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Should I have given my ex another chance? I'm wondering now!
Q. Hi all, I'd like 2 take ur opinions pls...am 23, 2 years ago I had a bf 4 about a year then we broke up cos he wasnt ready 2 move 2 the next level, as he says he's phobic to commitment, it's been a year since we broke up, then we started talkin a...
A. 21 September 2007: you were apart for wuite a while, right? so now he's lonely and wanting sex and there you are, at the right time in the right place. every man is afraid of commitment until they have sampled enough of life to settle down. he doesn't love you, he ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my mum I am back with the guy that dumped me?
Q. PLease help people!! Okay here's the deal. My boyfriend I had for 7 mounths broke up with me and I was all sad and crying ect. I told my mom what happened and she told me to NEVER get back with him. (She's demanding) The next day we got back tog...
A. 21 September 2007: your mum is not over demanding, she is absolutely right.
this guy dumped you, and then clicked your fingers and you went running back, where is your dignity and self respect? he doesn't love you and he certainly doesn't want to be with you, peo... (read in full...)
He said hes begining to like me but he has a wife and child. What am I going to do?
Q. I like this guy and he said he's beginning to like me too..but the problem is he has a wife and a child..what am i going to do?..should i believe him?...
A. 21 September 2007: no.... absolutely not!
and i'm not a narrow minded hypocryte who thinks it's easy to judge because i have had experience in having an affair with a married man and i promise you one thing, you will always be last on his list of prioroties and he w... (read in full...)
My fiance recently lost his grandmother and since then hes shut me out. How can I help him?
Q. hi everyone i really need your help on a very sensitive problem im facing.my fiance recently lost his grandmother they were really close,she was his world and visa versa,the days leading up to her death were quite traumatic for everyone but i felt ...
A. 21 September 2007: i'm sorry for your husbands loss. greieving effects different people in different ways. you need to try and understand that he loved his granmother so much and now he hs to figure out in his mind how he's going to deal with it pshycologically. ... (read in full...)
I like to cross dress. How do I find people into the same thing?
Q. I like to wear bra,sari,blouse,pettycoat,panty,bindi,etc. and like to become a complete woman. Similarly, i like to make deep frienship with those males who likes to be dressed as female in sari,bra,blouse et. But i get assamed to do so in my house...
A. 21 September 2007: it's difficult to say where to meet people with the same interst as you when i have no experience at all with this questin.
if i was in your position, i would look on the internet, on search engines, for cross dressing groups, i've heard of them ... (read in full...)
I like this girl but I made the mistake of sleeping with the village bike! Now the girl I like hates me! What can I do?
Q. there's this girl that i have liked for a while lets call her "jane smith",a little while ago i tried to ask her out but it didn't turn out so well... anyways a couple of months went by and since i was sure i had no chance i started looking at other ...
A. 21 September 2007: unfortunately, her opinion of you will always be clouded with the fact that you slept with this girl, who is known for sleeping around, when she thought you liked her.
maybe she just got mad because you proved her right, that you will sleep wi... (read in full...)
What are the signs they like you and how would you ask them out?
Q. what is the best way to ask a friend out? And what are the signs they like you. We're both 17....
A. 21 September 2007: it all depends really.
some girls are naturally more talkaive and happy around a guy she likes, she'll smile and laugh at your jokes which aren't funny, she'll innocently touch your arm, things like that but then to make it confusing some gir... (read in full...)
How can I make sex better?
Q. i lost my virginity and im happy with it but im kinda sad that now since i lost it i dont have the chance to live my first time again but actually i want to have more sex because it made me feel so happy with my boyfriend and we both enjoyed it but ...
A. 21 September 2007: congratulations on enjoying your first time! so many people hated their first experience and try to forget it! i shouldn't be encouraging under age people to continue having sex but the more you have the more you'll learn what works for you. the... (read in full...)
I'm falling out of love with him. How do I recover my feelings?
