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My step father pushed me into having sex, should I tell my mother? It could give her the strength to leave him.
Q. I have a serious question that needs your opinion. Was I raped or sexualy abused by my step father? It started when I was 15. He and my mother were dating for just a few months at the time and he sorta slept over alot. One day It snowed so much ...
A. 19 September 2007: yes, you unwillingly was forced to have sex without your consent, so you were in fact raped. you need to tell your mum before something terrible happens to her, but first and foremost you need to tell the police. what i would do is, tell the ... (read in full...)
We live in a really high crime and polluted area b/c my husband doesn't want to quit his job! Help!
Q. I hate where my husband and I live. I've lived here all my life (I'm 25) and my husband (24) moved here about 6 years ago. It's been fine up until the last several years. Now, for some reason, everything about this place is taking a dive. We b...
A. 19 September 2007: i'm sorry, i didn't realise your circumstances. i think if the anywhere has that much crime, i too would like to get out. your husband may come round to the idea if you tell hm exactly how you feel, that your scared for your safety and his. ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had a good relationship w/ their affair and/or w/ someone who is already attached?
Q. Just wondering, has anyone ever had a happy ending out of having an affair, with a married partner or with someone who is just attatched? I'm just curious....
A. 19 September 2007: just so you know, my married man never hid the fact that he loved his wife, but it is possible to love 2 people at once, i know, because i hadd boyfriend for a few months whilst i was in the affiar. he's not having his cake and eating it, it's ... (read in full...)
I have small bumps around my genital area... Should I be worried??
Q. Hi, I have small acne like bumps around my genital area.. they look like normal acne and there are only 3 of them. should i be worried?...
A. 18 September 2007: i agree with cupcake, they sound very much like genital warts whick can be treated very easily with a cream from your local GP, however embarrasing it may be to approach him/her, to them it is a minor infection which is more common then not. left ... (read in full...)
Recently lost my viriginity and still bleed after sex. Help?
Q. i have recently lost my virginity and i still bleed after sex. i have had penetrative sex about 3 times now and there is still alot of blood. is there smfin rong with me?...
A. 18 September 2007: you're perfectly normal. luckily i never bled during my first few years of being sexually active but some girls i know have continued to bleed all their "sex life". so unless this causes major problems for you, it shuold clear up but if not, don't ... (read in full...)
Can someone please tell me about abortion pills?
Q. Hi I what shall a girl do, if she misses her first period and finds out she is pregnant. If she doesn't want the baby, Can she take abortion pills? What are abortion pills? How does an abortion take place in different stages? thanks...
A. 18 September 2007: the abortion pills work in two stages. stage one you are given the first pill and allowed to go home, then the following day you are given the second and as your aware, this induces you to "miscarry" the unborn foetus. i too would advise that the ... (read in full...)
We live in a really high crime and polluted area b/c my husband doesn't want to quit his job! Help!
Q. I hate where my husband and I live. I've lived here all my life (I'm 25) and my husband (24) moved here about 6 years ago. It's been fine up until the last several years. Now, for some reason, everything about this place is taking a dive. We b...
A. 18 September 2007: having a job isn't always because someone needs the money. your husband clearly loves his job and my guess is it's because he's fulfilling a dream job he always wanted. it would be unfair and selfish of you to expect him to move just because you ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had a good relationship w/ their affair and/or w/ someone who is already attached?
Q. Just wondering, has anyone ever had a happy ending out of having an affair, with a married partner or with someone who is just attatched? I'm just curious....
A. 18 September 2007: From someone who has had an affair with a married man which didn't end great, i can safely say, whilst your in the relationship, it's perfect. probably because married men know what to say, they are married after all, but personally i think it can ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for your finace to masturbate when you are not with him?
Q. Is it normal for your fiance' to masterbate when you are not with him?...
A. 18 September 2007: unfortunately it is normal for any male human being to masterbate in their own privacy. don't take it personally, just thank god he's doing it because when he stops it means he's getting too much sex! beleive me, every man finds time to have one ... (read in full...)
She laughed of my body as we were getting intimate. What should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend were "getting in the mood", but when I dropped my pants she laughed and said I was small. What should I do?...
