A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:my assistantdeputy manager atwork and me get on really well ive been round his house for dinner and everyone thinks there is something going on. i wish there was to be honest, i can talk to him about anything and i trust him so much. when im not with him i think about him and when i see him i just smile. this guy that likes me at work asked him straight if he liked me and he said "was too young, work relationships dont work and because he (other guy - chef) likes me" but then hell flirt with me. he asked me to go outwith him on saturday night to his home toen to meet his friends. im getting so many mixed signals. one minyute im with him in his room making plans to go to away with him, the next hes telling people hes not interested. ireally like him and dont know what to do. I'm 17 and he's 25, please help me!
View related questions:
at work, flirt Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, leanne.od +, writes (23 September 2007):
 age isn't the issue here, age is just a number!
you are young and maybe he feels it would jepodise your friendship because he clearly trusts and likes your friendship.
you work together and that is a difficult situation.
i think you should talk to him and ask him outright how he feels and what he thinks is the right thing to do.
he'll think you're mature enough to raise the subject and you can discuss what to do.
best of luck
A
male
reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 September 2007):
Cool it until you get a little older.
...............................
|
