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I don't think I'm really "qualified" per se to help people, I'm not a professional nor do I hold any degrees or anything of that nature, I just like giving advice when people ask for it and hopefully the mistakes I've made in the past can help someone else from having to go down that road. I'm very honest. I'm not going to sugar coat anything.
I love spending time with my son, everything is an adventure to him and he is discovering everything for the first time. And he says the funniest things at the perfect moments like he times them. I also love spending time with my family (most of the time) My mother passed away last year and I have four sisters and two brothers, we are all very close, I help out when I can.
I love movies. Due Date was hilarious! I love Supernatural, 1000 Ways to Die, Bones (excellent show) and Gilmore Girls (we share an addiction to coffee although I can't drink it now). Recently went and saw Rango, very cute movie.
"I want urine samples from everyone and a latte. Don't mix up the two."-Rango (Johnny Depp)
I wish everyone the best as we travel through this crazy complicated thing called life and hopefully with this website it will help us make it through just a little bit easier.
"The hardest thing to do in this world, is to live in it."
"Live life to the fullest moment, cause you never know if it's going to be your last."
"Enjoy your time as a teen; after that it gets so complicated."
"A mother holds her child's hand for a short while, his heart forever." |
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Should I worry or be concerned about my husband still using Facebook?
Q. Hello all. My question is should I worry or be concerned about my husband still using Facebook? Especially since thats how i found out about his affair. Also he deactivated his account but uses my son's account to log in and out. He's able to do ...
A. 27 November 2010: Did his affair originate from Facebook? And if he deleted his account from Facebook, then why does he need to log on to Facebook at all?
Do you trust your husband after finding out about his affair? Have you completely forgiven him for what he has ... (read in full...)
I need to really convice or scare him to quit!
Q. Hii This boy i really like we really get along in class , the thing i care about him too much and the other day he told me smokes weed 3-5 times a week , I need to really convice or scare him to quit! I know under the age of 18 the brain isnt f...
A. 27 November 2010: I think it's awesome that you care about him so much that you want him to know that his actions now will affect his future, but he probably already knows this and just doesn't care or really wants to fit in.
I don't think there is anything... (read in full...)
I like one of my best friend's guys!
Q. I really like the guy who sits in front of me but his girlfriends is one of my friends. I don't want to tell her in case she get mad and thinks that I am trying to steal him from her. I really like him and wished he would even like me a little bit ...
A. 27 November 2010: No one said you were doing anything wrong and if they implied that then they are wrong. It's not wrong to like a guy and it's not wrong to like one of your friend's guys, but depending on who you are as a person is how you deal with it.
I like... (read in full...)
Afraid of ruining everything I have now all on one overwhelming feeling for my EX. Help?
Q. So, I'm almost 19. A little over a year ago, my current boyfriend and I had dated for 8 months and broke up when I met my current ex-boyfriend, Steven. Steven was okay, not spectacularly talented or smart like my, at the time ex-boyfriend (and now ...
A. 26 November 2010: I think that you have already made up your mind on this one. From the way you described Steven, he sounds pretty possessive and possession leads to controlling which he was really close to with the phone incident. I think you are right. Stay with ... (read in full...)
The first time you think you love your best friend
Q. Ok I have known this girl for a little while and we have been best friends for a little while. Everyone makes jokes about how where a couple or were siblings because we’re with each other so much. I never considered the fact that I might like her ...
A. 26 November 2010: How long is a little while? And how big is the age difference? How old is she?... (read in full...)
I like one of my best friend's guys!
Q. I really like the guy who sits in front of me but his girlfriends is one of my friends. I don't want to tell her in case she get mad and thinks that I am trying to steal him from her. I really like him and wished he would even like me a little bit ...
A. 26 November 2010: She is obviously one of your best friends, so I would back off, is losing her friendship worth getting her guy? Whom you might not even get if he doesn't like you back.
I don't understand why you dumped your boyfriend for this guy who isn't inte... (read in full...)
Problems staying hard
Q. Here goes... Im 18 years old with a girlfriend who i really do love. Whenever we are gonna have sex we both know it because its only when she is at my house. My problem is I always lose my erection when we are about to do it. I will be laying n...
A. 26 November 2010: Honestly, I would see a doctor about this. It could potentially be something medical (possibly a blocked vessel that is constricting blood flow to your erection and making you go soft) or something of that nature.