A. 16 September 2007: she appears to be a very insensitive and completely shallow person. every girl knows that a guys "manhood" is his pride and joy so to laugh at you is a cruel and unkind thing to do. in my opinion it isn't about the size, it's about what you can do ... (read in full...)
I'm clueless about what career!
Q. Hi, I am extremly stuck on which career to choose. I am predicted all a's for my GCSE's but really have no clue as to what carrer i want! Need some HELP!!! ...
A. 16 September 2007: you're obviously a bright gilrl, but you have to do what you want to do, not what your parents or teachers tell you too. the difficulty is you are still a minor so authority figures will feel they know what is best for you when in reality they can't ... (read in full...)
My parents are getting divorced after 21 years!! How can I get them back together!?
Q. Hi, Im 12 years old and need some help. My mum and dad are getting a devorce after 21yrs of marrage. Im really upset about this and not sure what to do because if i tell one of them like i did last time they'd just end up arguing with each oth...
A. 16 September 2007: i'm sorry to hear that but unfortunately, you cannot force them to stay together and using emotional blackmail like saying you don't want them to split up it would be unfair because they probably feel bad enough as it is considering they have been ... (read in full...)
I'm with my friends ex and she seems to have a problem with it. What should I do?
Q. my best friend use to sleep with this lad, and he fancies me. we got together last sat she said she was really happy for me and shes not bothered about him no more, but shes told one of our friends that shes bothered, but she has already got a ...
A. 15 September 2007: i went out with my best friends ex once, and it wasn't until we split up that she told me how hurt she was. it's never a good idea because your friend probably confided in this guy about everything and now you're with him, she's worried about what ... (read in full...)
This relationship put me so down that I hate myself and don't care how he treats me anymore. Help.
Q. how can you just leave some one when youre so lonely and sad all the time and have nothing going for your self ?????????? how can you pick up your heart and leave if in the relationship you were put so down low that you hate your self and dont ca...
A. 15 September 2007: the only advice i can give you is stop this before something serious happens. this guy doesn't respect you or deserve your love. it's hard to leave all the familiaraties behind and move on but unless you do, you won't be happy. you don't deserve ... (read in full...)
Will I ever be able to even TALK to her ever again? I'd like to, but it's so painful. I love her!!
Q. Hi. A little while after my girlfriend split with me (after 2 years of being together), I found that talking to her was always difficult. I'd had (sn still have) many emotions and feelings that I couldn't give her. I couldn't tell her that I loved...
A. 15 September 2007: i split up with my boyfriend about 4 months ago and at the time, i was heartbroken. although it was slightly different to your circumstances, i felt my world was falling apart around me and i ended up in hospital. so i understand how you feel and ... (read in full...)
Is he just messing me about? How can I encourage him to be more commited?
Q. i really like this guy but there is some history between me and him and our close friends so its difficult for us to be together. He says that he relly likes me as well but he doesnt put the effort in and i found out that he has been "seeing"...
A. 15 September 2007: i say it quite often but men under 25 are still "experimenting" and are far to immature to become commmitted to anyone. you cannot force anyone to make a commitment they do not want to, it has to be their decision. he wants his cake and wants to ... (read in full...)
How can I balance between disciplining my bf's daughter and being liked by her at the same time?
Q. My boyfriend has a daughter (age 7) from his previous marriage. She lives with her mom and I get to see her every other weekends. His daughter likes me a lot, but sometimes I don’t know how to say no to her. She likes to play rough with my boyfriend ...
A. 15 September 2007: okay, the key to your problem is you want to be her friend and her mum which is a nice thought but a bit difficult. because friends don't have bounderies. if you sit her down and explain to her, you are sometimes going to have to say no because ... (read in full...)
If the partner cheats does it mean he doesn't love you or plainly doesn't respect you?
Q. quick question can you love and be in love with some one that doesnt love you back ? if your partner cheats on you does that mean they dont love you ???? or do they just not respect you !!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 15 September 2007: from personal experience, a parnter cheats when a relationship has gone bad, they want a quick exit and if you found he cheated then he left the clues for you to find. in terms of respect, a man who can go out and cheat with someone else whilst ... (read in full...)
Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring.
Q. Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring....