Q. We are already one year in me and my boyfriend, but i'm fallen out of love to him....what should i do to recover my feelings? coz i'm afraid also to loss him.....
A. 21 September 2007: unfortunately, there are no ways of controlling our emotions and if you don't feel the love and passion you once did, it's unfair on both of you to force it. people fall in and out of love and that's the way life goes, sometimes we try to prevent ... (read in full...)
Should I end this or try and make it work?
Q. my g/f of 5 years and i have had a rough relationship, but we both still love each other dearly. its hard to explain. We have both done so much for one another and always been there for one another. My question is should i dump her because when we ...
A. 21 September 2007: it seems like you are staying in this relationship for convenience and comfort. you are dependant on one another to pull you through the bad times and have lost the passion and feelings you felt at the beginning. if she has cheated, i think... (read in full...)
My hubby has a low sperm count, I cheated and got pregnant! Do I tell him the truth?
Q. hi, me and my husband are married for 3.5 years we have been trying for a baby and we found out he has a low sperm count, the doctors say there is always that maricle baby 1% percent chance of having a baby, both me and him really want a baby, we ...
A. 21 September 2007: truth always gets out. i think you need to be honest with your husband because there are a few reasons. he's going to be mortified about your infedelity but you're pregnant. he knows you're not going to get pregnant by him so may come round to th... (read in full...)
She dumped me out of the blue and now refuses to give my stuff back. What do I do?
Q. me and my girlfriend were very very close.on a sunday she told me i was the best,made love and she didn't want me to leave.on the monday i was dumped.that hurt was incredible.she has 2 remaining articles of mine.cassettes.only sentimental value to ...
A. 21 September 2007: she has no right in keeping you posessions and is adding insult to injury by refusing to return them but maybe she is the one who doesn't want to see you. she needs time to clear her head and move on and i know, i know how hard it is, but you need... (read in full...)
Am I straight or a lesbian? I'm confused. Help!
Q. hi, i recently lost my viginity to a male, but i didn't enjoy it at all. i have always thought i was a lesbian but people told me i just needed a decent bloke. i've snogged girls before and i enjoy it more than snogging men. when i was younger ...
A. 21 September 2007: you are so young!
every girl at some point in their lives will think about girls and wonder about their sexuality.
in time you will realise your true feelings but don't be in to much of a hurry to grow up!... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me some advice as to how to boost my confidence to ask a girl out?
Q. I'm at university and like most people I'm interested in dating/having a relationship. The problem I have is that I always talk myself out of it by making some excuse (I'll wait until Uni, After freshers week, i'll start dating once i've organise...
A. 21 September 2007: yes, first of all, you need to know that girls talk for england, they don't shut up, so you'll have no problem about holding a conversation because she'll not let it run dry.
finding the confidence is trickier. you need to think of a girl lik... (read in full...)
I like my teacher and a class mate. I'm confused. Help!
Q. Hi cupid...my problem is that I'm in love with my CL teacher. Ever since he started to comment me and my prayer I felt like I had a crush on him. I really want him but he has a wife.I want to let go of him but I can't since I see him almost ...
A. 21 September 2007: first of all, you are so young! i can honestly say, your teacher does not in any way have feelings of any kind for you. he's praising your good work, which is what teachers do. there is absolutely no way at all this man will ever be intersted in a ... (read in full...)
What do people think about dogging?
Q. ok how does people think about dogging my husband of 20 yrs wants us to go he thinks it might spice up our sex life his fantasy is to see me with other men. sound weird my fantasy is to see him with another women. trouble is he has recently been ...
A. 21 September 2007: this is a real test of your marriage. dogging is where you go out into a known area and swap partners, almost like swinging. personally, i wouldn't recommend it but if this turns you on, where's the harm? but remember, a fantasy is one thing, re... (read in full...)
How much "looking" is too much... my partner spent our whole date ogling other women!