Has this happened before or is it j... (read in full...)
Doctor's professional life is spilling over into her personal life! what do I do?
Q. I have a dilemna: Three months ago I began seeing a psychiatrist due to depression behind a breakup...My pschiatrist is a well-known in the state with which I reside...In addition to being a Psychiatrist, she's an adjunct professor for an ivy league ...
A. 26 November 2010: With a woman who is a mental health professional, an adjunct professor for an ivy league medical school, a well-known author and a boar member on a professional exam committee are you sure you aren't misunderstanding her intentions?
I agree wi... (read in full...)
Some pleasure with him would be nice!
Q. Ok, so I'm sixteen, and have been dating this guy for four years now. We've had sex tons of times, I lost my virginity when I was fourteen. We've both been through some rough times, and we've both slept with other people. But here's my problem. I've ...
A. 26 November 2010: Sex is complex and complicated. It's usually harder for a woman to have an orgasm than a man to have one.
If you are using toys (vibrator I'm assuming) it could be that your body is used to the stimulation from the vibrator and let's face it, as m... (read in full...)
Allergic to cat hair but not dog hair?
Q. i have bad allergies when it comes to cats..it will affect my breathing for atleast a day and a half. Alot of people i know have them so it was hard to avoid. I have a poodle which doesn't shed and have no allergies at all. My brother and ...
A. 26 November 2010: I am extremely allergic to cats. I can't even be in the same room with a cat or it's an emergency room trip.
Dogs on the other hand, I do just fine with.
For me it's cat dander/hair that I'm allergic to and that maybe the same for and sometime... (read in full...)
I'm starting to feel like a paranoid psycho!!! Help!
Q. Hi this is my first time using this and i stumbled on it looking for some answers to how i'v been feeling, to sum it up im currently feeling a bit like that song by katie melua closest thing to crazy!! Basically ive been with my boyfriend for almost ...
A. 26 November 2010: Trust your instincts. If you think something is going on, then go with that. If you think he is cheating on you, then you can snoop and find some solid evidence (if there is any to be found) and then confront him. Or you can just confront him about ... (read in full...)
More potential baby-mama drama!
Q. Hi, I'm so confused. I have been dating my boyfriend for five years now. When we meet I knew he had a daughter. After the first six months everything was fine and his daughter and I got along great and his "baby mama" and I had figured out ...
A. 26 November 2010: That is a lot of baby mama drama. I think that if you love him enough you can potentially make this work. You figured out boundaries with the other mother of his child, why can't you do the same with this one?
I'm assuming the mother of the chil... (read in full...)
B/f wants a room he can fill with pictures of naked women!
Q. Girls (or boys can answer too i guess to give your side) How do you feel about the fact your bf/fiance/husband has or wants a room to be his (like a games room) and have it filled with pictures of naked women??? I was just talkin to my bf and...
A. 26 November 2010: To tell you the truth I don't think this would bother me all that much. Yes, it would bother me that he has a room full of women, but it's not like he will ever be able to touch any of those women, ever.
If you aren't comfortable with it howe... (read in full...)
I just wish she'd recognise my efforts without me telling her to!
Q. hi. Im feeling really muddled up and im looking for some help... If someone could please reply, i would be extremely appreciative and grateful... Recently i've been doing a lot for my girlfriend and sacrificing a lot to try to keep her happy. H...
A. 23 November 2010: Tell her how you feel, it shouldn't be your job to keep her happy 24/7. A relationship is a partnership, she sounds very selfish and self centered. She holds onto you because she knows that if she does that, then you won't leave her and things will ... (read in full...)
Why can't my boyfriend keep it up and finish?
Q. My boyfriend and I just started dating and I've now tried to give him head twice but he goes limp halfway through. He says it's not my fault and he finds me really attractive. I've given blowjobs before and my technique has never been an issue ...
A. 23 November 2010: Some guys have issues from finishing with just oral, without other stimulation. My boyfriend can't finish from just oral alone. Perhaps try something new. Put a vibrator next to your cheek while you go down on him, the vibrations will def be a new ... (read in full...)
It was fun and exciting at first but now its just bland
Q. Hi! My boyfriend and I do the same thing every time we have sex. It was fun and exciting at first but now it's just boring.What is some ways I can spice up my sexual experience to bring back the excitement we once had? ...
