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My friend asked out a girl and she said no. Does that mean he has no chance?
Q. my friend likes a girl and he aked her out she said no but, she saying no to everybody. does that mean he has no chance?...
A. 27 September 2007: it means she doesn't want a boyfriend and your friend should respect that and not harass her in the hope her mind will change.
she seems sensible to want to be on her own.
tell your friend to look elsewhere.
take care... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never wants to have sex
Q. hello i have been trying to find someone i can talk to and hopefully get some advice, i am 23years old been in a relationship for 6years i have 2 children aged 4 and 2, and nobady seems to believe you only have to have sex once to get pregnant ...
A. 27 September 2007: there has to be reasons he's not having sex with you and his lack of wanting to resolve it, from an outside perspective, leads me to believe he might be getting it elsewhere? without wanting to set alarm bells ringing, no man i know goes without it, ... (read in full...)
I am kind of seeing my married, older boss and want to take it further, sexually
Q. My boss at work flirts with me a lot and I know he likes me and I like him. But hes married with a kid. He is not married to the mother of his daughter tho, but he is married. We have made out and fooled around a little. I know that if we went any ...
A. 27 September 2007: so many people are going to disagree with me but...
i say go for it. i don't care what anybody says, it can work. it did for me. i was exactly your age when i had an affair with a married man at work who was 35. things for us haven't ended an... (read in full...)
First he says he wants kids, then he doesnt. This is so cruel!
Q. my boyfriend is constanly talkin about our "future " and says he wants a little girl one day then the next time he says he doesnt want kids .. what am i supposed to say to that he builds up my hope just to crush it ifeel its actually quite cruel ...
A. 27 September 2007: young guys change their mind all the time, and one minute they want something, the next they're scared stupid.
when the time is right for you to have children, i'm sure he'll have matured and worked out what is right, for now though, make sur... (read in full...)
I like another guy and am thinking of breaking it off with my BF
Q. My bf seems too be the cause of all the problems. Firstly, i like another guy, and he wants too meet me and kiss and stuff. And he said he liked me. So i said im guna finish my bf anyway. But thinking about it this other guy is a BIG player and i ...
A. 27 September 2007: if in doubt - the best way is out.
you're only young, so it's not really a decision, just take your time and you'll know what to do.
best of luck... (read in full...)
My fiance visits sites like this and says she wants to leave me for her lover! I'm disabled, but do what I can - what else can I do to be a better partner?
Q. through it being a shared comupter and my fiancee not deleting her history as she usually does. ive found shes visited a lot of sites like this one and talked about leaving me for her lover. i dont want to lose her. im disabled- i can walk slightly ...
A. 27 September 2007: my heart goes out to you but also part of me wonders why the urgency to save a relationship dead in the water?
you are worth more than your cheating fiancee and yuor disability doen't disregard your feelings. what you need to do id show her you'... (read in full...)
I will only move in with him if I know he's committed to me, but he won't commit!
Q. I am in a long distance with my bf. We have talked about moving in together within a couples of months. The thing is that I did not want to move in with him until we had something solid (sure about our relationship). I talked him that I wanted to ...
A. 27 September 2007: surely moving in is committment enough?
marriage comes when the time is right and until you live together, you don't know how compatible you are especially if it is a long distance relationship, you need to understand one another.
if you need t... (read in full...)
He's been texting another woman b/c he's depressed. He said they've never met, but I feel cheated! Help.
Q. I recently found text messages on my hubbies phone from some one called D, they were signed with a x. I confronted him and he admitted it was from another woman. He is being treated for bad depression and said he only did it to feel good. He sai...
A. 27 September 2007: revenge is not the answer.
i was depressed for 5 years and it does help to have your confident boosted and the feeling you get from new interests are like no other, but i'm not justifying what he did.
you need to look inside your heart and a... (read in full...)
Does wearing two comdoms decrease the risk of getting pregnant?
Q. Does wearing two comdoms decrease the risk of getting pregnant?...
A. 27 September 2007: you are too young to be having sex full stop. whether you're taking precautions or not.
there are always risks of getting pregnant having sexua intercourse, increasing the amount of condoms won't be any more effective, one is enough but the best... (read in full...)
My ex has a new girlfriend - how he's ignoring me! I'm deeply hurt - what should I do?
Q. My ex is ignoring me! We broke up several years ago but have always remained friends, but for the past year or so, I know he's been seeing another woman. I've never met her but I hear she's beautiful and he's very much in love. The problem ...
A. 27 September 2007: you need to move on, just like he has. you were there when he had nobody and he felt lonely with noone to talk too, but now he has found someone he loves, he's being commendable to her and not keeping in touch with you, and therefore not giving you ... (read in full...)
