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I am deeply hurt. What should I do now?
Q. hi, having a difficult time, my girlfriend of 3 years says it is over and we have a 2 year old daughter - she said she got the vibe from me that i hated her 6 months ago but she is only telling me now. for a long time after the birth of our d...
A. 3 December 2007: first of all, you might not be able to just take your daughter, you need to talk things through with her. if it is finalised, you can apply for custody but there is no guarentee you will gain full parental rights, you will at least, get joint ... (read in full...)
What do I talk about?
Q. what a new girl expects a man to say when newly dating?...
A. 3 December 2007: Be yourself!! sometimes it is nice to know that a guy can talk about what he wants, if you need to think up conversations, it's not natural and will show.
just ask things about her, her interests, likes, dislikes, hobbies, favourate past times, t... (read in full...)
What's this light period about? Could I be pregnant?
Q. i am confused i had miscarriage back in july it was my second miscarriage. i have now been trying for baby since september i had sex 2 days befor my period this month when it did come on 1st it was very light brownish colour iv no symptoms of ...
A. 3 December 2007: I wouldn't get your hopes up. i think that you're very unfortunate for having undergone 2 miscarriages, i have lost a baby myself, and i think it is safe to say that it is just your body changing, light, heavy, whatever your period, it might just be ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, is it OK for me to loose my virginity?
Q. im 13 is it okay to loose my virginity im not sure can anybody help ?...
A. 13 October 2007: If you seriously have to ask then you know the answer is no. you are too young and you shouldn't be in hurry to loose your virginty. want to know why the teenage pregnancy rate is always going up - because not enough girls question their maturity, ... (read in full...)
I still don't have a boyfriend and feel lonely.
Q. ok.. well the thing is that sometimes i feel very lonely i dont know if i am depressed or something, well i dont think so.. i have many friends and a good family, dont misunderstood me the thing is, love has never knock my door, and i dont...
A. 13 October 2007: well, you're certainly modest, so hey.
you're young, love doesn't automatically come knocking, you need to get out there and have fun before you settle down and find the one.
everyone gets lonely but that's life, when you do find a boyfriend... (read in full...)
How can I get over him?
Q. ive liked this boy 4 like 9 years now and i really need 2 4get about him n move on but i cant. he keeps flirtin with me n stuff. i like it but its making it worse.plz help me....
A. 13 October 2007: you like attention and hey you're getting it. you can't have the best of both worlds and you need to work out why you're craving his attention. the best idea is to get him out of your life and get over it. life is one big game and you are a tiny ... (read in full...)
New boyfrined, but am far too shy to talk to him much. How do I overcome my shyness?
Q. I have a new boyfriend and I'm kind of shy around him. I do love him but I'm a shy person by nature and I sometimes I'm too shy to talk with him. How do I overcome my shyness?...
A. 13 October 2007: You don't love him. you love having a boyfriend. if you loved him you wouldn't feel uncomfortable around him, you need to boost your confidence but it's easier said than done. he'll notice that you are different around him, so try telling him that ... (read in full...)
Does he love me too?
Q. Dear Cupid, Here is the guy i really love but I really don't know if he Really loves me in return. I don't unbderstand his character towards me and the way he treated me. Hey! we don't have nay realationship but I just really do'nt know if we ha...
A. 13 October 2007: YOU DO NOT LOVE HIM!
unless you have been with him, and had a relationship then how can you say you love him.
Love grows and is a special emotion.
talk to him, go out and then you'll know how he feels.... (read in full...)
Isn't love a choice and not a feeling?
Q. Isn't being in love a choice and not a feeling. To me it's about everything you do and have shared with that person. I want to know if i can control the love of my life and my partner for almost 20 years from leaving our life together even after she ...
A. 13 October 2007: You can't control anyone. what are you, an emotional bully? she has fallen out of love with you. you need to get over it and move on. you can't change her mind, she loves someone else and absolutely nothing you do will change her mind back.
yes 2... (read in full...)
Women run when I tell them I am a bi-male.
Q. Hi, I am a man and I'm pretty sure I am bi. I am sexually attracted to both men and women but I am only romantically interested in women. I'm at a point in my life when I really want a long term monogamous relationship with a woman. I...
A. 13 October 2007: Okay, when you go out, with your mates, do you expect a girl to be all okay with the fact you are bi going out with guy mates. would you be okay with your girl spending time with men? girls are difficult to understand and the female mind works in a ... (read in full...)
My best friend no longer cares.