Q. OK - I understand guys 'look', and sometimes 'talk' about the other pretty women in the room, but what is 'too much'? Within three hours of a date last night, there were approximately 20 comments from my significant other about the 'arm candy' ...
A. 21 September 2007: he thinks he's some kind of casanova and i'm sure you wouln't trust him at all, undrstandably, after this date. it was insensitive and pretty stupid of him to think you care about these "pretty eye candy" ladies. your better off without him, l... (read in full...)
I've done a pregnancy test and it was negative within the time stated but later I looked and there was a second line?
Q. i took a pregnancy test last night. it came back as negative + the leaflet that came with it said not to read it ten minutes after doing it, but i caught sight of it in the bin later + a second line had appeared! apparently this will only appear if ...
A. 21 September 2007: i'd say if there were definate 2 lines after any amount of time then you are, because i have done many (not proud of it) and when it's negative, it stays negative regardless, so i would prepare yourself for the news that you are pregnant. make sure ... (read in full...)
My instincts were right, he has a stash of porn. The trust has now gone!
Q. I put a question in the other day about my husband watching porn [just a gut feeling i had] Well surprise surprise my gut feeling was right. I found 19 porn cd's in his work bag today, so its not very pleasant in my home at the moment. Thanks...
A. 21 September 2007: if this is the only thing he has "lied" about it's probably because he knew how you'd react which in't justifying it but to be hoinest, it's more uncommon to find a man who doesn't have a stash of porn. it's not a crime or a guilty secret to watch ... (read in full...)
I came on a bit romantic and scared her away. How can I get her back?
Q. i like this girl i've been seeing who is my ex's friend. me and her have been keeping a secret relationship and we were happy together. i told her my feelings about her in a poem and she got scared and said she couldn't do it any more. how can i get ...
A. 21 September 2007: she feels scared because she doesn't want to loose her friend. i'm sorry to say that girls are usually as close as sisters and you have crossed a line moving in on your ex's friend and she knows that her relationship with her friend is in trouble ... (read in full...)
Should I have made more effort to see him? Now I have upset him.
Q. I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have had our first misunderstanding and I don’t know what to do about it. He had sent me a message last night saying that he had arranged an event with some important people he knows which I understood was ...
A. 21 September 2007: he's said it's ok, right? so i suggest you try to move past it, even though he probably wasn't fine about it all, he doesn't want it to become a huge problem, so credit where it's due, he's trying to make no big deal out of it. he more than l... (read in full...)
I'm worried my sister in law will have sex with her brother in law?
Q. i am worried about my sister-in-law she is going through a divorce and recently has moved in with her sister and her husband. i am worried because their kids are moved out and his wife works every day. He comes home early every day and spends time ...
A. 21 September 2007: anything is possible, but would she really jepodise her relationship with her sister by sleeping with guy? just because she is vulnerable right now, doesn't automatically mean she's going to jump into bed with the firat person she's left alone with. ... (read in full...)
I know my childs father is cheating on me and treats me bad. Should I play him at his own game?
Q. hi,im so upset,angry an miserable how my life is,mainly due to my b/f,and how he thinks he can treat me like he has done to past x`s.we only ever have sex when he feels like it and im forced to give him head yet he rarely goes down on me,i also know ...
A. 21 September 2007: i think you need to put your child first and leave this guy. without wanting to upset you, if you knew he had 3 children to 3 women, did it not make you think about using contraception? he obviously thinks of himself as a casanova and he isn't, ... (read in full...)
Do I give my boyfriend up for the guy I lost my virginity to?
Q. Im confused!! I have a boyfriend and STILL In love with thee guyy I lost it to! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and everything was perfect THen I saw him[[myy loveer not my boyfriend]] I mean we are in the same click an...
A. 21 September 2007: first of all, i think you should break up with your boyfriend because if ou're lying that you love him like you say you are, then you are being very selfish and unkind to continue the relationship. you are too young to even be having sex, and as ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for husbands and wives to spend a night apart?
