ginger, multi coloured! but you have to be confident in your own skin before you can expect a girl to notice you.
the colour of your hair is just one of alot of qualities that girls look for... (read in full...)
Now my daughter will not talk to me, what should I do?
Q. My wife and I are having trouble and my wife allowed my 20 year old daughter to become aware of the problems in her version - My daughter now won't talk to me and I haven't seen her in 5 months and prior to this incident, we had a good relationship ...
A. 24 September 2007: talk to her mum! presumably as you didn't say ex wife, you are still together?
she needs to speak to your daughter and tell her that it is only fair to hear both sides, failing that write her a letter. she needs to hear both sides of this inc... (read in full...)
How can I figure out if my feelings for my cousin are love?
Q. My cousin (18) and I (17) have always had this very strange connection. I don't know if you would call it love, but we just have this amazing relationship. Ever since we were kids, we have always been best buds. Whenever we would get into a fight ...
A. 24 September 2007: i have to agree with your cousin, i think if you are close to a family relative, not immediate but cousins, you feel the sense of being able to be yourself, you know they are going to be acceptive of you because you are family and so you have no ... (read in full...)
How do I let this guy down gently?
Q. Here's my situation. We've been a couple for one week, and already my boyfriend is planning our marriage! First date, he transitioned from "I'm so dating into the right family" to "I'm so marrying into the right family." At first I thought I heard ...
A. 24 September 2007: wow!a guy who isn't afraid of committment is like gold dust but i do howver agree that he is going about it all the wrong way.
i think he's just telliong you because he wants you to know he isn't scared of his feelings, which is kind of sweet be... (read in full...)
I hit him in the eye and now he's fled. If he loves me, shouldn't he come back?
Q. hi ive been dating this guy for 1 1/2 and we got engaged about 7 months ago. We have gotten into some bad arguments but four days ago, he was accusing me of something that i had already explained to him so he said oh i misunderstood. a...
A. 24 September 2007: take the conequences for your actions.
you hit this guy and expect him to come looking for you, are you serious? arguing or not, you punched him, if he had lashed out and hit you, i'm sure he'd be called a million names under the sun insinuat... (read in full...)
She can't have sex b/c of a medical condition and is unwilling to talk about it! I already flirt w/ others, but feel I may crumble altogether!
Q. I've been living with my girlfriend for a couple of years now. About a year ago she developed a condition which makes it too painful for her to have sex. The doctors can't offer any hope that she'll ever recover. Meanwhile I'm finding myself i...
A. 24 September 2007: following your heart would be cheating, i think that's following your head because surely your heat belongs to your girlfriend?
i appreciate your frustration and i'd imagine the reason your girlfriend has gone off sexual activity altogeth... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I climaxed during my first time? Is it normal to be sore for days afterwards?
Q. i recently lost my virginity and people say you never have an orgasm on the first time. Am i weird because i did?? and Is it natural to be sore for a couple of days afterwards?? ...
A. 24 September 2007: i did in my first time, in fact my first was memorable for the right reasons, i say congratulations! because it is frequent for girls to enjoy their first time!
and yes it is normal to hurt for up to a week afterwards, and it'll probably have the... (read in full...)
How do I go down on a man?
Q. hey guys well iv'e been with this boy for a few months and i have done almost everything with him except went down on him i really want to but i have never done it before is there any tips on how too? please help jords ...
A. 24 September 2007: it's not as bad as it seems, but the first time you give a guy head, is always nerve-wracking!
the first thing to remember is he will be eroused at just the prospect of getting a bj so that's always a good start.
personal message me and i... (read in full...)
Might I have a chance later?
Q. hi all, I have decided to bite the bullet and not see him anymore! Im kinda sad about this as he was a huge part of my life for two and a half years! I really need to get on with it and I just dont see friendship with him as something I woul...
A. 24 September 2007: it's going to take time, resistance and chocolate!! you have done the right thing and you need to come to terms with not seeing him, thinking about him defo not taking to him! don't plan or expect what will happen, you don't know what is g... (read in full...)
I can't get over him. How do I handle this?
Q. I had a relationship a year ago that I'm still struggling to get over, even though I'm in a very happy relationship with someone else right now. My ex (S) played a huge part in my life since I was 15 until just a few months ago (I'm 17 now). I was ...
A. 24 September 2007: you need to understand that "s" doesn't love you because he minipulates and ruins yuor happiness for his own self gain.
i appreciate it's difficult to get over someone you have a emotional connection with, he was with you in a big way for almo... (read in full...)