A. 15 September 2007: why do people always think about money? supposing you could put a price on love, how much is yours worth? because it's doubtful any amount of money spent on a ring would be considered justifiable. you're lovely fiance shouldn't have disclosed the ... (read in full...)
I you loved someone, wouldn't you do anything for that person?
Q. IF YOU LOVED SOME ONE WOULDNT YOU DO ANYTHING ???????? well heres my question, my fiance and me are living about 5hrs away and were still kinda young and not making so much money i seen him in july and now i am going crazy i want to see h...
A. 14 September 2007: it wuols cost the exact same for him to travel to you. i think is playing you for a fool. it's harsh but i think it's true. he hasn't made any effort in this relationship and he doesn't appear to have any intentions too. you're trying to hard ... (read in full...)
How can I balance between disciplining my bf's daughter and being liked by her at the same time?
Q. My boyfriend has a daughter (age 7) from his previous marriage. She lives with her mom and I get to see her every other weekends. His daughter likes me a lot, but sometimes I don’t know how to say no to her. She likes to play rough with my boyfriend ...
A. 14 September 2007: tread carefully, i have a step mum and until a few years ago felt threatened by her relationship with my dad. you should try and explain you aren't as strong as her dad, and encourage her to do something with you such as, drawing, making things ... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage of me while I was asleep?
Q. I drunk wine and I became drunk at around 12 midnight for about 4 hours and after that at around 5 in the morning I went to bed with a guy having a clear picture of what I was doing. But can it happen that I did not sleep with him or could he have ...
A. 14 September 2007: it is important to get checked out because yuo could have caught an sti or something. but more seriously, if you didn't consent, it's not taking advantage, it's rape. this man new you were incapable of a clear decision so could have made it for ... (read in full...)
I think he cheated... What do you think?
Q. I think my partner is cheating on me, please advise We have been together for 14 years, and have lived together for nearly 7. I have a son by a previous relatonship who has left home. We live with our two other children who are 6 and 3. For so...
A. 14 September 2007: i'm sorry to say he is definately cheating. i was the other women for 2 years and i was called "rob" from work, or something alike. i wasn't allowed to put xx's on the end or say anything suspicious. it's difficult you need to leave him with your ... (read in full...)
My bf of 2 months told me to F%*K off in front of his friends and I left the bar in tears! Should I move on?
Q. I had a row with my bf last nite (we have been together only 2 months) and it was over nothing - mostly my fault. But when I tried to apologise he told me to F%*K off in front of his friends and I left the bar in tears. Usually when we argue I ...
A. 14 September 2007: leave before you get too emotionally involved with him. mutual respect and understanding are vital for a relationship and he clearly has none for you. my ex always talked down to me in front of his mates and foolishly i put up with it for 5 ... (read in full...)
Because of my split, I feel that I'm falling into depression. Please help.
Q. me and my ex have been split up for 6 months im still in love with him i cry myself to sleep. he still comes to c me and we still do stuff and he says he loves me and cares for me then ignores me. what do i do i feel im falling into depression. i ...
A. 14 September 2007: having suffered with depression for 6 years, i can relate to you. my friend asked for my advice because she still holds a torch for her ex and i will tell you exactly what i told her. he is stringing you along, he keeps you on side and that way, ... (read in full...)
A 27yr old man was persuing me on the internetnet and I called the police. Now my friends make fun of me.
Q. i was online a couple of weeks ago in a chat room and was talking to a whole bunch of people and trying to make new friends. after awhile a man who said he was 27 started talking to me and things were nice. we spent a couple days talking and soon he ...
A. 14 September 2007: would your friend be laughing at you and making fun if something terrible had happened to you? you did a very sensible thing and should be proud of yourself. you are very young and your actions were that of a grown up. this man was doing a very ... (read in full...)
We broke up b/c of arguments about his ex! What do I do?
Q. My boy friend is 13 Years older than me, he has 2 kids from his wife that he is getting a divorce with that he was with for 16 years, I love him to bits but, I always seem to feel threatened by her even though he left her after she cheated 3 times. ...
A. 14 September 2007: this isn't what you'll want to hear but to be honest his wife will always be in his life because of his children. if she is the main cause of all your problems, she won't disappear. your boyfriend may have got with you to try and hurt back, he ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant by the guy I've been having an affair with! I dont need judging, I just need some advice...