Q. my best mate doesn't care any more. My best m8 and i used to be really close, like, we'd do everything together, always together. But gradually sh'e been speading time with lots of other girls who i don't really like. She never says hello to me w...
A. 13 October 2007: she needs you? you need her more like.
part of growing up means finding friends you have things in common with. she has worked out that you two are different. you call her a slut, no wonder she doen't want to be your friend. finding friends ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my teacher how I feel?
Q. I'm a legal adult now. I really like him and want to buy him presents or do something else nice for him *blush*. Unfortunately there's still a large age gap between my teacher and myself (He's actually around my dad's age *ugh*). I was ...
A. 13 October 2007: what do you honestly think telling your teacher will acheive? you reakon he'll tell you he feels the same? doubtful. he doesn't think of you any differntly than any other student. get over him and find someone less complicated.... (read in full...)
How to tell him I want more than secret text love?
Q. this is realy complicated so i am going to try my best to explain.... i live in a pub and get along realy well with a certain customer who is nine years older than me, about two month ago we were talking over the computer and he told me that he ...
A. 13 October 2007: First of all, you don't love him. so many young people get love and lust mixed up, love is when you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, and at 16/17, believe me you do not know what you want.
he sounds like the kind of guy who puts... (read in full...)
He came home at 6 AM with lipstick on his collar!
Q. I have been with partner for 2 years, we have just bought a house only 2 months ago. i love him very much but i dont trust him. he went out with work and didnt come home till 6.30 in the morning, while he was out i tried to phone him several times ...
A. 13 October 2007: get out while you can.
whatever excuse he came up with, you'll beleive him for the want of a happy relationship but all the signs point to him being unfaithful and if you let it go, he'll walk all over you time and again and then brag about it... (read in full...)
Is tall and short a good mix?
Q. I was just wondering on a few issues and need clarity. First of all how long should a guy last each round before ejaculating? Does is it mean that when your lady's not moaning during sex, you are not man enouugh? Is it true that body height i...
A. 13 October 2007: Sometimes ladies just don't want to moan, just for the sake of male prides being a little dented. every man lasts different times, so whatever man says he preforms the "adequate" amount of time is a bullshitter because there isn't one. and body ... (read in full...)
Can I convince her to stay?
Q. Bare with me i'm so confused and hurt that i just don't know what to do.What if i think my partner of almost 20 years is making a huge mistake by giving up our whole life together to be with her first love who is also maried? Can i do or say ...
A. 13 October 2007: She has made her mind up by the sounds of it and you're feelings mean nothing to her when she is considering her happiness. my advice - let her get on with it. okay, you've been together for quite a while but she doesn't want to be with you anymore. ... (read in full...)
My man cheated on me and I hurt so badly!
Q. i need advise really bad well my bf of almost 2 years had been hiding something from me for about 7 months and last night he fianlly admited that he faked phone sex with his ex girl friend, but we were not together and let me tell you why thi...
A. 13 October 2007: He's not worth your tears and upset. he is a prick and needs to be out in his place. he didn't give a toss about your feelings when he was flirting with this other girl.
men are crap and treat us like shit and then expect us to be there when the... (read in full...)
What does "giving head" mean?
Q. What does "giving head" mean?...
A. 3 October 2007: it means giving a guy a blow job.
some of the "sexual" references are a little difficult to understand. ... (read in full...)
What are the relationship 'bases'?
Q. What are the bases in relationships?? x...
A. 2 October 2007: trust, honesty, loyalty, happiness, attracted to each other, get along, enjoy each others company, same interests (not essential but does help), same sense of humour,... the list continues.
but the main foundations are trust, honesty and loyalty.... (read in full...)
I'm depressed and can't eat or sleep because of my ex-boyfriend...
Q. I'm incredibly depressed. I really can't eat or sleep because of my ex-boyfriend. We were together for 11 months and had a wonderful relationship but then towards the end it got bad. insecurities, fighting, you name it. I had to end the relation...
A. 2 October 2007: you need to move on and however much it hurts right now, you're young, resiliant and will bounce back.
any break up hurts but if you wanted to see other people and now he wants to see other people, there is a trust issue and you're better t... (read in full...)
My BF is concerned about his staying time. Any comparisons?
Q. Hi guys and gals, my boyfriend is really self-conscience about how long he lasts in bed. I tell him that it doesn't bother me bacause we can always go again a little later, because he lasts longer after the first time, but he gets really upset with ...