A. 23 November 2010: Guys love it when women initiate sex. SO initiate it. Tell him you want to try some new things, I'm sure he will be more than happy to assist you.
Surprise him. Buy some new lingerie. My guy likes it when I talk dirty or take him by surprise. Depe... (read in full...)
I am 35 and in love with a girl who is only 18... and I don't know what to do?
Q. Hi there, Before I start my story please know I appreciate your honest feedback no matter how harsh it might be. I am a 35 years old man who never been in serious relationship before and I finally met this girl online (I know :( Meeting someon...
A. 23 November 2010: Until you two meet and start to develop a real relationship you will never know if the relationship will ever work.
At least she turned out to be 18 and not under 18, so that's definetly a good thing. Love doesn't care about age (unless your unde... (read in full...)
Should I be neat? Or go bare?
Q. So I've been being a little intimate with this guy, he reached "down there" and I made sure I shaved all the way just to be safe. I'm not sure what he prefers though. It's really uncomfortable for me to shave, but I just don't want to ask him about ...
A. 23 November 2010: If you are having sex I think you should be able to talk to each other about it. No matter what it is.
So if you want to groom yourself in your vaginal area for him, then ask him what his preference is and then you will know. Shaving really does... (read in full...)
What exactly can I do to get her to open up and talk to me more?
Q. Okay here's the story. I'm a college student currently in a relationship with a 17 year old girl. I'm 19 and even though I get clowned on for being with this girl because she's "underage"...we've both known each other for a few years now, even ...
A. 23 November 2010: Perhaps, since she doesn't know how to be a girlfriend, she doesn't know how to communicate with you. I had the same problem with my bf (we've been together for two years)I didn't have relationship experience before we got together and he has taught ... (read in full...)
How can I finally have the guts to leave my boyfriend for good?
Q. My boyfriend of 5 years makes me hurt so much. Everyting will be going great;he shows me he loves me and rather stay in with me then go out but then all of a sudden it changes. We broke up for a few months and he admits he would mess around with ...
A. 23 November 2010: Why do you love him? Why do you continue to stay with him even though he emotionally abuses you?
I know it's really hard to see what he is doing to you and be objective about it. Love is blind. I think you need to move on and break up with this guy,... (read in full...)
Still a virgin at 21?
Q. Well, I'm 21 years old and I'm still a virgin. I feel more ashamed of this than "happy" because it seems virtually everyone I know at this age has lost their virginity, including my younger sister. I've only had one boyfriend and that was f...
A. 23 November 2010: Still a virgin at 21, good for you. I think you still have plenty of time, you are only 21 years old (i'm the same age) I lost mine because I felt pressured at eighteen to lose it and it's something that I wish I could take back.
Don't feel pres... (read in full...)
I caught my sister masturbating
Q. I walked into my younger sisters room to get her downstairs for lunch nd i saw her in her bed nude masturbaiting with a gel bottle and i dont know if i should tell mum and dad?...
A. 23 November 2010: Masterbation is normal, everyone does it and I highly doubt that your sister wants the entire family to know what she was doing in her bedroom.
I'm sure you do private things in your bedroom as well and don't want the rest of your family to know... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer women to initiate contact just as much?
Q. Like a traditional, i prefer the guys to do the chasing. But do guys prefer women to initiate contact just as much?? I met this guy on a dating website two weeks ago and we hit it off. We've only met up three times but after every date hes text/ca...
A. 23 November 2010: Do you two have a lot in common? It doesn't really sound like you do. Sometimes conversations just don't flow, even when you have some chemistry going.
He doesn't contact you at all in between dates? Do you ever contact him in between dates and ... (read in full...)
Is he only staying with me because he feels sorry for me?
Q. i'm over 8 months pregnant and been in a relationship with the father for 3 years.. hes been so supportive throughout the pregnancy financially but seems to have totally gone off me physically. i mean i dont want sex all the time or anything its not ...
A. 23 November 2010: CONGRATULATIONS on becoming a Mommy. It's truly one of the greatest feelings in the world. You get to be apart of an exclusive club that some will never know.
I'm going to have to say, bullcrap on this one. You are holding him back in his life? Ho... (read in full...)
How does a guy lose is virginity?
Q. what are the ways by which a boy loses his virginity?...
A. 23 November 2010: I really think that depends on the view of the person really.
I know some people that have slept with over fifty different girls who claim that they are still virgins because they haven't been penetrated by a male penis.