Do you think it's friendship or more?
Q. Theres this guy,i get on really well with himself and a few of his mates but im not sure if he likes me as a mate or more, he jokes around sometimes,and gentely punches my arm, he also calls me sweetheart sometimes,.My friends say he likes me but im ...
A. 24 September 2007: the signs are all there saying he likes you, he's probably just nervous about asking you out - guys find girls who ask them out incredibly sexy, it shows confidence and self happiness - go for it, you got nothing to loose!!!... (read in full...)
I am getting such mixed messages! Does he want me back or not?
Q. dear cupid i broke up with my boyfriend a month ago, its terrible im still not over him still cry every night and everything people tell me he likes me again does he? he flirts with me like always touching my hair and poking me and everything a...
A. 24 September 2007: you need to move on and being so young you are more likely to do this quicker if you didn't spend so much time around him. ok, you can't quit shcool but you need to have some space and get over him because he is like every other immature teenager ... (read in full...)
He has been on again, off again and I cant figure out what he feels!
Q. Ok I will try and keep this as short as poss. I was single for 3 years, mainly because I was going through a really hard time mainly due to Court case I was sexual abuse for 5 years as a child and I finally took it to court 20 years later. ...
A. 24 September 2007: you need someone who is able to sustain a relationship without going hot and cold.
i think it's better if you go your seperate ways and athough he loved you one time, he's not ready to settle down in a relationship because he doesn't know what he ... (read in full...)
He has been on again, off again and I cant figure out what he feels!
Q. Ok I will try and keep this as short as poss. I was single for 3 years, mainly because I was going through a really hard time mainly due to Court case I was sexual abuse for 5 years as a child and I finally took it to court 20 years later. ...
A. 24 September 2007: you need someone who is able to sustain a relationship without going hot and cold.
i think it's better if you go your seperate ways and athough he loved you one time, he's not ready to settle down in a relationship because he doesn't know what he ... (read in full...)
I broke up with him and I am glad. Is it ok to feel this way?
Q. ive recently split with my boyfriend. we werent together long and he didnt take it very well. he dragged out the whole thing for a wek before he would let it lie. anyway im glad i did it. i dont want a boyfriend. i want to have fun and i wasnt ha...
A. 24 September 2007: at last!
someone who is regretting splitting up with their partner!
if you weren't happy in the relationship and you felt it better to be apart, then you absolutely did the right thing not just for you but for your ex aswel because you didn't g... (read in full...)
So many guys to choose from!!
Q. The guy i love is 19.. and i'm 15. Ive known him ages and we can tell each other anything, and he always makes me smile,then recently he told me he likes me to. He quit his job to come back to live near me. But hes going to University so we decided ...
A. 24 September 2007: you should take a time out.
don't kiss someone for hours that you don't trust.
the 19 year old's gone to uni, he'll be meeting new girls, his age and although he did like you, he'll have moved on.
the 18 year old, yu should run a million ... (read in full...)
What game is this bloke playing?
Q. hi, i loved a boy who is an artist,we had some nice times together by relationships, but he almost never calls and askes about me, and when i call him he rarely answers my phone calls,does he still love me? or he i just playing with me???...
A. 24 September 2007: there must be a reason for him not answering your phone calls and the only person who can answer this is him.
there could be a number of reason and loss of interest is one, so speak to him and ask him outright.
good luck... (read in full...)
We are planning on sex for the first time. Need some answers to my questions...
Q. Hi me and my gr have been together just over a year and we have been talking about that fact we are ready to have sex, we are both old enough btw. i live with her(long story) so its kind if hard to get a chance to try it but next weekend her parents ...
A. 24 September 2007: okay.......
to help your girlfriend relax, you need to be relaxed. she needs to be reassured that this isn't going to be unbareable pain, it's not always painful, my first time wasn't. the more relaxed and comfortable you are, the less it will hur... (read in full...)
We separated because his friends have no moral, I'm afraid to go and get some things back for fear I find something that hurts me. I still feel bad.
Q. Why do I feel nauseated and bad and as if I were being betrayed badly when I see my ex is moving on with his life? It's like I expect him to miss me teribly for the rest of his life. When I met him he had been 8 yrs. alone and never kissed or had ...
A. 24 September 2007: it's not for you to judge the person he has become. he's young and whatever lifestyle he chooses to live has nothing to do with you. if you want your belongings back, then you'll have to ask him becase you not just walk into his apartment now ... (read in full...)
My heart is longing for the ex bf but I will hurt my current guy! Help..what should I do?