A. 2 October 2007: every guys staminer is different, my first bf lasted ages but my second only managed a couple of minutes. in time you'll find out ways to make sex work so both of you feel you've done your best, it's a guy thing to be worried about his performance, ... (read in full...)
What do I do abut my tangled web?
Q. I am currently going out with this man, who still has yet to end his relationship with his gf. He says he is going to leave her and I know most people would say to only believe him when he finally does. We've been going out for a month but have ...
A. 2 October 2007: you need to put the baby first.
okay, your current bf, who is still in a relationship may be weighing up his options about who he prefers to be with, but surely you deserve to be first choice, instead of second best?
the father of you baby dese... (read in full...)
How can you get past guilt and regret (over mistakes) and forgive yourself?
Q. In the past. I've made a lot of mistakes in love and life, too many really. On many occaisions i didnt seem to have learnt from my mistakes. I just wandered how do i get past the guilt and regret and forgive myself. I'm often beating myself up and ...
A. 2 October 2007: i understand, i've made plenty of mistakes.
"mistakes make us who we are today, to regret a mistake is to regret who we are and if we don't love ourselves, how can we expect anyone else too"
what's done is done. nothing can change that. i k... (read in full...)
New guy I've met is still interested in his ex.
Q. Hi all!, Dont wanna confuse you but i feel really puzzled about my new guy and would like some advice. I met a guy around a month ago got chatting/ went out etc, and we've seen each other practically every day. We got speaking about intimate ...
A. 2 October 2007: something is telling me he would if he could.
it doesn't seem like he is over her, using the typical hatred speach, if he was over her if wouldn't look into her place of work, probably hoping she was there to see you with him and make her jealous.... (read in full...)
Help! I failed my first year of university, feel like I have no purpose and am a failure!
Q. i know this is nothin to do with relationships im sorry but really need some advice i hope u can help..iv just failed my first year of university and there is no chance of goinfg back.i feel like i have gone from my life being fairly certain to ...
A. 2 October 2007: "failure" is difficult for everyone.
you need to take time out and put things into perspective. at the end of the day, you can't change what has been done but now you have to change your options. uni is no longer an option - so you're going to... (read in full...)
I'm having difficulty finding a boyfriend... where should I look?
Q. I know this will sound like a really stupid question, but I'm really having difficulty finding a boyfriend. I've been single for over a year, and haven't even met any potential boyfriends in that time! I get really lonely as all my friends have guy...
A. 2 October 2007: well, whenever you look for something you don't find it. it's when you're not looking for it that it finds you.
join a group that interests you, that way you'll have something in common. men in bars/clubs are usually after one thing so i'd sugg... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend ready for sex?
Q. Friends my gf is never ready for sex! please tell me what to do. How to make a girl ready for sex?? She never wants me to talk about sex and its very difficult to control... please help me out please!...
A. 1 October 2007: you can't make anyone ready for sex, she has to be comfortable with it and happy to engage it otherwise she'll not enjoy it and will feel pressured into having it.
there could be a reason as to why she doesn't want it andwhy she doesn't like spe... (read in full...)
It was a week after her period, could she still get pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex last night. Is it possible that she could get pregnant even though it was almost a week after her period?...
A. 29 September 2007: yes it is, because that's the implications of having unprotected sex.
best of luck... (read in full...)
She tells me she has an std, and then blames me.
Q. Dear cupid, I have been married for a month now my wife came to me and said she had caught an std and the way she said it was like she was blaming me i have not been with any other women and she claims she hasn't been with any other men i think she'...
A. 29 September 2007: it depends what std she has. there are some which can be caught without having affairs.... (read in full...)
I can't get enough of the hot sex that my affair gives me! But I feel bad for betraying my bf. What should I do?
Q. I've got a boyfriend, but recently I had sex with another girl. It was so amazing, I had the best orgasim I have ever had, I enjoyed it so much more than I do with my boyfriend. We've been doing it in secret ever since, just for a bit of fun. W...
A. 28 September 2007: you need to be honest because it is unfair on your boyfriend. he will find out and will feel completely humiliated, not just because you're having an affair but it's with a girl.
you never know, he might like the prospect of a threesum, most guy... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to go out with me, but he hardly knows me! How can I get something to happen between us?
Q. I like this boy so much and he knows that I like him. He said that he didn't want to go out with me and that he just wants to be friend. But he doesn't really know me because we don't talk that much and he hasn't known that for that long. I real...