Most consider the loss of ... (read in full...)
How do I break up with her?
Q. Hello Long but please persevere. I am in an unfamiliar situation and I don't know how to solve it. Unfortunately I was in a serious motorbike crash in January, in which both my legs and my left knee were badly broken, my left foot was crushed, I...
A. 23 November 2010: People who share common interests are definetly a good thing, especially in a relationship and its awesome that she has been there for you during your down time.
If you don't feel that there is going to be anymore stimulation in the rela... (read in full...)
How do I approach my girlfriend's parents about sex in our relationship?
Q. How do I approach my girlfriends parents about sex and our relationship? Now here's the details, I come from a family that is very clean and say to wait til marriage, and I totally agree with them and I made a vow to wait until married. But today me ...
A. 23 November 2010: You could use a promise ring maybe? Most people I know have done that. It's a promise to abstain from sex until marriage and as long as you wear it it signifies your committment to not have sex. I think its awesome that you and your girlfriend share ... (read in full...)
Lost cause.
Q. Hi im just a teenager and all, but unlike most other teens i've never been in a relationship .. serious or not. Those little middle school relationships dont really count to me and i think since i havent been in one ever thats why its holding me ...
A. 23 November 2010: You're not a lost cause. I think it's pretty awesome that you are still a virgin, that's really rare in these days. I didn't lose mine until I was eighteen and I thought that I was supposed to lose it so I did it against my better judgment. Don't ... (read in full...)
I want to make a sex tape!
Q. Would my boyfriend think its weird if i bring up us having sex an video tapeing it for us to watch some time? Also is it weird to watch your self have sex or will he think its weird watching it? Thanks....
A. 23 November 2010: If you trust him enough to have access to a video tape with your naughty bits on it, then by all means go for it. My bf has tried forever to get me to do a sex tape (i say no). Your boyfriend won't think it's weird. I'm sure he might even be ... (read in full...)
My friend's in a LDR but she had anal sex with a stranger!
Q. hello everyone. a friend of mine has a question. she is in a long distance relationship. she didn't want to go out and have vaginal sex with a stranger so instead she had anal sex with a condom. it didn't mean anything so she is wondering if she ...
A. 23 November 2010: She cheated on her partner. Granted not vaginal SEX but it's anal SEX. There isn't a difference in the sexual aspect because it's still sex, just like oral sex is still sex.
She should come clean to her partner and tell him what happened (alt... (read in full...)
I have to do everything for her!
Q. i am 28 years old and i am married. i love my fiance but i have to do everything for her. I cook, clean, do all the laundry, pay bills, do all the house work and maintain the cars that we have. when i dont do something for her she starts getting ...
A. 23 November 2010: She knows that you love her. That is why she told you that if you didn't like it then to leave cause she knew you would stay. Does she have a job? Even if she does a marriage is two people and not just one person doing everything and making the ... (read in full...)
Do I come clean about cheating?
Q. i've been going out with this guy for 2 years now, he's a great guy sweet and carring but our relationship became dull and we lost the spark...so i began talking to other ppl behind his back... it was innocent at first but it went too far...i ...
A. 23 November 2010: Yes. Come clean. If you want to continue having a relationship with this man, then you need to be upfront and honest and see if you two can start fresh.
Relationships are hard. But you can't have a good relationship without honesty and comm... (read in full...)
How do I approach my girlfriend's parents about sex in our relationship?
Q. How do I approach my girlfriends parents about sex and our relationship? Now here's the details, I come from a family that is very clean and say to wait til marriage, and I totally agree with them and I made a vow to wait until married. But today me ...
A. 23 November 2010: If you have dated her for six months and her parents love you to death, then tell them you would like to talk to them. Be very mature and straight forward about the subject. Tell them that you believe sex should wait until marriage and you are going ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to prove he's been cheating on me?
Q. I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I was tidying his room today and found a reciept for a hotel room from 2 weeks ago, 6 Nov 10. The hotel is in the city centre which is about 10 minutes from his house so I know he wouldn't have stayed there ...
A. 23 November 2010: He shouldn't have lied to you about who he was texting and the fact that he was trying to hide it from you is a little suspicious, but he told you that he had went to meet her and that's def a good thing.