How can I seem a little more convincing this weekend when she said we'll talk again?
Q. my gf just broke up with me the other day and said she needed some time along for a while, she says im not convincing when i tell her i trust her, so how can i seem a little more convincing this weekend when she said we'll talk again?...
A. 27 September 2007: you can't come across as something you're not and you can't make her see something she can't.
in your heart you may trust her but your head is telling you different and this is what she sees, and if she hsa ended the relationship then it's bec... (read in full...)
Too much too late?
Q. Have been married 18 yrs and 3 kids 17, 15, 11, last few years Ive been unhappy. I finnaly told husband I wasnt happy and I dont have the same feelings for him. Now he is trying to change over night and do things he has never done, do dished, ...
A. 27 September 2007: you need to put yourself first and you shouldn't have to push your husband into helping you and prclaiming his love, a marriage is based on equality amoung other things and he has taken you for granted and drove you to this.
i used to have an ... (read in full...)
What if I get the reputation of being a slut b/c of boyfriend's joke?!
Q. Today I was with my bf and his mate and a couple of my mates in a classroom. I end up getting shoved into a closet with my bf while he makes sounds to basicaly put on a show to anyone outside. When we were finally let out he said something. Not sure ...
A. 27 September 2007: OMG! i completely feel sorry for you, i can't imagine how embarrassed you must have been but by tomorrow there'll be something new to talk about.
in the meantime however, have a chat with your boyfriend and tell him that you don't apprecia... (read in full...)
The (flirting) signs a boy fancies you?
Q. please help, im new to the dating game and i dont know the signs if boys fancy me,im a bit of a tom boy,my mates say there are many flirting signs around but which are the popular with males and females? ...
A. 27 September 2007: guys are backwards in coming forward. they try to befriend you before finding the guts to ask you out. if you hang around with guys and are a tom boy they probably find it nore difficult in talking to you for fear of you thinking of them as no more ... (read in full...)
I see her every Sunday in church, but I'm hesitant in talking to her for fear of rejection. Help?
Q. I'm nearly 17 and there is this girl I got a crush on. I see her every Sunday in a youth bible group and afterwards in church. She knows me but not personally. I don't know what to do because I'm afraid of rejection. could someone help me with thi...
A. 27 September 2007: it's better to regret asking her rather than not taking the chance at all.
she might say no but then think about if she says yes? you need to be positive and think positive, thinking negative won't do you any good!!!
take the chance and good ... (read in full...)
I've started to pull my weight around the house, but I think it's too late! How can I show her I've changed and don't want to split?
Q. hi i don't really know how to start this but here it goes. i've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and in the beginning it started out great. we loved been together, everywhere we went it was together. we were always together. we got...
A. 27 September 2007: you're on your last warning, ans she sounds like a girl who you don't mess with, so i suggest you stick to your helpful, cleaning ragime and hope it's not to late.
she's probably frustrated that she had to give you an ultimatum before you bucked u... (read in full...)
I want him back, but I don't know how to approach him. What should I say?
Q. IVe got a bf and i still have feeling 4 my ex very large 1s i split up wid him 2months because of my family and friends because they made a rumour abouthim nd now i want him back but i dont no what to say to him and how to tell him x what shou...
A. 27 September 2007: you're too young to be with either, let alone choose between a boyfriend and an ex, whom your family and friends clearly don't like and have some sort of issue with. you have jumped from one guy to another in the space of 2 months, be careful not to ... (read in full...)
I'm 31 and look 15 and I hate it... people tell me it's a blessing but it's not: it's a nightmare!
Q. Hi guys, I have an odd problem. I am 31 and I look about 15 and I hate it. I am having real problems with this. I do not get taken seriously, I always get id wherever I go, even if to but a lottery ticket. I dress well and wear make up and ...
A. 27 September 2007: i'm 20 and look about 12. i get id'd absolutlely everywhere, i can't buy cigarettes for my nan without my driving licence for id and i try all i can to look older.
in a way it is right that when you're older you'll be the one laughing because ... (read in full...)
She's keeping us a secret!
Q. She's keeping us a secret! I'm involved in a long-distance relationship. We're not kids (both in our 40's). We started contacting each other a year ago, when she was separated. Her divorce was final a few months ago, I am now separated. Yes...
A. 27 September 2007: the only way to solve this is to talk to her. it could just be she is being cautious, people might not be as understanding about this as your friends and family and she simply wans to chose her timing.
you seem to be checking on her, you know thi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is perfect... but he hardly ever calls (or texts, or emails for that matter!)
Q. my boyfriend of four months is perfect in every way, but he hardly ever calls me.most of the time i have to contact him to make arrangements and he is always very happy to meet me.he says he is just not good at phoning people and even worse at ...
