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My friend has just had a baby who might not make it. How can I comfort her and tell her I'm here for her?
Q. My co-worker friend just had a baby 3 months early and nobody knows if he is going to pull through. I messaged her through our company email (she just moved, so this is the only way I could contact her; don't know her new contact info!) letting her ...
A. 26 September 2007: just your kind support will be enough because she is in a terrible position and you want to be there fpr her but without invading her personal space.
i was 2 months premature and was in a incubator for 5 and half weeks, so it is possible... (read in full...)
My lack of trust brought back to him bad memories and we broke up. Anything I can do to convince him?
Q. Me and my bf ended last wednesday. Things happend a couple of weeks before, and he said that i had been accusing him and checking up on him, and these are the things his ex used to do and she really hurt him. He said he didnt want to get hurt...
A. 25 September 2007: unfortunatley not. your insecurities and his trust issues clash and he doesn't feel like he can handle another relationship of constant reasurrance and things.
you're hurting now but it will pass and get better, and then you will see that thi... (read in full...)
I cheated on him last year and he wants out; he's been unfaithful several times before. Should I move on?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 years. I cheated on him last year for the first time. I told him about it and he wants out. I feel cheated because he has had affiars several times and i have always forgiven him. I'm very confused now. ...
A. 25 September 2007: i think you both need to go your seperate ways, because if you're both cheating, the trust has gone and the relationship needs its foundations rebuilt but he wants out and maybe you should make a clean break for it aswel.
move on and don't lo... (read in full...)
How do you know when and what your "pupose" is, so you can teach it to your children and be blessed?
Q. I'm sorry if I offend anyone by bringing religion to the table, but I have a question for the belivers. It has been said many times that everyone has a purpose in this life and that you will be blessed in abundance if you follow that purpose. ...
A. 25 September 2007: everyone's meaning in life is different. you're purpose is to put your children first, you are the bread winner so you provide shelter and food and necessities for your family and you go to church. i think that in itself is your purpose, your ... (read in full...)
He lives far away but maintain contact. How do I know it's true love and exclusive?
Q. Dear Cupid... am a lady of 24 yearys and i have been dating this guy for 3yrs 1mnt now...he is caring loving and everything ...but the only problem is that we are always far away from each other...He is a footballer and he always t...
A. 25 September 2007: relationships are built on the foundations of trust, happiness and love.
3 years is a long time and if you've never doubted him, you shouldn't start now. just try and make sure the passion never dies, send sexy texts, make him remember you love... (read in full...)
Is it really possible to be in love with someone but put all your energy into something else (studying) ?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. He has been in college for the past year and has 1 more year to go and it has been stressful on the relationship with his very busy schedule. I love him dearly and up until now I thought he felt the same...
A. 25 September 2007: yes and he is being honest with you so you don't become insecure. his head and mind need to focus on his studying and schoolwork because he wants to get good results at the end of it.
be patient and when the sturdying ends, he'll devote his time... (read in full...)
A relationship... with no one knowing? What are these mindgames, what shall I do?
Q. Okaay..well...My ex and I broke up because he didnt want a relationship. He said this was due to the fact we will be going to university, and he wants the ''univeristy experience''. Even though we wont be leaving for univeristy for atleast a ...
A. 25 September 2007: he wants no-strings-attatched sex. every mans dream. and he knows your hung up on him so plays games to make you think he's interseted but he knows he's not.
my opinion is to leave well alone and that means no sex acts, at all. if he thinks h... (read in full...)
How do I get him to see me like more of an equal?? He gives the impression he thinks I'm stupid and don't have a clue about life.
Q. The man I'm seeing frequently treats me like he thinks I'm stupid. Granted, I grew up in a small town and never moved away. I went to our community college but never received a degree, but it wasn't for lack of intelligents, but because I was ...
A. 25 September 2007: well, being a young naive 20 year old, i can safely say you are just as equal as he is, and he is living in the past when women didn't have a mind of their own and they stayed at home and did what they were told.
you are intelligent and he shoul... (read in full...)