A. 28 September 2007: there has to be an initial attraction and it seems that he doesn't feel that way about you.
just make the most of being friends and if anythig happens in the future, so be it but don't put all your energy into trying too hard to make him change h... (read in full...)
I told everyone including my girlfriend that I've had sex - but I'm still a virgin! Any tips for the first time?
Q. Hello. I'm 14 years old(turning 15 soon; freshman). I have already told some of my friends that I had lost my virginity already. I'm starting to think that that was a mistake. I have a girlfriend (we've been going out for about a year and a half), ...
A. 28 September 2007: lying always comes back which is why you shouldn't lie in the first place, but you have.
for a start your girlfriend will breaking the law by having sex with a minor and you should just be honest with her. because no matter how many tips you get,... (read in full...)
How can I tell my family of my relationship with an older man?
Q. Im in love with an older man but know my family would disagree with the relationship, how can i tell them?...
A. 27 September 2007: it's difficult but be honest. that's the only way, if you are going to be with this man make them see age is just a number and means very little against the amount of love you feel for this guy.
good luck... (read in full...)
Is it better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all?
Q. Is it really better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all? If so, why does it hurt so bad....
A. 27 September 2007: that is one thing my gran always said that is so true.
it hurts real bad but it passes, and you'll always have the experience and memory. but you are still young and love could find you again, when you least expect it.
best of luck... (read in full...)
Should we introduce potty training?
Q. my 12 month old son is too smart he has just turned one on 09-17-07 and he has mastered taking down the baby gate walking and he talks more than most kids that are atleast 3 months older than him he took off his diaper the other day and told me wet ...
A. 27 September 2007: why not? there is no age limit on these things, my younger cousing was under 12 months, and if he is advances, there's no harm in it, i'm sure he'll take to it!... (read in full...)
Could she be starting her period aged 7?
Q. my daughter is 7 years old and saying she has belly pains. can she be having the pain to start her period....
A. 27 September 2007: well, i was 10 when i started mine so although 7 is really young, i'd advise taking her along to the doctor just to see what these stomache pains are.
even if just put your mind at ease.
best of luck... (read in full...)
My brother-in-law is in prison for child molestation! Could he have been molested? Does this mean my husband was molested, too?
Q. Hi, I have been married 3 months. My husband's brother was just convicted of molesting boys ages 12-14. He started doing this when he was 20. I am really struggling w/this. I am glad he is in prison even though my husband and his family are grieving...
A. 27 September 2007: there is a possibilty but there is no excuse for it. your brother-in-law can try all he wants to blame his actions on it happening to him, but he can't excuse what he's done.
if it has happened to your husband, until he feels able to talk about it... (read in full...)
I am 17 and have been cheating on my boyfriend with a 31 year old
Q. i am 17 and have been with my boyfriend also 17 for 3years, my feelings have changed and i love someone else. i have recently been seeing a man of 31, he is lovely and doesnt seem his age. i work with him and have stayed over his house 6 times ...
A. 27 September 2007: no - the age gap isn't the problem, you need to end your relationship with your boyfriend and now.
he's living with false hope and it's unfair on him. the sooner you leave him, the sooner you'll be able to carry on with your life and have a happy ... (read in full...)
I like this guy, but he wants more from me than I can give
Q. i like this guy.and he likes me too,but i think he wonts more from me than i am willing to give wot should i tell him and haw?...
A. 27 September 2007: tell him you're sorry but you're not interested in going out with him or getting involved with anybody right now.
don't be pressured into anything by anyone because you have freedom of speech and all that.
if he's opnly interested in ce... (read in full...)
My ex wants to be sex buddies
Q. My boyfriend and i broke up because he didnt want a relationship, as we will be movin away to university next year. it was so hard for me, but we have kept very close. Three Months on. He told me he misses havin me around, still loves me, and st...
A. 27 September 2007: no no no no no no no no no no no no no!!!!!!
he wants no strings attatched sex on tap! he wants you to be available to sartisfy him at his beck and call without worrying about you getting a boyfriend and not being round. he knows you're still in... (read in full...)
My friend asked out a girl and she said no. Does that mean he has no chance?
Q. my friend likes a girl and he aked her out she said no but, she saying no to everybody. does that mean he has no chance?...
A. 27 September 2007: it means she doesn't want a boyfriend and your friend should respect that and not harass her in the hope her mind will change.
she seems sensible to want to be on her own.
tell your friend to look elsewhere.
take care... (read in full...)
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