A. 27 September 2007: i understand your frustration but then i understand where he is coming from because i hate phoning anyone - even my own family!
perhaps you need to explain that it shouldn't always been down to you to make the contact, set up a message he can s... (read in full...)
Feel like having sex all the time. What do I do?
Q. hey. im not a virgin and me and my boyfriend did it. but now i feel like i want it all the time. its crazy and i cant get it out of my mind. i feel the only cure is to do it, but then i want it even more. what do i do?...
A. 27 September 2007: i agree with "uncle phil" you shouldn't be having sex at your age, young girls in such a hurry to grow up and wonder why the teenage pregnancy is on the rise.
you should wait until you're in a relationship that's going to last otherwise you will... (read in full...)
Was my teacher flirting with me?
Q. could teachers hit on you and flirt with you? i had this in the past and they were female teachers i had had. they would touch me on the shoulders, arms, wrists, hands, etc. one of them tried to get very close body contact with me and mostly they ...
A. 27 September 2007: i do think you could be reading to much into this.
it's just, it's uncommon for one teacher to make sexual advances but to have a few all female is slightly beyond belief.
my teachers used to touch my shoulders, but it's a sign of comfort ... (read in full...)
I want him to know that I like him, without telling him. Any advice?
Q. I really like this guy and have done for a year. My friends call me a flirt so if I flirt with him he'll just think i'm being myself. Sometimes i think he flirts with me but maybe thats how he is. I want him to know i like him without me accualy ...
A. 27 September 2007: it's all in your behavious but if you already flirt, it'd be a bit impossible to tell you're doing it for him.
maybe say certain things to make him wonder how to interperate them, or perhaps telling him owuldn't be so bad, after all guys love the... (read in full...)
After I got him off, I used antibacterial lotion on my hands - could I still get pregnant from touching myself?
Q. I am on the pill and last week I was on my period. I wacked my boyfriend off and then my hands off and used an antibacterial lotion. Later, I ended up touching myself when I took a shower. Am I possibly pregnant?...
A. 27 September 2007: no, as long as you washed your hands you'll have no chance of being pregnant. ... (read in full...)
My bf says he wants to rekindle our relationship, but only wants to see me twice a week!
Q. after dating someone steady for almost 3 years, breaking up two times, can this relationship be rekindled? once a relationship has gotten very intimate can you really start over like it was when you first started dating the person? my bf says that ...
A. 26 September 2007: he's laying out guidelines? seriously?
a relationship shouldn't be put or fixed to a timetable and no doubt it'll make you question what he's doing for the 5 nights he's not with you.
if it's been a rollercoaster relationship maybe it's time ... (read in full...)
When is it right to change your "relationship status" on myspace / facebook?
Q. when is the right time to change your status? I met my current man on myspace we have only been dating a few weeks, but I am willing to change my status as "in relationship" and I want him to aswell, would it be best to have a talk over this o...
A. 26 September 2007: i'd advise speaking to him because men don't notice things.
just say you'd like to make a change to the status area and see what he says.... (read in full...)
Can a guy be really into me even though he never contacts me during the week?
Q. Hey guys, My guy of 6 weeks has never... even when we were just dating been a textng/calling guy and he admits that and says hes not a phone type of guy. Hes very face to face and we usually spend most of the weekend together. since we have be...
A. 26 September 2007: you should talk to him and see what the deal is, it may just be the fact he doesn't use phones unless absolutely necessary and he can't change.
but i'm sure that he is into you, talking will put your mind at ease.... (read in full...)
How do I convince a man to have a baby with me?
Q. how do i convice a man to have a baby with me ?? i really want another baby only i want this one to be his .. ...
A. 26 September 2007: you can't convince a man to have your baby. it needs to be his decision because you cannot trap him and force him to have your baby. it'd be immoral and unfair. ... (read in full...)
I miss him so much and I'm afraid he will meet someone else please help.
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and when I asked him back he said no he had enough of the fighting and he loves me, I'm his soulmate and hopefully things will be different someday. I didn't trust him and it wasn't his fault, I had some ...
A. 26 September 2007: he obviously doesn't want to be with you and you need to move on because the longer you believe you will get back together, the worse it'll be.
he has not given you false hope by telling you it's all going to be okay and you'll be toghethe... (read in full...)
I don't know how he'd react if I asked him out, or how my friends would react! What should I do?
Q. My family has been friends with this other family since before I was even born and now they have four kids and my parents have me and my brother. When we were little we used to share a bath and everything. I am like, best friends with the two girls ...
A. 26 September 2007: long distance relationship are hard at the best of times but at an age where you're curious and wanting to experiment, it'd be worse.
i say, wait a while and if you still feel this way in a few months, then you should tell him how you feel and... (read in full...)