Q. My ex boyfriend and i broke up because i always feel he is more happy with his friends and liquor than with me,i want his rest day spend with me, but there is always time that we end up together with his friends, he always tell me that he loves me ...
A. 24 September 2007: you're present boyfriend loves you and gives you what you want, time together. you're ex is an ex for a reason, so the next time you feel anything for this guy, remember about the way he prefers his friends to spending time with you, all the arguing ... (read in full...)
Is there a differance between a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm?
Q. is there a difference between a clitoral orgasm nd a vaginal orgasm? xx...
A. 24 September 2007: it's different for everyone but the cliterous is very sensitive and so to alot of respects you tend to orgasm more quickly there than a normal orgasm but like i say, every girl is different.... (read in full...)
She works hard during the week and doesn't go out or want to meet, maybe I should walk away, is she interested?
Q. Is she interested? I have been seeing this girl for about a month, once or twice a week. She has spent the last couple of weekends with her family. The last time we met she asked me out, then no contact for 4 days until I sent her a txt message. M...
A. 23 September 2007: don't give up just yet, she does seem to like you.
just give her some space and let her contact you. she might be playing hard to get or she might just not have the time for you right now but doesn't want to loose you.
bare with it and it'l... (read in full...)
I really like him but he sees himself as a big brother to me! How do I get over him?
Q. hi people I have this friend that i see as more than a friend. we've got really close lately but the only problem is that he is in love with this girl and he sees himself as a big brother to me. i understand i can't ever be more than a friend to him ...
A. 23 September 2007: loys of a chocolate and a good girly dvd!
men play havoc with our emotions but in time, you'll have moved on and then he'll be a distant memory!
best of luck... (read in full...)
I'm bi and I'm dating my g/f online... but she only feels like a friend
Q. I'm bi and I'm dating my gf online. We both feel like we talk like friends rather than gf's. We both have feelings for each other but we don't know y we talk like friends and not as gf's. Any idea how to fix this or any advice u can give me. I would ...
A. 23 September 2007: at least you know you get on good as friends. sometimes when you don't know someone aswel as you think, your head takes over and assume you're with each other as girlfriends but there isn't an initial attraction. you need to talk to her and ... (read in full...)
I've developed feelings for a man I think lives too far away from me for things to work!
Q. I have been e-mailing a guy in the forces,who is serving abroad, for a while now. It started out as cheering someone up in a horrible place, but soon turned to flirting!We talk almost every night, and seem to have alot in common.He now wants to meet ...
A. 23 September 2007: there's no harm in it, just make sure you tell someone the address you're going to, how long you'll be there and when you're expected home.
make sure someone knows where you are at all times.
you've nothing to loose!!!
good luck... (read in full...)
Is there a chance he likes me? What can I do?
Q. Okay so i have a big crush on my friend that i have known since we were 3. He is a month younger than me so he got put into the year below me and he has just come to my secondary school. We dont hardly talk now but sometimes i feel him staring at ...
A. 23 September 2007: without talking to him, you won't know will you.
do it carefully and although you're shy, you've known this guy, forever!
it's not about just looks, you need to be connected and have a nice personality and although you think you're just aver... (read in full...)
The relation has advanced and I suddenly feel unhappy. I've had same symptms in other relations. Confused.
Q. I've been friends with a girl for the past three years and recently we've become close and we got into a close relationship. Its been about six weeks now and we become deeper and suddenly ive felt numb and unhappy, especially after we have a sexual ...
A. 23 September 2007: you're scared of moving to the next stage of your relationship as much as you want to so you mentally block the next level out.
talk to your girlfriend and see where you're going becuase the fear of the unknown causes us to act bizarely... (read in full...)
I am almost certain no drugs are involved, I just think he will always be flighty and I want the "normal life..." What to do?
Q. I have been with my b/f for nearly 5 years. We broke up in April after I learnt some devasting news about his life, he has started to take drugs. I threw him out of our home and bought him out. I kept in contact with him to support him to s...
A. 23 September 2007: it' not a good idea because for a start, it's not easy to stay off drugs and 4 months isn't that long to be able to decide that he's ready for a relationship again.
he doesn't need arguing and he needs to be on his own really. you need to help ... (read in full...)
Torn between new love and girlfriend, HELP!!!!
Q. Im in a relationship, but have been seeing someone else for a couple of months who is a friend of mine anyway although since, things have started to happen. I admitted that i like this girl and that when im not with her, i miss her loads and hate...