Is this emotional abuse?
Q. Is it emotional abuse? My fiance and I always argue, and last night I just had enough. The problem is I live with him, and where Im from is far away. Anyways, I was just wondering if breaking up with him is the right thing to do. It feels like ...
A. 25 September 2007: it is emotional and mental abuse and your instincts are right to get out. if he tells you it's unfair on him just ignore him and put yourself first.
he has no right in doing this and one day it may become violent, but you shouldn't wait around t... (read in full...)
Wondering if he's too big for me and so if it will hurt the first time.
Q. Hi.. i'm 16 and i'm wondering if my boyfriends penis will "fit" in my vagina the first time we have sex.. it looks so big when i give him oral and i'm afraid that i'll bleed and that it will hurt because i'm a virgin! please help!...
A. 25 September 2007: if you are a virgin, it is likely to bleed anyway because it's the first time, and it more often than not hurts the first few times until your used to it.
as for it being too big, you'd be suprised, but make sure you use lots of lubrican... (read in full...)
He might just want casual sex, and if I tell him I might lose him as a friend, so what shall I do?
Q. my best friend is a guy, and he has previously been out with 2 of my friends. in between both of these relationships, we became very close and ended up sleeping together. i felt really guilty, we talked and agreed not to tell anyone. years on, still ...
A. 25 September 2007: it seems he defo wants just casual sex, and it appears you want more so the first thing to do is stop haveing sex with him completely. if you want your friendship to work, you can't have any sexual relations at all, especially when you feel your ... (read in full...)
Do you think he wants to get back with me? I ended the relation for he was abusive.
Q. I broke up with my bf just over a month ago, he was verbally/emotionally abusive. We were going out for 7 months. Anyway up until yesterday we hadnt spoken to each other since the break up. I dindt try to contact him at all and he made a few lame ...
A. 25 September 2007: an ex is an ex for a reason and they'll be all nice and tell you what you want to hear when they are trying to get into your good backs but it wouldn't be long before his old ways returns.
you're right in thinking to stay away, friendsh... (read in full...)
Joined a guitar class, does this guy like me?
Q. recently, i joined a guitar class. there is this guy i think i like. he is 4 years older than me (17 yrs old this yr) and in polytecnic. he likes the clerk at the centre. i dont want to tell him i like him because i am scared he will not like me and ...
A. 25 September 2007: if i'm brutally honest, he won't receipricate the feelings because you are alot younger than he is and 16/17 year old guys have hormones raging and are out to have sex etc and unfortunatley you are far too young for any of that right now.
you'r... (read in full...)
My ex hinted he would tell my husband if I didn't continue the affair. How do I tell my husband without damaging the marriage?
Q. Help, I'm married and have kids. I recently ran into an old boyfriend from my teenage years. My husband knows his name (Chris) and what we did (we never had 'all the way' sex, I just performed oral sex on him about 10 times or so). Anyway, ...
A. 25 September 2007: oh dear.
sounds like he had a trap and you walked straight into it.
although it's not what you'll want to hear, you need to tell your husbamd otherwise this guy will have a hold on you for however long he chooses and when he does decide to t... (read in full...)
I think my wife wants to try saving the marriage but her friend is pushing her back to the ex?
Q. my and my wife were trying to save our marrige so she left her bf for me, a week later she back with him after i walked in on them. she will not talk to me about it 5 days later, all she has said is that she loves me but not in the way i want as ...
A. 25 September 2007: it seems like her mind is made up unfortunately regardless of what her friend is telling her.
if she has cheated on you or wrse, got a boyfriend, you need to try and accept your marriage is over. she appears to want different things and she ... (read in full...)
My mother treats me unfairly, and favorises my brother. Can't see what I have been doing wrong.
Q. I struggle with my mum's relationship with my brother. He's a year older than me. I'm very envious, which often makes me nasty towards both of them. My mum seems to think he is the most perfect person in the world, even though he dropped out of ...