Q. My fiancee and I recently did our first pre-marriage counselling session. As a part of it, we did a test, in seperate rooms, that is sent off and then sent back and we see what our areas of strength are and what areas we can work on. One of th...
A. 21 September 2007: i understand your frustration, you love this man and can't bare to be apart for one minute but, he married you, not his friends. what's one night here and there when you have got your lifetime together? you know where he is, so it's not like he's ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I haven't gone through puberty yet. Could anyone advise me please?
Q. i am 16 years old and i still aint started puberty my voice isnt broken i aint grew or anything why is that and will i eventually go through puberty? could u please get back asap ...
A. 21 September 2007: don't worry, every single person is different. alot of my friends (some male) were around 13/14 but i then there were a couple who hadn't started before we left school. i was 10, like is said everybody has different starting age. maybe ta... (read in full...)
How do I make myself look older? Its so demoralising!
Q. im 25 and i look about 18/19! Also i have hardly any facial hair and rarely shave! Its annoying because i get asked for id, which is embarrasing, and people dont treat me with the respect i deserve just because of the way i look. Its so depressing ...
A. 21 September 2007: first of all, when you're 40 and still look 28, you'll be the one who is laughing!! unfortunately asides from growing a beard (which if you don't get much facial hair woul prob take a long time) there's not alot you can do. i'm 20 and look abou... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 21 September 2007: you have to listen to me,
you need to get out of this relationship however difficult it is emotionally for you, think about your son.
one hit is one too many.
none of this is your fault, absolutely none, you are a victim of domestic violence... (read in full...)
I like her and she likes him and the other likes me and ...
Q. listen here...... ok i really really still like this 1 girl that left me after i dated her for about 3 weeks and i kinda just tried to look at other girls at my school but none of them measure up to this 1. problem is that there's this "other" girl ...
A. 21 September 2007: confused......... you will be!
okay, i think your friend needs to end it with this girl, if he's not into her as much as she is him, it's unfair.
do not even consider getting with the girl who likes you just because you can't have the girl you... (read in full...)
I am 18, she is 15. Is it ok to date her?
Q. I've recently left my old job of which I got quite close to another person who worked there. I'm 18 but she is still 15, is it wrong if I try to make something happen- not having sex; but just having a good time together?...
A. 21 September 2007: as long as no intercouse is entailed then yes, age is just a number, but do not find it strange if her parents disapprove. just reassure them that you're with her for all the right reasons and you'll have fun!!!
good luck... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is dead set against using spermicide. Why?
Q. Hey guys im a frequent user of this site and i absolutely love the feedback i get on my questions. So i was just wondering if anyone can help me with this one. My boyfriend (whom i absolutely LOVE)and i are thinking on having sex. PROBLEM IS i cant ...
A. 21 September 2007: they're his little swimmers! you're killing off hid little friends.
but seriously, i think the reason he is so against it is because it's male pride. you are't going on the pill so why should he take precautions. as long as he's happy to wear ... (read in full...)
I initiated a text and now worry he lost interest as he didnt have to chase me as much
Q. Hi Recently met a guy who is 27. I am 19. He asked for my number and did text me in the first week, nearly every day (I let him text me first). After talking to a friend, she suggested that I text him first for once or he will think I'm not in...
A. 20 September 2007: he asked you for your number so he is interested!
sometimes when its new, it's nice to find a girl who plays hard to get but when does playing hard to get become ignorance?
i think you did the right thing in texting him, you showed you were ... (read in full...)
We're used to seeing each other every day but now it will be only once a month, until college. How will this work out?
Q. I need help I'm moving away from fl and I love my gf she is 18 and I'm 17 we have been dating for about 6 months we had sex a lot and we both love each other. This is both of ours very first relationships that we have ever been in. I have to move ...