Why has my friend changed so much and keeps blocking me out?
Q. My friend has totally changed and I have no idea what is up. She keeps on ignoring me and I am the one that always says hi to her. She is bitching about a girl that has done somthing very bad to her but she is nicer to her than she is to me. Last ...
A. 26 September 2007: be firm and assertive and make sure she gives you a reason. tell her that you're not stupid and you will repsect whatever she says but you just need an explaination because you considered her a good friend.
best of luck... (read in full...)
How will I know if I am in love or just lust?
Q. how do you know love is real ?? i have been with my present bf almost 10months and i am starting to question myself and my answers are all the same i do love him but i wanna know how you know its real love opposed to just a lust thing ...
A. 26 September 2007: because you don't question true love. there's no doubt in your mind that you would do anything for them and you feel content and happy in the knowledge they feel the same. give it time and you'll work it out.... (read in full...)
Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?
Q. I'm a 46-year-old Mother of 8 (3 by my first husband, 5 by my current partner) and I've had many affairs. Most of which my partner has known about. But now I've started a relationship with a man who myself and my Fiance both work with. All of the ...
A. 26 September 2007: what is your fiance doing staying with you? don't tell me.., fot the kids. you deserve to be on your own, at 46 you should know better and i hope your fiance sees sense before he marries you.
for once, do the right thing, end your sham of a rel... (read in full...)
Can aids be passed on through my mouth?
Q. Stupid question, Can you get aids from kissing and getting blow jobs, and from someone swallowing your cum?...
A. 26 September 2007: the best thing to do is get checked out, it can be passed on in a number of ways, through blood, saliva and the most common is sexual intercouse.
go to the doctor if your worried.... (read in full...)
I'm 40 something, can I successfully date two men?
Q. Is it possible for a forty something year old women to successfully date two different men?...
A. 26 September 2007: you could be twenty something but the answer still remains the same - no, it's unfair, unkind and just wrong to date two men or even think about it.
athough at forty something, you'd have thought you'd have enough life experience to know better.s... (read in full...)
My head says leave, my heart says stay, what do I do?
Q. Where do I go from here after hes messed around again? I've been with my daughters father for nearly four years, in that time we have split up a few times because of his imaturity and due to me finding texts to others girls in his phone. while...
A. 26 September 2007: love is the most powerful emotion but you nede to follow your head on this account and don't stay just for the sake of your children. you don't trust him and i don't blame you, even insinuating you're single when you have a family is wrong and he ... (read in full...)
What do I do, this man has other women and a child in his life?
Q. what should i do with a man that i am in love wit who have a woman and a child and another woman in his life and cliams that he want to married me ...
A. 26 September 2007: what should you do? kic him to the kurb and move on.
he not in love with you, having a wife is bad enough but having another women aswel - he is a joke!
you can do alot better than this casanova who thinks he has the gift of the gab and able... (read in full...)
Do I go back to my abusive, alcoholic husband or stay away?
Q. I've been seeking advise as to how I should handle my situation. My husband is an alcoholic and over the past two years has become verbally and physically abusive, not to mention controlling. The majority of advice I have received is to leave him ...
A. 26 September 2007: you need to stay away and stop contacting him, he is stil using his control and mental abusive by making you question your actions. he's acting like a victim when he is the one who has done the unthinkable and abused you in everyway possible, ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between an older man and my fiance, what do I do?
Q. ive been with my fiance for 5 years but over the last few months ive been seeing a man that is 11 years older than me, he is single but im falling for him or should i say i already have and i dont know what to do. i dont wanna hurt any one but...
A. 26 September 2007: you're lying, being decietful, cheating, and your heart is aching?
without sounding horrible isn't that a rather selfish thing to say, because you're fiance is naivly and unknowningly being taken for a ride and whilst you say you stil love him... (read in full...)
Has she stopped loving me?
Q. Hi, I am new here but hope you can help me! I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years, I am worried that she no longer feels the way I do anymore, I loved from day one and still very much do. Over the past 6 months or so she has become v...
A. 26 September 2007: unfortunately people do fall out of love just as easily as they fall in and then become stuck in a rut because they don't want to hurt anybody.
if you have already spoken to her, the chances are she didn't realise her attitude had changed and perh... (read in full...)
My friend has just had a baby who might not make it. How can I comfort her and tell her I'm here for her?
Q. My co-worker friend just had a baby 3 months early and nobody knows if he is going to pull through. I messaged her through our company email (she just moved, so this is the only way I could contact her; don't know her new contact info!) letting her ...
A. 26 September 2007: just your kind support will be enough because she is in a terrible position and you want to be there fpr her but without invading her personal space.
i was 2 months premature and was in a incubator for 5 and half weeks, so it is possible... (read in full...)
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