A. 25 September 2007: it does seem unfair, because athough he is her first born (presumably) it's no reason to favour him, or any child, over another.
i think it's because you have obviously lacked quality time together and there isn't a bond between you which in... (read in full...)
Could I still possibly be pregnant? We used a condom.
Q. Hello everyone and anyone! Ok, so about 2 weeks ago I had sex for the first time (don't worry, we used a condom). It definitely hurt...a LOT...so much that it was almost unbearable and I had to keep telling the guy to stop and give me a break. I ...
A. 25 September 2007: it's not very likely to be honest. if he didn't reach orgasm and there wasn't any cum, the chances are almost zero.
the majority of girls who have sex for the first time say it hurt like crazy but i promise after a few times, it'll get better. ... (read in full...)
Does he need to wear a condom and do we kiss while I'm doing the hj?
Q. ive never given my boyfriend a handjob. does he need to wear a condom and do we kiss while im doing it? help me...
A. 25 September 2007: well, it's all down to preference really.
some guys prefer to wear a condom so they don't cum everywhere but there's nothing wrong with not wearing one as long as you wash hands right after.
and yeah, kissing is a turn on to some guys so it'... (read in full...)
My good mate is kissing me on the lips lately; I would quite like to be with him but don't want to ruin the friendship.
Q. There is a guy I am really good mates with but recently he keeps kissing me, on the lips. And I'm starting to have feelings for him and do not know what to do because I don't want to ruin the friendship we have but I would quite like to be with him....
A. 25 September 2007: perhaps the best thing is to speak to your friend. just ask him if you have misread the situation or if indeed he does like you.
if he has a tendancy to kiss you, on the lips, i'd imagine the chances are quite high.
just go for it, i'm sure... (read in full...)
I couldn't be pregnant because of this, right??
Q. Hi, a couple of weeks ago, me and my boyfriend were at my friends sixteenth. Me and him went upstairs, and were having dry sex, but my knickers were down and his boxers were off. He didn't go inside me, but his dick was there and came. afterward...
A. 25 September 2007: it is a possibilty you are pregnant.
it doesn't take full intercourse to become pregnant, and if he came then fingered you the chances are increased. although slim not impossible.
take a test to put your mind at ease and for god's sake be ca... (read in full...)
Based on our convo, do you all think this guy likes me?
Q. I'm 18 years old and really like my friend who is 19. Just wondering what you guys think of this conov I had with him the other night on msn... Basicaly I was talking to him the other night on MSN and I was saying how most of the good guys are ei...
A. 25 September 2007: it does seem as though he likes you - talk to him, you got nothing to loose really. and enjoy it!!!!... (read in full...)
I have period problems - can anyone give me some advice?
Q. hi everyone! i didnt have my period for about 2 months, so when it came, i had them for more than 2 weeks. that's "really" annoying, because it takes a long time before it ends and when i go to school it gets more annoying! arhgh! help! ps: do ...
A. 25 September 2007: sometimes our cycle taks a little while for us to become "regular" and even then we're not. that's the best thing about the pill because you know when exactly you're period is going to come. you don't necesserily have to tell your dad and if you do ... (read in full...)
Could my son be gay? He has an odd friendship with a (much) older man...
Q. My 17 year old son has befriended a 58 year old man. He visits him every week and stays all day says he has a bbq and a few drinks. He says he finds he can talk to the man easier than talking to me or his mother. He receives a lot of gifts some exp...
A. 25 September 2007: if you had a daughter who was visiting a man around your age on a regular basis would there be time to decide what is best?
in my opinion a 58 year old man cannot have anything in common with a 17 year ole. there is a 41 year age gap here and... (read in full...)
I like Michael Jackson... but my friends take the piss!
Q. HI,im back lol after the update on my last question which i stupidly put as an answer i think lol anyways i have yet another question **so glad i found this site haha** anyways ive been a michael jackson fan for like,well for ever -since i was 5,...