A. 23 September 2007: she deserves to be rid of you to be honest.
you're cheating on her and you think leaving will upset her, your lying, decietful and having sex with someone else you have claimed to really like and you think leaving will upset her.
how can you d... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my family about mine and my boyfriends age difference?
Q. Age gap relationships - how do I talk to my family? I'm 19 (almost 20) and have been seeing a man who is 36 on and off for about a year now. He has an ex-wife and a 5-year-old son who is the most adorable child in the world who both live in ano...
A. 23 September 2007: in my opinion age is just a number, but you're parents are just worried for you.
you need to explain that you understand their concerns and you appreciate they don't approve but you're not going to rush into anything. they need confirma... (read in full...)
I recently had unprotected sex, but took the morning after pill. When can I start taking the contraceptive pill?
Q. i recently had unprotected sex with this lad i have been seeing, it was the first time i had had unprotected sex and i am not on the pill i was waiting for my period to get back on it, i went and got the morning after pill and i am just wundering ...
A. 23 September 2007: at the start of your next period, and don't have unprotected sex again! apart from unwanted pregnancies, there are STI's you can catch!!! good luck... (read in full...)
Please tell me the difference between phone sex and real sex?
Q. Before I met my boyfriend, I was into phone sex with other guys. When I told him about it, he became so jealous. I have had real sex with him already but he still feels its the same thing. How can phone sex and real sex be the same?? ...
A. 23 September 2007: it's the same purpose, to fulfil your sexual frustration. he's jealous because phone sex does amount to the same thing. and when you have phone sex, i'm sure the guy gets off on it just like he would with real sex. let your boyfriend know, ... (read in full...)
I want him to notice me!!!
Q. Hi, I like this guy named [...]. But he has a girlfriend and my friend from dance likes him! I have liked him for a while and he still does not know! Help Please!!!...
A. 23 September 2007: i'm sorry, you are way too young to be thinking about relationships. you need to wait before you get involved with guy, emotionnally and physically, you're not ready. and if he has a girlfriend, it's less likely the feelings will be reci... (read in full...)
I feel like I cant compete with his ex!
Q. I met my b/f 2 yrs. after his g/f broke their engagement and moved away. And judging from all the pictures he still had of her on his computer, and the things he had around his house when he asked me to move in, I knew he wasn't over her even ...
A. 23 September 2007: jealousy isn't a healthy thing. you have slagged his ex off non stop because you are feeling like you can't compare to her. this isn't her fault, it's your boyfriend who won't let go. she's not a threat and you need to understand that. your boyf... (read in full...)
I really like my deputy manager. Does he like me?
Q. my assistantdeputy manager atwork and me get on really well ive been round his house for dinner and everyone thinks there is something going on. i wish there was to be honest, i can talk to him about anything and i trust him so much. when im not ...
A. 23 September 2007: age isn't the issue here, age is just a number!
you are young and maybe he feels it would jepodise your friendship because he clearly trusts and likes your friendship.
you work together and that is a difficult situation.
i think you sho... (read in full...)
I don't know which guy to choose! My feelings for them change each day!
Q. okay so, i'm been together with this guy for atleast 8 months and we arn't dating buut we are exactly like a couple he just doesn't want to go out. He just doesn't like relationships but i understand that but then there is another guy that wants to ...
A. 23 September 2007: it's unfair to be with one if you like the other more.
you say you like this other huy but maybe it's only because he is offering you the relationship you want and the attention you crave. the guy you're with wants all the benefits of a relation... (read in full...)
How can I make sure he'll write to tell me where he is once he's back in the U.S.?
Q. How do I know if he will write back to me? I'm friend to this guy in the Air Force. We've been keeping in touch since December last year. He's in Aviano Italy, but recently got orders to come back to the U.S. but didn't told me where exactly. I...
A. 23 September 2007: you can't make him do anything and if he is absolutley positive about keeping in touch, he will.
maybe, he has got alot on at the moment but i'm sure he will keep your details and when he is ready, settled and prepared to get in touch, he will.... (read in full...)
My gf split with me, as her family was moving away. We tried to talk, but it was awkward, as she sounded angry.
Q. Hi. My girlfriend split with me because her family was moving house, about 130 miles away from me, and didn't want our relationship to continue. We tried to talk after she moved away, but it was awkward. She sounded angry with me, so I decided tha...
A. 23 September 2007: she did the right thing in not giving you false hope that she was going to try and continue the relationship when she knew it wouldn't be simple.
youhave done great in moving on and you need to focus on that, whatever she is doing now, she's no... (read in full...)
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