Q. I have been seeing this guy for years. Before you judge me you don't have to live my life and there is a lot of screwed up stuff in my marriage. I am married and scared to death of my husband. I found out that I am pregnant and don't know what to ...
A. 14 September 2007: please do not terminate the pregnancy. this time last year i was the other women and fell pregnant and got told to get rid of it which i foolishly did. if you're unhapy in your marriage, br honest, leave and do it for you. children are forever. ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my wife's sister that I love her, but I keep chickening out!
Q. i am in love with my wife's sister, i think she feels the same way about me. i am not in love with my wife and considering divorcing her. i love and care about my wife but i am not in love with her, and not sure if i have ever been. i want to tell ...
A. 14 September 2007: my advice? divorce your wife now so tht she still has some dignity left but if you tell her sister you love her, you will make a big fool of yourself. her loyalties lie firmly with your wife and she will not choose you over her at all, not now, ... (read in full...)
Is she flirting with me?
Q. is this a sign of flirting, quite confused?! there is this female whom i go to work with. we talked a couple times regarding my concerns. just every once in a while she will be gazing or looking at me for quite a long time, lets say a little mor...
A. 14 September 2007: she may admire you rather than fancy you. she could be envious or jealous. speak to her but do not imply you think she fancies you, it'll be awkward. just take an interest in her, ask her about her likes, boyfriends... she might just want you to ... (read in full...)
It's been 2 months since our break-up, but my feelings for him just keep getting stronger!
Q. Hi, im 15 and have just come out of a seriouse relationship it has been two months now and i am still not over him. i like him more than ever Is he the one?...
A. 14 September 2007: i have just came out of a relationship and like you i beleived he was the one. i am 20 and so was he, but he cheated on me. don't be in such a hurry to find that special someone because boys under the age of 25 are immature and haven't finished ... (read in full...)
I can't tell him that I'm unsure of our relationship b/c his best friend just died - I can't hurt him anymore!
Q. Im so unsure what to do i have been seeing my current boyfriend for a month and its very long distance and ive only seen him a few times in that time. And im going through alot of things this year including the sudden passing of my grandad and i ...
A. 14 September 2007: please, do not tell him yet. if you don't see him that much anyway, what's a couple more weeks? his friend passing will have been alot harder to deal with than your grandad because although you were undoubtedly close to him, imagine if your friend ... (read in full...)
I'm 24, she's 53. Most of her children are older than me and they accept me, but will this really work?
Q. Can an age gap relationship work? I am 24 and she 53. I lover her very much and have fantastic sex together. The thing is I sometimes worry that the relationship will not last, even though we are living together and talking about marriage. The re...
A. 14 September 2007: age is just a number. i was in a happy relationship with a man 18 years older than me. he was a year younger than my dad and considering i was only 18 at the time it effected him more than me. but he was married so it was a completely differntly ... (read in full...)
I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??
Q. okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ...
A. 14 September 2007: lying is never a good option. it's done now and if you don't tell him then he'll find out sooner or later because if you're about to enter the serious part of your relationship then he'll want to meet your family and they know your age. be honest ... (read in full...)
My bf has to have a beard b/c of his religion, but I hate beards! I want him to cut it!
Q. I love my boyfriend so much, but he's got a beard and long hair, he has to have it this way because of his religion, but the thing is im not a fan of beards, but he can't cut it. I really hate beards ! It just makes him look older and my friends ...
A. 14 September 2007: you claim to love this man but you want to change him, not only is this beard part of him, it is his religion aswel. imagine how you would feel if he wanted you to stop wearing your favourate outfit because he didn't like the way it felt against ... (read in full...)
Can My Lovers Wife Trace Me From A Text??
Q. After my lover led me on for several years. I finally snapped and had a moment of madness. I sent a text message to his wife hinting at his infidelity and it turns out he has had many other flings. I then later received angry calls from him, several ...
A. 14 September 2007: hello. i am in almost the same situation as you are now. although i haven't got round to telling his wife, i have been in a relationship with a married man for the past 2 years. please trust me when i tell you that even she if she did go to the ... (read in full...)
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