A. 25 September 2007: yeah it is and you have the freedom to like whoever you want. i like westlife, admittedly not as much as i used to but everyone takes the piss out of me too.
as long as you enjoy it and like his music then there's no harm!... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and no longer attend my old school. Can I approach the teacher I had a crush on?
Q. ok so i'm an 18 year old girl and i have the hugest crush or whatever you'd call it thing for what used to be my 10th grade science teacher who's about 15 years older than me. I know it sounds so typical but it's not, i get so excited when i run ...
A. 25 September 2007: although technically your not his student anymore, you were and in the teaching proffesion he has a duty to the public to show he is reliable and loyal, threfore think the chance are slim that he will consider having a relationship with you.
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I'm 14 and have very little pubic hair, should I be concerned?
Q. i am fourteen and i have very little pubic hair should i be concerned?...
A. 25 September 2007: it's perfectly normal and you will develop at your own pace. every girl is different. ... (read in full...)
Do I carry on having sex with this guy or not???
Q. i have a friend with benefits. we have been sleeping together for a year now. 6 months into it i told him that i was starting to develope romantic feelings for him and he suggested that we end the sex before anyone gets hurt. i agreed but the next ...
A. 25 September 2007: this guy can't believe his luck. no strings attatched sex on tap whenever he wants.
you obviously aren't able to do the friendship sex like he can, because he sees it as nothing more but that, sex with his friend.
he's young and sleeping aro... (read in full...)
Do I try and get back with my ex boyfriend?
Q. ive been single for 2 months now and ive thought about getting back with an ex boyfriend from 4 years ago so i got in touch with him and all he said was he didnt know what he wanted but my friend told me to say to him why not just give it a go and ...
A. 25 September 2007: 4 years is along time and the reason for your split back then must have been a valid reason for your split and just because you now feel like you are lonely, you need to take time out and get over your current ex before considering dating again.
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Since splitting with my girlfriend my relationship with my dad is going south! Help!
Q. 8 months ago my girlfriend broke up with me, and since then, the relationship, mainly with my dad, has been going south. i thought it would get better over time, but its not. im now getting so fed up with them that i can barely be home for a few ...
A. 25 September 2007: there must be a reason for your bond with your dad to be non-existant. dads and sons are like peas in a pod (ok not all the time) but most of it, and you miss having him telling you it's going to be ok.
my opinion is talk to your dad, tell him... (read in full...)
I like a girl but she likes this other guy. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a crush on this girl at skool and she likes this other guy wat do i do??????????...
A. 25 September 2007: you are so young and just becoming "curious" about the opposite sex. you've got forever to get with girls and do the whole dating thing but you only have a couple of years left before you aren't a child anymore and your childhood is gone.
speak... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble getting started with relationships!
Q. Trouble getting started with relationships... I am a 20 year old male. At the age of 20, I have never been involved in a relationship. The farthest I have gone is I kissed a girl (a friend about a month ago), but she's not interested in a ...
A. 25 September 2007: you need to broaden your horizons.
i don't drink or smoke but have gone to many bars, i don't particually like noisy places but they're not as bad as you anticipate, as for children, that could be understood because what man wants girlfrie... (read in full...)
I think my husband is involved with his sister!
Q. I Think my husband is involved with his sister!! She was living with us and caused a lot of arguments between us such as butting in on our finances and everything. my baby son started callin her mama she would get happy! They would always be ...
A. 25 September 2007: okay, i feel for you but this is his sister, you cannot be throwing wild accusations around just because your marriage has ended.
she probably did have control over him and he undoubtedly listened to him, but she's jealous of you for taking h... (read in full...)
He feels nothing during sex with me and sees it as a chore... He says I'm too loose!
Q. Hi everyone, I only had 2 sexual partners so far, one is my current boyfriend. My first boyfriend had a small penis however i had many orgasims and had sex many times a week. But my new or 2nd boyfriend who has a large penis says i am loose an...