Just confront him about it and don't be a... (read in full...)
I feel selfish for wanting to move away when my mother is ill, but I want a future of my own!
Q. I am the full time carer for my Mother. I have brother's but they refuse to do anything for her. I am in love with a man in another country and I really want to be with him, he feels the same way as me, but circumstances won't allow him to immigrate ...
A. 23 November 2010: I'm so glad that you and your mom worked everything out (I'm sorry that your brothers aren't there for you or your mom, that's gotta be really irritating.) I'm so happy that you are going to be with the man you have loved. Love is so rare. Congrats ... (read in full...)
She's married, but won't leave her marriage for me! How do I get over her?
Q. I'm married and have been having an affair with another married women for the past 5 years. My children are married and on their own, she has a 13 year old at home with her and her husband. She has said she will not get a divorce for the sake of her ...
A. 23 November 2010: You are cheating on your wife with a mutual friend of yours? Wow. I think you need to decide who you want to be with for the rest of your life. In my opinion when your wife started gaining weight and not taking care of herself, you should have said ... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me! What can I say to him that I havent said already?
Q. i feel like i'm unappreciated. i always organise days out with my boyfriend and i always sort out tickets and transport and times. he just says yes! but he when it comes down to paying, all he does again is say yes.. he never actually p...
A. 21 November 2010: When my boyfriend and I purchase things for each other, we don't pay each other back. We reciprocate and buy the next time or whatever.
He needs to pay your mother back, it's difficult borrowing money from relatives because it puts a strain on the ... (read in full...)
Will I get any bigger?
Q. Hey guys, I know this is asked a lot but it's an issue I have to deal with. I'm so discouraged by my penis size. I'm a 16 year old boy and when you look at me you see a buff looking guy who you'd a assume has a larger than average size. But that's ...
A. 21 November 2010: At your age, every boy is going through these questions in his mind. There is a small possibility that your penis will grow as you get older. Males typically don't stop growing until they are 21.
How big you are or how small you are generally has ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to prove he's been cheating on me?
Q. I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I was tidying his room today and found a reciept for a hotel room from 2 weeks ago, 6 Nov 10. The hotel is in the city centre which is about 10 minutes from his house so I know he wouldn't have stayed there ...
A. 21 November 2010: Ask him about it and usually you can tell when they are lying. Make a decision before you confront him about what you are going to do if he is cheating, are you going to break up with him or try to make it work?
I would ask him. Is there any othe... (read in full...)
Getting married soon and have never had sex before... Help!
Q. hi im 23 years old and about to get married to my boyfriend. We haven't had sex before. The problem is that i dont know anything about sex, how does this operation start, what happens in it, how does it end, what is the couple doing during it,...
A. 21 November 2010: First, sex is not always a disappointment the first time, so don't be nervous. Congratulations on your up and coming wedding!! It's awesome that you waited until marriage, I wish I would have done that.
You and your husband's consummation of your... (read in full...)
How do I know when to stop drinking?
Q. I went out with some co-workers last night and got way too drunk. I am really starting to realize that for some reason A) when I drink too much I become aggressive, not in a mean way. For example when i drink I have the courage to do anything hit on ...
A. 21 November 2010: Drinking and getting really drunk in front of people you work with, would understandably make you feel like crap the next day and anxiety over? What you did? Depending on your size would determine how much liquor you can drink. I am the world's ... (read in full...)
She's married, but won't leave her marriage for me! How do I get over her?
Q. I'm married and have been having an affair with another married women for the past 5 years. My children are married and on their own, she has a 13 year old at home with her and her husband. She has said she will not get a divorce for the sake of her ...
A. 21 November 2010: Your wife should be the most beautiful woman on this planet to you. What about your family? All of your children are married and on their own, so that must mean that you and your wife have been with one another for quite sometime. Do you think she ... (read in full...)
I feel selfish for wanting to move away when my mother is ill, but I want a future of my own!
Q. I am the full time carer for my Mother. I have brother's but they refuse to do anything for her. I am in love with a man in another country and I really want to be with him, he feels the same way as me, but circumstances won't allow him to immigrate ...
A. 18 November 2010: How ill is your mother? Do your brother's live where your mom is? Locally?
Perhaps you leaving to be with the man you love (true love is so rare) will give them the kick in the ass they need to start helping your mother. It's not fair to you that... (read in full...)
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