A. 20 September 2007: i commend you, as a young male to be concerned. its rare.
this is going to be tough and a complete strain on your relationship but its not impossible. as long as you keep in touch via internet and phone calls and text, and you have to have the... (read in full...)
I have huge self esteem issues
Q. Well I'm 18 years old... I have HUGE self esteem issues, but I date some of the prettiest girls.. The problem is, keeping them. My self esteem kicks in fast while in a relationship, like I doubt that I'm good ebough for this person, or if I'm p...
A. 20 September 2007: what is it you feel is wrong with you?
do you feel that there are many guys better than you?
the reason you don't hold a relationship is because girls find guys who are confidence sexy, if your personality changes when you are with them, they a... (read in full...)
Now that we broke up, he says he will never find anyone like me and regrets having cheated. He is willing to do what it takes, even counselling. Advice?
Q. He's cheated 7 times we been togther almost for years. I love hime more then anything he cheated again but says now he will do whatever it takes to work on his bad ways including counciling. We have had trust issues because of his past and it made ...
A. 20 September 2007: so you were the lucky girl who decided to cheat on.. not once but 7 times. you take him back now and he will have a hold over you forever because he will walk all over you time and again and you will keep beleiving his lies.
you will never be... (read in full...)
He's hanging out with hsi mates 24/7 and makes my asking for a bit of time sound like a chore. Any tips?
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for nearly two and a half years,we've always had a great relationship but recently he's been hanging out with his mates 24/7 i wouldnt really have a problem with it but when i want to see him he's never around he's always ...
A. 20 September 2007: i went through the exact same with my ex, although i cam second to his mates, his car, his guitar... the lot.
anyway, ultimatiums are never good because you go back on your threat of splitting up. he'll say that you are trying to control him, tha... (read in full...)
What to say to him without hurting his feelings, about the touching in public?
Q. hi all my boyfriend and i started dating in june this year and been together since so thats 4 months into the relationship anyway when we go out he tends to love feeling me and kissing me , i dont have a problem with the kissing in public bu...
A. 20 September 2007: men like to "mark their territory" and that means you, so under the watchful eye of everyone he likes to show you off. its not a bad thing, but their are limits. just say to him that you like being eith him and everyone knowing you're an item but ... (read in full...)
Will his wife leave him?
Q. Thank you for posting this site. I came across your this site by chanced as I am looking for a answer to my problem and hoping to get some help. Is there any case near similar to mine? Being involved with married man. We are both in love but he i...
A. 20 September 2007: and you beleive you will make a difference? he is obviously incapable of holding down a relationship and you are one in a long list of girls no doubt.
his wife deserves the truth and you deserve better.
run a million miles in the opposite dir... (read in full...)
My ex says he will always be there for me. What does this mean?
Q. I need some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me almost 5 months ago because he says he's afraid of commitment, but we have still remained in some contact with each other, basically only through emails. He told me that he's dating someone else ...
A. 20 September 2007: he's probably trying to make amense for hurting you when he broke up with you. i wouldn't read to much into it, i mean what he says and does are differnt things.
alot of people on here make points of saying their boyfirend secretly still talks to... (read in full...)
After I checked his texts he got wierd and said he needed space. Does that mean he is cheating?
Q. me and my boyfriend was happy,15 months together.then i found text message of a girl on his phone i rang her and she said they were friend he said the same however from that day he went wierd with his phone and then told me he needed space!i am ...
A. 20 September 2007: he's feeling let down that you felt the need to check his phone. it's his personal space and you have no right invading it. unfortunately you did and now he needs to know if you're going to become one of these girlfriends who become insecure and ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?
Q. How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...
A. 20 September 2007: then what you need to do is work out why you think the relationship could work if there is a big distance anyway... (read in full...)
How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?
Q. How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...
A. 20 September 2007: everyones fear of rejection clouds there ability to approach the opposite sex, but put it into perspective, what's the worst that could happen? she could say no, and if that happens, pick yourself up and move on.
focus on the fact that girls ar... (read in full...)
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