A. 25 September 2007: Honestly, my opinion is to consider what staying in the relationship is worth? any guy that says he's not attracted to your body is an insensitive, complete muppet. you're not "loose", if you's had 20 boyfriends and slept around, then you'd be ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fall in love over the phone?
Q. hi...i wanted to know, is it possible to fall in love over the phone? i've met him once before (he's a friends relative) when he came to visit and i liked him then, then a couple of years later we bagan talking over the phone for up to 4 or 5 hours ...
A. 24 September 2007: sometimes it's better to fall in love over the phone because you know that it's not just about the physical attraction. i defo believe you van fall in love with someone by their personality and charm alone.... (read in full...)
My oldest brother sexually abused me and left scars on my body. I want to tell someone, but I don't know if I could handle it.
Q. This may end up being rather long so i apologise in advance - its just tht i hav never really spoken about it in detail and i need help before it consumes me I think i was about 11 or so when it happend am not sure but i kno i was still in junior ...
A. 24 September 2007: well done for admitting it to yourself, what he did was awful and a violation of his loyalty.
you could find it difficult and you probably didn't want every answer to say it but you need to tell someone.
he may have done this to others and yo... (read in full...)
Am I a Freak or is this normal?
Q. hey, im the type of guy who finds it awkward getting close to people and my friends tink im gay coz i dnt react well to hugs off girls nd stuff im not gay i just dnt feel like huging people ..am i a freak or is this normal? ...
A. 24 September 2007: what great friends you have! in time your confidence will grow and you'll learn to feel at ease when a girl gives you hug but for now you not wanting your personal space invaded is completely your choice and you are in no way a gay freak.
ignor... (read in full...)
He climaxed during the bj...but was it urine?!
Q. I want some advice on whether the following is normal. I was performing oral sex on my boyfriend the other day and when he came there was masses of the stuff! His orgasm seemed to last a real long time (which obviously we both enjoyed!), but the ...
A. 24 September 2007: i think it was just a case of you giving really good head!
i don't think it is possible because like you say, it does close off during this period of time but if you're worried, there's no harm in a check up at the doctors!
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The guy I lost it to broke up with his girlfriend. What should I do?
Q. Theyy broke upp!! the guyy I lost it to and his girl friend broke up Im soo happy!! what should I do!?? will you please read ALL of myy questions then answer this one!? ...
A. 24 September 2007: it doesn't mean you are in with a chance. i'm sorry but just because he has split with his girlfriend doesn't mean he'll replace her with you and if he does it's because he's on the rebound. he'll use you when it suits and then when something ... (read in full...)
Me, my boyfriend and my brother - Is there something wrong or am I looking into this too much?
Q. I am having a problem with my boyfried we have been together for a year and a half he is dad to my son who is 4 and we have everything a relationship probably most desires. Stability. Any how lately he has neglected me emotionally. I feel like he ...
A. 24 September 2007: there's a problem with lack of communication, you need to tel him somethings changed and you know there is a god explaination but you're being driven crazy not knowing what it is.
your brothers caught in the middle and being a man probably... (read in full...)
My bf is pushing his child on me and my family. How can I talk to him about this?
Q. my boyfriend of three months is pushing his child on to me and my family. im 24yrs old if i wanted a kid i would have one. i cant talk to him about this because he ALWAYS takes it the wrong way. i do care about him alot... how do i stop this with ...
A. 24 September 2007: you care for him, you care for his child.
he probably wants you to feel comfrtable with his child and the whole situation, he's not pushing her/him onto you, he's showing a great deal of trust by letting you.
however if youre not ready for th... (read in full...)
She had another man's child, I had transexual sex, she won't come near me!
Q. People get curious and try different thing I totally understand that and can accept it. My wife of 10 years just had a baby after the baby was born I found out it was not mine. We are both white and she had a black baby wow what a shocker. She ...
A. 24 September 2007: did you do this just to get one over on her because she cheated?
i don't think this relationship is right for reasons stemming beyond you being curious.
she cheated, there must hve been a reason, she maybe isn't happy or something, she f... (read in full...)
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